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Verbally Nikkah Talaq Halala In Fiqah Hanafi

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bushra2012 Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2013  Topic: 0  Post: 225  Age:  37  
Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 8:28pm
 

Ajeeb ghair-sanjeedgi hai

Ye aapki samajhdaari hai, kisi ne kuch keh dya aag lag gai jaan jal gai.

Shohar ki mohabbat aur shohar ko aag se bachana aur deeni maslay ko samajh ke suljhanay ka bukhaar khatam hogya foran?

Jo deen ke rastay pe chalnay ka aur apnay taur pe mamla suljhanay ka aur kisi na kisi tarah Allah ko raazi rakhnay ka, umra ke maqbooliat ka shoaq thaa wo hawa ho gya?

Ye sanjeedgi hai. Ye samajhdaari hai. Ye resolve hai. Ye commitment hai. Ye shoq hai. Ye dekh bhaal hai.

Mujhe aapke batein dohranay pe aiteraaz nahen. Mujhe to ye nazar araha hai ke aapka masla hal nahen ho raha aik he circle baar baar chal raha hai. Har martaba ghoom ke baat waheen ajati hai. Aur time aapke paas kam hai. Ye aapne khud bhi kai martaba kaha hai ke bacha paida hotay he visa ajayga aur phir bahar mulk jana hai.

Aapne mujhse help nahen maangi lekin aapne open forum pe help maangi hai. Jahan jiska jo dil chahay ga woh jawaab dega.
Aapko aqal ki kaafi kami hai jiska pata har post aapne jo apni tareefein likhi hein unse pata chal raha hai.
Aur aqal ki kami ka jazabaati reply se bhi pata chal raha hai.
Aur goal ki janib barhnay ke bajay chakratay rehnay se pata chal raha hai.

Kisi ne help kardi to yeh ja raha hai ke aapne mufta baandha hua hai. Ye bhi pata kardo woh bhi pata kardo. Wo apni gari ya motorcycle pe ya bus mein dhakkay kha kar aapko pata kar kar ke deta rahay ... nokar laga hai aapka. Aapki pregnancy hai chalo maan lia aap bahir nahen ja sakteen to aapke paas phone bhi nahen hai kya?

Evocative se meri din mein 6 martaba larai hoti hai ... lekin mujhe unki kamzori ka bhi pata hai ... jahan kisi ne deen ka naam lya waheen fida ho gay. Sab kuch qurbaan kar dia. Aur aap unki isi baat ka faida utha rahi hein. Warna unki umar kam hai aur unkay quality of input ka aapko bhi maloom hai. Agar high-quality of input hota to ab tak masla hal ho chuka hota.

Self-servitude khatam nahen hota aapka. Har baat mein apni tareefein. Har cheez dekh bhal ke karni hoti hai.

Dekh bhaal ke kii hoti to aaj ye hashar hota?

Baad mein pachtana na paray? Pachta to abhi bhi rahi hein aap...

Sex ka maza...! Kyunke sex hai he mazaedaar cheez. Illa ye ke kisi ke saath ziadti ho jay to sex mazaydaar nahen hota. Qabil-e-aiteraaz mawaad ki nishandahi kijye aap.

Meri tamiz pe na jayn aap. Mein tameez na seekhun to aap apni life barbaad kar leingi. Forum chor kar apna masla adhoora chor kar nikal jaengi? Apnay honay wali aulad ki zindagi barbaad kar deingi? Family destroy kar leingi? Ye hai hashyaari aur samajhdaari?

Aik post to samajhdaari se ho nahen paa rahi self-servitude ki intaha yeh hai ke har post mein apni tareefein.

Mein ne aapki post parhi hai aur mujhe hargiz ehsaas nahen hua ke aapke saath ghalat hua hai. Yehi aapka ghuroor aur takabbur hai, aur yehi aapki khud-gharzi (selfishness) hai. Ke bas apni mazloomiat ka dhandoora peetay jao. Aapko kis ne kaha thaa raat bhar ke jagay huay aadmi ko tang karti phirein.

Shohar ki ita'at ka nahen pata aapko. unhon ne kaha phone band kardo to usi waqt phone band kardia hota. Lekin aapko sirf apni pari hui hai. Ke bassss... meray saath zulm hogya yehi dunya ke ooper mera sab se bara ehsaan hai. bushra2012 samait poori dunya mujrimon ki tarah sarr jhuka ke khari ho jay meray saamnay.

Doosray ki izzat aapko karni nahen aati. Koi baat kya samjha di ishara kya dedia ke chakkar mein mat paro final ki taraf jao ... to ham shaitan ho gay. Zaban apni sambhaalni nahen aati bhashaa doosron ko parhai ja rahi hai. Jisne marzi ke khilaaf baat kardi wo shaitaan ho gya... jo apni man pasand hai wo seedhi raah hogai. Jo doosra samjha raha hai wo shaitaan hogya. Jabke mein ne aisi koi baat kii bhi nahen sirf yehi kaha hai ke aap solution kitaraf nahen balkeh chakar mein ghoom rahi hein. Asal baat se hatt kar aik inteqaami jazbay ke tehat sirf sazaa ke baaray mein soach rahi hein.

Halala mard kelye saza suna thaa ... kahan suna kuch pata nahen ... magar asal kaam chor ke saari tawajja isspe ... kyun? Selfishness ... ghareeb aadmi ye khata sadir he kesay hogai ke malka-e-aaliya ko dukh denay wali baat moonh se nikal gai.

Tareefein apni khatam nahen hoteen ... soach samajh ke mohabbat ki hai ... soach samajh ke selection ki hai ... ye hai soach ... ye hai samajh ... ke uss admi ne chand ghantay ki neend kelye 3 talaaq de di. Phone bhi to kaat sakta thaa. Call reject bhi to kar sakta thaa. Phone off bhi to kar sakta thaa. Magar hai aapki he pasand, aaphe ka shohar hai, jaisay aapne meri aik post ke jawab mein NCF chor dya wese usnay bhi 1 lamhay mein aapko chor dya. Ye hai aapki selection ... jo 1 lamhay mein aapko chor day.

Aapki logic bhi ulti hai: Halala mard kelye saza nahen. Talaq to dii he mamla khatam karnay kelye jati hai. Wapsi ka tasawwur he nahen hota 3 talaaw mein. To saza ka kya system? Ye to hashar hai aapka deen ke mamlay mein ke kaheen TV pe sunn lya ya net pe aur usko deen banaya hua hai. Ke bas saza de daloon...

