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 farahn866
ws u can find ans to these qustn on page 6, my detail post of 22 Dec 2014 masla qazi or khutby ka to ye masnoon amal hy or ihtemaam karna bhi zaroori hy |
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2015, 7:21pm |
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Ok bro thanks likin yeh bushra ji mjhe q mana karahi k halalah nahi hota aur hogayee talaq to bs chordo bla bla,kya ek insan sy mistake hojay wo is tarha sudgar ly to in gandy alfaaz sy hi us ko bola jay ga jesy inhouny bola,em shocked mjhe to bola chaleyn pichly user ko bhi nahi chora, |
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 farhan866
wt she said...... Ganday ilfaaz kon sy hain..... actualy ap ko kaha b tha k ye eik social forum / Net hy idhr jitney Muu utni batein hain..... sme user othr py just n just tanqeed krty... disgrace krty I thnk..... who ap ny suna hi ho ga.... k jidhr aag lgti tapash udhr hi pohnchti hy..... u knw eik life mein ajb baat note ki jo insan just othr ki ghebat krty, tazleeel etc hum ny ye dekha k life mein khud un k sth aesa ho jata k un ko smjh sme ko a jati... k hum ny apny paoon py khud kulhari mari thi...... bhaly ALLAH jesy b samjha dy...... bus eik main pnt yaad rkhna k Talaq 2nd husbnd khushi sy dy ga... bhaly jb b dy...... mind phly banana hy thn ap ka un sy koi contact ya waitng nazrein na hoon.... k ye Muta na bun jae..... sme jaghan ya user ki post py ye shair aply kr liya krein "na dijiye ....un.... tehriron ka jawab bus parh lijiye aur taghaful ashna ho jaiye...."
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minahill
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 8:59am |
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Aoa
Is masly py bht discussionz hogayee hyn,aur mera personal opinion hy ky ab khudana khuwasta kisi ky bhi saath aysi prb hogi to wo ye read kr ky apny problemz solve krsakhta hy easily farhan bhai ka to maumla utna complicated nahi becoz wo janty ky ghalat kya aur wo b.v ko aetmaad my le ky sb sahi hojayga INSHAALLAHLekin jo hunza saad hyn un ky shahour jo ab islamically nahi unko to nahi pata,so unka prb to tb tk solve nahi hosakhta jb tk un k hubby k knowledge my na ajay k bhaee myny jo harkat ki ussy b.v islam k hisaab sy judah hogayee EVOCATIVE bhai ny bht achy sy guide kya but my phir bhi bolongi itna ky qazi,molvi jhutbah nikah ki shart nahi,inzaal bhi krna zaroori nahi aur condom use karsakhtyhy,us pori kahani my bs nikah ky lye sahi mard miljay n nikah hojay ye thora tipical hy baqi halalah easy ky banda condom daal ky andar dal ky bahir nikaal ly but phir bhi kahongi ky halalah krna hi na chahye talaq k baad reh jesy rahy rahein ap mya ka aetmaad na torhy
Aur my ye bhi soch rahithi ky ex hubby pakistani law ky hisaab sy to hubby hy,lekin aurat islam k hisaab sy dosra nikah krly to us aurat ko to authority achi milgayee k 2 2 hubby rakhyn,is post sy logo my yeh borayee zaroor phelygi aur pata nahi kitni aurtyn is ka galat faida bhi uthaay,ham ny to bs yehi sunah bachpan sy ky 3 dafa talaq bola shahour bv juda b.v meky ja bethi,ya yeh sunah hy ky 3 talaq hoi gussa thanda hoa mya b.v chup chap wapi set hogay n bhula kr saath rehny lagy,but pehli life pe first time aysi post dekhi, ky 3 talaq hoi anjany py mya sahib bhool gay is baat ko to b.v ko solve karny ki lagrahi hy problem
woh bhi aysy ky mya sahib ko pata bhi na chaly Evocative sahib ye kesy mumkin hy? Kitny silent readers yeh sochrahy houngy ky ye matter itna easily solve hojayga to mya dus dafa talaq dy bv dus dafa chup ky halalah kry mujhe iski wazahat krengy ap? koi fatwa hy is bary pe? Koi aysi tragedy dikhny pe i ky aurat ny andar hi andar solve kara shahour anjaan raha?
