farhan866

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ALLAH jal e shana hoo Satar ul ayub hy, us sy asani wala moamla mangy n satari wala, bcz insan k n ALLAH k irday mein faraq hy, agr us ny satari wala moamla kiya thn koi rola ni.....

eik rae hy is point py ghor kijiye ga....sme out of coty ja k b ye krty k idat b out guzary mean area mein ksi ko khbr na ho..... baqi ap ko jo munasib lagy

mubashirat e Halala mein dakhool just sharat hy... n yehi who pnt jahan a k ex husbnd ko smjh ati.... jb is karb sy guzrna prta..... eik user ny iftisar kiya k g ex husbnd k liye saza kesy..... I thnk ap k cmnt ny prof b kr diye k ap k mind n dil py jo beat ri ho gi k thori c jald bazi ny kiya kr diya.... any how ALLAH apny kamo py bhtr samjhta hy us ny rule insan ki maslihat k liye banae.... isis mein khair hy.....

baqi ap 2nd husbnd py at the time of nikah ya aftr force to kr ni skty k ye krna ye ni krna .... wrna ye Muta k zamray mein a jana.......

n Adaab e Mubashirat mein hy k ist night ful satar na open krein both..... n bohat c othr batein b hain.... khair aj kal ye sab sme user n couple ko samjh ni ani k Sunat kiya n us mein kitni khair hy.....

eik jaga Hazrat Ayesha R.A kehti hain k Mafhoom ye k Muhammad S.A.W ny kbhi b mera satar ni dekha..... bt g eik Ahadees ki rawi Um ul momeneen keh ri.... bt sme ko phir b Quran ahades ka prof chahiye... ye kiya jany adrak ka sawat......

is liye kaha tha koi aesa ho jis ko A B C b ati ho.... Islamic mind wala ho.... na k sar py shewat n nafas sawar hoo........ wrna us k liye eik ye hi hujat hy k g meri biwi hy nikah kiya hy jo k wrng b ni hy......

ALLAH hum sab ka hamiyo nasir ho...

irady jin k pukhta hoon nzr jin ki ALLAH py ho who talatam khez mojo sy ghbraya ni krty.....

in user mean H.sad ko to khbr b ni thi k in ki is post sy kitny log gunah sy mehfoz rahein gy..... aur apni ghalti ko sudharein gy..... ALLAH in ko b ajar dy.. bcz zariye in ki is post bani .......

I hope its clear 2 u farhn866

AOA

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Salam...

farhan866 / H.sad

g halala ki sharat mohtaram bta b diya k just dakhool hi hy anzal ni......

"mubashirat e Halala k liye dakhool just sharat hy... n yehi who pnt jahan a k ex husbnd ko smjh ati............."

Qazi sharat(mean faraiz e Nikkah ni.... bt bhtr hy..... prvius page py Jamia Ahsan Ul Uloom ka reply parh lain .... ap filhal who optn soachein k saap mar jae lathi na totay..... n who b ahsan way sy...... k satari wala kam b hoo....

bt bhtr hy k as I said k agar qari etc to out ka ho. apny ilaqay ka na ho....

H.saad k scenario mein as said k ehle sunat mean four aaima ki base py 3 talaq par gai gain n ye un ki wife ni... to un sy puchny ki logic ni bunti..... bt in mhtrma k liye eik imithan hy.... zahir kehta hy k husbnd, child fmly etc ko save krn.... goh k child duniya mein b ni aya.... n islam belief khta k Rab Chahi ko dekh k chalein.....

in shrt eik tarf Rab Chahi eik tarf Maan chahi hy (Halat / prem/ etc hain) ...... plz un k liye b n is Umat e Muhammad S.A.W k liye dua krna....Allah in k b n hum sb k sath afiat wala moamla kry.....ameen

Ap us 2nd husbnd ki ist zehan sazi krna..... k shari masla hy two fmly etc ka sawal hy..... ful detail sy ist guide krn ... thn step lena.....