"Nuqsaan aurat ka hota hai bas..." Hunh! Apni he pari rehti hai har waqt. Kabhi khyal anhen aaya ke mard kis tarah pardes mein ghar walon se duur itni garmi mein kamatay hein. Har waqt ye ehsaas ke talaaq de ke acha nahen kya mein to saza de ke rahun gi.

Baar baar apni problems mein honay ka zikr kyun zaroori hai ... hamaray ooper ehsaan kya hai problems mein par ke? Ya hamari hamdardi chahye? Hamdardi chahye to zaban iss tarah talwar ki tarah chalti rahegi kon hamdardi karega?

Behes nahen karni se kya murad hai? Mein jawab na dun? Nokar thoray lagay hein bhai aapke ... ke malka-e-aaliya ne hukum sadir farma hai ke aagay se behas na ho.

Yeh note kar lein ke aagay kya masail ho saktay hein - jo mujhe nazar araha hai ke aapka masla hal nahen hoga balkeh aur ghambeer ho jayga:

1. Doosray shohar se nikaah hogya. Aur unhon ne penetration bhi kardi. Aur talaaq denay se inkaar kar dia? Phir kya karengi? Kesay majboor karengi unko? Majboor karke talaaq sharai haisiat nahen rakhti ... yaani talaaq hui he nahen. Usne pesay maangay ya kuch aur kya phir? Loagon ki selection ke mamlay mein aap kitni hoshyar hein ye to nazar aa he raha hai...

2. Pehlay shohar ke paas baghair doosray se talaaq lye chali jaengi?

3. Agar pehlay shohar ko pata chal gya to kya hoga? Kya wo nikah-pe-nikah ka case doosray shohar pe nahen daal deinge? Kya mamla thanay kachehri mein nahen jayga?

4. Ye sab hua to doosray shohar ke apnay biwi bachon aur family ka kya hoga?

5. Abhi to aapko adventure ka maza araha hai ke mein sab kuch khud he kar loon aur baad mein tajdeed-e-nikaah bhi kar loon. Lekin yeh sab isi assumption pe hai ke pehlay shohar ko uss waqt pata chalay ga jab aap batain gi. Kisi aur ne bata dya to?

6. Pata chala doosray shohar ne bhi talaaq de di aur pehla bhi wapas lenay ko tayyar nahen? Phir kya karengi?

7. Evocative to zamanay se farigh hai ke aapki khidmat karta phiray... aapke bhai ne yeh keh kar jaan chura li ke yahan hota nahen. Usko aapke maslay ki itni parwah nahen ke apnay kamon mein se time nikaal kar aapka masla hal karay? Dekho ji saga bhai to itni value de raha hai baqi pata nahen kin chakkaron mein khwar hein...

8. Wazeh hai ke aap aik selfish thug hein aur har kisi ko apnay maqsad kelye istemal kar rahi hein: pehla shohar ko saza, Evocative se kaam nikalwana, aur doosray shohar se bhi kaam nikalwana. Uski mangni hui aur shadi nahen, aur woh apni biwi ko used ho kar milega.

9. Aapne Halala bhi karwa lia lekin pehlay shohar tajdeed-e-nikaah ke lye tayyar he nahen huay to kya hoga?

10. Aapne ye assume kar rakha hai ke pehlay shohar ko jab aapki is harkat ka pata chalega to wo accept kar leinge. Jabke ulta bhi ho sakta hai. Agar 10 saal baad unhein pata chala aur uss waqt unhon ne talaq de (aik martaba phir, practice to ho he chuki hai) phir kia karengi? Kya aik aur Halala? Us waqt kis ko iss kaam kelye dhoondengi? Ye yehi shakhs yeh kaam karega aur aapka 2 mardon ke beech football banay rehnay ka irada hai? Kya zindagi mein aur koi kaam nahen?

11. Aap future mein bardaasht kar sakeingi jab aapke pehlay shohar har baat pe aapko ta'ana deinge, naraz mat ho warna phir Halala karwana parega? Tang mat karo warna phir Halala karwana parega. Tumhara kya hai jitni chahaya talaq de doon, tum to Halala karwa ke wapas ajao gi. Ye future mein aapke saath hoga, kyunke jo aadmi zubaan pe itna qaboo nahen rakhta ke chand ghanton ki neend kelye 3 talaq de sakta hai wo aur bhi bohot kuch keh sakta hai. Aur shadi jitni purani hoti hai laraian utni barhti hein. Agar to mutual respect aur love ho to laraian family ko mazboot banati hein ... warna har baat dil ko khanjar ki tarah kaat-ti hai aur aadmi ghut ghut ke marta hai.

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Naraaz ho kar ke kaheen janay wanay ki zaroorat nahen. Sharaafat se forum pe wapas ayn aur apna masla hal karein - warna acha nahen hoga. Aur kabhi waqt-guzari kelye doosron ke topic mein bhi koi post kardia karein ... warna loag selfish he samjhein ge, apnay maslay pe to lambi chori aik he baat 6, 6 martaba likh rahi hein. Doosray ke sawaal ka kon jawab dega?

Ye yaad rakhein ke jazbaati baat se yahan kisi pe asar nahen hoga. Aap ki shadi baqi hai ya nahen, halala hota hai ya nahen, bachay ki life achi guzarti hai ya nahen, umra maqbool hota hai ya nahen, Allah raazi hotay hein ya nahen, jannat mein dakhla hota hai ya nahen, ye sab aapke apnay maslay hein, isse kisi aur ko koi farq nahen parta. Jisne aapke topic mein apna qeemti waqt nikaal ke post ki hai, uska shukria bhi ada karein. Aisa karnay kelye aapko apni selfishness khatam karke selflessness pe ana hoga.

@Evocative

Tanqeed ka mujhe shoq naheen. Baqi aap hero na banain 3 pages aapne bhi nikaal dye aur abhi questioner ka masla hal nahen hua. HAr post aap bhi hikmat aur baseerat ka tazkira dohra rahay hein.

Ikhlaas ki baat aapne ki hai ... aur aapke saath he ikhlaas mein, main ne yh post ki hai ... warna aap himaqat kar rahay hein ... doosray ko thora mashwara de dein ... apni jaan ragar daalnay ki zaroorat nahen hai. Questioner ke taath dekhein ke woh apnay sagay bhai ko to involve he nahen karna chahti. Aapko ghaseet rahi hai. Aap bhi sawaab ke chakkar mein khoob used ho rahay hein.

