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| Sooth |
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 4:29pm |
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 Allah sub ko deen,dunia aur akhrat ki kaamyabi day aur hum sub ko shataan k shur se apni hifazat me rukhay(aamin)
In this regard I will say just one thing that ye love kuch bhi nahi hai before marriage,parents jo kuch kehtay aur kertay hen un ki respect keroo aur Allah k ahkaam per chaltay huay izat,shrafat aur ikhlaq k saath zindagi guzaroo aur apni zindagion ko es love k chaker me berbaad mat kero kuin k ye sirf before marriage aur after marriage apni wife ko chorr ker kisi aur se sirf aik shataani jaal hai aur kuch nahi.thnx |
| uetian31 |
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 5:45pm |
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 @sooth,
mohaterma lagta hay aap ko mohabat main koi khaas chot lgi hay jis ki wja se aap aisy keh rai hain (NO OFFENCE PLZ),kya bhool gai hain k laila ne majnoun,sheri ne ferhad, or miss fouzia ne apny"un" se mohabat ki or kya kaml ki ki....to jnaab mohabat hoti hay but its a full time tough job so is se aviod hi kerian to acha hay...
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| Sooth |
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 7:19pm |
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Well Uetian31 Every person has its own opinion and my opinion in this regard was that.
Allah has already made our taqdeers so in sub fazool baatoon me khud ko involve kernay ka koi jawaaz hi nahi hai bcoz hum ne uss sub se her haal me compromise kerna hai jo khuda ne humari qismat me likh diya hai.
Hmmm aik cheez hai jis se humari taqdeer bhi badal sakti hai aur wo hai dua tu her waqt khuda se bahteri ki dua kerni chahiay inspite of saying O’Allah mein es se pyar kerta hoon mujhey ye dy day bcoz hum nahi jaantay jo Allah jaanta hai aur jis me humari bahteri hai and meinay ye nahi kahaa aisa nahi hoota aisa honna chahiay but after marriage only in husband-wife relation.thanks
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| uetian31 |
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 8:53am |
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@sooth agreeed! |
| Cheeku |
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 9:05am |
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END OF LOVE IS NOT THE END OF LIFE SITARON SAY AGAY JAHAN AUR BHE HAIN
END OF LOVE IS NOT THE END OF LIFE |
| Sooth |
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 9:13am |
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yup fauzia and abdul i agreed with cheeku END OF LOVE IS NOT THE END OF LIFE(cheeku says) |
| razi_82 |
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 9:35am |
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sooth behna aray baba abdul ko koi ishq wishq , pyar wyar nahi apni cousin se bas wo gamgeen jaldi ho jata hay sirf itni baat hay and mujhe usi pyar par yaqeen hay jis ka rishta ho ya jisay ek had main rehtay howay rishtay k ander lanay ki koshish ki jaye warna phir bhool jaye insan yahi behtar hay............
main bilkul agree hun tum se behna..... |
| Cheeku |
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 12:20pm |
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IT IS MY REQUEST TO FOUZIA TO GET THROUGH THIS AND READ even if she is insisting to meet him, ask her to go ahead, i bet that after meeting him, this will be climax & end of love.
utlimately she has to come to marriage n that man will also get married with some one.
i suggest that a person should be realistic in its thoughts. real life is not that of novelistic life. we should face the realities. basically she (Fouzia) is ignoring the reality. she is trying to justify her wait of 12 years. and keeping herself in status quo, she is only justifying her inself.
how many people are there in life who are comprosing and ultimately they settled down.
i have a question from FOUZIA. did she even think k kitnon logon ko us ke zaroorat hay. nobody in the world is waste. each person has its purpose of existence.
i would like to share a real story i read:
same isi tarah cousins thay. they loved but eventually they didnt get marry each other. but the girl married with someone else as the parents forced. now what happened. both were so upset on their sides. however, the person was pious. ak din khawab main us ko khawab main ak buzarag nazar ay. un k sath kuch paralyzed children they. the man asked who are they. the old man said, they are ur children. the person went to someone k khawab ke tabeer kia hay. unhon nay bataya k agar tumhare shadi us larki say ho jati to tumharay bachay paralyzed honay thay and result would have been the seperation n divorce. the person get verified from doctor by taking his blood test & that girl. doctors verified that this is their 4th genration of cousin marriage and agar tumhare marriage ho jati to yehi result hona tha.
HAR KAM MAIN ALLAH KE HIKMAT BHE HOTI HAY. actually QURAN PAK main bhe hay k insan bohat BAY SABRA AUR NASHUKRA HAY. man actually wants to get short term benefits whereas the decision lies with ALLAH. |
| drAman |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 1:25pm |
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About the meeting Dekho yaar, as a honest brother, i will give you an advice:
You can ask me in any way, i will always be your brother (dont worry)
Dekho, as far as Islam is concerned, it is forbidden (HARAM) for a muslim girl and boy to be alone in the same house or place, if they aint Mehrum.
But it may be difficult for you coz u love each other, well the first thing to advice you is because i dont see any chances of you getting married with him, i will adivice for you to stay apart as long as you can and to ignore him. I never said it gonna be easy, coz u love him, but u have to decide, its either him or your parents, dont be hung in between. Secondly, try to get married as soon as possible to forget him, or just beg your parents to agree to mary with him (which is offcourse Mission Impossible). But the least think is to at least try to not stay in contact, not meet, not reply to calls/sms. It will be difficult but after a certain time (like alomost 3 months) i will just become easy. In this time, mention to him that u dont want to mary him, you dont love him anymore (thats the hardest thing). If after this time of 3 months you aint able to forget him ONLY AFTER STRICTLY FORCING YOURSELF |
| insan |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 3:13pm |
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Dr.Aman ...Allah ki Aman Dr. sahib app jis ko advice kr rehey hain wo jnab to kab k mar khap gaye hain....app ny shaid ghor nhi frmaya k yeh thread tqreebn 2 saal purani hey
aur app apni english jharrney abb tashreef laye hain...
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| Seemi |
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 9:06pm |
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Mr. Insan You have no right of making fun of members of this forum. Try to be bit sensible.
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| killer_28 |
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| Posted on:19th Apr 2011, 5:28am |
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 SHADI KR LO
PLZZZZZZZZZZZ MARRY WITH HIM |
| hasna |
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2011, 12:29am |
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killer 28 lgta hai k aj apne 1hr ye love story read krne per zaya kia.kia hi acha hota k agur ap love story ki date and time per b gour krty......:D |
| yasir_123 |
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| Posted on:20th Apr 2011, 10:16am |
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:) hehehe.........
Sahi kaha hasna-g. Love storian kisi or ki hi hon bhalay, kabhi kabhar khudh k ander jazb kar lati hain. Esay main tareekh ka dhyan aksar ankho say oojhal ho jata hay. |
| wareeshah |
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| Posted on:21st Apr 2011, 10:43am |
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such kaha HASNA! hasna aap ny bilkul theek kaha! mei b tu yeh hi sooch rahi thi k miss.fauzia ny yeh post 2008 mei send kiya but eik ya 2 replies k baad us ka koi reply nei mila.
aur yahan saab members apni hi batein lay kaar betein hin. fauzia madam ka tu khuch pata hi nei aur baqi saab apni apni day rahy hein!
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