38.  Ek research sey maloom hua hai kay kamiyab aur khushgawar shadi (successful marriage life) mein mian biwi ek doosrey kay barey mein ziyada knowledge rakhtey hain. Ek doosrey ki pasand naa-pasand jantey hain. Aap ko pata ho kay aap ki biwi ki hobby kya hai. Iss ko kya cheez pasand hai. Iss ki friends kon si hain. Iss ki birthday kab hai. Shadi (marriage) ke initial days mein hi ek dosre ko achi tarah jaan len. Jitnaa aap ek dosre ko ziyada janay ge itne hi relationship strong aur deep hongey. Yeh knowledge hasil karney kay liye biwi sey sawal karein.

    39.  Shadi (marriage) ki base mohabbat hai. Biwi sey naa sirf mohabbat karein bul kay iss ka zaban sey izhar bhi karein. Daily kam sey kam 3 times mohabbat ka izhar karein. Iss ko phone kar kay bataein kay aap iss sey mohabbat kartey hain. Biwi kay pasandeeda tareeqey sey izhar-e-mohabbat karein. Yeh cheez biwi ko mubashrat (intercourse)  sey bhi ziyada pasand hai. Iss ko touch karein, kiss karein, hug karein, haath pakrain aur iss ki neck par massage karein. Biwi ko mian ki qurbat bohut pasand hai. Mohabbat kaisey ki jaye, iss ke liye yeh warzish karein:

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Donon ek saath beth jaen aur alag alag papers per likhein kay aap ka partner aap sey mohabbat ka izhar karney kay liye kon si 5 cheezein karey. Ya woh mohabbat ka izhar kis tarah karey. Phir papar exchange kar lein. Ab apne partner ke favorite methods ki madad sey kam sey kam daily 3 times zaror iss sey mohabbat ka izhar karein.