Wese bhi momin aik sorakh se 2 baar nahen dasa jata. Aap bohot used ho chukay. 3 pages aapne bhar dye. Abhi bhi woh aapki jaan khay ja rahi hein. Sabaq seekhein aur kinara-kashi ikhtyar karein. Warna hadees ki khilaaf-warzi ke murtakib ho jaenge. Kahani he garbar hai warna abhi myrizvi yahan input de chukay hotay.

Jesa moonh wesi chapaer se aapki kya muraad hai? Ye kya bohot acha andaaz-e-guftugu hai. Wese mujhe bura nahen laga. Mein ne to sirf point-out kia hai. Ke apni baat theek lagti hai aur doosay ki ghalat.

Kesa moonh hai mera? Kesi chapaer par jaygi? Par jaygi to mujhe kya nuqsaan hai? Mujhe nahen parwa ... kyunkeh mein questioner naheen answerer hoon ... aur pasa kunwein ke paas aata hai aur kunwein ki karwahat aur gehrai waghera har cheez ko bardaasht karta hai. Na karay to kunwein ka nuqsaan nahen hota.

Mann chahi rab chahi ki kahanian mujhe na sunaen. Aapko kya pata ke mein muslim bhi hoon ya nahen? Aur jo yahan kaha hai wo mann-chahi to nahen. Agar hunza saad ko jhanjhora hai ke topic se hatt gai ho to tazleel, tanqeed aur doosray 2 TT mein shamil ho gya.

Shabash hai bhai tumhari understanding ko.

Aap to baat final kar detay hein na. Aapne final keh dya ke blind man/woman has no judgement. To ab agar koi blind hai to Allah ne aisa paida kya hai to blind hai na. Apni ankhein khud to nahen phoreen? Soach samajh ke misaal dya karein. Agar kisi ko lazim aur kull bura sabit kar deinge to wo kyun improve karay? Aapne to uski nature ko he bura qaraar dya.

Improvement to aapko bhi chahye: Har kisi ki insult karne beth jatay hein: Mujhe keh dya keh "aapke fehem se balatar hein ... aap nahen samjhein gi". Awwal to aapne God's creation ko challenge kya. Kyunke fehen aadmi ke apnay haath mein nahen. Yaani God ne paida he kam-fehem kia. Phir aapne jab faisla kar he lya hai ke nahen samjhein gi to kyun samjha rahay hein? Khud ko contradict kartay hein aap.

Yehi aapka deeni takabbur hai. Ke bas aap ko samajh aagya hai aur doosron ke to fehem se he balatar hai ... woh to samajh he nahen saktay. Uskay aglay jumlay mein appeal bhi kartay hein ke samajh jao! Aapko khud nahen pata kya hazyaan type kar rahay hein. Bhai agar fehem se balatar hai aur samajh he nahen saktay to kesay samajh jaen?



Evocative Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014  Topic: 0  Post: 307  Age:  18  
Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 8:45pm
 

Bushra

Log kisi ko kiya samjhein gy is ko chorein ist ye soachein k ap ko Loog kiya samjhein gy kiya samjh ry........

Aap zamanay se farigh hai Ya nahi Bushra jo itna lamba text kiya q kiya ap ny..... kiya ap ny just jazbaat mein a k kiya ...apny bary mein kiya khiyal hy ap ka

Sharaafat se forum use krein ap b mhtrma Anti g.....

lgta ap b waqat guzari k liye ye sab kr ri...

21 sy age 37 kr di but .......n 650+ reply dlte to kr diye ap ny bt hain wahi ki wohi...... rasiyein jaal jati par baal ni jaty....

Ye yaad rakhein ke jazbaati baat se yahan kisi pe asar nahen hoga

bushra2012 Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2013  Topic: 0  Post: 225  Age:  37  
Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 8:59pm
 

Na ho asar

Mujhe loag jo bhi samjhein... unki marzi. Samajhnay walon ne to Nabi PBUH ko bhi majnoon, kahin aur jagoogar samjha. Kisi ke samajhnay se kya hota hai?

Mujhe aaj tabiat se fursat hai. Aur mein jitna bhi lamba reply likhun aap kon questioning karnay walay? Ziada lamba hoga khud he moderator note ajayga. Ke aapaa itna lamba reply na likho.

Apnay baaray mein mera kya khyal hona chahye? Apnay baaray mein aapka kya khyal hai?

Sharaafat se forum use? Sharaafat ki kya definition hai? Yeh to subjective term hai.

Contributing members yahan waqt guzari kelye he aatay hein. Kisi ki income yahan se nahen juri hui. As a hobby (pass-time) loag questioners ko jawab detay hein. Jinmein Guide, myrizvi, My Reply aur aap Evocative khud bhi shamil hein. Kuch loag waqfay waqfay se aatay hein jesa Hawk66. Kuch loag routine hein jesa ke mein aur aap.

Reply to aapke bhi khoob delete huay. Asar to aap pe bhi koi na para. Style to wohi hai.

650+ reply? Itni replies to aaj tak mein ne kiin bhi nahen. Aapne kafi nazar rakhi hui hai.

Kisi pe asar na ho ... mera kya nuqsaan hai? Jazbaati baat se bachein gi hunza saad ... kyunkeh unka hai masla phansa hua.

Mujhe apni tone change nahen karni. Kisi ko aisay samajhna hai to samjhay warna apna masla kalejay se laga ke bethay. Baat maan le uska faida, na maan le uska nuqsaan.
Evocative Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014  Topic: 0  Post: 307  Age:  18  
Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 9:19pm
 

Bushra Anti Sorry

aur pasa kunwein ke paas aata hai aur kunwein ki karwahat aur gehrai waghera har cheez ko bardaasht karta hai. Na karay to kunwein ka nuqsaan nahen hota.

Aap Kuwaan bana

eik rae hy kabhi cool mind sy ghoor krna n ho saky to amal b kr lena

>>Aaaj tak ... kunwaan hi thein.....but plz request hy kabhi Badal(Cloud) bun k dekhna .......

aap ny to itny cmnts kiye thy mhtrma g.... kiya mila us ko n apni sab post ko dlte kr k.....

>>Idhr kon muslim kon ni humein is sy saro karaar ni hum itna janty Ap Nabi Akhir uz Zamaan S.A.W ki umati hain.... chahy umat e dawat mein hon ya ijabat mein hain to umati hi na.... ye kafi.... aap Adam A.S ki Olad mein sy hain ye hum janty... Hum is liye ap k liye b dua gooh hain........ INSHA ALLAH rahein gy b......

