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mild2me |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2007 Topic: 9 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 5:35am |
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 Love Affair: How To Handle It?
dear dosto,,,,,ap kya kehtay hyn ke,,,agar kissi ki apni cousin k saath bohat zyada understanding ho,bohat zyada mazaq ho, oar aap uss ko chahne bhi lago.lykin larki ko yeh pta chalne par k yeah larka mujh se shaadi karna chahta hay oar phir woh gussay myn aa jaye oar kahay ke myn aap k baray myn aisa nhye soochti.oar bolna chor de.
aisi situation myn larkay ko kya karna chahye.
yeah jo problem hy yeah mari problem hayy,,,,,,but i love her alot
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cheeko |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 5:56am |
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Mild jee agar aap ka jazba sacha hai or aap ko lagta hai ke aap us ko apne point pe rla sakte ho tu aap koshish jari rakho ab tak wo aap ko ek cousin ki hasiat se he dekhti thi is lia us ko bora laga ab aap us se us ke pasand ke bare main pocho kessa larka pasand hai aap us ko apne taraf lane ke lia realise karwao ke ab aap us ko as a cousin nahi os se bhi barh ke samajhte hain . ek baar sochne ka time den .
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pinky7861 |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Oct, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 1348 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 9:10am |
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 mild 2
shareef lerkioun ko aisa kahna hi bura lagta hay. Aur waisay bhi lagta hay kay wo aap kay baray main aisa nahi sochti tu aap ussay mazeed kuch na kahain, werna wo phir aap kay liay aik nafrat develop ker lay gi. Ho sakta hay kay uss kay nazdeek aap aik bohat achay insaan houn aur aap ki yah baat iss waja say ussay cheap lagi ho.
App ko kerna yah chahyay, kay ainda ussay bilkul aisi koi baat na kahain, balkay apnay aap ko mahnaat say acha sabat kernay ki koshish kerain. Lerkian sirf aisay lerkay pasand kerti hain jo kay lerkioun say pichay pichay rahtay hain, un kay ser per nahi chertay aur mahnat ker kay perhtay hain aur kaam ker kay apna naam bera kertay hain. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 9:30am |
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mild2me! muje lagta hai k larki jaan bujh kar aisa show kar rahi hai k muje bohat bura laga, ta k aap par uska acha impression paray.. kyonkay jaisi understanding op bata rahay ho k bohat ziada frankness hai ap dono mai to yakeenan wo larki apko pasand karti hai,, young larki khail kud usi larkay say karti hai jisay wo khud pasand karti hai shadi ki niyat say...
ab aisi situation ka solution ye hai k aap us larki (cousin) say kaho k mai apsay shadi karna chahta thaa, lekin apkay gusay ko dekh kar muje andaza ho gaya k ap mujsay shadi nahi karna chahti,, in halaat mai ab hamari dosti/friendship nahi reh sakti or na mai rakhna chahta hon, kyonkay mere dil mai kuch or hai... or uskay bad us larki say milna batain karna khel kood sab band kar do... 10-15 din ya mahinay baad dekho kia banta hai... (balkay usay bhool jao)
ya phir apni ammi ko batao k muje ye larki pasand hai or meri is say shadi kara dain.... |
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seriously |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Dec, 2007 Topic: 24 Post: 313 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 10:58am |
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Agar aap is larki say mohabbat kartay hain tow Us key maan baap say uska rishta mangyee. Agar woh Qabool kar lain to bohat acha , nahi to khamoshi say apni izzat key hifazat key-jee a.
Agar aap abhi career making years main hain aur shadi nahi kar saktay tow apna sara time career making main laga-a aur ishq ashiqee ka chakkar chor dain yeh aapkay zahan, aur aapki sahat, aur aapkay mustaqbil kay ley-a bohat acha hoga.
Mery baat aap key samajh main aa ja-a tow mujhay apni du-a oon main shamil kar ley jee a ga. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 12:57pm |
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agree with seriously! seriously is right and i agree with him..
mohabbat k chakkaron mai parnay ki bajaey or gunah hasil karnay ki bajaey tum apnay parents say bat karo k tum us larki say shadi karna chahtay ho.. |
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Hangama |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Dec, 2007 Topic: 37 Post: 1261 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 1:24pm |
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mild Dost jo bhi larki kisi ka barai mai aisa nahi sochti woh pahla yahi kahti hai aur aik dam sai contact bhi kam karti hai. Laikin agar ap waqai unsai mohobbat kartain hain to mai apko yah advice karonga ka ap sirf unsai yah kahain ka ap apna parents ko unka ghar bhaij rahai hai aur unsai puchain ka unko to koi aitraz nahi hai. Agar unko koi aitraz nahi hai to ap apna parents ko unka ghar bhaijain apna rishta ka liya.
Aur agar unko koi aitraz hoga to lazmi bat hai woh apsai aurgument karaingi.. pahla ap unka mind ka ander jo jo batain hai woh clear karlijiyaga otherwise agar apna zaberdasti apna parents ko waha bhaija aur apka rishta tai bhi hogaya aur agar apki cousin ka demagh mai kuch batain rah gai to agai chalka bohot problem ho sakti hai. |
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mild2me |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2007 Topic: 9 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2008, 1:45pm |
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 thanks dears
seriously,pinky,josh ,hangama,, thank u very much for your suggestions.
well i agree much but with few of you.seriously i appreciate your comments the most practicle.
Miss pinky you always give really very good suggestions,you are the one who made my 2 problems solved,one relate to my previous topic and one is this.you are such a good girl.thank you.
thanks dears,,,,take care , ALLAH HAFIZ........
yea sab tu theek hy lykin mohabbat bari andhi hoti hy,,lykin kya karyn future bhi tu banana hay............you all pray for my bright future and pray, may ALLAH tie my knot with the girl i love. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Jan 2008, 2:41am |
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sunen mild im agreed to all members...sub ne bht achi achi baten batyen hain....
dekhiye mild2me, ap pareshan na hon....aur itne ziada serious bi na hon.... apni mother se is barey mein bat keryen...lekin pehle apni cousin se bat kerreyn k ap un se shad kerna chahtey hain aur proposal bhejna chahtey hain....un ko clear kareyn k ap ko love ho gya hai....wese bi love kerna koi ghatiya harkat nai hai...love to khud hi ho jata hai....ye ek inner feeling hai jo force ker k nai payi jati....khud hi ho jata hai aur hamen bad mein pata chalta hai.....us se bat keryen...unhen samjhayn aur phir jub ap ko positive response miley to foren rishta bhejen aur shadi ker leyn |
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hamadkhan |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Apr, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 9:01am |
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pathli pani sir mera name aman khan hai . me ek larki ko like kartha ho me us ke sat phone pe baty karta ho to mere pianes se patli si pani ajathi hai kya ye koi mardan kamzor hai ya koi masla hai ya ni or kya control ho saktha hai
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hamadkhan |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Apr, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2013, 9:02am |
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pathil pani reply me soon thank
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