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| love 4 all |
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| Posted on:28th Dec 2008, 4:55pm |
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 sharmily
ur 1st post has a standard .................BUT.
u only point out the problm nicely.
not only to point out the disease is useful but main thing is all abt its cure.
if we talk abt any prob then it is more important to mention its solution.
if it is so easy to keep away 1 self from sex the y they do it b4 marriage. coz it is very difficult or almost impossible to over come its feelings.
marriage is done very late specialy for males n some of females too n there is no other option so what can be done?
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| sharmily |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2008, 6:36pm |
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Love4all first of all thanx for ur post
app ne teek kaha ki shadi bohut late hojati hai . what we can do????
nice and smart question:-)
first of all we have to think about our culture. humary society mein har larka aur larki chahegi ki on ki parents ki razamandi ki saat on ki shadi hojai, aur jab parents shadi mein deer karti hai, to problem hojati hai.
Agar humari parents educated ho to woh apni bacho ki problem ko samajni ki koshish zaror karengi aur agar an educated ho to kafi mushkil hai.
but ek aur baat bhi hai ab kisi larke ki shadi 18-22 years ki age bhi to nahin karsakti, yeh teek hai ki woh baligh hai, likin woh es qabil to ho ki woh apni bewi ki zimadari nibah saki apni ane wali bacho ko roti pani de saki, ab serf sex ki liye 18 yrs ki age shadi nahin karsakti. yeh to hades bhi hai ki agar koi mard apni bewi ki karcha nahin uta sakta aur oski ki haqoq nahin ada sakta to behtar hai ki woh nikah na kare.
Agar insan chahye to control karsakta hai, parari par dehan de aur hamesha positive socha kare to sex slave nahin banegi.
zarory to nahin ki boyfriend se sex kare, which is very bad. |
| love 4 all |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2008, 7:09pm |
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@ sharmily but it is also in Islam that as 1 become young his or her marrige shld be done as early as possible.
if we adopt this then only hamara moasshra illegal sex say protect reh sakta.
n it cant be controld coz its very unique n most sensitive sort of feeling n specialy iss zamanay mein totaly impossible ha.
in west their study standard r also high coz sex side say koi tension nai hoti un ko (regardless of that it is legal or not) they know they can fulfil their requirement any time when they need so after fulfilment of their desire they can do their work study etc. with proper concentration
but out side when we r in bechlors the time when sex feeling is @ the peak we r just prisoned neither do marriage nor with gf or bf. both sides there r problems so wat to do agar koi kaam jaiz bhi na ho raha n najaiz bhe nai ker saktay then humen nature is being towards negative side n chances that result to illegal sex. Thats y its rate is increasing.
so early marriages is the best solution. for boy max. of 20 n girl 18 or 19 should be marry. |
| love 4 all |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2008, 7:13pm |
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@ all n plz aub koi ye na kahe ka finace ka kia hoga for the ages i prescribed abv.
use our minds. n get answers from there. |
| sharmily |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2008, 7:58pm |
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love 4 all yes i totally agree with u, That european people doesn,t have the problem of SEX, coz they can fulfill their desire with out marrige too, yeh to anko deki baat hai. |
| sharmily |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2008, 8:03pm |
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love 4 all yes i totally agree with u, That european people doesn,t have the problem of SEX, coz they can fulfill their desire with out marrige too, yeh to anko deki baat hai. |
| sunny007 |
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| Posted on:31st Dec 2008, 12:11pm |
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love 4 all very nice analyzation
main aap se agree karta hoon, lekin agar koi kahe ya na kahe, lekin sawal pir b yahi hota hai, k finance ka kia hoga?
ye ek aisa question mark hai, jo sahied kabi b na mit sake, hamari roots almost khokli ho chuki hai, ham ghareeeb se ghareeeb tar hote ja rahe hain, aur mutalibat barte ja rahe hain
aisi case main impossible |
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| Posted on:4th Jan 2009, 12:19pm |
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 hmmm
nice dear. acha likha hai ..
wese bhai logon ye mujhe kis jurm me block kia gaya tha...
or kis ne kia tha. me us se poochna chahta hoon bahi mene aesi kia baat keh di thi yar..