>>Badil(Cloud) ki manind bhtr q k Hamary nabi S.A.W Logo k paas khud gae hain........ baki hum ny kufar sy duur rehna hy kafir sy ni......

>>I m realy v.sorry my words hurts/ shkd u badly .... ap ny ist post b edit ki..... thn ye post .... I m Sorry Bushra anti.... Ap to now bari hoon gain choton ko maaf b I hope aap krti hoon gi..... Dua kariye ga is umat k liye ap b.......

>>ALLAH ap ko duniya o akhrat ki khushiyoon sy nawazy ..... aur ap ko har azmaish sy duur rakhy... n ap ko ALLAH apny Ilam sy Ilam dy apny hilam sy hilam dy... apni..... sifaat ka kuch zarah dy ..aur us waqat sy hum sab ko bacha k rakhy k hum gumrahi py hoty huway khud ko hidayat yafta samjhein....... Ameen

Hve a nice life

bushra2012 Group: Members  Joined: 15th Oct, 2013  Topic: 0  Post: 225  Age:  37  
Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 9:38pm
 

Kyun banoon badal?

Nahen parwah mujhe ... jisko paani peena hai woh pyasa mar jay ya kunwein ke paas chala jay.

Ziada gumaan karnay se bacho (ayat). Aap gumaan kar ke beth gay ke posts bushra2012 ne delete kii hein. Mein ne to delete nahen kareen. Magar mujhe ya bhi pata kis ne kii hein. Shayd server error hogi. Zabardasti kyun kisi pe shubah kya jay?

bushra2012 hurt wurt nahen hoti. Aap zabardasti khush ho rahay hein ke "my words hurts/shkd u badly". Mujhe koi farq nahen para. Simply said meray nazdeek aapki post ki koi bhi positive ya negative value nahen. Karo na karo. Mein ne kis baat ko respond karna hai aur kis ko nahen iska meray emotions se wesay bhi talluq nahen.

Aap bari mehnat se reply likhtay hein. Aur doosray ko aik jumla kehtay hein ke aap to iss qabil he nahen ho ke meri baat/quraan ki baat/shariat ki baat/hadees ki baat samajh sako ... to haqeeqat mein Allah ki creation ko challenge kartay hein (agarche aapka irada yeh nahen hota) jabke Allah ne kaha hai ke ham ne deen asaan kar dia, aur samajhnay walon ko samajh bhi dee.

To aap Allah ki baat ki tardeed kartay hein?
Evocative Group: Members  Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014  Topic: 0  Post: 307  Age:  18  
Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 10:42pm
 

H.saad

WALAHOALAM k ye nazar hy ya hamari apni ghalti......

>>sab sy ba babarkat shadi who hy jis mein kharcha sab sy kam ho..... aesi shadiyain b dekhai jin ka strt b ajab tha mean mahino shadi ki rasumaat chali..... n un ka zawal b ajab ... logo ko yaad rehny wala..... prblm yeh hy k hum Muslim hain Shadi Sunnat samjh k krty hain... but us mein bht c thngs just rasumaat ki hoti... n who b aksar ghair sharia.... jis mein k ALLAH k bht sy hukam totay hain..... so jahan ALLAH k bht sy hukam tot rahy hoon..... to un ka koi asar to ho ga..... jab ksi jaghan naik amal hoon to azab waghera un ki wjha sy muakhar ya end b ho skta hy..... any how jo huwa so huwa......

Deen o duniya both mein jab b choose krna pary to deen ... eman ko choose krna...... Insan ki rae sy bhtr ap ko kaha k Istikhara must krna 2nd husbnd k liye b n har eham amour mein..... Istikhara ....ALLAH sy mashwara hy....... who Aleem zaat hy....

>>evocative bhai ap ka shukrya apka b tyme waste kya mene

Ary pagli na ho.... to ap ny mera time kab waste kiya...... how..... Sahi Bukhari Shareef ki sab sy Ist ahadees Mubarika ka Mafhoom hy kuch hisay ka "Amalon ka daro madaar Neaat par hy" so mery sab amalo ka daro madaar neat py hy....... ap kiya jane meri neat kiya thi..... q mein ny ap ko reply diye... mhtrma ap eik cheez bhool ri.... Ksi ulma ki ziarat krna b sadqa hy...... us k b bht sy fazail hain... mein ap ny agar again gya b tha ya jesy b ilam hasil kiya ye mery khud k liye b ajar sy khali nahi hy..... Aap chorein loog jo b khty....... Meri neat ALLAH janta hy..... mujhy ALLAH sy ajar ki umeed hy..... Insaan sy nahi.....

Zahir ki Ankh sy na tamasha kry koi

hy ye dekhna k dedah e dil waah kry koi

ap ko pichli post mein kaha b tha k Loog bht sy batein b krn gy...... ths tht bt hikmat sy kaam lena n ap idhr hi eik ki baton sy ye keh ri...... ary ye to anonymus jaghan idhr ap ka ye haal plz real life mein to ap ko aur dukh ho ga agar koi aesi wesi baat kry.....

>>ziada prblm ye ni k shasawar maidan e jang mein gir jae... bt ziada prblm tab hota k girny k baad who khud ko sambhaal na saky....... so now ye halat k khilf ap ny muqabla krna khud ko sambhalna hy......

logo ki baton mein a k life mein kbhi koi jazbati faisla ni kr lena plz ...... jazbati fasily bhtr ni hoty...... kbhi b..... na hi halat sy mutasir ho k jo fasily ya qadam uthaein jaein who bhtr hoty........ bt v.rearly.....or acidntly.....

>>Dua krein un k liye b jin ny is forum py ya aur kahaein ap ko hurt kiya...... burai ko burai sy ap kbhi khatam ni kr skti..... krna b na..... ALLAH ki pakar bht sakhat hy...... ALLAH un sab ko b samjh dy... k hmri zuban, hath paon etc sy ksi Muslim/ Insan ki dil azari na ho..... Jo zulam kry us ko Maaf krn...... Ajar ALLAH sy.....

>>may bahar nahi jasakhti meri comdition nahi k muftyo k pass jaon ek bhai hy wo b yaha nahi hoty...

plz...kabhi jana b na..... apny fthr bro .... ko snd krna.... but agar kabhi bht bht hi zaroart par jae...... to who alag baat us k liye b sharia way sy... un sy cntct krna... n ye b khiyal rkhna k us surat mein b agar ap jaein to ap py kisi ko kuch kehny atiraz ki nobat na ae.....

