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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2011, 4:01pm |
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 May I marry with my Brother Ex fiance?
Salam Friends,
Friends plz guide me what I should do, Here is my problem plz friends help me out just give me rite suggestions......
Friends I need ur advise tell me kya yeh maen Jo kerne ja raha hun sahen kerne ja raha hun ya galat,,, maen ek larki se shaadi kerne ja raha hun Jo few years pehlen mere bhai ki fiancee thi mere bhai ke sath engaged thi maen bi yeh chahta tha mere bhai ki issi ke sath shaadi ho aur humaren ghar mein yeh larki walen aur larki aayi acha laga sab ko becoz yeh kafi achi larki thi aur is ki mother bi kafi achi thi sab ke sath mixup ho gai social aur gharelo thi hume is larki ka attitude aur ekhlak buht acha laga aur is larki ne hum sab ka dil jheet liya mager yeh ek strong family se belong nahi kerten thaen yeh loog ek simple si family se thi mager achi thi is ki mother bi buht achi thi laken iske Father ka koi background nahi tha khair hum sab ko larki buht achi lagi thi then iski engaged ho gai aur 4 years tak rahi mere youngest bro ne engagement ke baad one year tak unki city mein stay kiya tha becoz wo out of city mein rehten thaen mere dad ne ek textile ka business start kiya tha aur mere youngest bro ko de diya aur unki city mein mere dad ke textile ki buht demand thi mere dad ne osse open ker ke de diya aur osne unke ghar ka upper level wala potion rent pe le liyeh kaam aur rehna shoro kerdiya wahan pee, after one year osne dad ka paisa lose kiya benefit ke badle wo opposite osne dad ko "indebted" bana diya so wo wapis ah gia aur dad ne business close kerdiya wahan se, come to the point oski engagement aur mazeed 3 years tak rahi jis mein wo unki city ata jata raha milta raha unki family se aur apni fiancee se, total 4 years tak engagement rahi aur baad mein unki family ko jana para Pak permanently means out of country my bro fiance family becoz of illegal work her's father's doing.
So pichen se mera bhai kissi aur larki mein involve ho gia aur osne engagement broke ker ke kissi aur larki se shaadi kerli more than 2 years ho gaen jis mein se ab oske two childrens bi hai. Aur mere bhai ki ex fiancee ka Nikkah ho gia tha Pak mein mager ab oska Nikkah toot gia bocoz larki ko saheen loog nahi milen grady loog milen unne, aur larki ki family ke sath 3 bari tragedies hoi here are folliwing:
1) 1st engagement tooti with my youngest bro.
2) Final exist laga out of country jana para.
3) Is larki ka Pak mein Nikkah break huwa means rukhsati walen din rukhsati huten toot gai ab aap khud sochen larki ki kya feelings ho gi.
1st of all mera youngest bhai is larki ko itna deserve nahi kerta tha becoz wo kafi larkiyon mein involve tha aur hum sab chahten thaen iski shaadi yahan pee ho aur maen ne kafi support kiya is larki ko ke mera bhai iske sath sincere rahen mager nahi ho saka, maen khud support kerta kerta iske kareeb ah gia then ab mera irada bana ke maen shaadi kerlo isse sab kuch maen janta hun aur maen yeh bi janta hun iska physical relation kissi ke sath bi nahi raha aur yeh ek determined larki hai that's y I agreed with her aur isko apnana chahta hun aur support kerna chahta hun,,, mager mere ghar walo ko jab bi pata chalen ga mera aur iska sab buht hyper ho jayen ge aur mere sath sab boycott kerdein ge,, specially my youngest bro hum dono ko ek sath dekhein ga buht jealous feel ho ga osko, so tell me friends muje is scenario mein kya kerna chayeh tell me & guide me aap sab ki guidance ka maen taib-e-daar hun shukeriya.
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2011, 2:07am |
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farhan bhai mene apki story read ki hai or bhai apko sb guide karenge pr mjhe ye lgta hai apko usi larki se shdi krni chahye q ke apke bhai ne chora hai apni fiance ko to us me larki ka kia kasoor ap us se shadi krke uski life bn jaygi ye to boht achi bat hogi ok or bhi apko log mashware dege yaha thnx.
