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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Nov 2014, 6:29am |
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 H.Saad Q/A
1)hikmat sy kaam lenay ka kya matlab hy? A) hikmaat baserat sy murad ap ye samjh lain k hum ko moka mehal ki munasibat sy baat krna a jae.... yani hum itnay ba shaur ho jaein.... jhoot b na ho... n baat b pohnch jae... n ksi ko bura b na lagy..... e.g., ksi ny dream dekha k jis ki tabeer ye nikalti ho... k us bandy ki moat wakiye honay wali..... ab agr jis ny dream dekha who koi bra adami n jo tabeer batany wala who koi chota adami.... to agar us ko drct who keh dy k g ap ki aesy aesy moat wakiya ho gi ap ki fmly tnsn mein ho gi who larein gy ap k baad ths tht.... to sme time to ksi ko bht bura b lgta n may un ki halat kiya ho gi ye may b ap samjh jaein.... k agar sab ko apni moat ka waqat phly hi pta lag jata k falan waqt mrna to???? now eik mthod ye k us ko taber ye batai jae k g Ap sy duniya k hisab kitab kam ho ga... ap ko akhr umer ki mosibat ni jhelni parein gi..... etc etc ....( its just example).... kehna maksood k saanp b mar gya lathi b na tooti n INSHA ALLAH us ko bura b ni lagy ga.... karwi baat b agar bhtr andaz mein ki jae to who nagawar ni guzrti.... n asal mein humary pass Fazail ka ilam b nahi hy..... hamary paon khud dagmaga jaty hain.... hum fazail ka istehzaar krty nahi..... 2)hubby ko jb b zindagi may mauka mila btadungi mene ye maamla islamically solve .............islam may Allah ny asanya b d hy prb solve krny k lye A)g bta dena Hikmat basert sy..... Hadood ULLAH b hain..... ap par b ye eik haaal hy azmaish hy ..... ab sawal ye n dekha ye kiya ap k paon dagmagaty hain ya nahi...... Hum bus Muslims hain.... ye jitney b firqay hain sab ye kehty..... hain yad rkhiyo..... goh k koi Shirak ... kufar b kry tab b who khud ko Muslim kehty.... ab aesa b nahi k kuch masail liye Ehle sunat mein hanafi k kuch maliki k kuch Shafai sy... kuch Ahle Hadess sy... kuch ksi aur sy.... to ap batein n upper eik post mein ap sy sawal pucha tha k school subject ki dgree ka keh k... us ka ap ny jawab b ni diya.... to kiya ap ko koi b eik Muslim kahy ga??/ ya ap alrounder ya apni Maan chahi ka Deen who Akbar badshah wala kam to ni kr ry..... think plz with cool mind.... 3)hubby sy meher may set nahi krungi qk documents sb porany hi rahengy A) mhtrma g jab kbi b agar koi Nikkah ya tajdedeh nikkah b kary ga to mehar kuch na kuch rkhna ho ga..... bhaly 1000Rs hi q na ho.... who ap k bahimi mashwary sy krna..... hum kon sa keh ry .... k g ap 2lac likhwana n gold n silver..... 4)n jb apny confirm btadya sb to may q kisi mufti k chakkar pe parun....? A)who ap ki apni mrzi.... actuly ap agr idhr ya jahan b net py ya real mein ksi sy rae lain gi to jiny mu utni batein hon gi..... n khud ap uljh jaein gi .... ap ko kaha b tha..... bcz Dalail books k n maslak k hum idhr dy ni skty..... k who ap k koi faida ni dain gy..... yad rakhiyo k masail mein ilfaz k utaar charhao ki wjha sy ans chnge ho jata hy .... isi liye masail bataty wkt ya fitawa k wakat qustn mntn krty hain..... 5) Iddat A) aesy to islam mein pardy ka hukam hy./.. Na mehram sy duur rehny ka......Iddat eik Talaq ya khula k baad wali hy n eik agar husbnd foat ho jae who hy.... both mein dfrnce hy Talaq / halala wali mein just nikah othr ap ni kr skti..... baki ana jana etc kr skti..... othr idaat who jb ksi ka husbnd foat ho jae to krni hoti us mein ap ny us hme py who idaat puri krni..... ye us idaat sy thora strick hy..... 6)mjhe full n final jawab dedien phr apko distrb nahi krungi A) No problem ..... my pleasure..... is mein tang krny ki kiya baat.... eik Insan n phir Muslim ko assist kr ry... ALLAH ki raza n khushnudi k liye..... 7, 8 ) halala protection use kr k..... n tarekhi.(darkness).. mein A) agr to ap n woh ye smjhty k g anzaal bahir kr skty to bhtr hy k prctctn na hi use krn.... bcz sme time prctn k bawajud b hamal tehar jata hy.....who ksy tehrta sme tme anjany mein un sy ghlti ho jati hy... khair ALLAH jo chhata hy who ho k rehta hy.... so plz tke care..... mein ap ko ksi behas..... mein ni dalna chahun ga.... agar talemat e islam dekhain... n Serat un Nabi. S.A.W to Umhat ul Momeneen R.A k mutabik Ap S.A.W ny kbhi un ki shram gah ko ni dekha tha..... n adab mein to yehi hy... k ist night just zarorat ka hisa hi opn kiya jae to bhtr..... Taqwa ... k bht sy darjaat hain..... now koi kahy ga motariz k aesy to Ap S.A.W ny falan b ni kiya who q krty... to phir ye eik behas bun jani La hasil.... ap ki neat agar sunat py amal ki hy to INSHA ALLAH is py ajar mily ga... bcz Ap S.A.W ki zindagi sy hum ko yehi leson milta Islam eik Jame deen hy.... Neat halala ki ni krni na hi koi shrat rkhni nikah k time py phly hi us ka mind bna dain.... who bhtr hy.... bt us waqat koi sharait nahi..... 9) Talaq Mubashirat k baad A) is ka ans ap ko phly b diya tha k jb sohbat kr li.... n bhtr k anzal ho gya bhalay bahir hi huwa tab husbnd usi wakat talaq dy skta hy...... mhtrma ye eik social ntwrk hy ya profile data logical to ho skta hy but real ni... baki Ilam mein qaid nahi hoti... ap jis cheez ki b tehkkeq krn jo b Ilam ya fun hasil krna chahein ya suntay sunatay puchtay .... pta lag hi jata hy...... last post mein jis qustn ki samjh ai who to mein bta diya... baki ki samjh ni lagi.... ALLAH ap ka n sab ka hamiyo nasir ho... n afiat wala reham karam wala moamla kry....n hum sab ko us waqat sy bacha k rakhy k hum gumrahi py hoty huway b khud ko hidayat yafta samjhein hve a nice life....... N mazrat chahty ap ko btatya tha k hum safar py ge thy n kal again ja ry nxt week INSHA ALLAH wapis aein gy.....
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2014, 2:08pm |
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 evocative bhai...