>>jab hum Muslims samjhty hain k ALHAMDOLILAH hum bhtr hi kr ry.... hain mean naik kam kr ry..... thn motarizeein etc etc ki baton mein a k hum khair ka kaam q chor dety..... duniya k kaam karobaar etc to asani ni choraty bt naik.. n khair k kam hi chor dety.... Yad rakhiyo shaitan kbhi ni chahta k hum naiki krn n khair k kaam krn..... who ksi na ksi Maklooq etc etc ko b rukawat k tor py use kr leta hy......

>>e.g., koi tilawat kr ra ho to koi a k us ko kahy k kiya hr waqat tilawat krty rehty aur koi kam ni farigh ho na is liye kr ry kam k waqat mein kro to b fhum kahein..... ths tht........ to woh jinab who kaam chor dy kam k waqat to pehly b ni krta tha now fairgh waqat ki b ye tilawat naikiyan gai us sy...... zariya kon bana Insan us ko is kaam sy hatany ka..... n who Muslim a gae us ki chaal mein.....

H.Saad plz thnk with cool mind...

hve a nice life

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@ bushra n evocative

Salam both of u...
dekhien may yaha kisi behes pe parhny nahi i hun...
na apni tareef krny na apny shahour ko bora bnany i hun
na hi evocative bhai sy faida uthany k for me muftyo k chakkar lagay...
1)mera prb verbally hy nt qanuuni to bushra g may ye prb sb ko lek sb k samny brhana nahi chahti ye prb sb sy chupi v hy...n khuffiya hi solve krna chahti hun...
2)may ye nahj bolri may bht neik hun achi hun ye wo...han mjhpe aqal ki kami hy...mjhe ph kaatdena chahyetha...but i hav told before k hubby may bht dafa mazak pe boltythy k wi pochtythy talaq chahye may ha kehti wo hansty n bolty khula lelo...
ye ek mazak hota n gam ko idki detail nahi patathi...k practical lyf pe kya hota kya nahk ha itna to pata tha 3 talaq hotihy...but hubby bolty hy k 3 dafa bolny sy ek hoti ye wo...jb k wo ahlehadith nahk bt neutral hy musalman hy bs kisi firqay pe batty way nahi...
so us din wo parishan thy mjhe sasural jana tha...ittefaq sy imran kgan k jalsy ki wajab sy sun ko kch strike ka suna tha ye wo to wo samjhy k topi krahihun n jb unhouny lsha kya talaq chahye obviously may to wohi samjhi k mazak hy ya awain bolrg mene kaha ha dedo yar...inhouny ek saans pe bol k ph rakhdya...
line pe call ki thi tablet hy sencor b nahi k light on ho ph hata k bt jitni der pe kaatun ph inhouny boldya tha...n wo situation aysi thi k mah dunn hi hogaythi qk obviously yaqeen nahk araha tha k hubby jinsy love marriage hoi unhouny jazbaat pe a k ye kra...
n inhouny mjhe chora nahi hy may ye b btachuki hun,ham half n hour b na lagy wapis pehly jesy hogaythy...unhouny sorry b kratha...n 2 din may pak b aythy n ruju b kya by physically...qk ham ny ahle hadith ka fatwa lyatha...
sb ny is baat ko faltu samhga may ny nahi samjga mera dil mutmayeen nahitha na mjhe patatha k ham kis firqay sy hy...in prb pe pari to samajh aya pak pe hanfi firqah hy...
to may usdi ko follow krty way dolve krna chahtihun n hubby sy zada behes nahi krti is topic pe qk un ki g
hatgayee to mera ghar banty banty ujarh na jay jitna Allah k nazdik uhargaya hy but...indgaAllah solve krlungi...
2)may kisi ka faida nahi uthana chahti na srlfushness k mera madla solve ho agla phasy...
jo krungi soch samajh k krahihun...n may koi ghuma phira k ek sawal nahi dena chahti may jin batounpe confuse hun wo may gan pochleti hun bar bar...qk kal ko may ny solve kri sb prb n phr pata laga arey ye to krna hi nahi tha...to pata laga sb pe paani phir gaya...
3)n qanuuni tor pe mujhe jb solve krna hi nahi prb to nikkah pe nikkah k case ka sawal hi peda nahi hota qk qanuuni tor pe ex hubby mery ab b hubby hai...ab qanuuni tor pe may divorce le k paon pe kulhaari nahi maarna chahti...bantk baat bigaar na nahi chahti...i love him...
ham ab b khush haal reh rahy hy apni pehli aulaad ki tayeeyari krahy hy...
4)mera benefit k wo bahar hy...psk pe nahi to sexual relatikn sy bachi v hun...
5)n halala i kno islam pe nahi...automatically 2nd hubby chordy to hy...bt wo aurat kaha jay jo rehna hi pehly hubby k saath chahtihy...?
Jis ka hubby b usy behad chahta hy...n anjany may ye kr betha...?
6)tajdeed e nikkah bol k nikjah krna wo mera masla hy bs confusr thi k ye qabuul to hojayga na priceedure Allah ki nazar pe pehly hubby ko may nahi btain to n wo bv hi samjhy...mera benefit hy k mjhe jaty jaty bahar itna tyme ti hy k 2nd hubby ki iddat oiri hojaygi...n bs in sy tajdeed e nikkah kr k wapis apni zindagi may magan hojaingi...
7)evocative bhsi may sochri thi k tajdeed e nikkah pe khutba nahi hota to hubby ye na boly k molvi n khutba q kra hy baqi sb baat may samajh gayee hun n aoril tk inshaAllh qadam uthana hy aug tk bahar jana hy...shukriya...
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Ghalti

1. Aapka concept abhi bhi clear nahen hai. Phone kaatnay ki baat uss waqt hai jab unhon ne apni thakan k izhaar kya thaa.

Shohar ne talaaq ke alfaaz keh dye to biwi ne sunay ya nahen sunay, talaaq to ho jaygi. Ye thori ke udhar se talaaq kehna shuroo kya aur aap phone kaat dein ke mein ne to alfaaz sunay he nahen islye talaaq hui he nahen...

2. Immaturity to shuroo se donon dikhai hai. Shadi ko mazaq samjha hua thaa. Talaq ko mazaq samjha hua thaa. To ab bhi mazaq samjhein kya jata hai.