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 408 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2011, 2:41am |
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Yes bro.. You can marrie with her...
Bcoz..
Aap ki family ka tu aunhu ne pahele he dil jeet liya hai.
And jaha tak aap k bro. Ki baat hai tu wo bhi zyda prob
nahi kare ga bcoz aus ki tu shadi hu chuki hai.
So...
Aap ko aun se shadi kar lena chaiye and aap ki story ko read kar k ye samjh main aata hai"What is true LOVE."
thanx. |
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Mufti |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Oct, 2011 Topic: 4 Post: 557 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2011, 3:17am |
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alirajput Yeh aik alag masla hai uss ko dukh ho ga ya nahi lakin shariat iss ki bilkul ijazat deti hai aur agar yeh bhai shaadi kerna chahtay hain to meray khayal se kuch ghalat nahi kiun k inn ki family bhi uss larki aur family ko pasand kerti hai aur woh bhi inn ki family ko pasand kertay hain... Meray khayal se yeh achi baat hai... |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2011, 10:24am |
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bhai aliraj usne pahle puri apni story batai nhi thi to mene post kr dia tha wo pahle wali post hai ok thnx tc
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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2011, 12:00pm |
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Friends now what I can do in these circumstances?
Mager ab mere sab against hai khas ker ke mere dad kio ke mere youngest bro ne kafi galat baaten bol ker apni Ex fiance ke baren sab ke dilo mein galat image batha dia hai osko jab pata chala maen kerne ja raha hun isliyeh aur maene apne ghar mein ek trail kiya tha " ke maen shaadi ker raha ho apne bhai ki Ex fiance se" to sab mere against ho gaen thaen becoz of my youngest bro put bad image about her's Ex fiance mager maen janta hun reality kya hai reality wo hee hai jo maene apko pehle batai then immediately apne ghar walo ka bad impression dekh ker kaha maen tu mazaaq ker tha. Now tell me is situation mein muje kya kerna chayeh friends?? |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2011, 11:45pm |
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bhai farahn agr ap shadi zid se bhi karlege to apka bhai ya ghr wale shayd apki ya apki wife masail paida kr skte hai mere khyal se apne ghar walo ki marzi ke khilaf shadi us larki se mat kijega bahd me boht problem create hogi agr shadi karke alg ghr me rahte to theek rahta agy ap soch smjh me faisla lena ok .
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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Dec 2011, 11:03pm |
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Jee....
Bilkul maen separate hee ghar lo ga actually maen osse support kerna chahta hun osse apnana chahta hun osse muje dil li lagaon ho gia hai muje osse buht humdardi ho gai hai maen khud nahi janta itna ki, sochta hun oske baren mein jab osse koi dukh huta hai asa lagta hai muje bi dukh huwa tuwo time mera bad time aur mood off hu jata hai..... Jo mere dil mein oske liyeh yeh caring maen kissi aur ke sath nahi ker sakta aur na hee hu sake gi mujse but I don't no y........ Khair aap baten maen kya karo muje saheen suggestion dein plz jo meri future life mein koi kissi kisam ka masla na ho thank u. |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Dec 2011, 11:10pm |
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farhan ap ghr alg lelo wese kabhi na kbhi alg rahna hi hoga jb apki family barh jayge or wese bhi islam me iski ijazt hai ke koi alg rah skta hai takey ghr koi masail ya phr jhgra na ho to apko unse shadi krni chahye wo bhi ap apni mother ki duao ke sath phr ap kbhi bhi life me koi pareshni nhi hogi thnx
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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:26th Dec 2011, 12:14pm |
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toote_sapne Salam,
Sorry 4 late reply.... 1st of all meri mother hai hee nahi unki, she died since 10 years ago so meri ki duwain wafat pane se pehle hee de di thi..... I am alone & that's inka sath pana chahta hun ta ke yeh muje complete ker saken meri tanhai khatam ho saken in ke sath aur inne mera sahara mil saken unke liyeh duwa ki jiyeh ager mai na saheen Allah unne aur kli mujse acha de dein jis ke sath wo hamesha khush rahen aur wo inne hamesha khush rakhen...... Mager muje lagta hai mujse ziyada inne chahne wala buht mushkil se mil sake ga I guess so...... |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2011, 11:26pm |
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farhan jee oh im sory mola ka qol hai hai .jo apko pasnd hai ap unko hasil kron ap koshish kron agr apki wo ksmt me hogi to koi nhi rok skta .