Salam evocative bhai apki baat sahi hy...Acha bs wo jo confusion wo confirm btadye ga k
1)hubby ko qanuuni rakhtyway ye sb may prb solve krsakhtihun...
2)ye hubby k saath dhoka to nahi hoga jb k may to unko n khd ko bachany k lye krahihun...halala ka means ex hubby ka pashtana hota k bv kisi or sy shadi ho k i hy...but may to unki knowledge pe yesb lana hi na chahti filhaal...qk ye tap k qanuuni tor pe b talaq na dedein...jb k v luv each other so muchh...mard apni galti kaha dekhtahy mjhe hi bora bhala bolengy...
3)n jo 2nd hubby hoga jin sy mene discuss kya tha,wo bol ry k qanuuni tor pe b hunby divorce deta hy jb hi is proceedure sy guzarna hotahy...n aysa hoga to ye nikkah b registeref krwana hoga n wo boly ye dhoka hoga meri mangetar k saath...verbally hota to zaroor madad krta...
4)halala k baad apny bola k tajdeed e nikkah bol k hubby sy nikkah karsakhti hain ap...to is maamly pee hubby sy jhut ka sahara lena jaiz hy k tajdeed e nikkah bol ka...jb k maqsad naik hy k rishta bacha hi rahi hun...
5)iddat kesy guzari jay mene suna hy k yalaq ki iddat zaroori nahi ghar peb
Hy bethyGuzari jay...may mahiny pe ek dafa bas ammi k ha jati hun...n sasural pe sb ladies hy...qk hubby sasur bahar hotyhy...dts ymera samna gairmardou sy kam hotahy ...jesy bakra eid pe hoa bs ya koi kabhi mehman agaya to bs...may kisiko bol b na sakhti k iddat guzarna parrahihya...apny hubby ko b nahi...
plz bd ye last sawalat hy phr inshaAllah jb prb sahi hojaygi ap sy is web pe ZAROOR RABTA KARUNGI... ap ki bht shukar guzar rahungi...
ap ko sb detail btaye v hy koi b positive n negative point ho mjhe zaroor btadye ga shukriya...
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2014, 2:15pm |
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 halala mard k liye saza
Or evocative bhai jb halala mard ki saza k liye hotahy k wo pachtay apni harkat pe...to mene socha unki yehi saza hy k unko btaon nahi but zindagi pe jb b sahi mauqa aya btadungi...
warna abhi convence karnay pe mjhe saal na lagjay kya pata maan jay jb apni bachi ko dekhy us k lye... but phir jb b unsy ph pe baat krti unki itni chahat dekh k sochtk yar inko bta k krun ye qadam kiya pata ye mjhe achay sy guide krdy... Ya phr kbhi sochti k sb kch hounh k baad in sy nikkah sy pehly batadun...k ap k khd k bachi k liye krna para borawaqt samajh k bhuljay...wesy b ye bora waqt mene bhugta hy...ap ko to ilm b na houny dya... but Un ka mizaaj aysa k moody hy achy mood may bichchy chaly jaty hy har baat samajhty maantyhy but...jb mood bora ho wohi baat krun to jo achy mood may maan b jay wo baat bory mood pe itni bori lagti k zid may a k izzat do tiky ki kardety hy... he also luv me so much... itni mhbbt ktnybwaly aysi mistakes b krjaty hy... but mera shahour mera sasural mery saath hy... i love him bht... mjhe ap sb batou k jawab dediye ga n hosakhy...kisi mufti sy confirm b karliye ga qk mery pass or koi zariya nahi k kisi ko samjha sakhun kya pata koi kch or samajh k kch or fatwa dedy n koi ye boldy k qanuuni tor pe b talaq dy shahour...pata laga baat banjo sakhti hy verbally wo qanuun k chakkarou pe a k bigarti gayee n may mery hubby juda hogay...har lehaaz sy...khandan may bhinak b pari ap ko patahy jitny mau utni baty sb ko baty bnana atihy but pashtaty hy wo hi mya bv...but may is pashtaway pe parhy bin sab sahi krna chahtihun pardy pe reh reh k ye meri aqalmandi hy...
mery liye ap ek achy neik bandy guidance k lye milay hy warna kiya pata bhatak jaati...bhai may apki bht shukar guzar hun bht bht...apni zindagi bangayee na to hamesha duay dungi qk apki hi guidance sy mjhe Allah itni bri azmaishsynikaal dengy...mery bs ye sawalat confirm kr k btadiye bhaly ap ek mahiny ka waqt le lein...feb sy pehly pehly mjhe sb clear kardy...apki bht shukaar guzaar hungi may...
n apko itni information kesy hy?
ap 18 yrsk hy but info k hisaab sy jitni apko hy ap achy mature lagryhy mery bray bhai ek tarha sy...
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2014, 9:54pm |
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H. Saad
ws. Acha bs wo jo confusion wo confirm btadye ga ... IN SHAA ALLAH.... mhtrma ap ko hum in sab k ans pehly b dy chukay agar ap old cmnts parhein.... n isi k ans mein hum ny hikmat baserat sy kam leny ko kaha tha.... espcly ... ex ko btaun ya ni... hubby k saath dhoka to nahi hoga etc etc k reply mein any how again I remind u.... 1)hubby ko qanuuni rakhtyway ye sb may prb solve krsakhtihun... A) G.... u can..... n is ka detail ans hum dy chukay thy..... 2 n 4)ye hubby k saath dhoka to nahi hoga jb k may to unko n khd ko bachany k lye krahihun....... is maamly pee hubby sy jhut ka sahara lena jaiz .... A) isi k reply mein to hum khty k hikmat sy kaam laina mean sme time andaz agar baat ka bhtr ho to skhat sy sakht bat b buri ni lgti.... n ap k ilfaz k utar charhao ki base py jhoot b ni bun skta..... e.g., ap koi aesa hint dy dain un ko k jo ap k liye hujat bun jae k ap ny drctly nahi to indrctly un ko bta diya tha..... is liye to khty k ALLAH sy afiat ki n istikamat ki dua krein.....
3)2nd hubby hoga jin sy mene......... meri mangetar k saath...verbally hota to zaroor madad krta... A) mhtrma old cmnts mein yehi mein ny ap ko kaha tha sme how but ap samjh ni saki thein any how ap ko kaha b tha k ye all bht deeply soach k solve krna .... bcz 2nd husbnd k liye b prblm na bun jae..... un ki marige life b sme cases mein dstrb ho skti... n who case ye hy k agar us ny apni wife ko by khabr rakha to..... bcz sme time mis hap b ho jata hy.... jo k un intently hota hy.... nt in planed.... 5)iddat kesy guzari jay mene suna hy k yalaq ki iddat zaroori nahi ghar peb A) btaya b tha k talaq ki idat n jab husbnd foat ho jae us mein faraq hy..... aesy to islam mein pardy ka hukam hy./.. Na mehram sy duur rehny ka......Iddat eik Talaq ya khula k baad wali hy n eik agar husbnd foat ho jae who hy.... both mein dfrnce hy Talaq / halala wali mein just nikah othr ap ni kr skti..... baki ana jana etc kr skti.....
othr idaat who jb ksi ka husbnd foat ho jae to krni hoti us mein ap ny us hme py who idaat puri krni..... ye us idaat sy thora strick hy.....
