Shia-Sunni Marriage?

asslamao alaikum,

janab mera naam he wasim khan me sunni ladhka hoo me janta hoo yeh shadi ke masle ke liye sahi website nahi he magar phir bhi ap logo se iman ki roshni me aur hadis ki roshni me kuch bat poochna chahta hoo baraye meharbani bataye kya yeh sahi hoga me ek shia ladki ko pasand karta hoo woh bhi mujhe pasand karti he aur woh mujhse shadi karne ke baad poori tarah khud se islaam kubul karlegi woh to kahti hi he sath me uske gharwale bhi raazi he ke woh islaam kubul karle magar bat ruk jati he mere ghar walo ke liye mere ghar me kahna he ke ham shia log se shadi nahi kar sakte logo ko kya jwab dete phirenge kya kya kahenge ham .. shia ladki se shadi nahi ho sakti tumhari.

jabki woh ladki aur uske gharwale razi he is bat per bhi ke use sunni bana diya jaye magar yeh log rishta leke nahi jate he kya aap meri madad karenge mujhe kya karna chahiye aur koi wazifa bataye dua kubul hone ke liye allah hafiz mujhe ummid he ap log meri madad zaroor karenge

luv-marriage

1. yeh aik tarah say love marriage hai jispar apkay parents razi nahi. apkay parents apsay zeyadah wasee tajarbah rakhtay haiN iss dunya ka aur onsay zeyadah apka koi khair khaah bhi nahi hosakta. lehaza ap apnay parents ki baat maan laiN. aur yeh shadi nah karaiN.

2. shadi ki kaamyaabi k liyeh dounouN ka ham.khayaal hona bhi zaroori hota hai. yahaaN to dounouN gharanouN k masaalak hi juda juda haiN... agar larki sunni ho bhi jaa.ay to laRki k ghar walay to sunni nahi hongay... shadi go 2 afraad k darmayan hoti hai, lekin amalan yeh 2 gharanouN kaa milan hota hai. 2 opposite nazaryaat k hamil gharanay baham kaisay saath mil jul kar rah saktay hain jabkay apkay ghar walay abhi say razi nahi haiN.

3. laRki kahti hai k woh shadi k baad "sunni" hojayegi... farz karain k agar woh kahay k ap shia ban jaa'o to ap ban jaa'o.gay??? agar ap apna "faith" change nahi karsaktay to woh kiyouN karegi???

4. luv marriage k nateejay maiN mahaz shadi k liyeh mazhab ya maslak agar koi change bhi karay to yeh aik "arzi amal" hota hai... jab love -ka-bhoot sar say otartaa hai to log phir apnay apnay mazhab /maslak ki taraf laUt jatay hain... aur 2 opposite nazarya k log aik chat k neechay kaisay khush o khurram rah saktay hain.

5. it's true k shia -sunni ki shadi aam hai aur bahoot si aisee shadiyaaN kaamyaab bhi hoti haiN... magar yeh wahaaN hota hai jahaaN log mahaz rasman /nasban shia /sunni hotay haiN... onki zindagiyouN maiN onkay mazhab /maslak ka koi khaas amal dakhal nahi hota..... bilkul issi tarah jaisay bharat maiN hindu-muslim shadiyaaN hoti bhi haiN aur kamyaab bhi rahti hain... magar yeh woh log hotay haiN jo naam k hindu aur naam k mosalmaan hotay haiN... amalan onka apnay apnay mazhab say koi wastah nahi hota.

6. agar ap aik baa.amal mosalmaan haiN. aur apki zindagi maiN mazhab ki koi ahmita hai to apko aisee shadi nahi karni chhaiyeh jo baad azaaN ap dounouN k beech aur phir 2 familes k beech fasaad ka sabab banay.

shia sunni shaadi

change of religion 4 luv

re: jo larki mohabbat ki khatir apna mazhab change ker sakti hai, woh aainda bahut kuch ker sakti hai. aisi larki qabil-e-bharosa nahi.

well said...100% agreed

shia-suni marriage

bachouN pay mehnat

re: apne bachon pe khud mehnat karni hogi ke unhe apne maslik ki taleem dain. 

apne maslak ki taleem denay kay lieh agar yehi mehnat doosri taraf shia larki bhi karnay lagay to ....... bechaaray bachoun ka kia hashar hoga, zaraa iss pay bhi ghaur kar laiN )::

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Shia Sunni Shadi...