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Muhammad Atif |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 118 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2011, 3:12pm |
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Farhan Meri b story ap se milti julti he or idar b mera bhai e galt tha
par bohat sochne k bd bro meri fml ne yie faisla kia tha k us lrki se shadi nh krni chahie..,
q k bohat se masail peda ho jane the.or uski eng b ab ho chuki he ab.
apki niat bohat saf he or bohat qable taref b he par bhai compromise krna parta he |
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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2011, 10:28am |
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Good
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2011, 10:38am |
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farhan jee to apne kia faisla kia hai wo to btao
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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2011, 12:18pm |
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Atif bhai......
Atif tumari kya engagement ossi se hoi ya oski huwi maen samja nahi? Yaar mera tu scene kuch aur hai tu maen kya karo ab? kis mein compromise kerna perta hai? Maen tu is larki ko support kerna chahta hun tell me what I can do? Tell me kya masl-e-masayel ho sakten hai???? |
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 8 Post: 1004 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2011, 1:58pm |
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Farhan012 Issi website per kissi na ek thread me likha tha jawab jo muja us post me munasib nahi laga magar yahan bohat munasib lag raha ha wo jaawb tha
shadi kerlo shadi kerlo shadi kerlo shadi kerlo shadi kerlo
tote _ sapne na ys Sidra na is pa comment b kiya tha shayad
Wessay us larki ki shadi k din nikah tutna ke reason kaya greed thee larkay waloun kee? |
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Muhammad Atif |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 118 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2011, 3:48pm |
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Farhan Copmromise ye k halat se samjhota
or is se apk bhai or ap k darmyan relation end ho skti he
lrki ka ek past ap k samene he or ye past b use bohat tng kre ga agr wo apk sath shadi kre gi
or shadi zehni sakun k lie ki jati he ap to is shadi se or b tense rho ge. |
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Farhan012 |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Dec, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2012, 6:46pm |
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Atif bhai......
Atif shaadi hamesha apko tension hee deti hai chahe jis se bi ho bhai ka ek na ek din sab ko alag huna hee hai, kehte hai na jab shaadi huti hai tu dosto se dosti khatam ho jati hai aur jab bache huten hai tu bhai behno se duri ho jati hai ek na ek din tu asa huna hee hai chayeh jisse bi shaadi ho aur han waqt ke sath sath sab kuch badal jata hai remember it purani baaten khatam ho jati hai....... Khair maen buht confused hun pata nahi kya likha hai kismat mein jo kismat mein hai wo hee ho ga na,,,, I don't no yaar pata nahi kya ho ga I am still confused. |
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jan 2012, 11:25pm |
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 farhan jee
bhai ap itne pareshn q hote ho bt seedhi se hai ap shadi krlo ye apki apni life hai apko pura haq hai jis sth ap khush ho usi si shadi krlo rahi bt bhai ki wo ek dn alg ho jate hai sb aj kal jo hum ne dekhe hai shadi ke bahd bhai bhai sb bhool jate apni life me bzy hote jo bhi apne bt ki upr post me sahi kaha hai ek br shdi krlo apne ap time ke hisab se theek ho jayga .rahi bt pareshn ki jo bahd ati hai jis ka apko dar esa koi bhi ghr nhi jis ghr me problems na ho to krlo shadi ok thnx
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tote_sapne |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 1017 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2012, 12:03am |
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farhan jee --
¤ Jo pasand hai usay hasil kr lo!
ya Phr
¤ Jo hasil hai usay pasand kr lo!. Yaani Qhina’at ikhtiyar karo!
(HAZRAT ALI R.A)--
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