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Cool-Boy |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008 Topic: 17 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 11:33pm |
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 Family Problem
AoA brothers and sister... umeed karta hon sab khariyat se hoon gey...
mere NIKAAH ko 2 sal aur 5 mahine ho gahye hain NIKAAH ke baad
Rukhasti nahi hui thi bhahar hal NIKAAH ke baad main Spain wapis ageya...
kuch family matter ki wajah se mere ghar walon ne mere susral walon ne
bat ki ke meri biwi ghar ajaye is tarah meri wife mere ghar agayi...
takreeban pichle mahine ki bat hai MAY 2012 ki ke mere sala sahab ke
ghar beti pedi hui to meri wife apni betiji dekne ghar chali gahi us ke baad
2 weeks guzre to phone kara aur kaha chalo ab ghar wapis chali jao...to
meri wife ne kaha next week jaon gi maine OK keh diya... jab next mounth
bi guzar geya to meine duabara phone kia ke apne zuban ki thi ke next
week chali jao gi wapis to agay se muje pe chalane lagi aur UNCHI UNCHI
AWAZ mein bat karne lagi meine kaha ke awaz ko niche karo aur aram se
bat karo lakin wo nahi mani to muje bi ghusa ageya aur meine kaha dafa
ho maine ab bat nahi karni... aur phone band kar diya....lakin jab meine dafa
hone ka kaha to meri wife ne phone ka speakar ON RAKHA THA jis se mere
susar aur saas maa ne sab bateen sun li jo bi humne ki...aur mere ghar
walon ko bi pata chal geya phir mere ghar walioon ne kaha chalo narazgi
door karo aur phone karo wife ko aur kaho ke ghar wapis jahe..aur us ne
baad pichle hafte 25/05/2012 ko maine phone kara meri saas maa ne
ateend kia sab kahirat wagera puchne ke baad mene kaha ke mene apni
wife se bat karni hai to kehti hai maine bat nahi karwani..jo bat karni hai
mujse karo...meine kaha meri wife hai meri bat karwheen ap to unoon ne
SAF MANA kar diya... aur kehti hain wapis ghar bi nahi bejna.. jab thak tum
nahi aho gey maine kaha job wagera ka masla hai main ajaon ga wase bi
to apne ghar humare to choor diya tha na... bas us ke baad yeh Din hai ke
bat nahi hui aur maine bi phone nahi kia... wo kehte hain FASILA karo mene
kaha mere DIL ka yehi FASila hai hai meri wife ko ghar bej do aur wo
maan nahi rahe aur mere ghar walon ki bi bat nahi maan rahe... AB ap main
se koi soluion de sakta hai to please dijiye ap sab ki bohat meharbani
hogi..... ALLAH HAFIZ
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 545 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 12:04pm |
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 cool boy
bhai afsos hua waqai ap jase husband kismat se milte hai our ap k wife to bht niyat k buri hai. Us k kasor nh us k trbiat he ase ki gae ho ge ghar nain bacha bacpan se wohe sekhta hai jo ma bap sikhte hai. 1st us k galti us ne wada tora.2nd husband se oche awaz main bat ki muna k bawajod chilae. 3rd galti us ki k speker on kiya hu hai nh to yea mian bewi k apus k batein hote hai par is ne jo kiya galat kiya.
Cool bhai orat humesha hoshyar rehte hai k kahe us se koi galti na ho jis se us k hubby ya us k ghar walo ko mujh se koi shikwa ho jae.our larki k ghar wale khs tor par ma ka farz bunta hai k apni larki k trf dari na kare use samjhae jo ghr hai tumara aj se wohe hai sukh dukh main tumen waha rehna hai ghar basana hai agr tume.agr ap ne dant dia to yea koi buda issu nh jise inti budya ja raha hai.ub us larki k ghr walo ka farz hai k larki ko ap k ghr chor aae. Larki k ghar walo ko jo parwah hone chye.wo ap our ap k ghr wale kar rahe hai k ghra ajae. Ub is masle ka hal yehe hai ap use fial chor dein khc din us ka dimag dahnda ho jane do. |
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 545 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Jun 2012, 12:05pm |
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cool boy bhai afsos hua waqai ap jase husband kismat se milte hai our ap k wife to bht niyat k buri hai. Us k kasor nh us k trbiat he ase ki gae ho ge ghar nain bacha bacpan se wohe sekhta hai jo ma bap sikhte hai. 1st us k galti us ne wada tora.2nd husband se oche awaz main bat ki muna k bawajod chilae. 3rd galti us ki k speker on kiya hu hai nh to yea mian bewi k apus k batein hote hai par is ne jo kiya galat kiya.
