 taking gold by husband
Praise be to Allaah. If a man gives his wife gold that is not part of the mahr, if his intention was to give it as a gift, then the gold has become her property, and it is not permissible for him to take back this gift. Al-Bukhaari (2589) and Muslim (1622) narrated that Ibn 'Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sa) said: "The one who takes back his gift is like the dog which vomits then goes back to its vomit." Al-Bukhaari (2622) also narrated: "We are not like the bad example of the one who takes back his gift; he is like a dog that goes back to its vomit." This hadeeth indicates that it is haraam to take back a gift. The scholars of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas were asked: A man gave his entire house and all the furniture in it as a gift to his wife; can he take back his gift, and how? They replied: If the wife has not taken possession of what her husband gave her in a way that is customarily regarded as taking possession of something, then he may take back his gift. Hoever, this is not regarded as dignified conduct, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "The one who takes back his gift is like the dog that goes back to its vomit." If she has taken possession of it in a manner that may be regarded as attaining ownership according to custom, then it has become her property and he cannot take it back, according to Islam, except with her consent. Nevertheless, if he takes it back after she willingly returned it to him, that is contrary to decency and dignified conduct. If they disagree concerning the gift and what is regarded as taking possession of it, then the matter should be settled in the sharee'ah courts. End quote from Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa'imah, 16/247 Shaykh 'Abd al-'Azeez ibn Baaz, Shaykh 'Abd ar-Razzaaq 'Afeefi, Shaykh 'Abdullah ibn Munay ' ya jo uper main nay send kiya hy.main ya janna chahty hoon kay ya theek hy sab. kion kay marha sawal ya hay kay maree jab shadee hoi tu mary shuher .nay marha 12 tolha gold ju tha .wo shadi kay 2months baad wapis ly liya tha .ur muj ko patta bhi nahin chalha. bad main patta chalha tha jab main ny box degha tha. ab main wapas maang rahi hoon wo muj ko wapas deety nahin hain. uur kabhi bolty hain choore hoo geeya hay .kabhi bolty hain main ny bank main raghaya hy. her month pasy milty hain fix hay woo. mary saas susser ko bhi patta hy. laken koi khuch nahin bolta. uur jab say shadee hoi hay muj ko koi kharcha nahin deeya geeya. main job karty thee uur apny shuher ko bhi passy deety thee. uur apna bhi kharcha poorha karty thee. ik saal howa hy maree shadee ko. hach ghsy bandy hain but patta nahin kiya kar rahy hain . samaj nahin aa rahi muj ko . kay kiya chahty hain .uur mary sath her time jaghrah laghaty hain. phly mary is sawal ka jawa din please pher main aap ko apni pooree storee sonaion gee. nikha nama par bhi wrtie howa hy ka roghsty kay time 12 tolha gold dolhen ko batoory gift deeya jay gha. but mary shuher bolty hain kay woo hamarha tha serf tum ko pahna kar lay hain. i dont understand any thin. please help me. i need realy help from u all. becouse i am very sad. dowa goo sab kay leeya/ app ki bahen
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