>>itni information kesy hy? mhtrma ye eik social ntwrk hy ya profile data logical b to ho skta hy but real ni... baki Ilam mein qaid nahi hoti... ap jis cheez ki b tehkkeq krn jo b Ilam ya fun hasil krna chahein ya suntay sunatay puchtay .... pta lag hi jata hy......
I hope now u got it what I wanna say....
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2014, 5:07am |
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ap mjhe in ka tafseeli jawab dy last tyme
Arey ap samjhy nahi mene old sawal nahi kye...1)mjhe ye janna hy k jinsy halala ka kaha wo bolrythy k halala aysy na hoga hubby divorce paper dega qanuuni phr nikkah verbally plus paper hoga phr divorce hogi...mjhe tk ye sahi na laga k verbally prb hy to zbrdasti qanuuni b bna do hubby ki to hatjaygi... to unhouny kaha k aysa krna hoga to mangetar ko dhoka hoga...sb verbally hota to may tmhara ghar bna deta....wid ur hubby... 2)or ex hubby ko may batou batou pe bolti hun bht k ap ny apni bewakufi pe mjhe halala jesi prb pe phasadya....ya kbhi mazak hota to bolty jao krlo halala...means in ki knowledge pe hy... lyk kal bolrythy k kya halala krogi mene kaha han...un k lye mazak tha but for me nahi...is baat ka... 3)hubby sy jb b ph pe baat krti un ki mhbbt fikr dekh k dil krta sb btadun mjhe unsy bht pyar hy but phir sochti k ek kadam b galat lya sb brbad hojayga...kbhi sochti k nikkah sy pehly unhy bta k nikkah krungi means jb prb sy niklungi...kbhi sochti jb sb kch set hojayga InshaALLAH to jb umrah pe jaingy to in front of khan e kaba'a un ko Allah ko hazir nazir rakh k sach btadungi n mery hubby janty k may jhut nahi bolti...is tarha un k dil may for me nafrat ya shaq na hoga is matter ko le k... 4)hubby ko tajdeed e nikkah bol k nikkah krlungi ye ap ny bola k krsakhty hy...?but if wo bolengy k tm if ahle hadith k hisaab sy bolri to unki nazar pe to ruju may kr chuka hun... ab un sy may jhut bol sakhti k nahi hanfi ki nazar pe divorce hoi but terms condition pe depend krta hy...hamari divorce ka jo b masla tha tajdeed e nikkah sy sahi hogaya n may neutral btari hun musalman k hawaly sy kisi firqay k hawaly sy nahi...nikkah k waqt is type ki koi topi sochlungi...qk hubby ko batou pe may easily leletihun...mjhe pata hy jhut sy gunnah milega but...jhut ye us gunah ko sudhar ny k lye karny houngy...majbuuran...
5)may ap sy ye pochrahi thi k ap ko itni knowledge kesy means ap har topic pe eadily baat krty hy...sb maloomaat hy...ap ki age 18yrs hy n ap ki batou pe inshaAllah amal krungi to itna pochny ka haq to hy...n mjhe ap ny mufti sy confirm kr k hi btaya hy to obviously galat na hoga...
6)couples jo by mustaken alag hojaty hy to aurat is tarha solve kr k wapis hubby k pass chali jaya kry na k ghar beth k hubby ko b khaudy logo ki baty b suny jb k wajah kya hoti...ek choti c galti jiska nuqsan bra hota hy... ye sawal jawab mery hy ap tafseel sy bs ye jawab dedein inshaAllah ab mjhe phr apko distrb katny ki zaroorat nahi parhygi...plz n ap ye b btafyega mera abdaz brany ka unhy sahi nahi to ao btay kus tarha bolun k saanp b marjay laathi b na tuuthy...ok Allah hafiz i am waiting for ur reply...
ye b btadiye Or bs ye b btay k jb nikkah k lye qazi,alim ya mufti jo b
hoga ussy ham with out nikah nama nikkah krwaingy verbally to wo
sawalaat nahi krega k bhae aysa q ... n ahlehadith ya hanfi ho nikkah parwany wala ye to koi masly ki baat nahi na...
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2014, 9:25pm |
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H.saad: Q/A
1)mjhe ye janna hy..........sb verbally hota to may tmhara ghar bna deta....wid ur hubby... A) ye who kehty bt its not realty....... Paper work not must.for Nikah / Talaq ..... yad rakhna Islam mein Nikaah just ejab o kabool hy.... n Talaq b both verbaly hy..... Nikah k liye gawah , khutba, ejab o kabool.etc...... n talaq mein b just Talaq dena zubani.... mean ye paper work just mashray.. ya legal purpose k liye.... jis ki bht c wajhooo hain...... ap ka mksad just verbaly b pura ho skta agr who chahy to....... haan prblm/ ya sincernes us ki apni finace/ wife k sath ..... ye sawal hy..... isi liye kaha tha k sab ko sath ly k chlna.....bhtr us k liye b ....
2)or ex hubby ko may batou batou pe bolti hun .........means in ki knowledge pe hy... A) Well done ...... some how u can say ye hy hikmat o baserat..... k ap moka mehal ki munasibat sy baat kr ri..... bus ALLAH ki hadood kakhiyal rkhna....
3)hubby sy jb b ph pe baat krti..........hubby janty k may jhut nahi bolti...is tarha un k dil may for me nafrat ya shaq na hoga is matter ko le k... A) jhoot bolna b maat ap...... bcz jhoot sy trust ni rehta..... na who maaan rehta ksi ka phir....
4)hubby ko tajdeed e nikkah .............jhut ye us gunah ko sudhar ny k lye karny houngy...majbuuran... A)u knw some time ALLAH hamaray eman ko parkhtay hain..... ALLAH hi hamray sab masail solve krny ki qudrat rakhty..... cmptr games mein sme games aesi hoti k us mein progrmed kiya hota k agar user us jaga par jae ga to next stage/ round ya koi new chez useful open ho gi.... now us jga ko search krna prta aram sy ..... same ALLAH ny ap ko itni samjh to dy di ALHAMDOLILAH k ap ny apny eman ki hifazat ki.... n sabit kadam rahein.... wrna ye halat to some ko Kufar tak pohncha dety..... mean eman sy kharij ho jaty loog... aesy b hain jo piyar mein ya piyar panay k liye kafir bun gae.... n sme piyar k liye Muslim b bunay... n ap n ALHAMDOLILAH us ALLAH ki k fazal o karam sy apny eman / belief py sabit kadam rahein...... so ALLAH sy dua krein k who afiat wala moamla kry... n moka ki munasibat sy koi bht baat ap k mind mein ly ae..... who ALLAH is py qudrat rkhta hy........ IN SHAA ALLAH ap kr lain gi.....