Cool bhai orat humesha hoshyar rehte hai k kahe us se koi galti na ho jis se us k hubby ya us k ghar walo ko mujh se koi shikwa ho jae.our larki k ghar wale khs tor par ma ka farz bunta hai k apni larki k trf dari na kare use samjhae jo ghr hai tumara aj se wohe hai sukh dukh main tumen waha rehna hai ghar basana hai agr tume.agr ap ne dant dia to yea koi buda issu nh jise inti budya ja raha hai.ub us larki k ghr walo ka farz hai k larki ko ap k ghr chor aae. Larki k ghar walo ko jo parwah hone chye.wo ap our ap k ghr wale kar rahe hai k ghra ajae. Ub is masle ka hal yehe hai ap use fial chor dein khc din us ka dimag dahnda ho jane do. |
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Siyah Posh |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Apr, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 264 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2012, 3:31am |
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cool-boy
aisa hota rehta hai jab situation ap jesi ho biwi jab sulah safaai se gai thi to na aanay ki wajah aik hi hai k kisi ne aur mostly ap ki saas ne hi ap ki biwi k kan bheray hain kiun k jab ap logon ne un ki aik gher maqool bat man li yani bina formal rukhsaty aur ap ki gher mojudgi main ap ki biwi ka ap k gher ajana ab ais alagta hai k ap ki biwi ko ghalat fehmi ho gai hai k ap un ki her bat manain gay isi liyay woh log is terah ap ko treet ker rahay hain tabhi ap ki saas ne kaha k ap aain gay to fesla ho ga aur fesla yeh hoga k ya to ap apni wife ko sath le ker jain ya usay alag gher le ker den ya woh maikay main rahay gi jab tak ap spain main raha kero gay lagta hai ap ki 2-3 saliyan hain jin ki shadi k liyay ap ki help lena chahtay hain ap k susral walay is khel ko khel ker apnay kisi bhi feslay ko parents k bagher na kijiyay ga kiun k jo lerki/ susral walay real biwi banay bina hi ais aker rahi hai kl ko kuch bhi ker sakty hai |
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uree |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Aug, 2011 Topic: 18 Post: 55 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2012, 4:29am |
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dear cool boy. asalamoalikum. dear brother
bat ko zara goor sy samjhna ap ok.
1. nikkah hony k bad wo karki ap ki biwi nhe hi balky mankooha hi. biwi wo ap ki jb bany ge jb ap dono ka reshta mukamal ho jai ga. or ap ny ye kaha hi k ap ki ruksati abhe nhe hoi hi.
2.or ruksati k bina us larki ko apny ghar bhejna nhe chahea tha.
3.or agr bhj b diya tu ye pabandi ap un py har giz nhe laga saktyk wo apni susral mi rahy. apni khushe sy chahea tu rah sakti hi.
4.mi ap dono ki halat samaj sakti hon zaher si bat hi itna lamba arsa ho gaya hi ap k nikkah ko dono ka he boht dil chahta ho ga k jald az jald 1 dosy k sat ho jain agar ap us larki ko chor k akyly spain gai hoi hain tu wo b yahn akyli hi depressed ho gai ho ge ap sat sat ap p paryshan hain.
5.or jahn tk fahad hussan khan sahab ny jo farmay k us ko ap sy aysa nhe krna chahea tha ye siyah posh jo kh rahy hain ye choti choti batin hamary moashry ha hissa hin in sb batoon ko ly k ap paryshan na hon.
6.wo ap ki wife(mankooha) hi jiss k sat ap ka rishta allah ki ny joora hi ap ko sari zindage us k sat he guzarni hi jazbat mi aa k koi fesla na kaiea ga.... or us ko boht pyr mohabt sy samjhain or jo b bat ho us sy direct kiya karin na k family k logon ko involve kain,(myra ye matlab hr giz nhe hi k ap apny waldain ko us k samny ignoor kain yr ghar wollon sy koi bat na krin) but jb tak ruksati na ho jai tb tk ap khud he sara mamla us sy contect py solve karin ok.
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Cool-Boy |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008 Topic: 17 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2012, 8:50am |
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 Agree UREE
Main manta ho apki bat lakin meri meri wife se bat hi nahi karwai ja rahi to main kia... us ke ilawa mere do salay hain aur 1 sali unmarried... i dont know main kia karon...mera to sar me dard hai isi wajah se..
