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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 6:07pm |
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 evocative bhai
Salam...mat samjhi ap tang a k chaly gay k is ny to sar khalya ek prb k liye... evocative bhai mery pass kam mahiny rehgay hy bt chain nahi...jb tk prb solve na krlun...abhi b meri ph pe hubby sy baat ki may baar baar unko bolti k apny sahi na kiya wid me...talaq de k...bolty tmny hi mangithi dedi... unko mene kaha k tajdeed e nikkah krlye ga mera dil ghabratahy k asal pe sahi kiya hy ...unhouny kaha k may nahi krunga kch nahi hota duniya deti hy n sahi hojatyhy... inshort kehny ka maqsad ye hy k...hubby ko ehsaas hy k galat kya but...wo is topic pe baat na krna chahty...may unko na b btaon halala ka to kya phr b chalyga?wo bht jazbati fitrat k hy...kb dimagh ghumy dnt kno...aj halala ka btaya wo chup chap agree ho k nikkah b krlengy mood acha hoato bt...kbhi b zindagi may un ki hattgayee to mhhe rany de k laat b maardengy k tmny kisi aur k saath ye sb kya...ye b nahi dekhengy k for us kya for ALLAH kya may unko bht chahtihun n unko apny lye neg nahi dekh sakhti may chahtihun bs delivery k sawa mahiny baad halala ka process kr k sahi waqt any pe jnsy nikkah krlun tajdeed e nikkah bt shyd yspe khutbah nahi hota... ek dafa us masly sy niklun to chain ajay... |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 6:13pm |
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 may parishan hun
Mery hubby bht achy hy bt ulty dimaagh k hain...ammi abbu ko le k hi chalungi n aetbar ka insan hi dekhungi...jald bazi n galat qadam nahi uthaongi... bht tension pe hun...apny shahour ko bht chahtihun...sochri prb solve na hoa khd ko b mardungi n apny shahour ko b... kbhi sochti k delivery k baad beti unko de k marjaon... kbhi sochti ye orb solve na hoa to kya gunah ki zindagi jeon...bht bht bht roti hun roz...
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 6:13pm |
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may parishan hun
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 6:39pm |
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H.Saad
I m sorry to say that ye who is tasweer k bhayanak rukh thy..... sme...... n sme bhayanak ap k mind mein ae b ni hoon gy..... Ap ko hum eik hi rae dain gy...... who hy ALLAH ki rasi ko mazboti sy thamna n tafrqay mein ni prna..... ALLAH ki hadood ko cross ni krna plz....... Haram moat mean khud kushi sab chezon ka sol. ni hy...... apna ni to apni olad ka hi soach lain..... k us ko kitni batein taney sehnay parein gy.... ap k prnts ko...... n aur to aur khud ap k liye ye kitna bura result hy ..... suicide... so plz is pehluu ko soachna b maat kbhi......
Aesa ni krna k kehna pary duniya k pichy deen gawaya na duniya haath ai na deeen..... Eman ki hifazat sab sy ist step hy.......wrna moat ka kiya pta kab a jae kis haaal mein a jaein....... |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 6:46pm |
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sahi kaha apny but... Evocative bhai...ap ny sahi kaha but...may jantihun may apnybshahour ko nahi btasakhti halala ka may chahri hun k un ko bhinak b na ho n hojay prb solve n ruk k in ko mana k in sy tajdeed e nikkah krlun... but mene suna hy khutbah k bagair b nikkah hojayga... hubby mery bht achy hy bht bt ulty dimaagh k hy...bra b fun to agay ja k pori lyf hy kbhi b tana maar dengy k tmny ye kya wo kya n gussa agaya to phr talaq ka issue na le ay bolty kch nahi hota ek hoi hy 3 nahi funiya rehtihy tm kon c anokhi ho |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 6:59pm |
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bhai May again repeat krahihun...1)documentation ki zaroorat nahi...ryte? 2)hubby ko bta k karny ki b zaroorat nahi...ryte? 3)sahi insan choose kr k ghar k logo ko involve kr k nikkah krna jis may khutbah,aejab o qabuul,2 mard gawah jo merg abbu n bhai banjaingy ok...? 4)halala ki shart pori krty hi divorce lelungi...nikkah k waqt koi shart ya niyat nahi rakhni...ryte? 5)phr idsat pori krungi n sahi mauqa anay pe tajdeed e nikkah bol k un sy wapsi nikkah krlungi...ryte? 6)but mjhe ye btadiye k may iddat may kahiin a ja sakhtihun qk kisi ko b nahi pata mery sasural pe k iddat guzaar rahihun...ghar pe hi hoti hun yaha mard nahj qk sasur n hubby bahar hoty hy...n chota dewar hi hy jo bacha hy...kbhi koi aya to aya n aj kal shadi ka season hg mjhe shadiyan attend krni hy...i knk mjhe gunah milega but bara gunnah chupany k liye may ye gunah face krun...? 7)may jb 2nd hubby ki iddat pd houngi to obviously first hubby mjhse mya bv wala relation rakhengy...tb kiya krungi...? 