5)may ap sy ye pochrahi thi k ap ko itni knowledge kesy ....ap ki age 18yrs hy ...... ap ki batou pe inshaAllah amal krungi to itna pochny ka haq to hy...... mjhe ap ny mufti sy confirm kr k hi btaya hy to obviously galat na hoga... A) mein eik Talib Ilam mean stdnt hoon.... Moat tak kcuh na kcuh IN SHAA ALLAH sekhta rahun ga.... IN SHAA ALLAH nafa denay walay Aloom n fanooon... meri agr kiya hy ap Haq hy.... but ye eik social ntwrk hy...... yahan py profile mein ap ko kaha k anonymously / logicaly sab likhna prta hy data..... ap ko bta skty to hum bta b dety bt here I can't nether forum policy allow..... n agr allow krti b to hum aesa social ntwrk py krty ni..... n ap ko agar jo jo ans hum ny diye us mein koi shak o shubhat hoon to ap bhaly confirm kr lijiye ga..... bhalay ap ki mthr ko b hoon to.....
>>Or bs ye b btay k jb nikkah k lye qazi,alim ya mufti jo b hoga ussy ham with out nikah nama nikkah krwaingy verbally to wo sawalaat nahi krega k bhae aysa q ... A) ap un ko pehly just itna keh dena k g hum ny just verbaly parhana hy nikah gawah etc ki mojudagi mein..bt mehar ka zikar who kry ga verbal mein b ..... bcz ye must hy.... bhaly 1000 Rs hi rakh lain......... aksar to ye paper work puchty b nahi..... hain .... bcz sme time to ye paper work bht late b hota hy ya bht pehly..... n sign etc baad mein liye jaty.......
>>eik request hy life mein ALLAH ko sath ly lena.... bhaly koi b na ho... ap k sath...n ALLAH sy har dam afiat asani wala moamla must must mangna...plz ALLAH ap ka hamiyo nasir ho........Ameen |
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Nov 2014, 8:36am |
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salam evocativd bhai Salam evocative bhai...mjhe apki thori hard urdu sar sy guzarjatihy... 1)verbally to prb mera solve hojayga...but i was asking k 2nd hubby k life pe issy kya prb asakhtihy...zaroori thori k wo apni mangetar ko btay...k unhouny ye kya for help...zaroori thori sb ko btaya jay... 2)1st hubby k lye saza hotihy ye halala ki k us ny aysy alfaaz q boly jissy uski bv kisi or mard sy ho k ay phr ye apny usy...if chahy ye sb k baad...but may to unko btay bin karrahihun n hints dechukink apny jo harkt ki halala jesi prb pe phasadya...to unko to saza nahi milri unsy chupa k bs ye hy meri soch k un k lye saza hy k un ki bv ny kya unko btay bin n issy meri lyf banjaygi...n wo wesy hi rahengy jesy thy... 3)mery hubby pak aythy for two days n bolty hyn k halala islam pe nahi hy ye wo...mene kaha ha nahihy incidently 2nd hubby chordy to 1st hubby sy wapis nikkah krsakhtyhy... 4)plz asan alfaaz pe baat kryega pure urdu nahi boliye ga..n examples b sar sy guzarjati hy... |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Nov 2014, 9:37pm |
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h.saad
ws... ap ko jo samjh na ae ap bta diya krn... no prblm 1)2nd huby...zaroori thori sb ko btaya jay... A) har insan chahta k us ko koi sincere banda mily chahy who dost ho, wife ho, emplye ho jo b ho.... so ap thora cool mind sy soachein k aya agar koi sharat sy b ksi ko bhinak par gai ho k falan ABC ny other city ya cntry ja k sme dys ki shaid ki thi..... falan fmle sy ...... n who is ko koi aur rang dy dain.... ya shadi ka word hi na use krn...who kahein ye falan jaga eik married fmle k sath raat raha hy..... than thora cool mind sy soachein agr ye sab us ki wife ko pta lagy to kiya for a while ya time being hi sahi un ki life mein tufaan sa nahi ae ga..... kiya who ye nahi kahy gi agar ap naik kam krna tha mean Islam k mutabik mujhy q ni btaya ... ths that..... so plz life mein sme kam aesy k us mein +ve n -ve har taraf duur ki soach krni parti....... wrna bht rola hota....... jesy ap b hum sab sincernes chahty... to woh girl k liye b us ki ist shadi hy...... 2)...... issy meri lyf banjaygi...n wo wesy hi rahengy jesy thy... A) mein ap ko ksi green world mein rakhna ni chahta.... bcz ye eik aesa sawal jis ka sara daro madaar bht c thngs par hy...... n is ka ans ap ko hum pehly b diya tha.... k koi ni janta na koi keh skta hy k aya agar ap e.g., apna Maslak chnge krti mean ehle ahadees bun k un k fitawa ko follow krti to kiya ap ki life mein sakoon ho ga ya agar ap Hanafi ko follow krti tab kiya ho ga ya nahi..... ye Ghaib ka Ilam n u knw ghaib ka Ilam just ALLAH k pass... haan g itna b ap ko kaha tha k agar ap ko maslak chnge krny k baad koi aur prblm ae ....ALLAH na kry kbi aesa ho.... to ap ko duble dukh ho ga eik us prblm ka othr n may b main apna Belief sy phir Janay ka b..... n may b is surat mein agar hanafi py reh k koi haal ae may b ap ko yeh khiyal ae k kassh k mein ehle hades bun jati.... ya may b ap ko yeh khiyal ae k ALHAMDOLILAH isi mein bhtri thi.... eman to salamat raha na..... bcz ALLAH k har kam hikmat sy khali nahi..... goh k insan ki aqal sy bhair ..... n woh hikmatein hum py wazeh nahi hoti asani...... sme ko waqat k sath samjh a jati..... k kiya hikmat thi.... sme ko ni ati...... Ap ny woh Hazrat Khizar A.S n Musa A.S ka wakiya parha woh three kaam jo hazrat Khizar A.S n ALLAH k amar sy kiye thn un ka ans diya k un mein ALLAH ki kiya hikmatein thein.... so ALLAH ka har kaam mein hikmat hoti...... n yad rkhna ALLAH ny insan ko ikhtiyar diya k woh acha ya bura path chose kry...... jesy upper ki post mein ap ko game ki missal di.... now koi wrng path chose kry n kahy k ALLLAH ny meri kismet mein ye likha tha ye wrong hy.... bcz wrng path us ny khud chose kiya jahanam wala..... ALLAH ni chahta koi zinah kry , jhoot bolay qatal kry,, haram kame.... ALLAH ny to Hazrat yousaf A.S ko zina sy bachaya Yousaf A.S ny kadam uthaya ist band door ki taraf tab ALLAH ny band door open kiye..... aaj kal k mahool mein b bht sy log hain jo zina, haram khori etc etc sy khud ko bacha ry...... So ap ko pehly b kaha tha k ALLAH sy kuch aesa mangein kuch aesi dua k woh qabool ho..... n sab afiat sy solve ho jae...... pta nahi ap py ye azmaish q ai... aya is mein ALLAH ki kiya hikmat thi..... Who ALLAH har tangi sy rasta nikalta hy yaad rkhna ... n ALLAH sy afiat zaroor zaroor mangna k ae ALLLAH mein kamzoor eman wali hoon mera eman na nabiyoon A.S jesa na sahaba R.A jesa na waliyon R.A jesa mein sat hasani wla moamla kr mujhy aur azmaish mein na daal ya ALLAH ..... bht asani reham karam madad o nusrat wala moamla frma ...... ye har dua mein mangein..... ALLAH sy madad mangein insan sy nahi.... jab ALLAH ny chah liya to sab ho jae ga wesa jasani sy... 3)mery hubby pak.................y 2nd hubby chordy to 1st hubby sy wapis nikkah krsakhtyhy... A)g n nikaah k waqat koi sharat ni laganai..... isi liye kaha k ist mind bane ... bcz sme to talaq dety b nahi...... ..... pihir..... I hope Now Urdu samjh a gai ho gi...... n hum kon c lakhnow ki Urdu bol ry.... thy apny prnts ko atimad mein ly k sab krna... n ye apni mthr ko prha b dain..... un ko koi etiraz ho ya sawal ..... to....? tke gd care......