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fahad hussain khan |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Apr, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 545 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jun 2012, 1:30pm |
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cool boy to khd chale jo bewi k pas agr phone p bat nh karwae ja rahe to .gahr to bardbad hone se bachana hai na. |
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simplelife |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 134 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2012, 3:44am |
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family problem according to me
............yah intihai ghalt kam ha ky khud abroad raho aur biwi ko khao ky meray maa bap ky ghar rhy...............biwi shohar ky lia aati ha apna ghr chor ky .......us ky maa bap ky lia nahi ...........jab ap pakistan hi nahi thy to ap ko apni biwi ko susraal aany ka khna hi nahi chahya tha................biwi ki hifazat shohar karta ha us ky ghr walay nahi ..........ap ki biwi ny sahi kia ky susraal nahi gai us ko jana bih nahi chahya ap wapis aao aur aa ky lay jao aur us ky sath rho ya us ko apny sath bahir ly jao to theek ha ........lakin apni absence mai biwi ko compel karna kha ka insaaf ha ?
ap ki apni behan kia is tarha shohar ky bagher apny susraal reh saky gi?jo biwi ko compel kar rhy ho ap ?
aur ap ko us ko phone py bhi yah naih khna chayya tha ky mai to yhan hun tm meray maa bap ky ghr jao ............Allah ny us ko ap ki zindagi ka sath bnaya ha aur zindagi ........sath ky sath hi achi lagti ha
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simplelife |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 134 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2012, 3:47am |
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sathi*
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simplelife |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 134 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2012, 3:50am |
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muhjay aik bat ki samjh naih aati yhan itnay saray cases dekhy hen ..........log wife ky mutaliq itni baten krty hen ............wo sirf aik bat bta den ............jo kuch wo apni wife ky lia sochty hen ya aitraz karty hen esa agr un ki behan beti ky sath ho to un ko kesay lagy ga?
ap ki biwi bhi to kisi ki behan beti hoti ha...........us ko bhi bohat pyar say rakha gya hota ha zindagi ky bohat sal phr ap log biwi bn jaany py us larki/aurat ko saza deny py kun tul jaaty hen?...............kis sirf is lia ky wo ap ki malkyat bn jati ha?
Allah Taala us ka ikhtyar ap ky hawalay kr dety hen sirf is lia ap najaiz faida uthay ho?
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simplelife |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 134 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2012, 3:54am |
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susraal susraal esi jaga ha jhan aurat kabhi bhi shohar ky bagher nahi reh sakti aur na us ko rehna chahya ...............shohar aik muhafiz hota ha jab muhafiz hi na ho to???????????
phr log baten karty hen bahu laraka ha /batamez ha .....agr wo laraka na ho to DEWAR nami bala peecha nai chorti
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simplelife |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 134 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jun 2012, 3:55am |
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sathi*
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Gr8pal |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jun 2012, 3:15am |
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kuch kahu gi asalam o alaikum.simple life ne boht sahi kaha he.2nd ye bhi mumkin he k apki wife ko susral me ksi ne kuch esa kaha ho jo unko boht hurt kr gya ho.shohar ko neutral bn kr faisla krna chahye. |
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Cool-Boy |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008 Topic: 17 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jun 2012, 11:38pm |
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 Salam
AoA janab mene sab ki suni aur ghar me sirf mere kahala hain jino ne muje
apne betay ki tarah pala aur wo meri maaan hi hain aur baki sab mere ghar
wale mere sath spain me hain pakistan me na to koi dewar na dewrani to kis
ne aur hurt karna hai aur muje pura yakeen hai meri khala kabhi un ko koi
takleef nahi deen gi.... aur muje yeh bi pata chala hai pakistan ke ke jab wo
humare ghar me hoti hai to mun latka latka retha tha kisi se khush ho ke bat
nahi karni aur jab wapis mehkay jaye to khush ho jati hain.....
aur meri kahala ke na to mian hain na hi koi bachey wo akeli rehti hain.
