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| Posted on:16th May 2012, 7:24am |
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 Mein bohut pareshaan hun
Mein bohut pareshaan hun. Mera sar soch soch ker pheta jar aha hai.
Samajh
nahi a rahi kahan sai shuru keron. Shadi kai baad meri wife nai bataya
tha keh hamare aik teacher hein bohut achay. Unkay saath hamari family
kai bohut achay relations hein. Mein aik do baar us sai mila bhi hun.
Age mein meray jitna hi hai. Shaadi bhi ho chuki hai Ab woh uk mein
rehta hai apni bivi kai saath. Mujhe thora sa shak hua. App samajh lein
keh meri sixth sense nai bataya keh kuch garbar hai. Mein logon ka face
dekh kar hi zara jaldi pehchaan jata hun. Mein nai apni wife ka mobile
chk kerna shuru ker dia. Meri wife sms kerti thi usko. Kuch khaas nahi
bas haal chaal poch lia etc etc. mein nai mana kia keh isko sms na kia
kero. Phir meri wife nai sms delete kerna shuru ker diye. Mein online
call details mein chk ker leta tha keh sms hoye hein. Mein nai phir
sakhti sai mana kia keh ainda is kay saath koi contact nahi kerna. Phir
msg kerna band ho gai. Mein mutmain ho gia.
Meri wife kai paas
dual sim mobile hai. Yeh kal raat ki baat hai. Mein nai mobile chk kia
to jo sim mein nai usko lai ker di thi us sai unsay sms nahi kia balkeh
new sim lai ker doosray sim jack mein laga ker msg kia hoa tha. Aur uska
reply bhi aya hoa tha. Mein nai jo sim lai ker di thi uski call detail
chk ki to us sai koi mmsg nahi hoa tha. Lehaza us nai kisi nai sim sai
msg kerna shuru kiye hoye thai. Jiska mujhe nahi pata kia number hai.
Msg
jo meri wife nai kia us nai to meray hosh ura diye.. likha tha. Xxxxx
kabhi sms per hi baat ker lia kero. Mein itni udaas ho jaati hun. Phir
mein nai inbox chk kia to mera dil zor zor sai dherakna shuru ho gia aur
mera sar jesay bas phat hi jaye ga. Reply tha Janoo samjah kero na mein
office mein hota hun kam kerta hun wahan sai mushkil hota hai.
Meri
wife ai mein nai us kai teacher ka msg khol ker usay kaha is ka kia
matlab hai. Us kai bhi hosh ur gaye. Aik dam heran pareshaan. Jab Wahi
per mobile rakha aur kamray sai bahir chali gai. Mein nai mobile utha
ker dekha t to unsay jo khud msg kia tha delete ker dia tha. Jab mein
lait gia to meray paas a gai. Meray hath apnay hathon mein pakar liye.
Kehnay lagi keh jo app samajh rahay hein asi koi baat nahi hai. Mein nai
kaha mein ab itna bhi pagal nahi hun. Mein nai kaha tum nai bhi koi msg
kia tha. Nahi boli. Phir poocha kehti haan kia tha. Mein nai kaha kia
kia tha. Koi jawab nahi. Phir who uth gai. Raat ko mujhe to neend nahi a
rahi thi. Phir meray paas a kar lait gai. Laiti rahi phir uth gai.
Main
nai usay nahi bulaya. Mera damagh aisay hai keh bas abhi phat jaye ga.
Us nay to apnay bachon ka bhi na socha. Mein sirf apnay bachon ki wajah
sai chup rehta tha. Badtameezi kerti thi tab bhi. Ab meri samajh mein
nahi a raha mein kia keron. Agar farz kerain mein talak deta hun to
meray bachon ki custody kis ko milay gi. Mujhe yaan meri bivi ko. Aik 3
ka aur doosri 2 saal ki hai. Agar usay milti hai to kia mein court mein
appeal ker kai apne bache lai sakta hunk eh meri wife kai kisi aur sai
relations hain.
Aik side per mein soctha hunk keh shaid mein
ghalat side per na ja raha hun. Koi relation nah on unkay lekin her
cheez msg , new sim etc prove kertay hein keh koi relations zaroor hein
unkay darmian.