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2014, 3:28am |
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hmmm
Evocative bhai mjhe examples n ghuma phira k baat bahibbtay bs simple c baat k 2nd hubby verbally solve krahyhy prb phr wo mjhe may unsy zikr kya samny b na aongi...ye hosajhtahy baat raaz pe rahy n 1st hubby ko may nahi btana chahri k halala ka he loves me so much kya ye jn k lye saza nahi k un ko mene braya naji na btaon agr agy jesy b samhalna hy mjhe mag dekhlungi bt ap ye btadiye bs...meherbani without example
evocative bhai 2nd hubby k saath mjhe konsa rehna hy bs ek formality
pori krni phr wo apni lyf jiye may apni...1st hubby may n babh bahar
chale jaingy sawa mahina kr k phr jo b maamla hy solve hota rahega lyk
iddat 2nd hubby ki cover hojaygi n 1st sy nikkah b hojayga.,,obviously
ye prb jhat pat to set nahi hoga... n mjhe pata hy k may kch ruk k
apny shahour ko agree b krlungi...but dar hota k lyf pe kbhi b tana na
maardy...mene indirectly unhy bola wa to hy.... ab kya ek
aurat ka itna haq nahi k apni lyf bachany k lye shahour ko na btay
unhain bin btay step uthaly...log to kch mene dekhy shahour sy chup k
gair mard sy physical relations b rakhti hy koi chichori hoti hy k mard
hy ghar pe bt nazry orou k mard may... may to apni spny shahour apny bachy k liye step utharihun jo hardly 15 to 20 min ka hoga n phr bhuljaongi ye maamla... kch to Allah ny narmi rakhi hogi insan k liye...may bht khushguwaar lyf guzaar rahihun apny sasuraal apny shahour k saath... Plz
mjhe in k simple sy jawab chahye...n ye b btadiye k hubby ko hikmat dy
kesy phr btaongi...k saanp b marjay laathi b na tuuthy i kno ye matter
foran solve to houny wala nahi hy...waqt k saath saath hoga apny tyme
pe...mery hubby bht achy insan hy but...may filhaal unhy
btanahisakhti...
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Nov 2014, 8:30pm |
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H.Saad
ALLAH maafi dy hum sab ko ...hum sab chahty k hmry sat hsab mukhlis hoon...husbnd,wife, children etc etc ... but agr ksi dosry ki bat ho to hum ye bhool q jaty akhir who b ksi ki wife, husbnd.... Ap flash back mein ja k ye soachein... 2nd huusbnd ki jga e.g., ap k husbnd hoty mean same cnditn e.g., 2013 ho n ap k ex husbnd ko koi g.frnd kehti to un ko kiya krna chahiye tha... (dnt forget k 2013 mein ap both lover thay har wkt eik dosry k sath in contact.... n 2014 mein shadi hony wali thi.... ) tab ap k ex husbnd ko us g.frnd ki baat maan leni chahiye thi hyna??? may b ab to ap yes b bol dain bt tab ap ka reactn kuch aur hi hota.... bcz sme words kehna asan hoty but jab guzrti tab smjh ati.... so tab pta lgta k Raaz ko raaz rakhna easy hota... but jab yeh raaz afshaan ho jae tab kiya tufan ata....
1st hubby ko may nahi btana chahri k halala ka ...... ye ap ki marzi..... but life mein har kadam hum keh chuky bht duuur ki soach k plan krna n uthana.... is mein back ka button aksar to hota nahi n jab hota b hy to dekh lain ex husbnd k pass back jany k liye kitnay paper belny paar ry..... to same aur kamo mein b sme time hota... >>aurat ka itna haq nahi k apni lyf bachany k lye shahour ko na btay unhain bin btay step uthaly to ap ko kon keh ra k bin batein an karein... but hum to yeh keh ry.... k apny prnts famly ko atimad mein ly k yeh sab krna..... n life mein un ko jald phir bta dena is sab ka..... kidhr koi ap ko black mail na kry..... who alag ap ko tnsn milni..... Ap k sab scenario mein just n just lack of Islamic knwldge hy... apny belief py b sabit kadam nahi hain..... ALLAH maafI dy halat n azmaish sme time paon dagmaga dety... mean ap ki famly n ap k husbnd ki famly both.... ko agar ilam hota to yeh ist to Talaq na parti........ n agar talaq par b gai to now ist of all ap sab mein Islamic knwldge ki education ujagar krn...... jab fazail ka ilam a gya to yeh masail ka sol... b easy ho jae ga.... ap k pass ab b three+ months hain..... ALLAH sy duaa goh rahein .... agar ALLAH ny chah to sab bhtr n easily ho jae ga.... na ap ko jhoot bolna pary ga na kuch aesa k prblm bany.... ex husbnd b razi n sab past jesa ho jana.... Who Hazrat Younas A.S ki tasbeeh jo un ny fish k pait mein parhi thi who parha krn... aksar okaat.... ap k lab py tasbeh ho wohi.... n dua..... dua taqdeer badal deti.... Ap apni chaht ko ALLAH ki chaht py qurbaan kr dain dekh lena wohi ho ga INSHALLAH jo ap ki chaht hy.... baki logo ki misalein na dain....sme aesy logo ka haal b dekha ni ap ny k un ki ruwai kesy hoti chahy who gov. servant., ya Minister, ya jo b....aesy hi logo py azab I think ap ny history mein ni dekha k un ko tobah ki b tofeeq ni mili, ... ALLAH hum sab ko maafi dyn samjh na hi logo ki buraiyan bayan krein ALLAH na kry k ye buraiyan hum mein ya ksi aur mein b na a jaein na chahty huway b..... I m sorry hum ap ko aur b detail sy btaty but ye eik social ntwrk n phir kidhr har kam k liye loog is baat ko hujat bna k jhoot ka sahara lena strt kr dety.... k g jhoot bolna falan forum py prha tha jaiz hy sme time..... Allah ny bht narmi rakhi hy insan k liye....ye sab insan k hi faiday k liye.... sab Insan achy hi hain agar who ALLAH k hukamo ko nabi S.A.W k tarekay k mutabik krny waly hoon ........ |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Nov 2014, 8:44pm |
