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eshaal je
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Feb 2014, 12:16pm |
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 Zindagi se Mayusi
Salam to all meri ye problem hai kay life main koi dichsbi nahi hai kuch salon say na deen main dil lagta hai na dunia main ek fesle par qaim nahi reh sakti jo mere liye acha bhi ho par dil main waswasy ate hain or sab khatam hojata hai shadi bhi ki shayad is say life badal jae lekin esa nahi hoa tab to dil par or bojh rehny laga shohar say bhi nafrat hogai kun kay os main shohar wala koi apna pan nahi tha har waqat larai jhagry or main apne app main gum rehne wali mujh main moqabla karne ki himmat nahi chup chap alag hogai har waqt dil o damagh main ek badsokoni si rehti hai zara zara si bat behad preshan kar deti hai jazbati bohat hun logon say khof ata hai khud atmadi nahi jo koi job kar lon jab kay parhi likhi khobsurat hun mujhe bhi apni zindagi bahrpur jini hai har waqat zara zara si baat par gusa ajana sabar or bardasht nahi esa 20 sal ki age main shuru hoa koi bhi bat hojae mera damagh ose sochta hi rehta hai Allah ka zikr bhi karti hun bure kamo se baz hun kabhi kisi ko dukh nahi phonchaya dost bhi ek do hen phir bhi ye sab samajh nahi ati kia karun ghar wale kehte hain phir se shadi kar lo sab theek hojaega par mujhe esa nahi lagta kay kuch bhi theek hoga kabhi kindly mujhe koi hl bataein koi molvi sahab hein to wo mujhe koi hal bataein koi taweez dein jis se mere halat ache hun mujh main bohat susti hai har waqt bethe ya lete rehna kisi kam main dil na lagna doctor kay pas bhi gai par koi bimari nahi kia mujh par koi jadu to nahi or kia mujhe is par apni pasand ki shadi karni chahiye jis se main khush reh sakon main kia krun jo mujh main khud atmadi ae apne fesle par qaim rahun ache bure ki pehchan krun zara zara si bat dil par le leti hun shayad mujhe lagta hai kay agle nay sakht bat ki ya esa na ho ye amm bat hun par mujhe sakht lagi ho kun kay hamesha dunia dari say dor rahi pata nahi log kese hote hen sab ko apne jesa dekhna chahti hun shayad kay agle ki izat ki jae ose ufh bhi na kia jae meri madad karen kamyabi say jine ka tariqa bataen main apni zindagi barbad nahi karna chahti mujhe logon say khof ata hai ek do jaga job kay liye gai to admiyun ki ajeeb nazron say dar kay dobara labhi nahi gae jab kay mujhe job ki zarrorat hai midel class hun ghar say niklnay main khof ata hai jab tak koi sath na ho main kia karun ami say bhi yeh sab kaha par woh kam main masrof rehti hain koi khas jawab nahi deti bas yeh kehti hen sab theek hojaega lekin mujhe abhi sab theek kar kay apni zindagi jini hai logon ki ankhon say dar lagta hai esa lagta hai pese kay bina kuch nahi hai yeh dunia na koi kuch kar sakta hai koi ek maqsad nahi boht mayusi hai har waqat kuch gham dil ko lage hen par agy khushiyan bhi nazar ati hen lekin yakeen nahi ata bharosa nahi hota yun lagta hai dhoka jhot mil jaega bas alag akeli rehne se khushi milti hai dil chahta hai koi mujh say taluk na rakhe mujh say fozol dunyawi baten ek dosre ki gheebat na kare bas main khamosh rahun par log kisi hal main jine nahi dete karun to kiya karun yahan bohat se ese log hen jo zindagi ko achi tarhan samjh kar bardasht kar kay jee chuky hen umar guzar li hai mujhe apna qeemti mashwara dein |
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eshaal je
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Feb 2014, 7:08pm |
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Hmmm Koi to jawab de |
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Activist
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Group: Members Joined: 04th Feb, 2012 Topic: 7 Post: 181 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Feb 2014, 6:25pm |
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eshaal j
why u feel all this? kya past me ap k sath kuch aise incidents hwe ha? i mean ap ki shadi se pehle? n shadi q toti? ap ne husband me ibterest q nau lia?
rh gai bt job ki to kre job. net pe apply kre. call aye to interview dene jae. apne kaam me dilchaspi rkhe. agr bahir log dekhte ga to dekhne de. mardo ka to kaam e ye ha. aorat ko ghorna chahay jesi b ho so leave them. ab un ki nazro se bchne k lye apni life to nai na rok skte.