Mujhe plz suggest kerain mein kia keron. Us sai
baat keron. Baat keron to kia keron? Us sai maufi mangwaon. Maufi to us
soorat mein hai keh who ikraar keray keh wakai koi relation tha yaan
hai..
Please help me
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abhi 10-25 min pehlay meri wife ka ph aya. mein nai kaha ghar a kar baat
keron ga. kehnay lagi itni der app bhi tension mein aur mein bhi
tension miein rahoon gi.. app tension na lein beemar ho jain gai. mera
uskay saath koi relation nahi hai. werna mein app ko apnay jism ko kabhi
haath na laganay deti. aur bache bhi na hote. bas mera woh friend hai.
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listen take it easy tention na lo..agar vo galat hai to khud ko tabah na karo...but i do beleive she is corrupt or asi kameeni cheeez se jan churana behter hai...bchon ki soch ae ge to phr guzara karo is k sath...bt my exprience says she will not let him... |
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| Posted on:16th May 2012, 9:33am |
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new salam! app ne jo likha me ne bare gor se parha. mujhe ye samajh nae ata jis aurat pe app aetmad nae krte ussay apne bachun ki maan kyun banane dia. in case agar app ko bad me shak hua to sharam to ai ho gi ye soch kr k me apne bachun ki maa k bare me kitna ghatia soch raha hun. male female friendship me manti hun kbi bhi bilkul be garz nae hoti . lekin jo uk me apni family k sath settle hai. wo appki biwi k sath kia ta'luq rakh sakta hai. ye sirf zehni ayashi ho sakti hai. nothing else. ho sakta.uss k bulane ka tariqa app ko pasand na ae magar you should trust your wife. don't doubt. give her trust and respect. wo sahe kehti hai agar wo apko pasand na krti to kbi bhi apko khud ko chhune na dati. koi bhi woman ye like nae krti k asa shakhs ussko chhue jise wo like nae krti. trust your wife. apni life ko jahannum mat banao. khush raho. jb app respect and trust do ge to wo khud bakhud appki bat man kr uss shakhs se mukammil taur par rabta khatam kr de gi. be easy and be calm.
Talaq k bare me sochna bhi galt hai. think about it.
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| Posted on:16th May 2012, 2:06pm |
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New wife say cell phone lay lain, or sumhany ki koshish kurin, juzbat meah aa kur koi fasila mut kurin, osy warning dain agur in future koch esa wesa keya tu divorce kur donga, etc, divorce be kubi 3 ek sath nahi dany hen, Allah kury woh sumaj jay, or ap apni wife ko time deya kurin or tahreef bhe kur deya kurin
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Siyah Posh |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Apr, 2012 Topic: 6 Post: 264 Age:
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dr. qasim ne bilkul sahi kaha hai sab se pehlay ap mobile le lain is k baad aap is bat ko samjhnay ki koshish kero k kiun ap ki wife ap k aur bachon k hotay khud ko UDAAS ya akela feel kerti hai aik aurat ya lerki shadi se pehlay ghalti ker sakty hai jesay merd jan boojh ker kerta hai lekin shadi k baad merd aur aurat dono ko aik dooseray ka wafadar hona chahyay lekin ap ki wife ager bachon k honay k baad bhi aisa kr rahi hain aur is terah k UDASS ho jati hain to shayed is main ap ki bhi kahin koi ghalti ho gi aurat hamesha piyar aur tawajo chahti hai humaray 90% merd yeh samjhtay hain k aurt ko sex de diya to bas kafi hai aisa nhn hai aurat ka jisam kapron se azad kerna bohat asan hai lekin aurat ko us k ander se azad kerna bohat mushkil hai aisa lagta hai k ap ka aur ap ki wife ka bas jismani rishta to hhai lekin dil ka nhn hai bachay peda ker lena ya ho jana aik process hai is main yeh nhn k ap ne aurat ko fatah ker liya ap ki wife ki bat sahi hai k ager woh us insan k sath involve hotin to ap ko kabhi touch na kernay detin is liyay us point ko samjhain jo ap ki wife ko abhi bhi us se contact per majboor kerta hai tution teachers akser students k close hotay hain specialy is halat main k lerki student ho aur merd teacher aur hon bhi same age group k is liyay koi bhi sakhat action lenay se pehlay halaat ko samjhain ab aap k bachay bhi hain kahin ais ana ho k ap ki jaladbazi ap k bachon per aser dalay |
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reply App sab logon ka bohut bohut shukria.
