Ok Maira if u mind to suggest me on my direct e-mail address i am sorry,, I just asked for that sms i have to send her last time that's why i asked to send me direct at my yahoo..... Anyways I thanks a lot u gave me better advices then others I appreciated u all except only Ali bhai becoz he don't understand my feelings he just look in-front situation he don't look at behind what is exact reason was,,,, I think I should leave this girl & it's better for me & my family becoz I'll not feel comfort with her in my whole life.... Insan ki khud ki bhi respect huti hai buht kerli haamdardi aur raham I should think about my self than other persons,,,,, buht socha aur raham kerliya, raham os per kiya jata hai jo aapki respect karen aur aapko kuch samjen aur aapki respect ko ahge bhi rakhen right na dear advisers......

I would recommend that you go for some one fresh not some one that was once going to be for ur brother and now u want her for yourself. This, can have a bad impact on brother to brother relations. Hope u understand what i mean. thanks

Yeah ur right If I do that mentally I never relax with this girl,,, Insan ko sab se pehle apne baren mein hee sochna chayeh then think for others, har insan apna ehtasab khud hee ker sakta hai aur better faisla ker sakta hai muje raham kha ker osse kerne ja raha tha mager osse bhi qadar kerni chayeh thi jo osne nahi ki...... Infact ager maen osse shaadi kerta bhi tu jab bhi wo mere bhai ko face kerti itni embarrassing feel kerti aur osse bethen pal yaad aaten then oske dil mein jo mere liyeh pyaar huta wo kam hu jata aur meri khud ki life hell ban jati.... Aapko hamesha os larki se shaadi kerni chayeh jo aapki apni sources se aayen aur aap oske sath relax feel karo bas kissi pee raham khana aur asen shaadi kerna achi baat hai ager wo bandi sirf apke liyeh jiyeh aur aapki qadar karen then u can think about her jis ke dil mein apke liyeh koi qadar hee na ho aur aapko degrade karen apki family ke ahge then why the hell u think about her for these type of cheap girls & their families thank u..........