I m sory 4 late rply... bt hum busy thy .....

H.Sad:

Qanon e Shariat sy murad Islamic Law hy mean ALLAH aur us k Nabi S.A.W k zariye jo sharait /Law  Nikkah / Talaq etc hain jo Law Qurani Talemat mein ae /.... Ahadees etc ny un ki tashreeh ki....... un ki base py ap un ki wife nahi hain...... country ka Law qanon e shariat ni who qanon e riyasat hy... bcz u knw k is country k bht sy qanon islami talemat sy 100% ni sai.na un py pura utartay.....  bt v.rear

salam...

AOA

H.sad / farhn866

h.sad

>>hubby ko kesy andaza hoga k un houny galat kya

WALAHOALAM

sme loog to sari life gunah krty un ko apny gunahon ka ehsas tak ni hota... sme apna religion tak choor dety..... un ki brainwashing aesy hui hoti... just who apny liye hujatein dhundty.......

baqi ye sab apny religion / belief sy wakfiyat sy hi mumkin hy..... medical/ engnrng/ accounts etc ki ksi books ya clas mein to I dnt thnk k ye knwldge asani mil saky.....

u knw Nafas ki eik kisam nafas e Amara b hy jis k zkr Surah Yousaf mean 13 para k strt mein hy ..... ye who nafas hy jo k wrng krta bt is ko apni ghlti gunah ka ehsas b ni hota ... k ye gunah hy wrng hy.....

any how ALLAH hum sab ko samjh dy......

ap bhaly jin sy puchein n khud ko uljhaein who ap ki marzi.... bt hum khud ko ya othr ko uljha ni skty.... jitney Muu utni batein..... So loog jo b khty mjy koi sarokar ni .... bcz is post ka title jo hy agr koi samjh wala ho to us ko atiraz ni ho ga.... k ye sab Ahle sunat mean Fiqah hanfi sy hy post.... baqiyon sy ni....

Farhan866

>>asal shadi aur is pe kitna farq hena Bhai

ye just ap ki thnkg hy.... mhtaram.... islam mein asal shadi mein b simplicity hy..... bt hum ny non muslims ki rasomat ly li hain..... ap is mein b gust ko bula skty..... rawayat mein ata k mafhoom hy " bht babarkat shadi who hy jis mein kharcha sb sy kam ho"

bt as I said k ye b4 k actulay to ye real marige hi hy 2nd us Talaq wali fmle ki.... baqi now 2nd husbnd talaq na dy us py who kabil atiraz ni ho skta.... na koi frce kr skta hy.....

>>Islam mein hy k ist husbnd py wife tab Halal mean again nikah k kabil ho gi jb who ksi othr sy Nikkah kry n un ny mubashirat ki ho to only thn... who halal ho gi..... to is liye Ulma minimum condition bta ry..... n is ko Halala k name sy kaha jata.... ye same aesa hi nikkah hy jo k ist ho ya jo b ho..... now thy r husbnd n wife ....... isi liye to Muta n is mein dfrnce hy.... wrna to ye muta hi bun jae ga..... loog eik hujat bna lain gy.... n sme ny bna b li..... Ulma ny is liye bayan kiya k bht sy loog Zina kr ry hoty ex wife ko wife samjh k bt ilam hi ni hota un ko..... So plz tke care .....

>>>Note: Eik ajab baat u knw k aksar ulma isi liye asani ye Halala ka batty b ni hain k loog wrng krty..... is ko hujkat bna lety..... actuly wo muta bun jata...... mean nikah k time py sharat rakh di k g talaq deni ths tht ya baad mein koi na dy to rola.... ya aur koi prblm.... u un ko ni pta k is surat mein b who wrng kr ry.... asal mein masail hum loog bareek beni sy samjhty ni... n apni maan chahi krty hain phir b  samjhty k sahi kiya hatha k phir b wrng hota n hum gunah gaar ...... isi liye kaha k husbnd apni khushi sy talaq dy tab .......