Meray khiaal mein kami mujh mein bhi hai. Main apni wife ka dil nahi jeet saka. Aur mujhe pata bhi nahi hai keh kis tarhaan jeeta jata hai. Mein zero hun is muamlay mein. Lekin iska yeh matlab nahi keh aik partner kisi aur kai saath involve ho jaye.
Greeny app nai theek kaha keh shaid mujhe uskay bulane ka tarika acha nahi laga. Janu sirf jo bohut kareeb hon who use kertay hein.
Mobile t kal hi mein nai lai lia tha.
Mein nai raat baat ki us sai. Unsay kaha keh app ko batanay ka kia faida jab app nai yakeen hi nahi kerna mein nai kaha batao. Us nai kaha keh app jis sense mein janu ko samajh rahay hein us sense mein us nay nahi kaha. Beshak who meri age ka hi hai lekin hamesha teacher kis tarhaan hi raha hai. Hamay kabhi baby, kabhi putar kabhi kisi naam sai bulata hai kabhi kisi naam sai. Kabhi us nay is nazar sai nahi dekha. Hamain bache hi samjha hai. Who hamaray family member hi ki tarhaan hai. Phir unsay yeh bhi bataya keh jab mera shaadi sai pehlay aik larkay kai saath relation tha to tab bhi meray sir hi nai mujhe samjhaya tha keh is tarhaan nahi kertay apnay maan baap ki baat maantay hein. Message mein nai is lye kia tha keh sir ki angiography hoi thi is liye haal poochna tha. Jab mein nai udaasi kai baray mein poocha to kehnay lagi mein nai aisay nahi likha tha aur mein nai kyon udaas hona hai meray bache hein, sara din mein kaam mein lagi rehti hun. Yahan per meri bivi nai mera naam nahi lia. Sim kai baarya mein poocha to kehnay lagi keh bhai sai lai ker ai thi. Meri ghalti hai keh mein nai use ki halankeh app nai mujhe mana bhi kia tha. Mein nai kaha kahan hai sim. Kehnay lagi mein nai phenk di hai. Mein nai amie sai baat ki to unhoon nai mujhe bohut daanta aur kaha sim phenk do. Tumhare paas pehlay wali thi us sai ker leti. Yahan mein app ko batata chalon keh mein nai mana bhi kia tha keh ab koi contact nahi kerna phir us nai kyon kia. Meri baat kyon nahi maani. Phir us nay yeh bhi kaha keh aik banda pp sai sincere hai app kyon nahi hein. Halan keh mein to sincere hun. Mera kisi larki kai saath koi chakkar nahi hai.
Siyah posh nai lagta hai keh theek kaha keh hamara jismani rishta zaroor hai lekin dil ka nahi. Abhi thoray din pehlay mein nai us sai kaha tha keh itna arsa ho gia mein tumhein abhi tak nahi jaan saka.
Aurat itni mushkil kyon hai. Kyon itni pardon mein chupi hoti hai.
Ab app kia kehna chahain gai. Kia koi rishta nahi hai unka. Mujhe trust kerna chaye hai apni wife per.
Mujhe batain keh mein kis tarhaan uska dil jeeton. Mujhe kuch tips dein.