3. Aapke husband kisi firqay mein batay huay nahen hein to aap kyun firqay mein batna chahti hein. Jabke firqa aik intahai ghair-sharai cheez hai aur hadees mein iss se bachnay ki sakht takeed ai hai.

4. Love marriage ghair-sharai nahen lekin anjaam aam taur pe theek nahen hota. Jazbati loag jazbat mein aa kar shadi kar letay hein aur jazbaat mein he aa kar shadi khatam bhi kar letay hein.

5. Pakistan mein hanfi fiqh ziada hai iska matlab ye nahen ke jis jis ke paas NADRA ka shinaakhti card hai wo zaroor he hanfi ho jay. Koi majboori nahen hai aapko.

6. Qanooni taur pe honay mein to chakkar he aur na honay mein bhi chakkar hai. Nikah kaghaz pe likhnay se nahen hota eejab-o-qabool se hota hai. Aapke hubby aa gay ke dikhao kya hai? Phir? Kesay sabit kareingi ke kaghaz mein aik shohar ka naam likha hai aur asli shohar doosra hai jiski talaaq ke baad iddat chal rahi hai. Pehla shohar aagya to iddat mein sex karengi?

7. Jab aapko pata hai ke halala Islam mein nahen. To zabardasti itna kuch karnay ki kya zaroorat hai? Wese bhi chal sakta hai... aap deen ke taqazay pooray karnay ko nahen apna dil mutmaen karnay ko kar rahi hein ye sab.
Raha sawaal ke aurat kahan jay? Sorry to say shariat ya law-enforcing ka masla nahen ke mard kya chahta hai aur aurat kya chahti hai - talaaq hogai to hogai baat khatam. Halala to hota nahen hai uske baad bhi jab haraamkaari he rehni hai to itna masla paalnay ki kya tuk?

8. Dhoka dhoka hota hai aur koi bhi shakhs bacha nahen hota ye yaad rakhein.
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Posted on:3rd Dec 2014, 4:07pm
 

salam

Ji sister ap ki baty sahi hy...
firqau pe may b nahi bata chahti mana galti howi hy n wo b parishan thy may b bt wo phur normal hogay jesy kch nahi hoa qk unka kehna 3 ek hoti hy ehladith musalman nahi hoty kya jo na manu...kher in short jo b hy wo sb firqau ko equal manty hy,ek aam insan kowesy b samajh nahi hoti itni gehrayee ki jb musubt parhtihy tb hoti hy...
mjhe kya pari hy sis k may halala krun...
but uljhan rehti k yar hamary bervh ye prb hy ham wesy to sahi rehrahy hy...bt mera dil ghutta hy k wo n may jb b ham bistri krengy gunah hi hoga...abhi to may preg hun to sex nahi krsakhty wo...dosra bahar hy wo n aty b hy to 2 3 din k lye bs...
To mene socha tha k baby k baad step utha k mamla sahi krun phr iddat guzar k nikkah...wo ab foran krun k ruk k halaat dekh k hi krungi...soch k samajh k...
Pehly to koshish hubby hi manjay...
warna jo mene kaha step to uthana hy sis...taky Allah ki nazar pe rishta halal ho...
hamay saath zindagi guzarni hy na k alaidha...

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Posted on:4th Dec 2014, 1:12pm
 

Hunza Saad

Aoa
Hunza ap ka yeh topic may bhi as a silent user ban ky parhrahihun jo shayad 2 mahiny sy chalrahahai,ap ki baat baja hai ky mard galti karai aurat bhugtai
likin ap yeh bhi dekhain koi nah koi galti aap sy zaroor sar zid huwi jo mard ny yeh steo liya bhaly woh aap kk kitna hi chahlain
khair jo hoa so hoa aap hanfi fiqh sai hain to aap ko Evocative Bhai nay sahi guide kiya hai
likin phir bhi ek dafa zaroor kahiin say confirm krlyega ye discussion coz hum pe sy koi aalim ya mufti nahi jo aap ko confidently btay solution aur rahi Evocative Bhai ki baty bhaly unhouny sahi guide kiya likin un ki age dekhain 18years only
aap ka kehna hai ky aap apnay ex hubby ko bin batay halala krengi chalain sahi but ap ye dykain ky iddat jb guzarengi 2nd hubby ki aap to ex hubby pakistan ayway hoy us waqt to sex kesy avoid krengi...kiya iddat pe sex krlengien?
Baqi yeh k aap galti say bhi apny hubby ko is proceedure ka mat batana k aap ny yeh problem is tarha solve ki...
Q ky koi bhi mard ye nahi bardasht karta k uski bv kisi or ky saath sex kray...baqi aap behtar samajhtihain
aap aysa krain...jab baby hojay tou aap sawa mahina sasural pe guzarly ussy yeh hoga ky aap phir apny meiky rehlengi kuch days un hi dino aap nikkah krengi arjsb o qabuul 2 mard houn ya ek mard 2 aurtain
Aur jaha tak mjhe maloomaat hai tou qazi khutbah zaroori nahi hota n waqeel b qk jab mard aurat khd baaligh hain to aurat ky taraf say wakeel doesnt necessary
phir aap unsay hum bistri krengi jinhai apna 2nd hubby aap ny chuna hai,phir hnsay talaaq le k aap wapis normal life guzarlain aur han yaad rahai k 2nd husband say pehlai hi problem discuss karliyega k scene kiya hy sb batana must n aqalmand bsnda dekhiyega young age k joshily log ka bharosa nahi hota sex ka boly n kha p k bethjay aap ko,
khair aap chahy to halala apnay meky pe hi guzaar lain,wo banda kaha le k jay kiya pata,andha believe mat karna please
phir iddat aap easily guzaarna aur han 3mahiny hogi iddat magar 3 menses iddat hoti hai ok 3 menses hoty hi aap iddat say uthgayee ok n iddat divorcee ki yeh nahi ghar bethou mau chupa k rakho aap easily normal life guzarna
Aur hikmat say kaam ly ky aap ex hubby sy wapsi nikkah karna jesa Evocative Bhai ny bataya hai,but tajdeed e nikkah kahogi to unko bhi pata hoga us pe bus 2 gawah hotay hy no qazi no khutba ok
n phir apnah bachy shahour ky saath aram sai zindagi busur krlain
Aur Evocative Bhai aap say guzarish hai kh in mauhtarma ko aap ek dafa final pora scene samjha day A to Z saadhy lafzou pe,jesy mene samjhaya hy
Hunza ap ko ALLAH qamyaab kray Ameen