n i think u need psychologist for full treatment. mere que ka answers b de de ti khushi hogi
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 27 Post: 4675 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Feb 2014, 8:34pm |
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 Mayoosi kufar hae
Assalam O alaikum Wa Rehmatullah :)
sorry eshaal g aap ki pori post paRhna zara mushkil horaha hae kyun k iss main kahin bhi gap ya paragraphing nahi hae. aur yeh itni pessimistic hae k mujh se paRhi bhi nahi ja rahi.
i,m wonder koi 22 years ki laRki kahay k i,m pessimist aur mujhay zindagi se dilchaspi nahi. agar aap aisi soch aur halat k sath kisi bohat achay insaan ki zindagi main bhi dakhil hojayeN to bhi aap shayad bharpoor zindagi ki taraf na asakaiN albatta woh banda bechara zaroor bezaar hojayega :)
sab se pehlay to apnay mind main yeh baat clear karaiN k yeh aap ki life hae aur issay aap ne apnay liye jeena hae. adam bezaar logoN k liye koi nahi ata |
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 27 Post: 4675 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Feb 2014, 8:51pm |
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continue.... batoN aur feelings ko dil maiN rakhnay ki bajaye unhaiN share kiya karaiN. agar aap ki friends nahi bhi haiN to yahan forum pe aakar share kar liya karaiN.
hum woh nahi hotay to hum nazar atay haiN balkay hum woh hotay haiN jo hum feel kartay haiN. jab tak insaan khud se mohabbat na karay koi us se mohabbat nahi karta. khud se mohabbat karna seekhaiN aur Allah ka shukar ada karaiN k Allah pak ne aap ko zindagi jaisi naimat se nawaza.
Allah pak se apnay dil ka haal bayan kiya karaiN. apnay dil maiN jhanka karaiN k wahaN kiya hae aur kyuN hae. logoN ki batoN pe apnay aap ko damage mat kiya karaiN. kisi k hawalay se khush fehmi ka shikar na houN k koi aap ki help karay balkay khud fehmi ka shikar houN apnay aap ko explore karaiN aur apnay aap k liye acha ban.nay aur lagnay ki koshish karaiN
apni energies ko positive way main consume karaiN. duniya maiN miracle nahi hotay yahaN har baat k liye effort karna paRti hae. aap effort start karaiN in sha Allah kuch time k baad aap ko khud bhi apnay andar change feel hoga aur aap k ird gird basnay waloN ko bhi .i hope so k aap apnay liye effort zaroor karaiNgi aur apnay liye waqt nikalaiNgi. |
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Masoom_boy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 9:50am |
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I need some.info Aslam o Allaikum
main ap se yeah janana chahta hoon k logon se kesa dar lagta hai ap ko ???? i mean logon se baat karte hue darna chahe wo apne hun ya strange ? dil main khayal ata hai ko.log kiya sochenge mere baare.main ??? yeh sab soch k dil ghabrana and bulkul darna ??? plz rpl me ur fear in detail than In Sha ALLAH i.ll try for my best |
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eshaal je
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 8:09pm |
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Myrizvi and alirajput Mujhe bachon kay nahi kisi old member or aqal wale ka jawab chahiye plz my rizvi sir ya alirajput mujhe jawab den time pas log nhi |
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 8:37pm |
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 eshal
me koi suggestion to nai don ga but ak bat kahon ga ager apne just apne pasand k logon k coments leny hon to topic per headline day diyan keren ta k dosry logon ka tyme barbad na keren
dosri bat k apne etni bari film lehk d mene to pari nai but apne second b kud he bol diya k koi to jawab day? jesy apki nature ajeb hay ap kud he ho es me mayos zindagi ka koi kasor nai..i hope understand.... |
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Feb 2014, 8:45pm |
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eshal or han last bat yeh k apny baron ki ezat kerna sehko jino ne apka jawab diya hay wo ap seh age me bary han koi fider mu mei lay ker apko jawab nai day rahy kud ki age dehkon or on ki dehkon pata lag jahy ga ap muni kaki ho ya wo lolzz.. or maryam to married b hay so dosron ka time zaya kerny seh acha hay ap ghar beht ker ALLAH ALLAH kero sab tehk ho jahy ga es seh acha mashwara koi nai hay lolzz
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Masoom_boy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 4:45am |
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Buhat Afsos hua buhat dukh hua ap ka yeah rawiya dekh k , hum sab yahan p ap k help k liye ae and hum hi ap ko bache aur kam aqal wale lag rahe hain... khair main ne yeah sawal is liye kiye mujhy laga u r victim.of social anxiety as.i can treat social anxiety v.well. lekin shayad ap ko hamare help k zarurat hi nahi...
