dhukrya
Bhai mene ye kaha hy k meri shadi ko din hi kitny hoy k pasand ki shadi pe ye maur dekhna parrahahy,Allah talaq k baad aurat konrights dety k jissy chahy larki shadi krly after iddah except ex hubby...but jb larki us ex hubby k bin kahiin jana na chahy to kya kara jay... taubah istigfaar kr ty hoy zindagi guzaar sakhti hy with him...? May apny shahour ko chorny ka soch b nahi sakhti msy to g ty g mar jaongi... ALLAH rehem kry mjhpe meri aulaad pr... ammi abbu bhai saath hy mery wo log bolty ahle hadith k fatway k through chalo bachh ka socho ye wo ap khud dochain mjhe kya problem hy sasural meka sb mery favour pe hy n sb ye baat bhuul b gay mera shahour b saath hy mery... mjhe kya pari k rasta dhundun... may b kahun k ok fine mjhe b farq na parta aram sy rahun jo hoga akhirat pe hoga... bt mjhe becheni hy may haram kaari sy bhaagtihun meri luck hy k shahour bahar rehty hy jbhi sexual inter course nahi kr sakhy ham after dt,bt kta pata Allah mery saath deny k lye mery mind pe ye rasty daal ryhy... Mera koi past nahi jisy chaha usi sy shadi hoi sb ki razamandi sy... n koi saath nahi deraha means k may muftyo k pass ja ja k fatway leny sy nahi rahi na wo baat krty hy ladies sy...n jis maslak sy baat kro dosry ko bora khd ko acha bolta hy... masla ye k 4 mahiny may meri dekivery hy shahour bachy ki pedaish pe aingy but kch mahiny baad mjhe n bachy ko bahar le jaingy...hajj umrah agay aingy lyf pe prb solve kye bagair gayee to ye qabuul nahi houngy sochrithi k ye sb bachy ki pedaish k baad solve krlun...idlam k lehaaz sy shareeh halala b hojayga har cheez dekhty way ye nahi k may jan churarahihun... but sochtihun aysy kitny log jo aysy hi jity hybriz talaq milti phr b saath g ty hy ye jahilyat sy to behtar hena k may sirf o sirf Allah k lye ye step khufiya tor pe verbaly krun solve shahour ki nature bori nahi hy but wo matter b solve na krna chahty may unhy b gunahou oe bahi daalsakhti mera pyar sacha hy... verbaly nikkah kr k haq e shareeh halala kr k bhsly wo 1 hr pe ho 2 din may ho jb b ho latka khd apni marzi sy chordega qk unki khd kahiin shafi houny wali hy n mjhe itna roty dekh k meri lyf bnany k lye agree hy qk meri nyat saaf hy n may innocent hun... may har kaam thandy dimaagh sy hi krungi 4 maniny hy sichny k lye mery paas bt ap mjhe bs ye btadye sure nahi to kisj mufti sy poch k k verbaly nikkah talaq kr k jo b hy islam k shareehya ko dekhty hoy may apny ex hubby ko btay bjn krsakhti hun n may ny ye sb kr b lya to Allah ki nazar pe may spny shahour k lye halal hojsongi bazariya e nikkah ab wo nikkah kistarha karna hoga ap mjhe ye btay baqi may sb khd soch k samajh k krungi may ... n halala ki shart bs dakhuul hy inzaal nahi n safety laga k b kr sakhty hy..ye sb mene darul ifta web k fatwa sy parha hy mjhe itni knowledge hoi hy din raat in chezou ka parh k to ap khd sochy may chahti jazbaati pe kch b kr jaati bt mera mind cool hogayahy bht royee hun bht azmaish hy mjhpe bt mjhe pata hy mera shahour bht acha hy galti hoi hy jnsy he is accepted bt he dnt wanna loose me n me 2... Allah in sb batou ko dekhty hoy hamara saath dedein mjhe ye sb qzmyabi sy krny dain... wapis shahour sy nikkah khutba n do gawahou k samny krungi? Bs yehi rasta hy if ye sb nahi hosakhta to may b majboor hun phr un log ki tarha jo ahle hadith k fatway le k zindagi guzaar rahyhain ap ko jo baat confirm na ho kisi mufti sy pata kr k btasakhty hy? Ek behen ki itni help krsakhty hy...wesy mene darul ifta indua pe b sawalaat kye hy bt dys dus din rukna hy... mery hisaab sy to may ny jo b socha sahi hy bt phr b soch samajh k step uthaongi
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