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minahill
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2014 Topic: 8 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 9:30am |
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Evocative Sahib
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farhan866
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 3:46pm |
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minahill AOAminahil g ap ki baty kch had tk theek hey likin sis aplog evocative bhai k pichy kyun parhgay hain,wo ek to help karrahey hein,knowledge derahey hein ham jesey logo ko jin ko islam ki knowledge nahi,jaha tak hunza sis ki baat hey wo evocative bhai hi bata sakhtey hey,hosakhta hey keyunka matter aysy solve hosakhta hey jabhi unko yeh hi solution diya gaya key un key husband ko batana zaroori nai ho,ALLAH ney kuch to gunjaish rakhi hey insan key liye,aur hunza g to apney shahour ko bata hi nahi sakhti obviously un key shahour bardasht nahi kareingy,aur wo aurat apna ghar hi dekh rahi hein jin ka bacha bhi abhi is dunya mey nahi aya,zara sochiye samjhiye,mey bhi apni problem pe a k ye sb feel karsakhta hoon key meri b.v bhi kya sochey us key saath meney galat kiya but yeh matlab tou nahi key sab bhoola key apni b.v aur apni zindagi key saath kheloon,khud sochein ap,jab islam pey gunjaish hey to insan to hujjat dhundega nah? |
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 5:26pm |
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Minahil
Taajub huwa...any how ap ka apna belief / n thinking hai..... kiya Minahil aap ehle Sunnat (mean Aima arba mein Fiqah hanafi sy hain....???? >>islam k hisaab sy dosra nikah krly ...aurat ko to authority achi milgayee k 2 2 hubby rakhyn...... mhtrma ap educatied hain..... akhir eman b kuch cheez hy..... k ni...?? .. islam eik fmle ko 2 2 huby ki ijazat deta hy kiya???? strnge..... n who un k ex husbnd thy..... I smjh g??.... baqi jo fmle aesa krti b hain who just Zina krti I hope u got it.... >n 4 ur kind info h.sd abhi ayam e idat mein hain..... plz again un k cmnts parhein un k ex.husbnd out hoty hain.... so as she said k ALLAH n azmaish sy bacha k rakha.... mean k ex husbnd out to mubashirat i.e. Zina kiya ni.... n un ki idaat wazaah Hamal py end ho gi.... n 4 ur kind info Naaan Nafqa un ka idaat k end tak to ex huby ny hi krna... n Olad ka to banta hi ex husbnd py hy k Olaad us ki hy..... baqi jis ny apny liye hujatein Gumrahi ki talash krni to who to loog aesy b Zina kr ry..... as u said ....yeh sunah hy ky 3 talaq hoi gussa thanda hoa mya b.v chup chap wapi set hogay n bhula kr saath rehny lagy..... yehi Zina kehlata hy.... thy r Noo More Husbnd wife.... Ehle Suunat mean Aima Arba k nazdeek...... plz little knwldge to kam az kam Islam mean apny belief ki rakh ly banda..... >>who user isi cheez sy bachna chahti hy... k who zina ki murtakib na hoo... bcz who un k ex husbnd hain mohtrma g..... ALLAH ap ko b samjh dy..... baat ki bareki ko soachein n apna sawal ist parhein n than ye allll pages read karein cool mind sy.... to may b aap ko smjh lag jae..... k jo ALHAMDOLILAH samjh waly hoon gy who kbhi is post ka ulat mtlb ni lain gy.... us ki example khud frhan866 hain... jin k apni ghlti ka ehsas huwa hy... >>is post sy logo my yeh borayee zaroor phelygi aur pata nahi kitni aurtyn is ka galat faida bhi uthaay lgta ap ko khud b smjh ni ai k wt u r saying..... plz all comnts n ans strt sy parh lain ap ko smjh a jani k agar koi sahib e feham Muslim ho to us ko to kam az kam kbhi aesa gumaan ni ho ga.... bt the muslims like...... ka hum keh ni skty....... Is post sy kin sy lesson liya k ni... n kon wrng samjha ..... plz kam az kam user.... k cmnts hi parh lain... k aya un ko nadamat hui.. n un ny gunah chor diya..... Note:agar ap ko is mein b fatawa ki need hy to plz ap apny belief walon sy apni rehnumai k liye ly lain..... I dnt thnk k othr Muslims of Hanafi belief need.... bcz evry thng is v.clear....