So plz tke gud care n thnk v.deeply.....

ALLAH hum ko samjh dy......

AOA

frhn866

g fiwa un ka hy... baqi jb mujhy mily hum post kr dain gy....

plz un k prnts ko must bta dena..... soach apni dour ki rakhein..... un ko atimad mein ly k ya apni e.wife sy kahein ya ap khud un ko bta dy..... meri rae hy... bcz kal ko 2nd marige ho gi to un k prnts ko pta ho... pics k both rukh dekh k chalna..... bcz ye 2nd nikah hy un ka..... baqi ur wish....... who kbi apni beti ka bura chah ni skty na us ki pardah dari......

sirf itna kehna k talaq di. n pta kiya nw to khty k talaq par gain... bcz ap ny kaha k talaq ho gain... ap ny apni post mein exact who ilfaz to likhy ni... jo hum kuch rae dy skty jesy h.sad ny exact who ilfaz likhy......... kb di talq agr ye discus na krna..ap kbi na wfe to bhtr.... bcz bht sy ajb ajb sawalt uthny..... so plz ...... tke care.....

AOA

farahn866

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u can find ans to these qustn on page 6, my detail post of 22 Dec 2014

masla qazi or khutby ka to ye masnoon amal hy or ihtemaam karna bhi zaroori hy

AOA

farhan866

wt she said...... Ganday ilfaaz kon sy hain.....

actualy ap ko kaha b tha k ye eik social forum / Net hy idhr jitney Muu utni batein hain..... sme user othr py just n just tanqeed krty... disgrace krty I thnk..... who ap ny suna hi ho ga.... k jidhr aag lgti tapash udhr hi pohnchti hy.....

u knw eik life mein ajb baat note ki jo insan just othr ki ghebat krty, tazleeel etc hum ny ye dekha k life mein khud un k sth aesa ho jata k un ko smjh sme ko a jati... k hum ny apny paoon py khud kulhari mari thi...... bhaly ALLAH jesy b samjha dy......

bus eik main pnt yaad rkhna k Talaq 2nd husbnd khushi sy dy ga... bhaly jb b dy...... mind phly banana hy thn ap ka un sy koi contact ya waitng nazrein na hoon.... k ye Muta na bun jae.....

sme jaghan ya user ki post py ye shair aply kr liya krein "na dijiye ....un.... tehriron ka jawab bus parh lijiye aur taghaful ashna ho jaiye...."

Aoa

Evocative Sahib

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minahill

Minahil

Taajub huwa...any how ap ka apna belief / n thinking hai.....

kiya Minahil aap ehle Sunnat (mean Aima arba mein Fiqah hanafi sy hain....????

>>islam k hisaab sy dosra nikah krly ...aurat ko to authority achi milgayee k 2 2 hubby rakhyn......

mhtrma ap educatied hain..... akhir eman b kuch cheez hy..... k ni...?? .. islam eik fmle ko 2 2 huby ki ijazat deta hy kiya???? strnge..... n who un k ex husbnd thy..... I smjh g??.... baqi jo fmle aesa krti b hain who just Zina krti I hope u got it....

>n 4 ur kind info h.sd abhi ayam e idat mein hain..... plz again un k cmnts parhein un k ex.husbnd out hoty hain.... so as she said k ALLAH n azmaish sy bacha k rakha.... mean k ex husbnd out to mubashirat i.e. Zina kiya ni.... n un ki idaat wazaah Hamal py end ho gi.... n 4 ur kind info Naaan Nafqa un ka idaat k end tak to ex huby ny hi krna... n Olad ka to banta hi ex husbnd py hy k Olaad us ki hy.....

baqi jis ny apny liye hujatein Gumrahi ki talash krni to who to loog aesy b Zina kr ry..... as u said ....yeh sunah hy ky 3 talaq hoi gussa thanda hoa mya b.v chup chap wapi set hogay n bhula kr saath rehny lagy..... yehi Zina kehlata hy.... thy r Noo More Husbnd wife.... Ehle Suunat mean Aima Arba k nazdeek...... plz little knwldge to kam az kam Islam mean apny belief ki rakh ly banda.....

