58. Apne partner ko kabhi inferior naa samajhain aur naa hi usko kabhi inferior sabit karney ki koshish karein. Khas tor par dosron kay samney aisi harkat hargiz naa karein. Yeh cheez domestic life mein zehar ghol deti hai. Wisse bhi takabbur Allah ko pasand nahi hai.
59. Agarcha mubashrat (intercourse) mian biwi donon ko pasand hai but aurat ko mubashrat (intercourse) sey pahle Mohabbat aur romance bohut ziyada pasand hai. Aurat ko romance ke liye iss tarah ki cheezain bohut pasand hain:
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Office sey phone kar kay biwi ko baatein (khas tor par shadi ke initial days mein) kay aap us sey mohabbat kartey hain, aap us ke barai mein soch rahe the.
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Biwi ke liye koi gift leyn. Aurat ko gifts bohut pasand hain, chahey woh mamooli hun. Us ke liye flowers leyn, us ki pasand ka koi magazine, book, chocolate aur ice cream leyn.
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Agar aap job ya business ke liye out of city jaen to deyly wahan sey ek card send karein. Card ka expensive hona zaroori nahi. Phone karein, us ko bataein kay aap us ko yaad kartey hain.
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Biwi ka hath pakrain, isey apney bazoun mein leyn.
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Iss kay saath walk karein, walk kay doran isska hath pakar leyn.
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Logon kay saamney isski tareef karein.
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Isey mohabbat bhara letter likhain jis mein puranay khushgawar dino ka zikar ho jo apney isskay saath guzarai.
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