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uree |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Aug, 2011 Topic: 18 Post: 55 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jun 2012, 2:43pm |
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agree with simplelife.... bhai cool boy tum apni begum ko apny sat rakho jitni jaldi ho saky wapis aa k sat ly k jaoo..........1 galti tu kr chuky ho apni begum ko apny ghar bjy k. or ap un py zabardasti nhe kr sakty k wo ap k bina ap k ghar ja k rahin........................ok. un ko pura haq hi apny ma bap k han rahny ka jysy ap apni family mi zada happy rahty ho aysi he wo b apni family zada khush o khurram rahin ge simple si bat hi.............. yr ajj kal ki dunya mi rhty hoi kiya jahalt ki batin sochty ho k begum mu latka k rhti hi bla bla bla............ ye happy nhe rehti with out u wo kysy happy rh sakti hi??????? batoo zara 1 bat ye k jb tk ap apni begum k samny ja k khud bat na krlo koi galat ya bara fesla na krna undrstand. ho sakta hi k ap ki family mi ap ki susral mi koi aysa ho jo is resty sy happy na ho jb he ap ki ger mojoodgi mi ye mamlat peda kiea ja rahe hon. |
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uree |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Aug, 2011 Topic: 18 Post: 55 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jun 2012, 2:47pm |
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or bhai dunya ki batoon mi aa k apni begum py shak na karoo ap ki family ya ap ki susral mi sy koi kuch b kahy jb tk face 2 face bat na krlo kisi ka b yaqeen na krna. wrna kabhe b kamiyab zindage nhe guzar skty.
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Cool-Boy |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008 Topic: 17 Post: 106 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Jun 2012, 5:24pm |
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Uree janab yahan meri job ka masla bana hua hai job nahi hai mere pass kuch
months se aur itni jaldi le kar bi nahi ja sakta mene kaha bi hai ke is year ke
last thak intezar karo... aur jahalat ki bateen mahi soch raha hai jo mene feel
kia wo bataya maine...bande ki nature se pata chal jata hai ke wo kasa insan
hai...wase bi muje 3 weeks ho gaye meri bat nahi hui wife se aur us ke ghar
wale bi nahi karwate... lakin meri wife ko bi zara kayal nahi ke agar ghar
wale bat nahi karwate ho main khuad hi call kar ke puch loon...
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 463 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Jun 2012, 4:09am |
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Cool-boy, Shadi k baad husband hi wife ka sab kuch huta hai na k aus k susral ya maieke wale....So mera aap ko ye suggestion hai ki aap yaha khud aaye aur apni wife ko aapne sath le jaye.,and aap ki saas bi tu yahi chahti hai k aap khud aunhe lejaye...Yani aap ki wife ki bi yahi wish hu gi......
And ek baat kaho ga "humare islamic lehaz se agr wife aapne husband k sath bila kisi waja agr 4 month se zyada sath na rahe tu aus ki haq talfi huti hai..."...One thing more...Ais problem me na tu aap ki koi galti hai na hi aap k ghar walo ki aur na hi aap k susral walo ka ye problem ki main root aap k aapne biwi se door rahena hai....
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uree |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Aug, 2011 Topic: 18 Post: 55 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Jun 2012, 12:42pm |
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agree with H.A.S problm ki main root ye hi he k ap ki begum aur ap 1 sat nhe ho. n ap ki problm b samj aa rahe hi k ap pak wapis nhe aa sakty.............abhe. ap bus sabar karoo allah sy dua mangty rahoo paryshan hony sy kuch nhe ho ga or apny ap ko cool down rakhoo. ap gussy waly ho boht zada ap ki batoon sy andaza ho raha hi. barhal god bless u both. or ap ki wife kary ya na kary ap zaror contct krty rehna un sy han is jaga mistake un ki b hi k wo contect nhe kr rahe but un ki galti ko sar py sawar mt krna jo galti wo kr rahe hin wo apppp plzzzzzz mat krna try 2 contect as soon as posible. god bless u. |
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zoya90 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jun, 2012 Topic: 4 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Jun 2012, 1:56pm |
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@ cool boy aik larki apny husband sy boot kuch expect karti hay...wo apna sab kuch apny parents behn bhai chor ky ati hy par bot dher sari umeedhain sath lati hai...agar apkko is bat sy bura laga ky wo ap ki srf khala ky sath sahi nai reh rhi thi tu ap khud souchu wo tu apna sab kuch ap ky lie chor ky ai aur ap usy kehty hu dafa hu jao bla bla bla tu usy kesa lagy ga???think about it...agr God forbide ap ki sister ky sath hu tu apka kia reaction huga...wife ky bary main koi b judgement,decion, leny sy pehly apni sister ko apny mu ky agy rkh kar zaror sochye..hope u understand ..thnx
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