ehsaasay kamtari 1. issi liyeh kahaa jataa hai laRki ki shadi oss say "bar.tar" fard say ki jaa.ay yaani jo:
a) age maiN oss say baRa ho b) education maiN oss say baRa ho c) maali hasiyat main oss say baRa ho d) physically oss say zeyadah taqat.wer ho e) family status maiN bar.tar ho f)aqal o shaoor maiN nehtar g) qad maiN oss say lamba ho etc etc
husband-wife team maiN husband ko by-default team leader ka role play karna hota hai lehaza ossay amoomi taur par apnay life partener say "bar.tar" hona chaahiyeh takay day to day activities maiN wo woh family ko easily lead karsakay.
aba agar kissi wajah say /kissi level par husband "lower" hasiyat ka haamil ho to aisay maiN biwi ki "zimmah daariyaaN" mazeed baRh jati haiN... ossay apnay husband ko "apnay say bar.tar banaanaa" paRta hai. ossay apnay har amal say yeh saabit karna hoga k "husband g! u are my boss". agar kissi mard maiN "mar.daaNgi" ki kami ho to husband oss maiN "khud etmaadi paidaa karwaa" kay ossay yaqeen dilaa sakti hai k he is superior than her........ issi tarah husband ki inferiority khatam ki jasakti hai. |