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hmmm Evocative bhai may koi dagmagayee nah...ap yeh b dekhain k may hal hi dhundrihun n bewakuf hoti na issue bna k meky bethjati n ham dono hubby wife utni chahat k baad b tanha hojaty...bht dil krtahy unko bta k krun un k aetmaad pe le k...k un ki wife majboor hy koi jan k ye nahi krahi...jb wo samny hoty dil krta btadun...jb unki mhbbt dekhtihun...but socha aulad hojay tb sahi lagega to sawa mahina kr k unsy discuss krungi...if laga nahi sahi nahi btana to nahi krungi...may unsy kbhi jhut na bolti n har baat btatihun...n 2nd hubby jin ko choice kyatha unki arrange marriage hy...bt wo ho k koi b madad k lye btana zaroiri nahi ghar pe chup k to log bht kaam krdetyhy ye to ek help hy k ghar bas jay wapis...dua hy nyat hy jbhi Allah saath hy...saudia jany sy pehly sb solve krna hy kya pata iddat pe houn n hubby le jay n bin nikkah k umrah kry wo to ls ilm houngy bt mjhe to pata hoga k nikkah oe nahi hun in k ummrah b na mana jay...har cheez soch k krungi...jesy chalti arahihun... |
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| Posted on:25th Nov 2014, 9:22pm |
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H.saad
ALLAH ap ka hamiyo nasir ho...Ameen raat k is ya last pehar agar anakh ap ki khuly to tahajud hi parh k dua krein k ALLAH ki madad o nusrat n afiat k liye....... Must.... ALLAH ki zaat sy mayusi Kufar hy........ hve a nice life........
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Nov 2014, 6:03am |
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salam Salam bhai! Kal may msg krahithi k cell phone off hogaya...may ap k bharosy ye step uthaongi jo discussion hoi but mjhe bs itna btadiye k mujhe kisi molvi ya mufti k pass ja k duscussion ki zaroorat to nahi na qk jitna deeply ap sy baat ki un sy krna sakhti n kiya pata samajh sakhy b k nahi...phir bhatak k irada hi na krun k solve krun jesa chalraha chalny dun... Bhai mjhe apny hubby sy itni chahat k pak aty hy n zara kaam sy chaly jay half hour bol k jay k aonga 15min late hojay may rouny lagtihun...wo b for me bhagy bhagy pak atyhy... ye jo b prb hoa issy bs ek faida hoa unhy meri ehmyat or b hogayee n mjhe un ki un ka gussa khatam hogaya...warna wo gussa krty thy bewajah...wo mature to hy bt la ubaali hy...bachpana bharawahy... unki age 24 hy meri 25hy ek saal ka farq hy... Jbhi ghar waly bolty k iska bachpana gaya nahi n talaq ki baat b sab ny inka bachpana dekh k ignore ki... may chahti k unhy btaon k ye prb aysy solve hogi ye krna hoga bt darti hun k... ye samajh na sakhyto...abhi to chupa k prb solve kr k jhuta bahana kr k tajdeed e nikkah krlungi...bt in ko jb kaan pe dalun k halalla kr k ap krliye ga kya pata ye kry k nahi...tap k...qk mard apni galtya kaha dekhtahy.... or kbhi sochti k halala k lye kisi zaroorat mand bndy ko lun jinko maali madad chahye...kya pata wo apni bv sy poch k kry...bt may chahti koi aysa ho jisko meray ghar tk na pataho qk ap sahi kehtyhy logo ka bharosa nahi...black mail krdy kal ko...ghar pataho to... Bt jinsy mene bola wo b parhi likhi family sy hy...unki arrange marriage hy...unko prb nahi k oi k btay k nahi n shadi sy pehly to kitny logo ny sex kye hoty n shafi k baad kon btatahy kisi ko... may to jaiz kaam ka kehrithi... unko bs ye issue tha k ye sb qanuuni tor pe hal nai krunga krna hy to islamically...n wo bs khd sy halala ki sharait pori kr k chaly jaingy... n may ny suna hy k 1st hubby ko btana zaroori hotahy qk unko ye ilm rahy k nikkah sy bv nikal chuki hy...qk halala k lye nikkah hoga to 1st hubby to yehi samajhta rahy ga bv nikkah may hy... n tajdeed e nikkah bol k nikkah krungi jb 1st hubby sy to unsy bahany krlungi k mufti ny bola hy ...us k lye koi new topi sochungi.... hubby meri batou pe ajaty hy... but kiya pata aulaad hoty hi wo mera saath khd dedein...kiya pata... |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Nov 2014, 8:45pm |
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H.Saad
Ws no prblm....... >>may ap k bharosy ye step uthaongi A) Wrong......Sorry... mein kiya khud eik Makhloooq hoon.... ap ko kaha b tha k ALLAH py bharosa krn..... ALLAH ko sath lain.... Who Sameee mean sunany wala hy..... Us py bharosa krn..... Makhloooq to khud eik kuch ni kr skti.... Us wara ul Wara Zaat ko sath lain jis ko Zawal ni jo Aleem hy Jo Khaliq hy, Jo Malik hy.... sab ALLAH k qabzae Qudrat mein hy..... Who chahy to sab asani sy haal ho jae.... ap k husbnd b razi... n sab bhtr ho jae.... na ap ko gunah na un.... bus Dua kuch ap ko aesi mangni a jae.... mena ALLAH sy kuch aesa jab ap ny mang liya Yakeen sy to ap ko kaam b bun jae ga.... zahiri halat just azmaish k liye un py mat jana.... >>molvi ya mufti k pass ja k duscussion ki zaroorat to nahi A) ye ap ki marzi.... hum to jo kr skty thy hum ny ap ko bta diya Hanafi Ulma etc sy puch k..... n ap agar Deoband waly fitawa dekhain to un ny b yehi sme how kaha...... baki ap khud ksi sy cnfrm krna chahein who ap ki wish...... >>ye jo b prb hoa issy bs ek faida hoa A) is sy kiya faida kiya lost huwa.... ye ALLAH jany... hum ye janty k ALLAH k har kam mein bhtri..... dnt frgt hamara eman zahir py ni ghaib py na hi hmra eman mushaiday py hy..... >>talaq ki baat b sab ny inka bachpana dekh k ignore ki... Ye ALLAH k nazdeek sab sy na pasndedah amal hy...... >>mard apni galtya kaha dekhtahy.... ye har insan ki adat koi b apni ghalti accept ni krta agar loog both male fmle aesa krn to bht sy prblm larai etc end ho jany..... >>kbhi sochti k halala k lye kisi zaroorat mand bndy ko lun jinko maali madad chahy ye just ap ki thnkng.... ap mein eik prblm ye b hy ap just pic ka eik rukh dekhti...... ye nafas shetan, shewat, sme tme sab kuch bhula deti..... I samjh...... ap ko kaha hy koi naik saleh insan dekahin...... n is sy b bhtr ye k 2nd shadi k waqat b istikhara kr lena.... Istikhara 2 rakat nafal parh k dua prhni hoti...... n phir dil ka melaan n halat jo b bany .... is mein khwb asal ni na hi sharat hy... ye logo ki batein hy......