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minahill
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2014 Topic: 8 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 5:57pm |
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evocative sahib
My to yeh bolrahi ky jb hunza saad ky hubby ko hi nahi pata lagega ky unhouny kitna bara gunah kta hy hunza saad bin batay solve katlein aur tajdeed e nikah kar k wapsi khush rahy but hubby ki to knowledge py ho k bhai nikah break hoa tha wo to pori life samjgyngy ky 2 talaq rehti hyn,yeh baat my bolrahihun,post meny start sy parhi hey sb sahi but yaha garbar q hy? Aur fatwa pe yeh hy k kisi mehram ko waqeel bnalyn to gawah ki zaroorat nahi,yeh bhi samajh na i,aur priblem itna easily solve hosakhti to log aram sy kryn solve phir,like ky halalah pe daal k nikaal ky bs talaq dedy apni khushi sy to bv halal hogayee n ex hubbg ko patabhi nA LAGY ky bv meky gayee v hy n ye process kaar ky arahihy,aur bv sahiba iddat pe qareeb to aingy jb hubby aingy,bachay ky lye to jald jald hi ayengy,n iddat guzar ky bv kahegi ky tajdeed e nikah karlo awwal tou hubby karega nahi aur kar bhi lein to un k mind pe tou hofa meny 3 safa bola tha but ek maani gayee ab 2 rehtihyn aj na tou kbhi wo bolengy to mene 3 talaq d thien tou inko tou phir bs itnabolny sy hi 3 parhjaingi...?is k jawab hy May fiqh e hanfi sy hi hon but may agree nahi ky mard ky mau sy alfaaz nikal gay aur wo phir bhi saath rakh rahy hyn to b.v alag houna bhi nahi chahy tou wo majbooran halalah kryn,kya itna haq nahi ky wo bechaari apny fesly sy usiky pass rahy,divorce paper thori diye bas mau sy galti sy alfaz nikal gay,ALLAH behtar janty hy ye firqay to samajh sy bahir hyn,kon sahi kon nahi sb qayamat ky din pata lagega,mujhe uljhan islye in jy pass bas kch mahiny hy aur in houny bariqi ky sawalaat nahi pochy meny jbhi aap sy pochy,pata laga sab process howa aur halalah howa hi nahi,islye ap sy bola,aap acha kaam krahy hyn rehnomayee kar ky but har bariq pehlu ki taraf bhi roshni dalyn ok ALLAH HAFIZ
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minahill
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Aoa
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fiqh e hanfi
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 7:00pm |
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minahil: hsd
>>divorce paper thori diye bas mau sy galti sy alfaz nikal gay plz can u guide me k kahan likha huwa k marige k liye Islam mein nikkah nama / n breaking k liye divorce paper must hain....?????? mhtrma ap b apny ilam mein ye add kr lain k Talaq itna hasas pehlu hy k is mein Aima k near Mazak , gusa , ghakti ki gunjaish ni.... agr ap ny sb post parhein hain to un mein eik Tv Dramy ka b zikr hy... who ni parhi who to eik Drama tha.... mean fiction story.... us mein parh gai thi.... to ye to...... ye sb Rule Quran o Sunnat sy / ki light mein hi hain.... k Talaq dy di... to dy di.... phir ye luchar uzar... Mazak, gusa, etc etc k ni.. koi wukaat rkhty.... us wkt aqal krni thi.... ab kaamaan sy teer nikal chukka.... aesy to koi kahan agree ni koi kahan agree ni.... to har koi kiya apni pasand ki addition n subtraction krta rahy........ religion mein..... ap k agree krny na krny sy kuch ni hota na mery na ksi aur k... ye sab final ho chukka..... Islam ... n baki rahi h.sd ki baat who smjh gai hain ap ni smjhein.... ap again un k cmnts read krein.... kam az kam 2 sy 3 times may b smjh lag jae... |
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minahill
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2015, 7:28pm |
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bhai sahib
evocative sahib ap pori post parh k sb k jawab nahi dety may ye wapsiboost krahi in k jawab dedein to may bhi satisfy hojaon
My to yeh bolrahi ky jb hunza saad ky hubby ko hi nahi pata lagega ky unhouny kitna bara gunah kta hy hunza saad bin batay solve karlein aur tajdeed e nikah kar k wapsi khush rahy but hubby ki to knowledge py ho k bhai nikah break hoa tha wo to pori life samjgyngy ky 2 talaq rehti hyn,yeh baat my bolrahihun,post meny start sy parhi hey sb sahi but yaha garbar q hy?