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Posted on:4th Dec 2014, 1:20pm
 

aur haan

Aur han condom ka bhi apnay ochatha k halala karsakhtay ky nahi to Hunza u can but phir bhi discharge bahir ho to acha hai,n condom say faida yeh bhi hogavk widhout condom jo maza ata hy woh condom laga k nahi ata to ap thora safe raheingi,n please bus zaroorat ka hissa open kriyega and unhai bhi samjhadiyega pehly hi, aur j
ab aap wapis ex husband ky saath zindagi guzarain to yeh jo b hoa problem khuwaab samajh ky bhuul jana
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Minahill

Mohtrma Minahil! plz ap mujhy guide krein k kesay samjhun in ko pura scene .... k In Mohtrma ka kaam ho jaein.. n ye samjh b jaein.. plz need ur asistnce ap ki age / exprnce may b bhtr ho..... so plz guide..Me... Minahill


ALLAH hum sab ka hamiyo Nasir ho.....Ameen

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Posted on:6th Dec 2014, 7:29pm
 

Evocative

Hmmz may yeh nahi kehrahihun ky aap galat bolahy hain,ap ki age 18 hy mene bas yeh kaha hai k aap ki baat hunza maangayee hai or woh kisi mufti k pass jana bhi nahi chahrahi hsin aur acha hi hai aurat ka problem pardy may rahai,mene ap log k msgs parhythy aur unko ek scenerio bana k bola hai ky unhsi easily sab samajh ajay k kesy 2nd nikkah karna hai kesa halala kar k iddat guzaarni hai etc issi tarha aap bhi batadety to inko har dafa msgs jar k pochna na ho,wesy knowledge mjhe nahi is maamlay ki but i am happy yeh dekh kar ky ek aurat apna ghar bacha rahi hai,ab log usy halala sun ky sex ka maza leny baty kray ya kuch but yeh dekhain ky aurat apny bachay ko barbaad bahi karna chahti aur yeh sab karegi for baby,aqalmandi hai,aur inko mene yehi bola hai k ex husband ko q btayengi nahi batay usko kya parwah woh tou aram say hain aur bas tajdeed e nikah ya koi bhi topi kr k unsay wapsi nikah krlein niyat Allah hanta hy process Allah ki nazar sy guzrayga,bht hai bunday ki kiya auqaat,agar woh samjhaiga k bv hh ab bhi meri to kiya rahegi,nahi na??
aur safety use kar ky halala kar lain bs n duscharge bahar karway,safe rahengi ye aur 2nd hubby ko itna intrst bna ayga bs proceedure pora kar k us bandy sy dur rahy awwal to bharosy ka hi dekhain,aur yeh bhi kaha tha mene ky nikkah nay jhutba n waqerl doesnt necessary kyun ky she was married n unko waqeel ki kya zaroorat au
r islam may only aehab o qabuul hai do gawahou k samny
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Minhil

ye ap b janti eik social ntwrk koi .....data logical to hota real ni... alwys....

Aam khaein paer kahy ko ginany.....

hum ye janty k ksi ko ulti rah laga k kuch ni milna just gunah k....elawa....

log usy halala sun ky sex ka maza leny baty kray ya kuch

loog jo b bolein un ki baton py kaan q dharein hum.... jitney Mu utni batein hain.... agar Insan apny dil sy mutmain hy k g ALHAMDOLILAH koi wrng ni kr re k ALLAH k samny pakar ho.... to thn logo ka kiya who adat sy majboor hain.... loog to agar koi Masjid mein b kaam kry us k pichy b ajab ajb batein krty hain... ye b ni pta k ghebat . bohtan etc kitna bara gunah hy... ...

kbhi mulim ko shaitan insano ka sahara ly k bhaly kaam sy door kr deta n gunah ki taraf raghib krta... yehi baat hum phly b keh chukka.. now koi member ki surat mein b ho skta ya us k tanzeiya comnts etc b.....

Any how ALLAH samjh dy hum sab ko......





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Evocative

Aoa
EVOCATIVE SAHAB
may yeh nshi kehrahihun ky ap galat ho,ya aap bachy ho ap ko knowledge nahi,aapny tou bht achy say guide karahy inhain,may tou bas itna kehrahihun ky hunza ko aap ny sab baty confirm hi batayee hena,wo apni post may keh chuki hsin k kisi mufti k paas ja nahi sakhti hain,kyun ky ye prb aysa ky kisi k samny ja k duscuss karna sharmindghi hai etc
aur may bas ye bolri hun k ye jab first husband sy again nikah krein to 2 gawah ky samnay bhi karlain to aejab o qabuul ye nikkah hojayga,khutbah zaroori nahi,aur mera mashwarah k yeh apna haq e meher brh waly ussi samay ek paper may likhwadain k fala haq e meher hy aur hubby sign kardein,aur may yeh kehrithi aap inko step by step samjhay process like ky nikkah kar k ye terms condition pori karna talaq le ky phir tm iddat guzaarna phir tm aysy topi ya kch bol k tajdeed e nikkah karna n har cheez k positive n negative pehlu batay,aur yeh prb to bht hoty hoy dekhein hain mene but ek aurat ko pehli dafa solve karty dekha hai,islye mjhe b maloomat id matter ki jaanni hain,aap itny confidently yeh sab kesy bata sakhty hain kyun ky mene verbally kabhi bhi nahj suna yehi suna talaq hoi mya bv juda
ya talaq huei mya bv bhula k bethgay and saath g rahy aram sy saalou guzar gay
in sab ki kya haqeeqat hai?
Is tarha solve hojay prblms to har aurat solve karny bethjay jo talaq sun ky ghar barbaad kar bethi hain jab ky qasuur mard ka hotahai
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Posted on:8th Dec 2014, 5:14pm
 

Evocative bhai n Minahill...

