 Role of Perents In Upgrading Their Child About Masturbation
Humhare han jab ladka ya ladki paida hoti hai os ki achi parwaish ke liye maa baap sar toor khoshish karte hain.acha khana,acha kapra,aur achey mustakbil ke liye pharatey likhwate hain..sab kuch dete hain lekin onhe sex education nehin dete.os ki main waja yeh hai ke kahein humhara bacha kharab na ho jaye.
bachey ya bachi ko even yeh bhi nehin pata hota ke sexual parts ke naam kya hain…penis kis ko kehte hain vagina kis ko kehte hain in naam se bekhabar hote hain.pehle to ladko ko yeh bhi nehin pata hota ke ethalam kya hota hai esi tarha na he ladkion ko pata hota hai ke menses kya cheez hai.
Bacha in sab baato se anjaan hota hai jis ka nateeja bhut bura nikalta hai.jab bacha bhara hota hai school, college jata hai wahan dosto se sonta hai.sex kya hai sexual parts ke naam kya hain, penis aur vagina ke koi aur naam he pata chalte hain.in mein aak bad habit ka bhi ose pata chalta hai jese musht zani(Masturbation) kehte hain.
Jis ki waja se bachon ko yeh bad habit ka pata chalne ki baad woh musht zani karne ki khoshish karte hain phir aishta aishta on ko yeh buri adat par jati hai.phir wohi dost musht zani ke bare mein ghalat concept create karte hain.ke musht zani ka bhut nuksan hai.
Pehle khud he karne ko kehte hain aur phir khud he es ka nuksan bhi batate hain.aur bacha pareshan ho kar desperation ka shikaar ho jata hai.aur os ki health kharab hone lagti hai.
Esi tarha ladki ko musht zani ke bare mein kuch nehin pata hota.even who yeh bhi nehin jaanti ke vagina kis ko kehte hain aur sex kis mein karte hain vagina mein ya phir urine wale soraakh mein.jab woh kisi dost ki baat mein aa kar musht zani karti hai to sab se pehle apna hymen rapture kar bethti hai.
blood ko dekh kar khouf zada bhi ho jati hai.aur kisi ko kuch nehin keh paati aur esi tarha desperation ka shikaar ho jati hai. Ya phir urine wale soraakh mein musht zani karne ki khoshish karti hai jis se woh ubnormal sex ki adat mein mubtala ho jati hai.aur phir urine wale soraakh se he jisni luft hasil karti hai
musht zani jesi buri adat ki main jar dost nehin..balke maa baap hain.jo bachey ko proper guide nehin karte.ager maa baap bachey ko har cheez se aagha kar de to bacha kabhi bhi es buri adat na apnaye.lekin humhare han sharam ki waja se maa baap apne bachey ko guide nehin kar pate.
Jis ka nateeja yeh nikalta hai ke bacha buri adat mein malawas ho kar aak din kabeera ghuna zana bhi kar bethta hai,es liye baap ko chahein ke beta jab jawan ho ose proper bataye ke jism k sexual parts kon kon se hain.
penis kese kehte hain semen kya cheez hain, es ka maksad kya hai, sperms kya cheez hai, ethalam kya hai,musht zani kya cheez hai, es ke kya nuksaan hain, har cheez se ose proper guide karna chahein.
Esi tarha maa ko bhi chahein ke woh bhi beti ko bataye ki vagina kya hai hymen kis ko kehte hain, hymen rapture kese hota hai, musht zani kya hai,menses kya hai, menses ke dino mein kya karna chahein, in sab cheezo se proper guide karna chahein.
Ta ke bacha kabhi bhi kisi ki baat mein aa kar apne aap ko buri adat mein malawas na kare.balke dosro ko bhi guide kare. On ka concept clear kare.es liye waaldain ko chahein ke sharam ko bhool kar bacho ko achi taleem ke sath sex ki bhi taleem de.
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