Aur fatwa pe yeh hy k kisi mehram ko waqeel bnalyn to gawah ki zaroorat nahi,yeh bhi samajh na i,aur priblem itna easily solve hosakhti to log aram sy kryn solve phir,like ky halalah pe daal k nikaal ky bs talaq dedy apni khushi sy to bv halal hogayee n ex hubbg ko patabhi nA LAGY ky bv meky gayee v hy n ye process kaar ky arahihy,aur bv sahiba iddat pe qareeb to aingy jb hubby aingy,bachay ky lye to jald jald hi ayengy,n iddat guzar ky bv kahegi ky tajdeed e nikah karlo awwal tou hubby karega nahi aur kar bhi lein to un k mind pe tou hofa meny 3 safa bola tha but ek maani gayee ab 2 rehtihyn aj na tou kbhi wo bolengy to mene 3 talaq d thien tou inko tou phir bs itnabolny sy hi 3 parhjaingi...?is k jawab hy
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2015, 5:27am |
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 Technical wajah
Talaq talaq hoti hai chahaye mazaq ho ya ghussa.
Uski wajah aagay ki paicheedgion se bachna hai. Aik aurat ko talaq par gai. Uski doosri jagah shadi hogai. Bachay ho gay, 25 saal guzar gay.
Ab sabiqa shohar ne kaha, mein ne to mazaq mein talaq di thee ... islye talaq hui he nahen ... phir kya hoga? Court kiske haq mein faisla de? New shohar ka kya qasoor hai?
In sab wajoohat se yehi nateeja nikalta hai ke talaq ke mammlay relaxation bilkul na ho warna awam ke tax se chalnay wala legal system hamesha hui, na hui ke chakkar mein he para rahega...
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Saath ke saath mera sawal abhi tak hal nahen hua ke kisi biwi ka koi shohar kyun sir penis andar daal ke nikalay ga? Woh kyun poora sex nahen karega?
Agar to uski niyat yehi hai ke bas mein aik penis hun aur mera muqaddar sirf aik martaba he andar bahar hai tab to HALALA karwaya ja raha hai ... jo ke haraam hai, aur aisa karnay se biwi pehlay shohar pe wesay bhi haram he rehni hai, apnay dil ki tasalli kelye drama ho raha hai bas.
Aur agar uski samajh yeh hai ke biwi se shadi hui hai ... kabhi talaq ho gai to yeh pehlay shohar se bhi nikah kar sakti hai ... ya uskay ilawa kisi mard se bhi nikah kar sakti hai ... ya kisi se bhi shadi na karay umar bhar ... lekin us waqt mein to talaq de chuka hunga phir wo jo marzi chahay karay ... mera kya sarokar ...
tab to theek hai ...
Lekin farhan866 to iss chakkar mein hein ke nikah parhwa ke penis aik martaba apnay saamnay he andar bahar karwaon aur phir (doosray shakhs ki) biwi ko apnay saath bhaga ke le jaon ...
Kya samajh aata hai?
Ooper se farhan866 ka drama dekho. Ganday alfaaz ka taana mujhe de rahay hein ... jia waqt kilashanpatti ki tarah apni zabaan se talaqein nikal rahi theen us waqt shocked nahen thay aap? Sharam apnay ooper aani chahye .. khud ko tameez nahen kab kya kehna hai aur doosron ko aadab sikhanay chalay hein. Tameez hoti to ghussay mein talaqein na di hoteen.
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Baar baar samjhaya hai ke HALALA nahen hota, HALALA nahen hota, HALALA nahen hota.