8)may kisi b mufti sy mashwarah nahi chahti qk aj kal firqay ban gay hy...ap mjhe hanfi alim sy confirm kr k hi mjhe guide krahy hain may andha bharosa kr k ye steps uthalun na...? khd sy kahiin nahi krsakhtu pata us k lye tyme chahye n himmat jo k mjhpe nahi hy...plz mery sawaliu ka jawab dydiyega |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 324 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:00pm |
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H.Saad
Hubnd achy hain ya ni...... ye hmra pint ni hum itna janty k who Jazbati hain..... lack of Islamic knwldge n ye baat hi prblm hy........ bcz agr ye sab na hota to may b aaj ap both k sath ye haal na hota....... yaad rkhna k ksi ko bhampna ho mean parkhna/ ya ksi ka bary mein janana ho to us ko gusa mein dekho..... n now ap dekh hi chuki un ko...... n ye hi sab prblm hy..... eik bhayanak rukh batay chalein k kon jany k aya ap sab bhtr kr b lain........ bhaly 3rd mrge ya othr k fitawa py amal hi kr lain....... to us k baad b agar kbhi ap ko tana dain.......... bcz agr othr k fitawa py amal krn kal ko who kuch kahein ..... to Dua krein..... afiat k liye...... wrna sme prblm bht asan b bht mushkil ho jaty.... n sme bht mushkil b bht asan......... ye who makam ya haal hy k ap ki fmly ki b azmaish hy....... eik taraf deen othr side py duniya...... wrna ye fmly waly hi kbhi to ashiyany py bijliyan giraty hain..... khud ki jaan py kbhi b ksi sorat b life mein na khelna .....chahy jo b ho jae..... apni jan apni izat ....eman py anch anay na dena....... |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:05pm |
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 hmm
Hmm may bs ye chahri hun hubby ko kch b nahi btaon bs tajdeed e nikkah keh k nikkah krun agay ja k jb sakuun ajay...jb sb kch process hojay...but unko nahj btana chahti batou batou pe zehen pe to daal chuki k unhouny wid me sahi na kiya ye wo... |
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:16pm |
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H.Saad
u know saudia mein ima Arba mein sy Imam Ahmad / Malik waly hain....... but udhr eik prblm aur hy...... k ye salafi / Ehle Hadees b un mein sar garam hain....... now mean to say that agar to aap k pass apny religion / belief ka itna knwldge hy k ap un ko n apni fmly ko convence kr sakein mean samjha sakein than no problem.... bcz hum ny khud dekha k jab male sy ye bura fail talaq ka sarzad huwa to us ny apny liye hujatein ni dhundi.... just jo bst way tha who kiya mean wife ny 2nd nikaah thn jab 2nd husbnd ny talaq di tab ist one sy nikaah Any how Wish u best of luck Irady jin k puckhta hoon nazar jin ki ALLAH py ho who talatam khez mojon sy ghbraya ni krty..... hve a nice life |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:20pm |
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mery jawab dedein
bhaiMay again repeat krahihun...
1)documentation ki zaroorat nahi...ryte?
2)hubby ko bta k karny ki b zaroorat nahi...ryte?
3)sahi insan choose kr k ghar k logo ko involve kr k nikkah krna jis may khutbah,aejab o qabuul,2 mard gawah jo merg abbu n bhai banjaingy ok...?
4)halala ki shart pori krty hi divorce lelungi...nikkah k waqt koi shart ya niyat nahi rakhni...ryte?
5)phr idsat pori krungi n sahi mauqa anay pe tajdeed e nikkah bol k un sy wapsi nikkah krlungi...ryte?
6)but mjhe ye btadiye k may iddat may kahiin a ja sakhtihun qk kisi ko b nahi pata mery sasural pe k iddat guzaar rahihun...ghar pe hi hoti hun yaha mard nahj qk sasur n hubby bahar hoty hy...n chota dewar hi hy jo bacha hy...kbhi koi aya to aya n aj kal shadi ka season hg mjhe shadiyan attend krni hy...i knk mjhe gunah milega but bara gunnah chupany k liye may ye gunah face krun...?
7)may jb 2nd hubby ki iddat pd houngi to obviously first hubby mjhse mya bv wala relation rakhengy...tb kiya krungi...?
8)may kisi b mufti sy mashwarah nahi chahti qk aj kal firqay ban gay hy...ap mjhe hanfi alim sy confirm kr k hi mjhe guide krahy hain may andha bharosa kr k ye steps uthalun na...?