Salam...MINAHIL,EVOCATIVE BHAI...
may apny shahoir sy sachy dil sy mhbbt kartihun ALLAH gawah hai,ha qasuur mera mene apny shahour ko rauqa nahi talaq sy ya unko tang krahithi to mjhe uswaqt aqal houni chahyethi...
actually mery shahour choti choti baaat dil may le k beth jatyhy...kal btarythy k bht pehly mene unko bor admi bola tha...n pehly mene bola tha k aap to busy rehty hy pata hota tou shadi na krti...har baat dil pe le k bethy hai...meri unki lyf khushgawar guzar rahi hai Alhamdulillah
...
i love him alot mjhe wona mily i will die...
may unka gussa sb sehtihun bht gussa karty hsin bewajah k...ab un k gussy b bewajah k suntihun...
prb sb k saath aati hain likin types alag hoti hsin prb with me bhi i bt may agar is ko jesy evocative bhai ny btaya us tariqay sy solve krlungi to may aram sy apni khushgwaar zindagi may bina kisi uljhan k wapis laut jaongi apny shahour beti k saath...
but may ny observd kiya hai mery shahour kbhi b kbhi b halala k liye nahi maanengy har baat dil pe rakhty hai,unko pata laga phir talaq dedi to kya phr may ye sab proceedure karungi nahi bhae...
evocative bhak mjhe aapki sab baty samajh i hsi n waqayed ek ek baat mene bht dafa pochi n aap ny btayee bhi...likin minahil ny bhi dekhain wohi baat kk k khutba doesnt necessary...
2 gawah aejab o qabuul...
n ex hubby ko may sahi mauqa dekh k nahi batana chahtihun...
bas ye kehna chahtuhun k bas halala ka proceedure 1 hr total hoa suppose nikkah karna term n condition sb mila k...may wapis ammi k ha rahun bahany sy idsat bhi guzarti rahegi n sasural ki nazar may may rukny i v hun ammi ky ha,jb k sawa mahina jbhi may sasural pe krungi...
har kaam hiqmat sy soch k samajh k krungi
achy insan ki selection kr k nikah halala talaq phir iddat guzarlungi phr apny shahour sy tajdeed e nikkah ka bol k may nikah krungi...yehi proceedure hena evocative bhai...
koi bhi kami o becchi ho sadha asan alfaaz may btayeeyega kuch na samajh ata to dubarah apko distrb krtihun...
ab bs mera proceedure parh k aap koi bhi galti ho drust krlain...
n mjhe kisi bhi mufti k pass ja k gumrah nahi houna aao ny jin mufti su oocha bht hy bt yeh btadyega wo deobandi...hena...
please tafseeli jawab dyega...
aur khutba may nahi chahri k ex hubby k saath nikah pe ho,qk wo bht xiddi hy nakhry b krtyhy...
bht mushkil sy manengy...
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Posted on:10th Dec 2014, 3:06am
 

Quicknote

Hi. It's slightly annoying how everyone keeps mentioning Evocative's age. I think he's repeatedly hinted several times that he's much older than 18 but entered wrong information in his profile (lied ? ;) )
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Posted on:15th Dec 2014, 5:25pm
 

HACHIMAN...

Salam Hachiman bhai...
kisi ny bhi evocative bhai ki age ko le k issue nahi bnaya...
18 yrs likhawa hg to bs pocha k choti age pe knowledge kesy...
n evocative bhai iska jawab bhi dechuky hyn...
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Posted on:15th Dec 2014, 5:35pm
 

EVOCATIVE BHAI...

Salam...
evocative bhai...
lagraha ap meri post sy tang agay hy...
sorry mene bht bht ap ka sar khaya...mene last post jo ki thi bs usy ek dafa read krlye ga...
n kahiin b koi baat galat c lagay btadyega plz n delivery k baad nikkah with 2nd hubby...sharait pori kr k divorce phr iddat phr nikkah eid first hubby...but ab ek new baat sochrithi first hubby sy may on paper kch sharait rakhwa sakhti k meher itna krdain...n bewajah ap mjhe talaq zindagi pe dengy to qabuul nahi hogi...etc...
awwal to koshish hy hubby ko sb bta k hi krun 2nd hubby sy nikkah bt agar waqt sahi hoa warna nahi...qk ye to depend bs mjhpe hy hubby ko btana i dnt think necessary...n unka bharosa nahi agay zindagi pe kbhi ja k mjhe tana dedein k tmsy kisi aur ny nikkah kratha...like tht...
evocative bhai dua kriyega mera ghar basa rahy...patanahi ye q hoa bt saber ka phal meetha hotahy INSHAALLAH sb behtar hoga...
bs mjhe confusion yehi k may apny ex hubby ko kch b btana nahi chahrihun...dts y ghum phir k baar baar ap sy yehi pochtihun aur members b chir gay houngy...
march tk may ap ko is website pe zaroor text krungi...plz aap web visit krty rahiyega aap ko zindagi bhar duay dungi...mera ghar wapis bas gaya to...duniya ki nazar may basawahy but mjhe bs mjhe patahy k ALLAH ki nazar may tuuth chuka hy...
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Posted on:16th Dec 2014, 5:34pm
 

H.Saad

Ws

hum 4 ur kind info aaj bht dys baad login huway......

mhtrma ap k sab scenario mein jo main prblm hy... who hy ap ksi ko mean susral ko bta ni ri...... n ye baat mery mind is liye khatak ri hy..... k aya kiya jab agar kbi baad mein un ko pta lagy who is baat ko samjh lain gy.... ya ni.......

bcz Insani nafsiyat b sme tme ajb hoti.... mean k kbhi insan ksi sy itni aaas itni umeed laga leta hy bt achank wohi us ki umedon py pani pheer deta hy.... n ye ap khoob jaan gai.......

is liye kaha tha k sab ko sath ly k chlna .... especly prnts ko...... khud sy koi kadam ni uthana... na hi ksi clge etc k frnd ko khud sy 2nd huby chose krna..... sme time hmry samny sme frndz ya logo k who rukh tab samny aty jab un sy mamla ya mashrat etc mein wasta prta hy....... wrna to sab nrmal lagty......

Baki ap bhtr janti apni famly..... ko....

Raee thi...... Hukam ni..... cool mind sy sochna........

>> first hubby sy may on paper kch sharait rakhwa sakhti k meher itna krdain...n bewajah ap mjhe talaq zindagi pe dengy to qabuul nahi hogi...etc...

Talaq par hi jati...... chahy khushi mein dy ya gusa mein..... wajha ho ya ni ho....... old cmnts mein eik actress ka kaha tha k....... who to husbnd wife actng kr ry thy....drama ki... un py fitawa diya gya k talaq par gai..... so now ap khud soach lain.....

baki ap mehar to jitna chahein krwa skti.now new nikkah mein..... n ap ka old mehar agar ap ko diya ni to phir who to ap ka Haq banta hy......... agar dy diya hy thn its ok.........

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