Aap loag khud sochein aap kisi ke shohar hein to kyun sirf aik martaba penis andar bahar kar ke bbiwi ko chor deinge? Koi reason hogi aapke paas uski? |
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minahill
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2014 Topic: 8 Post: 36 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2015, 4:24pm |
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Aoa bushra g n evocative sahib Bushra g ap bht jazbaati hy maamla hunza saad aur farhan 866 k hy,uchal ap aur my rahyhein,actualy penis dakhool sy murad ky pehly sy ex hubby 2nd houny waly shshour ko btady ky bs shareeh tor par jo kam sy kam had hy wo kary aur talaq dedy nikah py niyat ya shart na rakhyn,ex hubby thori dekhyga ky dala ab nikalo aur talaq dilwayga,kuch majboriysn hoti hy,jinko solve kara jata hy,my agree hon with evocative sahib,bs confusion jo hy yehi ky rx hubby legally to hubby hy but,un ky mind py yehi rahyga zindagi bhar ky meny to 3 d thien jo ahlehafith k hisaab sy rk maani gayee ab do ka haq hy,un ko bin batay hunza saad sab dolve karlengi right? Butkesy kesy ex hubby ko btaya jay ky bhai ap ny bohat ghalat kya with her aur talaq waqiye hogaythi,ab ye tajdeed e nikah bol k jo nikah kya hy issy ap ko wapsi 3 talaq ka haq hoga,aur if chalein yeh bhi nahi bataya hunza saad ny andar hi andar matter solve kar diya tou kiya pata aj na to 10 saal baat shahour boly mene 3 d thien talaq tou kya wapsi hunza saad ko 3 talaq parh jaingien?iskajawab mujhe miljay taky clear ho hunza saad ko pochna bhi chahye tha taky process pora hojay us py pani na phiry,evocative bhai is ka fatwa aap nikal wa sakhty hyn?aur bushra g ap sahi kehri halalah islam py nahi likin,ek aurat jisy divorce by mistake howa tou woh zbrdasti kyun choreingi apna ghar jab shahour bhi pass rakhy way hy,us aurat ko tou itni authority ho ky apna ghar bachay ab us ky lye kuch bhi kary,ham log nahi samjhengy jin ky saath ye hota hy wohi samajh sakhty hyn,ek aurat ho ky wo jab step utha rahi tou hsmy co operate karna chahye |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2015, 4:05pm |
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Aoa hmm mujhy andaza tha meri baatou ky jawab nahi houngy,hunza saad must read my posts aap bhi aqal sy hi kaam lein,ok aap ko guide karny waly hi bhai ku pass ab jawab nahi,na fatwa tc bye g |
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| Posted on:8th Jan 2015, 5:39pm |
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Minahil
mujhy andaza tha meri baatou ky jawab nahi houngy Dil behlany ko ye khiyal acha hy Minahil anti..... mjhy b andaza tha k ye ap........ ki...... samjh sy bala tar batein hain..... kbhi Bani Esraeel ki cow ka wakiya parhna.............. hum ny is post sy who ni banana....... |
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minahill
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Aoa Evocative Sahib, aap eri postvread kartay nahi hai,aur be matlab jawab dedetayhain,meri post parhy aur jawab dein ky husband sy baghair ijazat liye ye sab kar ky jo mrne btaya ky ye yeh prob aasakhti hay to un ka aap hal samjha sakhtay hsin |
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H.sd: Ftwa Rcd
I rcvd Fatwa reply frm one Jamia....... bt thy r in Gif form..... so can't post here..... ws mhil: 22 or 23 n espcly 31 Dec. ki post parh lain mri... may b ap ko smjh a jae....
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Evocative Sahib,mujhe un dates ky reply py apny jawabaat nahi mily,aap bas itna batay ky hunza saad ny drlivery ky baad halalah kara apny ex husband sy pochy bin ya phir un ki knowledge py lay bin,to husband unka after divorce n iddat un sy nikkah karlega hunza saad koi bhi bahana kar ky ya phir tajdeed e nikah kar ky ryte?Chaly sb set hogaya likin husband jis ny divorce di thi us ko to kabhi bhi pata nahi lagega ky yaar mene bht galat kya aur meri bv kisi aur mard sy nikah ham bistri kar ky arahihy mery pass,aur zindagi may kbhi bhi kbhi bhi usy aqal i ky 3 talaq 3 hi hoti hain to wo kal ko ya zindagi py kbhi bhi boldy k yaar meny to tmhy teen talaq di thien,to phr kya hoga hunza saad sach btaingi chaly bta bhi dein tb to un ka husband gussy py a ky wapsi 3 talaq dedy to phir kya hoga bas mujhe in bataou ky jawab tafseel dy dein taky may bhi satisfy hojaon |
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Minahil
Aap ny is sy bani Israel ki Cow bana di..... kiya ap ny ye below txt kdhr prha tha.... "Posted on:31st Dec 2014, 7:48am
h.sad >>hubby ko kesy andaza hoga k un houny galat kya WALAHOALAM sme loog to sari life gunah krty un ko apny gunahon ka ehsas tak ni hota... sme apna religion tak choor dety..... un ki brainwashing aesy hui hoti... just who apny liye hujatein dhundty....... baqi ye sab apny religion / belief sy wakfiyat sy hi mumkin hy..... medical/ engnrng/ accounts etc ki ksi books ya clas mein to I dnt thnk k ye knwldge asani mil saky..... u knw Nafas ki eik kisam nafas e Amara b hy jis k zkr Surah Yousaf mean 13 para k strt mein hy ..... ye who nafas hy jo k wrng krta bt is ko apni ghlti gunah ka ehsas b ni hota ... k ye gunah hy wrng hy..... any how ALLAH hum sab ko samjh dy......