aik mashwara hai jo b help krna chahe ap k plz unhe kabhi tokana nahi sab k sunana yahan.logon k bheer me koi aisa b hoga jo u k zindagi badal dega... old member zaruri nahi new and less active members k zariye b ALLAH madad kr deta hai... so yeh baatein yaad rakhna.... |
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eshaal je
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 2:18pm |
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Masoom boy Ap log mujhe maf kar den ye soch kar k mein boht aziyat mein hun masoom boy ap ne pyar se bat ki mujhe samjh agai par kuch logon ne mera masla samajhne k bajae ye kaha k mujh jese insan se agla bezar hojae ye bhi nahi socha kay mein isi apne rawaiye ki waja se hi to preshan hun or madad mangi hai k kese apne guse par qabo pa lon mene kab khud ko behtareen kaha hai mashwara manga hai sirf lekin ap ne theek kaha mujhe kuch nahi kehna chahiye intezar karna chahiye shayad koi esa jawab ajae jo mujhe samjhe or meri zindagi roshan hojae thank you |
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Masoom_boy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 4:30pm |
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koi baat nahi koi bat nahi... ap hosla rakhein, main samjh sakta hoon, ap ghusa na karein yahan jo ap ko advice de raha hai ap dekho , kiya ap mujhy mere oper diye gae sawalon k jawab de sakti ho ??? |
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 5:33pm |
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eshal its ok ager apko apne galti ka ehsas hoa hay ju apne kaha. and mene such me ab pura page para hay apka tehk seh meri nazar me ju mujy lagta hay do point han jes seh ap disterb hoe hay pela ap ka shohar seh alag hona pely ap hongy gusay wale per shadi k doran ap k roz roz jahgray ne apka demag paka wesa ker diya hay yani shok hay ap k demag me alag hony seh hota hay insan sat rehta hay phir alag. second bat ap pesy ki waja seh b upset hay i know es pesy ne kafi logon ki life me conflict pehda ker diya hay koi bhai bhai ka nai jes peh pesa hay os ko salam hay yeh reality hay es door ki... en do chezon ne apki life disterb ki hay.. so pela hal yeh hay ap 5 time nemaz paren or khas khas bol raha hon km az kam ak hazaar bar Darod pak akely beht ker paro jahan koi na ho bus sara demag une per ho jin k liye ap par rahi ho.. just ak hafta ker leen ap me change a jahy gi ap ka gusa ap ka wehm becheni sab khatam ho jahy gi nemaz baqaydgi seh paren job keren par ak bat mind me rahken jab ap tehk han ap ka koi kuch nai begar sakta ju job ka time hay usi per apna kaam khatam keren ju ap bol rahi han ak do dost han on k sat outing k liye jaen idar odar ghar or oper seh lety lety demag pagal ho jata hay jab kuch kerny ko na ho.. mera persoanl just do dost han or koi nai hay.. but life shuker ALLAH ka tehk chal rahi try keren shukrany k nafal para keren q k Shuker kerny wale zaban ALLAH koi bohat pasand hay.. agy ALLAH apki life ko behter kery apki paryshani b ameen... |
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 7:37pm |
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Shukriya sab ka Dear friends jesa k mene likha k shadi k ek sal pehle se meri ye kefiyat hai mujhe lagta hai pura masla bata dena chahiye esi kefiyat thi mene ami se bat ki to unho ne kaha life badal jaegi to ye sab theek hojaega shadi ki mene apna best dia shadi ko khud ko badla hum dono mein mohabat bhi thi par dheere dheere esa hoa kay mujhe us se nafrat hone lagi shayad is liye kay jesa mene shadi ko socha tha kay ek dosre kay dukh sukh bantenge esa nahi hoa kuch mene khud apni marzi se os se aladgi ikhtiyar ki wo nahi chahta tha lekin os ne or os kay ghar walon ne mujhe is qadar tang kar rakha tha kay bs shayad or logon k liye ye sab norml hota but mene puri zindagi in fozol baton mein dilchsbi nhi li to mera dm ghutne laga or os se alag hone ka mujhe koi dukh nahi khushi hai dosri bat kay shadi se pehle mujhe koi pasand tha ose bhi mein par shy hone ki waja se mene kabhi pehel nahi ki to wo bat wahen khatam hogai phir bhol gai lekin kuch roz pehle se wo mere samne hai sath zindagi guzarne ki peshkash kay sath mere abi tak talak nahi hoi hai soch mein hun k kia krun kia sahi kia ghalt hai shadi k naam se bhi ab khof sa ane laga hai par dil kehta hai dil ki sunno ek bar himmt karun zindagi boht achi hogi kia karun main |
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Feb 2014, 8:07pm |
