Why Delay In Marriage

Assalam O Alaikum,
Meri sab members sey guzarish hai keh following sawalat ka mukhlisana jawab dain.

1. Illegal sex keon hota hai?
2. Larkion or Larkoon ki shadion ki ideal age kia hai?
3. Shadion key late honey ki wajoohat or sadebaab kia hain? Or shadion key late honey mai ki sirf parents hee zemmay daar hain?

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aik aham wajah

yeh hai k mostly parents yeh "chaahtay" haiN k pahlay onkay (tamaam) beTiyouN ki shadiyaaN hojaa.ay... aur onki beTiyouN ki shadi maiN onkay betay bhi (kamaa kar) maali madad karaiN....... oskay baad woh beTouN ki shadi ka "sochengay". aam taur say bhaiyoun ka bhi yehi 'behaviour' hota hai k pahlay banouN ki shadiyaaN hojaa.ay phir....

logic yeh kahti hai k agar har ghar ki yehi 'soch' ho jaa.ay to 'anjaam' yehi hogaa k laRkiyaaN ghar ghar maiN baiThee rah jayenGi......

iss 'soch' ko olaTnay ki zaroorat hai... tamam waldain apnay apnay beTouN ki jald az jald shadiyaan karanay main lag jayain........ onki beTiyouN ki shadiyaan "khud bah khud ho " jayengeeN

Re

1. Jo school, college, family etc girls lov afair mai involve ho ker sex kernay lag jati hai to iski waja ghurbat to nahi? to phir kia waja hai?

Kia romantic or sexy web sites hain? Kia drama movies etc hain? Kia essi friends hai jo lisi waja sey sex kertee hain or friends usko follow kerte hain? Kia humara muashra hai jismain larki baasani larkoon sey milti hai or larkey larki ki zindagi berbaad ker dety hai lov key jhansay main? Kia gharailo hallat hai keh ghar mai 4-4 larkian bhethee hain or baree sey choti sochti hai keh meri shaadi to late hai mager woh chahti hai keh uski life mai lov, romance ho to.......? Plz batain kia waja ho sakti hai????????????

Meray andazey key mutabiq ghurbat ki waja sey 20% or baqi wajoohat sey 80% illegal sex hota hai.