AP ALLAH say dua kren who ALLAH hi satari wala moamla krn to hi bhtr... yaad rkhiyo insan ni but insnao sy wabasta umedain hi dukh deti...... bht..... Umeed ALLAH sy...dua ALLAH sy, madad ALLAH sy.... Bharso ALLAH py.... ap ko just n just eik chez ki kami hy..... who hy dua, jis din jis waqat ap ki dua mein aesi kefiyat paida ho gai ... ap ki ya koi b insan ki k who ALLAH sy ly ly jo chahy tab us ka kaam bun jana hum dua mein b ghafil hoon to phir to kesa gila shikwa...... ALLAH hum sab ka hamiyo Nasir ho...... Ameen |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Nov 2014, 4:52am |
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salam Salam bhai...mjhpe is maamly pe koi kami nahi k may 2nd hubby ulta sidha choice krun ya jald bazi sy kaam lun... bachy k baad pehli koshish hy k shahour ko kahun k mera masla hal kardain... koshish hy k un ko aetmaad may le k karun...sab qk wo mjhpe bht bharosa krtyhy... but may chahrahithi k ye k prb bachh k hotyhi sawa mahina kr ksolve krun...n sb kch hal houny k baad in ko tajdeed e nikkah ka bol k in sy nikkah krun...sb kaam verbaly... Uswaqt k halath pe depend hy mery hubby mjhe support kardain in maamlou pe... halaat waqt dekh k hi krungi... apko andaza to hogayahoga k may koi bewakuuf ya kam aqal nahi hun... samajh daar hun... bigarty bigarty ghar bachaya hy... Allah ki nazar may bhi bachana hai...n inshaALLAH bachaongi... maa baap ko bhai ko saath rakhtyway prb hal krungi bus may nahi chahti k ye baat in 3 k siva bahar jay... masly masail sb ki zindagi may aty hy ... meri lyf may b ay n mjhe itni samajh d ALLAH ny k solve kr sakhun... n may ek pehlun nahi dekhti prb ka sb taraf sy dekhti n aqal samajh hy mjhpe... n mera matlab ap k bharosy step uthany ka ye k obviously may ALLAH k bharosy hi sb krahi hun...n kamyaab b houngi INSHAALLAH... mera matlab tha k apnh mjhe confirm baat btayee hh hanfi mufti/alim sy poch k to may kahiin or nahi pata krahi mera mind bangaya hh jb k is tarha solve krna hy prb... bs ye kehrahithi... baqi sawa mahina hoty hi nikkah bharosay k insan sy maa baap bhai kl aetmaad pe le k ex hubby hoy saath to unko b ... phr terms conditions porj hoty hi bhaly chand min ho... kr k divorce le k sakuun sy iddat guzar k...jo teen mahjna nahi bs teen haiz houngy hena...wo end hoty hi ex hubby sy if wo saath na ho is maamly pe to tajdeed e nikkah keh k krungi nikkah warna unko sb pata hoga to...phr to bhf acha k wk saath houngy...sahi hena? |
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Nov 2014, 7:56pm |
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H.Saad:
ws acha bura ni maniye ga eik baat ap ko tanbeh krty chalein...... phly b kaha tha k mana k ap ka nikkah toot gya hy.... ap now un sy bat to krti..... n dnt frgt k ap k chld ka naan nafqa ap py nahi hy sharan ap k husbnd py hy..... so kehna ye tha k koi b motariz mea natiraaz krny wali ya wala kahy ap ko k ap ny gunah kiya ths tht ex husbnd sy bat krti thi ye who hyper na hona us waqat b n baat ko cool mind sy hndle krna...... bcz who ap k child ka fthr n us ka naan nafqa us py hy so who apny chld ka to puch hi skta..... so baat ko hikmat sy hndle krna aesy logo ki b.... n auron ki b.... is duniya mein kichar uchalny waly bht milein gy... sme tme to apny hi giraty hain nashemaan py bijiliyan....... duaon ki darkhuwast hy is Umat k liye b........ ALLAH ap ka hamiyo nasir ho... n ap k sat hbht asani wala moamla kry har kadam mein har jaghan..... Ameen n sab Muslim k sath b.... Ameen n g mein ny ALAHAMDOLILAH ap ko cnfrm hi btaya..... is sab ka mein jawab deh hun..... ALLAH janta Who Aleem hy..... |
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 2:55am |
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salam... Hmm ye baat un k parents n mery parents bhai tk hy bt un log ki nazar pe un k bachy ka bachpana hy...N mery ghar walou ng b ignorekya bt mera dil na mana... kher in short...mjhe bs itna samajh na araha ex hubby ko btay bin to ye step uthaongi taky may mera bacha bassjay wapis islamically...qanuuni to koi prb nahi shukar ALLAH ka... but halala mard k liye saza hoti hy...kiya ye saza enough hy k unko btay bin may apni zindagi bnaon means unhouny jo harkt ki usy un sy chupa k solve krun...n un ko tajdeed e nikkah bol k un sy nikkah krlun... mjhe confident hy may ye krlungi...but apny apko n apni aulaad ko tabah nahi houny dungi... Ham log daily baat krtyhy bt wo bht busy rehtyhy to bht bht bht kam bt daily baat hotihy may abhi khd avoid krahihun... n itna bra gunah solve krny k lye choty choty gunah to brdsht krny hy...taky baat sudhar b jay n kisi ko ilm b na ho k kitna bra masla hogaya tha... log hamari shadi ki ab tk tareefy krty arahy...bt ab may bujhi bujhi c rehtihun...nazar bht bori cheez hoti hy... hamara prb kb hoa kesy hoa q hoa na wo samajh pay na may... but ALLAHny aqal o samajh d hy mjhe...thanks to ALLAH... Ap ka bht shukriya apny mjhe ye baty confirm btayee hy qk mjhpe itni himmat nahi k may bhaag daur krun apny prb k solution k liye... ALLAH mjhe qamyaab kray ameen... may pehly koshish krungi k husband ko apny aetmaad may le k un sy discussion kr k halala ho...mood dekhungi waqt n halaat... but agar lagege k nahi paon pe kulhaari maarrahihun kal ko kisi b wajah sy mjhe tana na maar dain... to majboor hun phr unko btay bin krny k liye... ALLAH to dekhryhena kon kitna majboor hy... bs bethybithay musibt sar pe i hy...ALLAH is musibt sy nikaaldain... |
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 4:16pm |
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Halala=mard ki saza??? @hunza saad,
aapka topic 40 din se chal raha hai ... baar baar wohi batein duhrai ja rahi hein. Evocative alag apna sar dukha rahay hein.