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Dear masom boy Dear masom boy mujh mein esi koi kmmi nhi rahi kabhi b kisi b trhan k ye soch ae log mere bare mein kia sochenge Allah ka shukr hai lekin mujh mein ehesas nadamt boht hai mein agr kisi se unchi awaz mein bat b kar lon to tab to gusa shetani sift mujh se ye gunnah krwa leta hai pr bad mein etna pachtati hun u hi zra zra c ghlti ka b pchtawa jab k dekhti hun log qatal kar k b sher ki trhan phirte hen un mein kahan se ye jurat ati hai bs yahi waja hai shayad jo esa ho dosri ye bat k bchpn tk to logon se mel milap na rakhna hogaya akele rehna pr ab na chahte hoe b dunia dari k liye rah o rasam rakhna prta hai mujhe esa lgta hai mein gunnehgar hun boht jab kay kabhi koi bra gunnah nahi kia jhot narazgi is k ilawa pr bad mein nabi pak saww ka ek irshad prh k janna k jhot hi to har gunnah ki waja hai jhot se baz ana har gunnah se bchao hai lekin jo irada karti hun agle din jab jagti hun himmt tot jati hai sorry mujhe nhi pta yahan kis trhan likha jata hai headline wegara umeed hai ap smjhenge mujhe logon ki mrzi ki nahi apni marzi ki zindagi jini hai meri khushi isi mein hai lekin hesiyat km hone ki waja se mjbor hun khudatmadi km hai dr lgta hai dhoka khane se g krta hai kahen akeli ja kr beth jaon brson tk meri koi bri khuhishat bhi nahi pichle sal khab mein nabi pak saww ko dekhna naseeb hoa yakeen nahi aya abi tak kay mujh fakeer gunahgar pr ye karam wo khush thy boht osi doran shadi ki bat hoi ye soch kar rishta kia k shayd mubarak ho lekin kia maloom hai insan ka bhala os se behtr janta hai beshq bas mera g nahi lagta dunia dari mein khof rehta hai mar jaon to kia hoga anjam os jahan mein wrna kab se khudkushi kar leti khuda se etna khuf ata hai k mafi mangne se b dr lgta hai shrminda hun os kay agy apni baz na ane wali gandi adat ki waja se apne fesle par qaim na rehna sabr ka na hona ye gusa mustakil mizaji ka na hona kia os k sath rahun jis se mujhe khof nahi ata ya is shadi ko na toron lekin is mein meri kabhi khushi nhi etna janti hun kia krun sochti jaon ya khuda par feska chor dun ghoror ko khud se bilqul khatam kr dia boht pehle hasad abhi b kuch baqi hai gusa beinteha hai jis se apno ko takleef hoti hai mujhe khud b |
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Masoom_boy
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2014, 4:38am |
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is waqat ap bohat se -ve thinking k shikar hain...
kiya ap mujhy apna Email adress de sakti ho... In Sha Allah i ll help u and kl change ur life...
MOD NOTE: Asking people for direct contact is against forum rules. Never do this again.
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2014, 6:43am |
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masoom Life to yahan seh b change ho sakti hay yeh best jagan hay batany k liye shayed ap ki baten dosron k b kaam ki hon ju life badal deen dosry b faida otha leen gay es seh i think u understand what am saying. |
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2014, 6:55am |
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eshal ager apko wo larka pasand hay to ap us k sat life guzar leen shadi ker leen akely tanha sochti rahen to or disterb hongy ap and ak bat ka dehan rahy k bohat km log hoty han ju kese ko pasand keren or bad me us ki shadi kahen or ho jahy phr wo palat ker us k pas ahy to dil wo muhbat nahi rehti mean zada tar ehsa hota hay. ap uski feeling janne jesy pely thi wesi han ya change hay q k har mard ka concept alag seh hota hay ap me koi na koi khaseyat hay ju Etni Bari Hasti ki zeyrat ka sharf hasil hoa ALLAH AHmudulillah mujy b hoa hay ju apko hoa hay mujy seh b pochty han log ehsa kya kerty ho k tumen yeh inam mila kher yeh to meri perosnal bat hay par apki baton seh lagta hay MAfi mangna nadim hona toba kerna ALLAH ko pasand hay jis dil me feeling na hon apny gunah ki chaye wo chota ho ya bara usy mei insan he nai sasmjta.. and rahi bat gusasy ki to mujy kud yeh bemari hy me es ko bemari he kahon ga k q yeh mujy 1 saal ki omar seh thi or ab tak hay zid pan khatm nai hota per yeh km ho gya hay bus nemaz roza Dard Pak ki kasrat en chezon ko khatam ker deti hay so ap b es ko apne life ka mamol bana ker keren INSHALLAH behtri hogi... |
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2014, 3:04pm |
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Thank you zoni Thank you zoni dear and sorry masoom boy email yahan mana hai or rules torna buri bat hai or zoni ki bat sahi hai agr yahen bat ho kafi log faida hasil karen Allah ap sb ko salamat rakhe boht khushiyun k sath ameen |
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z.zoni
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Group: Members Joined: 29th Dec, 2013 Topic: 1 Post: 158 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Feb 2014, 5:54pm |
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hmm my pleasure take care with joy full life :) |
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