Cousin Marriage : Facing Confusion To Make Right Decision

manni

Jub Insaan ko apna Jeewan sathi Montakhib kurnaa hota hay tu pher sorat-seerut-khandaan-Financial position--character--Education, yeh sub chezin sochtaa hay or pher dil-or-dumagh dono kay Moshtarika fasailay say koi fasila kurta hay , humary culture meah shadi du logo ki nahi hoti indo pak meah shadi du khandaano ki hoti hay so apni family kay bozorgho ,apny parants ki moshtarikaa ray say aghur fasila keya jay tu wo ziyada behtur hota hay ku kay humara system joind family system hay or koi lurki lurka ek dum say alag ghur meah rehny kay qabil nahi hoty ono apny bozorgo kay zayr-a-saaya koch ursaa rehnaa purta hay 

meah sumajtaa hon kay ap wo fasila kurin jahaa paky parants  . apka dil or dumagh agree kurty hoon or lurki ki bhe ruzamandi shamil ho Allah pay bhurosaa or tawakal kur kay rishta or pher juld uz juld shadi kur lee jay.

jub Peyar -mohabat hota hay tu pher isnaan yeh nahi sochta log keya kayin gy sahdi bhe ap nay kurni hay or life bhe apny apny partner kay sath gozarni hay so 100 bar sochin. or apny parants ki say solaah or mushwara kurin per wo jo raah or rastaa apko btaayin ospay amaal kurin,

Khandan me shadi kr li?? (lol)

manni_guy

aap ne question to acha hi ker liya laiken aap ki feelings kuch kamzor si lag rahi hein.

Albata cusion se shadi aik kamyaab life ki gauranty bi huwa kerti he wo aisy k jiss khandan mein aap reh raye hein uss khandan mein aap 2no ki relations equal ho gi instead of other faimlies aur aap jub kissi dusri faimly se shadi kerein gay to aap ki uss wife ko aap k sary khandan se adjust hony mein sari life lug jaye gi

aur phir aap k waldain aur aap ki behtar tariqa se pain ya respect jo aap ki cusion ker sukein gi wo dusri faimly se possible nahi ho ga

siraf aik problem ho sakti he wo ye k medicaly ye kah ja rah he k cusion mariag se buchoon ki pedaish mein effects aty hein laiken iss k alternative mein khud cusion mariage mein hoon aur 4 kids hein ubi tuk un mein koi problems nahi ayi hein iss ki detail uger kissi aur member k pass ho to wo aap ko guid ker sukata he 

manni_guy