>>who user isi cheez sy bachna chahti hy... k who zina ki murtakib na hoo... bcz who un k ex husbnd hain mohtrma g..... ALLAH ap ko b samjh dy..... baat ki bareki ko soachein n apna sawal ist parhein n than ye allll pages read karein cool mind sy.... to may b aap ko smjh lag jae..... k jo ALHAMDOLILAH samjh waly hoon gy who kbhi is post ka ulat mtlb ni lain gy.... us ki example khud frhan866 hain... jin k apni ghlti ka ehsas huwa hy...

>>is post sy logo my yeh borayee zaroor phelygi aur pata nahi kitni aurtyn is ka galat faida bhi uthaay

lgta ap ko khud b smjh ni ai k wt u r saying..... plz all comnts n ans strt sy parh lain ap ko smjh a jani k agar koi sahib e feham Muslim ho to us ko to kam az kam kbhi aesa gumaan ni ho ga.... bt the muslims like...... ka hum keh ni skty.......

Is post sy kin sy lesson liya k ni... n kon wrng samjha ..... plz kam az kam user.... k cmnts hi parh lain... k aya un ko nadamat hui.. n un ny gunah chor diya.....

Note:agar ap ko is mein b fatawa ki need hy to plz ap apny belief walon sy apni rehnumai k liye ly lain..... I dnt thnk k othr Muslims of Hanafi belief need.... bcz evry thng is v.clear....

evocative sahib

My to yeh bolrahi ky jb hunza saad ky hubby ko hi nahi pata lagega ky unhouny kitna bara gunah kta hy hunza saad bin batay solve katlein aur tajdeed e nikah kar k wapsi khush rahy but hubby ki to knowledge py ho k bhai nikah break hoa tha wo to pori life samjgyngy ky 2 talaq rehti hyn,yeh baat my bolrahihun,post meny start sy parhi hey sb sahi but yaha garbar q hy?

Aur fatwa pe yeh hy k kisi mehram ko waqeel bnalyn to gawah ki zaroorat nahi,yeh bhi samajh na i,aur priblem itna easily solve hosakhti to log aram sy kryn solve phir,like ky halalah pe daal k nikaal ky bs talaq dedy apni khushi sy to bv halal hogayee n ex hubbg ko patabhi nA LAGY ky bv meky gayee v hy n ye process kaar ky arahihy,aur bv sahiba iddat pe qareeb to aingy jb hubby aingy,bachay ky lye to jald jald hi ayengy,n iddat guzar ky bv kahegi ky tajdeed e nikah karlo awwal tou hubby karega nahi aur kar bhi lein to un k mind pe tou hofa meny 3 safa bola tha but ek maani gayee ab 2 rehtihyn aj na tou kbhi wo bolengy to mene 3 talaq d thien tou inko tou phir bs itnabolny sy hi 3 parhjaingi...?is k jawab hy

May fiqh e hanfi sy hi hon but may agree nahi ky mard ky mau sy alfaaz nikal gay aur wo phir bhi saath rakh rahy hyn to b.v alag houna bhi nahi chahy tou wo majbooran halalah kryn,kya itna haq nahi ky wo bechaari apny fesly sy usiky pass rahy,divorce paper thori diye bas mau sy galti sy alfaz nikal gay,ALLAH behtar janty hy ye firqay to samajh sy bahir hyn,kon sahi kon nahi sb qayamat ky din pata lagega,mujhe uljhan islye in jy pass bas kch mahiny hy aur in houny bariqi ky sawalaat nahi pochy meny jbhi aap sy pochy,pata laga sab process howa aur halalah howa hi nahi,islye ap sy bola,aap acha kaam krahy hyn rehnomayee kar ky but har bariq pehlu ki taraf bhi roshni dalyn ok ALLAH HAFIZ 

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