App ka bohut bohut shukria
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2431 Age:
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aik bat aur yad rakhain k zaruri nhn k ager ap ki wife us se contact ain hai to ap se bewafaai ker rahi hain ho sakta hai k bas zera si care n pampring k liyay us se contact main hon jesa ap ne btaya tha k u sn un ko janu etc likha tha mera nhn khayal k un ka koi ghalat relation bhi ho ga halanakay itself itna contact bhi najaiz hai is liyay aap is bat ko aik terah se bhoolnay ka pose kero aur khud ko thora change kero k ap kesay care ker saktay ho mobile lena theek hai lekin mera idea hai k ap unhain kuch din k baad wapis kerden mobile is hidayet k sath k ager ab unhon ne us ka ghalat use kiya to ap intehaai qadam utha saktay hain kiun k koi bhi shoher yeh ijazat nhn de ga k us ki biwi bachay to us k peda keray aur piyar mohabat ki batain kisi aur k sath keray is liyay ap unhain wohi piyar aur care den jo woh us se chahti hain is k ilawa teacher aur student main wesay bhi kuch itna frank mahol ho jata hai k insan teacher ko apna best frend samjh leta hai aur shayed hota bhi hai yahan bat siirif yeh ghalat hai k teacher usi age group ka hai ager teacher aged hota to shayed ap k zehan main kabhi shak aata bhi na any how ehtiyat se muamlahandle kerain points to ap ko sab members ne de hi diyay hain |
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Group: Members Joined: 14th Feb, 2012 Topic: 9 Post: 140 Age:
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| Posted on:17th May 2012, 7:48am |
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teacher as a friend mhuay is sari story mai bolna to nahi chahya ..........bcz ap sab log experienced hen ,,,,,,,,,,lakin aik bat achi lagi ...........teacher ky sath insan waqai bht zyada frank hota ha ..............some time jo bat ham apny parents say bhi nahi kar paty wo teacher say share kar lety hen .........teacher same time .....like father like friend ban jaty hen .......mera kam az kam yhi nazarya ha ,,,,,,,,,wel mera aik bht important test clear nahi hua tha to mai ny sab say pehly apny teacher ko btaya tha mail kr ky ghr mai batany ki himat nahi hui thi ..........kunkay mujhay lga ghr mai sab samjhen gy mia naaliaq aur nikammi hun-:) ........
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ghr pooray week bad bataya tha derty huy
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| Posted on:18th May 2012, 9:54pm |
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simple life ji ap unmarried hai to ap ubhe un experenced hain par greeny ji ne jo rep dia wo sahe nh diya ek tarfa diya. greeny ap apne dil par hath rukh k socho khd ko new bahi k jaga rukho.phr main ap se wohe lagz duhrao jo ap ne new bhai ko kahe to kiya wo ap ne durst kahe.kiya ye humare mazhab min jaiz hai agr ap k hubb ksi ko sms p chting kare janu likhen tb ap k kia wechar honge.greeny humsa jo bh fasla do bech ka do ya nh k hum jins hai larki hai ti usi k side lo.
New bhai jasa k uper sub ne kaha hai k awal ap cell phone ly lein our sim jo bh hain ly lein. Mard agr mana kar raha hai to phr wo kiy bar bar kise na kise way se us gair mard se contact rukhne k kar rahe hai. Filal talaq ka nh sochein jald bazi main bache bikhar jae ge. ap ise make bejh dy warning dy k khch din k liye jaisa k humare islam main bh hai .phr bh na mane to ma bap se bat kare phr bh na mane to ap budo our us k budo ko betha k koi fasla lein Islam k roshni main. Is masle ka hal yehe hai jitne bh ghore bhgalo soch soch k khd ko our main tense dal do ge.
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| Posted on:19th May 2012, 5:02am |
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reply app ki suggestions ka bohut bohut shukria. mein un per amal kernay ki kosdhi keron ga.
aik baat ki samajh nahi a rahi. meri wife ka attitude aik dam change ho gia hai. bera acha mood. her kam ker rahi hai. werna is sai pehlay mood off hi rehta tha. iski kia wajah hai.
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Fahad Hussain Bhai Fahad bhai ka reply perh ker mein phir pareshaan ho gia hun keh shaid daal mein kuch kala tha.
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ager ap isi terah kanon k kachay hain to aap hamesha pareshan rahain gay khu dper aur biwi per etmaad kerain ager ap main koi kami ya kamzori hai to ap ka shak kerna banta hai kiun k ap apni biwi ko satisfy nhn ker saktay lekin ager ap khud main confident hain to koi shak na kerain kisi k kirdar per ungli uthana gunah e kabeera hai aur specialy apni hi biwi k kirdar per jab tak ap k pass sheraee tor per shadatain na hon ap apni biwi per shak nhn ker saktay is k ilawa ager ap ki biwi ka rawiya theek ho gay ahai to khushi ki bat hai herat ki nhn |
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new bhai salam pesh hai par is se qabl mubarak hu wife ap k rawaya behtr kar gae hai baqol ap ke wo change ho gae to yea positive point hai meri our sub members k jinho ne rep diye sub k dua hai k ALLAH KREEM use toufeq dy sedhe rah p chale apne husband k our new bahi choriye pichle bato ko dal wal k chakron ko bus khch na soche ap wife ka vivhar badal gaya hai ub bus waqt waqt ko salam h jis simt k hawa chale use simt main chala karo |
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New Meri Nazar Mein Iska simple hal ye hai ke aap apni wife ko mobile allow nahee karain ... at any cost.. agar wo trustable naheen hain tou ... jitni ziada freedom aap aisay loogon ko do de tou ultimately nuksaan aap ka hee hona hai .. hope u will get my point ....