khd sy kahiin nahi krsakhtu pata us k lye tyme chahye n himmat jo k mjhpe nahi hy...plz mery sawaliu ka jawab dydiyega
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:23pm |
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hmmm May ap sy kehrihun wo mard hy unko kya farq parega prb may mjhe dala hy woto bethy wayhy harkat kr k...wo koi hujatain na dhundrahy na kch... wo chill hy k kch na hota dunuya rehtihy aysy...n may to neutral muslim ho k sochtahun...n ek hi talaq hoi na k 3 n halala wo kbhi b brdsht nahi krengy... may unko bta hi nahi sakhti... |
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:30pm |
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H.Saad
1,2,4,5 > correct 3> gawah othr koi..... b... 7> bara gunnah chupany k liye may ye gunah face krun...? A> iddat may kahiin a ja sakhti.....g.u can........ sory kuch ni keh skty.... bcz sme time chotay gunah b ly dubtay.....jin ko hum ksi zamray mein b ni latay....... wrna shadi py ana jana kon sa khair ka kaaam.... so ye ap ki mrzi..... I cat say..... 8> ap agar Urdu mein apna prblm strt sy likh dain idhr Urdu mein roman Urdu ni...... to ap ko jab b who fitawa post huwa hum us ka bta dain gy k who parh lain.... but plz Question clear n to the pnt ho. repeated na ho..... bcz sme k baray mein suna k who full detail post krty apni mnthly adition ya weekly mein ........ |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:40pm |
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hmm Matlab fatwa kesy milega...g may urdu may post krdungi ap ko idhar but fatwa kab milega qk mjhe jan tk har haal mag full n final solution chahye...n may full detail likhun hena?abhi likh k dedun... ap kesy fatsa dilwaingy |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 7:42pm |
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thanks Mery ab tk jawab apny apni knowledge sy diye thy...ab mery final jawabat fatwa sy milengy hena...?
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 324 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2014, 3:59pm |
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h.Saad
ap likh k post kr dain..... ap ko mil jae ga....... dnt tke tnsn...... But plz Urdu mein n sahi detail sy likhna Mean ap ki cal py baat etc... scenario kiya tha Talaq k ilfaz boltay waqat thn ilfaz kiya boly....n ye b mention krna k who Pkstn mein ni.... mean ye sab call py huwa........ etc etc....... baat to the point ho....repeated na ho...... thn ap ko future k jo sawal mean agar Talaq par gai to thn kesy ruju / nikaah ho skta ist one k sath.... us k liye jo jo puchna sab puch lain....... but plz post jald kr dena..... k un ny phir mail b krni ho gi...... baki INSHA ALLAH ap ko mil jae ga fitawa b detail sy jab mujhy pta laga k fitawa a gya..... n 4 ur kind info ye sab jo hum ny kaha ye meri man gharat batein ni thein na hain....... ye sab real hain acrdng to ehle sunnat *fiqah Hanafi). Ap post kr dena jald now plz..... in Urdu ...... Note: Roman Urdu mein ni krna post... bcz ap ki same post hum ny email kr deni..... hve a nice life |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2014, 4:12pm |
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salam... Thank u so muchh...evocative bhai...may aj hi apko post krdungi... kiya pata ALLAH meri sachayee n itni mhbbt hubby sy dekhty way mery liye rasty nikaalryhy... hjbby ko to parwah hi nahi hy wo to bht lght liye way hy prb ko...n bolty k halala kch na hota na may brdsht krunga...but ,ay sochti hjn k sab prb sy nimat k un dy nikkah ka sahi waqt dekhty way btadungi bt himmat to nahi meri qk may nahi btasakhti but koshish k btaon bt not now sahi waqt anay may...qk ye kahungi m krungi to wo tapengy...but jb kahjngi k itny mahjny pehly ki baat hy ye wo tb bachi b hogi or baat porani hojaygi...to unko itna gussa nahi ayga... may din ba din ghutt rahihun jb tk prb solve na hogi sb with me achy hh sasural hubby meka...hubby bht possesive hy for me...k jaha mard ho waha to bs may jaon to feel kry aysy hy...ALLAH ka laakh laakh shukar wo for me rasty nikaalryhy... |
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2014, 4:20pm |
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 H.Saad
Ye Islam aaj ka ni but 1400+ yrs b4 ka but afsos hum ko pta ni apny rlgn belief k bary mein....any how now jo kaha who krein.... baki post ki zarurat ni ..... ye waqat us kam mein laga dain..... Note: phonetic Urdu keyboard ap ko Net sy mil jae ga..... wo easy ho ga...... |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2014, 4:31pm |
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g bhai G bhai behtar mera visa apply hoa wahy may 6 months may chali jaongi...InashaALLAH bs ap dua krain k ussy pehlay halala tk ka to prb solve hojay aj may apko urdu may pori detail post krungi aap forward krdena thanks ap nahi janty mjhe kitni khushi huwi hy mera prb hal hogaya zindagi bhar ap ka shukriya ada krti rahungi... |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 92 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2014, 10:59am |
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evocative bhai Evocative bhai mene apna prb detail may likh liya hy...ap jb kahengy post krdungi urdu may hi likhi hy...n bilkul new tariqsy sy sb pocha hy...sahi hena n bht shukriya aap ka... |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 324 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Dec 2014, 4:39pm |
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 H.Saad
Ok post here today. n ye jo b un ka ans. ho ga ap k pass eik solid hujat / resn k tor py ho ga....... bcz ye forum etc py to koi b othr k belief ko ni janta....... kal ko koi b atiraz kr dy..... to agr ap apni fmly ko samjhein gi ya parhaein gi to who ap k pass INSHA ALLAH eik bhtr ans ki surat mein ho ga........ I hope..... bhaly ap phir husbnd fmly jis ko b parhaein...... who ans..... bt dnt b late..... plz hve a nice life........ |
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