Aap bhi baar repeat kar rahi hein ke, "mein bohot samajhdaar hun, soach samajh ke har kaam karti hun".
Kaheen aap kehti hein, "mein kisi mufti ke chakkar mein par kar gumrah nahen hona chahti".
Kaheen Evocative ki jaan khai hui hai ke mufti se pata kar ke bata do. Evocative ki umar kam hai aur mazhab ki khidmat karna chahtay hein. Woh bhi nokron ki tarah aapke kaam mein jutay huay hein. Halankeh kaam aapka ho jayga to sex ka maza aapko ayga Evocative ko nahen. Aur aap bhi bacha nahen hein bajay Evocative ko muftion ke peechay laganay ke khud bhi ye kaam kar sakti hein.
Evocative bhi baar baar mufti se baat kar rahay hein aur har post mein purani batein he dohrai ja rahi hein.
Aur aapki har post mein yehi likha hota hai, "Evocative bhai yeh akhri baat bata dein final" magar uskay baad phir agli post hoti aur usmein phir wohi phrases hotay hein: "qanooni taur pe aur sharai taur pe", "pehlay shohar ko batatay huay ya chupatay huay etc."
Aap abhi tak kisi nuktay pe nahen ponhchi hein aur naa he ponhchein gi jis tarah aap chal rahi hein. Aur mamla sudhray ga nahen bigray ga he ... this is my prediction based on experience and observation (tajurba aur mushahida) ... Allah karay ghalat ho magar aapki approach intahai bewaqoofana hai, aur bewaqoofi ka nateeja acha nahen hota. Aur duaen hadsa, bala aur aafat ko taalti hein himaaqat ko nahen.
Ab ajaen asal sawaal ki taraf jo ke meri is post ka title bhi hai:
Yee aapse kisne keh dya ke Halala mard kelye saza hai? Kis ayat ha hadees mein likha hai? Aur yeh kisne keh dya ke yeh saza dena aapki zimmedaari hai? Aap pichli kai post se apnay asal maslay yaani "Halala kesay ho" se hatt kar sirf ye discuss kar rahi hein ke saza kesay poori ho...
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hunza saad
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2014 Topic: 2 Post: 67 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 5:11pm |
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@bushta Mene apsy to koi help nahi maangi unko knowledge thi to pochlya...n help krdi to ap ka kya jaraha hy ye prb wid me hoi hy har cheez dekh bhaal k krni hoti hy... na k jald bazi pe kro baad may pashtao k nahi ye to aysy nahi houna tha... n wht do u mean sex ka maza...tameez sikhy aap... apny meri post parhi hain to apko ulta samajh na chahyd k kitna galat hoa wid me n khd sy solve karna cjahrihun may... ap log ko aetraaz hy fone may nahi krungi post ap log ko... n thnx alot evocative bhai k ap ny help ki...bt beevh may shitaan ajaty hy sidhi rah may chalny sy rokny k liye... n halala mard k liye saza mene suna tha ab net pe ya shyd tv pe dont kno taky mard apni zaban samhaal k rakhy... n bewajah mazak parishani may b apni bv ko ye lafzna kahy... nuqsan aurat ka hota hy bs... n kindly plz mjhe ap sy koi behes nahi krni... May already prblmz may hun...bye ap log khush rahy n ab msgs nahi ainagy ap log ko jb ap log ko itna bora lagta hy help krny koi nahi ata baty krny sb ajaty hy...ek ebocative bhai hi mera saath derahy samajh ry hy...may bahar nahi jasakhti meri comdition nahi k muftyo k pass jaon ek bhai hy wo b yaha nahi hoty... shahour to mazak samajh k bethy hy k kch nahi hota bolny sy may akeli hun is maamly kl solve ktny wali...maa baap saath dengy Parishan hun jbi kch baty repeatb krti hun...bye last msg khusn rahu sab n evocative bhai ap ka shukrya apka b tyme waste kya mene gudbye |
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Evocative
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 293 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Nov 2014, 8:18pm |
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 H.saad , Bushra
H.Saad plz aesy user k kisi b cmnts py koi reply ni dena plz ....in ki old adaat just n just tanz n tanked , tazleeel etc hi hy.... nthng else jidhr aag lgti hy udhr hi heat pohchti.... ye just tanqeed krn gi.... n atirazat..... krny ko to in py b atiraz bht hain... bt useless thngs not b done...... tanqeed hmra maksood ni hoo bcz tanqeed sy sol. niklta ni hy.... just ikhtilaafat ziada hon gy.... So plz H.Saad b aware of such users..... jin ka maksad just tanqeed etc ho nthng else..... ap parh k n sun k un suni kr diya krn ap ki zaat mein kami ni ani... bcz chup mein hi khair hy.... wrna as usual larai ho jae gi..... takrar jo ho ga to... in ka aksar takrar hota rehta apny lehjay ki wjha sy..... ap ni janti.... So No more comnts / reply to the such posts of this type of users(s) plz... idhr to user(s) ny apny Allll cmnts hi delte kr diye... aprx 6500+ cmnts bcz arbar kuch b kr skty..... un mein kuch aesa hi haal tha ....... n sme othr user ki post hi dlte...... So in behas mein prny sy bhtr k ap koi aesi post py reply dain hi na... I hope u got it... H.saad wt I mean...... Bushra! Mohtrma ap ap ki profile py age 21 sy 37 ho gai but ap k lehjay mein.....chnge na I ...Rasiyen jaal jati par baal ni jaty .... khty loog...... ALLAH ap ko samjh dy duniya mein yaad rkhna k sab kuch ye ni jo ap keh ri... Ikhlaas b kuch chez hy... mein koi ye sab ksi tama ya time pass k liye ni kr ra.... kbhi suna ap ny jo na dy us ko do, jo zulam kry usay maaf krn, jo toray us sy jaorein,,,, to ALLAH k Nabi S.A.W k irshad ka mafhoom hy mujh sy janat ki zamanat ly lain, a blind man/woman hve no judgment of colors.... ye ap k feham sy bala tar batein hain Bushra Anti, ap ni samjhein gi.....n ainda plz b careful aesy cmnts na hi krn to bhtr.... Bushra Anti aesa na ho k kbhi jesa Mu wesa chapaer na par jae to samjh a jani ......so aesy waqat nobat anay hi na dain..... ap... n apny way of reply plz badal dain...... Nafasi khuwaish, Man chahi hi sab kuch ni is duniya mein Rab Chahi.b hy .... kal jug nahi kal jug hy ye kiya khub soda naqad hy is hath ly is hath dy..... Sory if my words Hurts...... Andaz e bayan mera shoq ni tha ........
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