n agr aap thora open eyes n mind sy parhti to aap ko idea ho jata k h.sd ko ye tanbeh maksood thi k Talaq wakiye ho gai is belief sy..... un ka ex husbnd sy relation end.... who idaat puri kr lain.... na hi mein janta hoon un ko na un k hsbnd ko na un ki psyche ko...... hum ny un ko Masalay ka Ans btana tha k Talaq wakiye ho gai..... n as She said now Main task Zina sy bachna hy un ka...... ex husbnd sy..... aur hum as u said minahil yeh sunah hy ky 3 talaq hoi gussa thanda hoa mya b.v chup chap wapi set hogay n bhula kr saath rehny lagy..... is sy tanbeh krni thi k ye b us gunnah ki murtakib na hoon Sorry hum ye to ni keh skty k ABC aap ny ex husbnd ko ni btaya to aap ka nikah ni tota na nikah nxt ho skta to aap ex husbnd k sath rahein ye Zina ka mashwra kam az kam mein ni dy skta.... bki agr jis mein Eman ki satha itni ho gi... to who ksi kaam mein luchazr uzar ni dekhain gyy.... n hope H.sad b n othr user b khud ko Gunahon sy bacha k rakhein gy..... ap agr un k husbnd ko bta skti to aap bta dena.... plz... duniya mein Seven Arab ki abadi hy.... to har eik ki psyche dfrnt.... to hum kiya jany k in k ex husbnd ks mizaj k so just ye bta diya 30 dec ki post mein jo upr kaha.... u knw is post sy kiya faida huwa.... kam az kam ye ni to koi aur silent readers itna to jaan gae k Ehle Sunnat wal jamaat (Mean Aiima Arba k nazdeek talaq par gai..... ) Baki jo acpet kry na kry.... Result to out ho gya hy.... jo k chnge ho ni skta.... to ab koi stdnt apny prnts ko btae ya na munasib wakt py btae ye un ka prblm.... hum just tanbhe kr skty force ni... bcz ksi k prsnl maters itny detail sy hum ni janty....... ex husbnd ko as h.sd said k who baton baton mein bta chuki hy k n who ye b khti k IN SHAA ALLAH who ist puri koshish kry gi k moka milty hi bta b dy.... to aab agr hum is baat ko aur taweel krn to just n just H.sad n othr sab user uljhaien gy hi bcz kamzor eman walon k liye bani israeel ki Cow bun jani.... qurbani un ny ki ni thi n just sawal py sawa,l na un ka krny ka irada tha.... to ALLAH ka azab hi ana na phir ..... hum ni chahty k who zina ki murtakib hoon Fiqah Hanfi ki rooh sy.... so un ko bta diya k Talaq wakiye ho gai , n ex.husbnd un k liye na mehram.... now who kiya krti kiya ni krti ye un py munasir hy...... agar ap h.sd ki post thora dehaan sy parhti to kbi un ko apny ex.hsbnd py bht naaz sa b tha k who halat ko dekh k maan jae gy.... agr mein ny 2nd nikah kr liya to..... ab agr sb k -ve point hi lain to ..... is k liye hum bta chky thy un ko k asal Eman hy..... un k manany na manay sy koi ALLAH ki Hadood mein chnge to ni a jana... so un ko kaha tha k ist eman ko bachein thn ye olad, ex husbnd ....... etc etc I hope ye detail txt b aap ny read kiya ho ga... n WALAHOALAM k smjh b aap ko I k ni...... thi ye sab bht old txt hy........ basic masail n un k ans ksi insan ki psyche sy chnge ni hoty... na maan chahi k mutabik hoty... bt ye to sab k liye same hain...... isis liye kaha tha k aap old post parh lain..... bt afsos ap ko samjh hi ni lgi thi... n ap ny pta ni kesy parhi ... upr upr sy hi read ki hoon gi....... hve a nice life
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