Busy.Boyi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 6 Age:
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Posted on:17th Feb 2013, 5:50am |
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Christian Friend Hi,I have a christian girl friend.She lives in USA and we both love each other.my problem is that i don't wanna do cyber sex with her, but if i ever deny to do that, she gets angry.and i saw her my pennis only once,except this i did nothing(like mastrbating ,licking,etc) on camera. i know i did wrong.but i can't left her.I want to ask you guyz that wat to do in this case?i wanna see her as a good muslim and In sha Allah i will marry her.but first,i have to convince her for Islam.but where to start ?i don't know that.please help me how to convince her that this is not a good job to do dirty talk and stuff, before marriage. |
Diplomate
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age:
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Posted on:17th Feb 2013, 6:49am |
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Here Is Solution ..!!! Stop chat with her , if it is not possible then u can't prevent her to chat with u
If we personally disobey the islamic rules and regulation then how can we impose or apply on others
secondly , you should insist her to get marry with u , if she is agree to do so then make the Nikah occording to islamic preachings after when she becomes muslim ... |
Busy.Boyi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 6 Age:
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Posted on:17th Feb 2013, 8:22am |
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Thanks.
I already asked her.and she is agree to marry me,but she says that i can't right now because my studies are not completed yet.after completing my studies i will marry you.So i have to wait. And OK I'll never chat with her again.This is good solution. Thanks for Reply Sir.
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SAD LADY
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 19 Age:
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Posted on:17th Feb 2013, 12:28pm |
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sonu mery bhai ghoor say abhi app choty bachy hain .uur app ki ummer 19 hy uger app ny theek batai hoi hy tu.. uger app pakistan main ho tu .tab bhi bata do. app is time keeder rahty hoo.. 1.........app jan chakron main par gye hoo ya theek baat nahin hay. apny bozorghon kay paas zeyada time ghuzarha karo. tanhai main na batha karo. shatani khyalaat bohat na soocha karo..uur 5 time namaz ka paband hoo jao. 2,,,,,apni jawani maat khatam karo. uger app is ummer say hand praectis karo gy tu app ka uzoo terha hony ka khatrah he. uur jab shadi ho gee tu bachy peedha karny ki salaheeyat bohat kam ho jay ge. 3........ app abhi apni parhai par towajju doo. jab shadi ka time aya tu koi khandani larki man baap degh kar shadi karin gy app ki. kion kay khandan khandani karkion say banty hain .na kay kisi porno star say.. is leeya app jis larki say batin sex karty hain ya uortin ya hi kaam karty hain. ya shadi kisi say nahin kartin.. uur app ik ghanddagi main maat hath maro.. kiya ik porno star ko apni bivi bana kar us say apna khandan peedah karin gy..
app uger us ko nahin chorna chaty tu ik wajha ho sakty hy. 1......... app uger pakistan main rahty hain tu app ko baher jany lalach hoo gee is leeya app us ko nahin chorna chahty.. 2...app jawan hoo feeling bohat hain is leeya apni feelings kay hathon majboor hoo.. is leeya ya bhter haal hy kay app .5 time kay namaz ka paband hoo jain uur is porno star say rabita oor dain.. uur apny app ko jahannam ki aag main jany say roo lain. na ya larki app ki jawantabha kar dy geeuur app ko use kar rahy hy uur per app ko choor ge. yahyanya loog asyh karty hain app ko in logon ka patta nahin y ya loog apny baap kay sath bhi theek nahin hoty. is leeya please stop kar dain. uger in logon ko musalman kar kay shadi kamyab hoty tu imran khan ki shadi sab say zedah kamyab hoty . ham uur in loon main zameen asman ka faraq app labas tabdeel karny gy .laken is ko ander say nahin badal sako gy. iis leeya apny bachoon ko ik khandani maan dain, uur musalman. kal app kay gher main bety uur batiyan bhi peeda hoon ge. tu pher app kiya karin gy. zarah apni nasal kay bary main soochin. serf app apni khuwaishat tak maat soochin. aaj kal ya ju net aa geeya hy is ny jawan nasal ko tabha kar deya hy. please abhi app bachy hoo.app ko samaj nahin hy is leeya app ko apna chootha bhai samaj kar bata hy hoon kayya sab baakwas hy khuch hasil nahin hota.
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Busy.Boyi
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Feb, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 6 Age:
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Posted on:18th Feb 2013, 4:21am |
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What the Hell???
Sad Lady,I think you are mad,,baat kahan sy kahan ly gai aap? agar english nahi aati aap logon ko to reply mat kia karen thanks....Aur Diplomate ney mujhy sahi mashwara dia hai aap ki salah ki ab zarurat nahi thi wese...aur i think yahan sirf aik Diplomate he parhy likhy hain,baki sb kitny dumb haiin ye mujhy pta lag gya hai,me ny same post aik aur jaga post kia hai wahan b 2 ajib jaahil log he mily hain
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-Faiza-
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Group: Members Joined: 12th Jan, 2013 Topic: 7 Post: 39 Age:
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Posted on:19th Feb 2013, 11:16pm |
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Please
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SAD LADY
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Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 19 Age:
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Posted on:19th Feb 2013, 4:58pm |
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I think you should respect everyone. as a big sister i want to give you one advice.that please spend one day with people of babul mosque karachi pakistan. and if u have time please watch this.i am 10000% sure that you will get all your answer.with blessing of allah paak. www.http://dawateislami.net/home.do may allha bless u. |
khawar ali
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Group: Members Joined: 30th Mar, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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Posted on:30th Mar 2013, 4:11pm |
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sir help me out
sir main sorry karta hon on kay main reply nahin kar raha hon main apna question ap sai poochna chahta hon main germany main rehta hon meri gf cristian hai kya main us sai nikaah kar sakta hon ya nahin thanx alot if you answer me this is my email edited@yahoo.de
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6577 Age:
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Posted on:31st Mar 2013, 11:00pm |
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khawer ali 1. islam maiN gf banana HARAM hai. ap kissi bhi naa.mahram laRki (muslim/non-muslim say GF type ki dosti/contacts nahi rakh saktay.
2. aik mosalman kissi christian laRki say shadikarsakta hai. oss say nikaah jaiz hai...lekin aisa kartay howay yeh zaroor ensure karna chaahiyeh k apkay bachay muslim hi rahaiN, mother k zeray asar christian nah ban jayaiN... agar aisa howa to iski zimmah daar aap hongay...
3. agar woh laRki aik muslim (yaani apko)pasand kartihai, iss hag tak k woh apsay shadi par bhi raazi hai to apko chahiyeh k ossay islam kidawat daiN. islami taaleemaat say agaah karaiN aur agar woh islam qabool karlay tab oss say shadi karaiN to apko bahoot ajar milega.
waisay islami taaleemaat k motaabiq ahlay kitaab (christians /yahoodi) khawateen say muslims shadi karsakta hai.aisa karna jaiz hai
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