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Mohlat day do Insan Kamzor hay. Kisi b waqt kisi say be gunah ho sakta hay. Agar aap ki wife nay bewafi ki harkat ki hay to maray khyal may chonki abi tumaray bachay b hain is leye aap usay kih dain ki apni ghalat harkat say baz aajain. Basorat deegar may talak donga. agar wo baz na aain or talak ko pasand kya to bela jajak k talak day do. |
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latest ajj subah jab mein utha toa bed kai foam ko ubhra hoa dekha. foam uthaya to neechay sai mobile nikla. meray mana kernay kai bawajood us nai kahin sai mobile lia aur sim bhi daali. sim ko mein nai check kia to uski behen kai naam per hai. iska matlab uski behen bhi uski madad kerti hai. ab mein kia keron. sirf 1 message aur 1 call hai. message us kai teacher ki taraf sai hai aur call bhi usi ki ai hai. message tha keh "sorry meetings mein tha abhi wapis aya hoon wahan sai".
kesay eitmaad kero har defa meray trust ko thase pohunchai hai us nai.
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new is k ma bap ko ghr bulao our apni beti k karname batao.our apni wife se saf kaho.baz ao ge ya nh.do raste do ise .our jis number p phone kiya hai use p cal kuro then use bh bht sunao k meri zindagi koy khrb kardi hai .falan falan. |
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New Yup fahad is right apko apni wife k parents ko btana chahiye specially unk father ko!!! Chup chup k phn use krna, or itni baar mana krne k bawajood contact rakhna, in sab mein tu apki wife hi ghalat hain itni bar samjhane k bawajood wo bar bar ek hi kaam kr rahein hain it means k unk nazdeek koi importance hi nai hai apki! |
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new brother.. mane bht acha reply kya tha but post neh hua..... ap sabar kijye...best solution hai..but... ma isk against hun k... janu type word koi or bole wo b namehram beshak teacher hai..father ki jga pa hota hai..but..itni frankness b kya....lekin or ye words ya tou same sex ma achy lgty hain ya huby wife bro sis etc mai..ya friends ma...even same sex friendships ma. or hamri society ma b yhe hai k.janu negavitity ko show krta hai..jab b koi ne mehram kisi ko bole tou shadi se phele agr itni frankess hai b tou atleast after marriage ..khatm krni chaye ya phir mana krna chaye girl ko b teacer ko k kindly ub mere sath aise baaten na kren ...secondly.. ye b hoskta hai k..apki wife ka koi relation unse na ho..sirf bat krti hun..wo is trhan k... shadi se phele tou apki class fellows teachers etc se friendships hoti hain..or sometimes ap ik insan k addicted ho jati hain.means phir daily bat kr kr k habit ho jati hai.ye b ik point ho skta hai...or phir ap use mental state ma hoty hain k bas jo b ho mane baat krni hai ...just bcz of daily routine or nothing else... lekin ye cheez b ghalat hai k..huby roke or wife same kam kren..huby ka hukam bht important hai islam ma b...n ye dishonesty k..ap again cell or sim chupa kar use krhe hain.. but..AP ALLAH se dua kren ...or unki counselling kren daily..but piyar se na k dant se..is trhan wo rebellious ho jagyi ...skhti b thek cheez neh hai... trust develop kren... wo khud chor dengi... ...i have an example...k suppose mere parents khen k apne cell use neh krna ya chat neh krni kisi se b...tou..agr ma phir b chori chupe cell le lon...or sim b laga lon..tou..im dishonest with my parents..understood se bat hai ye..or unka trust tou khatm ho jayga..or yhe position inki hai ubi... i can understand...... Allah bless u new bhai... |
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