(umais nisari) |
| khan jee |
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| Posted on:4th Jan 2009, 5:21pm |
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tell me pls i hav sent one question but could not get reply will some one tell me from where can i check may mail box at this side i wana see my rpely
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| khan jee |
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| Posted on:4th Jan 2009, 5:40pm |
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v.good very nice bohat achy tareqay se deal kaiy ap ne i like it larkion ko control karna chayee aur apne asmat ka khiyal rakhna chayee coz un se pora khandan wabasta hota hait
thanx |
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| Posted on:6th Jan 2009, 5:54pm |
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 SHATMILY
Sharmily Ji,
Aapne bht hi acha topic shaya kiya hai jiski har naseehat mai aada pyar aur aada ghusa hai.Kash har larki ki soch aap jaisi hoti.Aapka jitna b shukriya ada kiya jaye kam hai.Take Care |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2009, 12:12pm |
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Taking inspiration from sharmily i m taking inspiration from shermily and launching a new topic for boys two problems masterbation and flirt... what say guys? |
| sunny007 |
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| Posted on:7th Jan 2009, 12:21pm |
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fao.guru ok dear
keep it up |
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| Posted on:15th Jan 2009, 9:23am |
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Help Me Sharmili Asalam-o-Alikum, Sharmili baji mujhey app say uch question pochney han liin i don't want to post it, ya tu mail karte han ya chat meri id hai -- |
| Andleeb |
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| Posted on:22nd Jan 2009, 5:34pm |
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I Appreciate u Alot Very Brilliant work.
I wish that All of the girls read your messege. In my opinion the main reason of all this is parents. agar achi tarbiyat di jaye to kabhee esi harkat naa ho. parents ko bura nahi kehri main lakin meri aankho k samney esa hua hai k parents apni masti main busy hian pata hi nai bachiyan kahan ahin kiskay sath hain, kesi frends hain . daily agar parents apni saari aulaadko bithaker samjhaye. raat ko apney husband say thorasa tym spare kerkay maan apni betiyo k saath guzar ley to koi bara kaam nahi hai lakin bohat sari buraiyo ka khaatma hojayegaa... aik bohat acha point aapki baat main tha k maan baap chaal chalan say pehchaan jatey hian bacho ko ...really its true jab lagey k lerki bigar ri hai toshadi kerdo.har bacha pedaishi acha bura nahi hota ...bacha to masoom hota hai ab yeh parents per hia k kis terha leker chaltey hain....
KhuDA HAR LERKI KO BAA IZZAT RAKHAY K SARI UMER SIR UTHA KER JIYEN>>KHUDA HAM SAB KO APNEY HIFZ O AMAAN MAIN RAKHEY > AMEEN
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| seendream |
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| Posted on:25th Jan 2009, 1:20pm |
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Sharmili First of all I would appreciate your effort of advice for the stupid girls. Your post made my mind to register and post a comment here.
One more thing I would add here that boys want there wife to be virgine. Plz girls ye un ki emanat hey aap kay pas. Isay kisi or k hawalay mat karain. Abi b bohut saray larkay apni hifazat kartay hein k unpay sirf unki bivi ka haq hey. For God sake save yourself and present yourself only to your husband. Sab say zaiada aapqa haqdar aap ka husband hey na k rah chaltay chicknay larkay.
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| happy123 |
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2009, 2:50am |
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gud post sharmilli n .gud answers 4m everyone
ab bhi waqat hai sudhrny ka larkiyo ,is post ko perh ker koi ek bhi raastey per a jaye to is sey bara inaam sharmilli tumhary liye koi nai ho ga . |
| janibhutta |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 5:52am |
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 SUNO
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| sharmily |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 7:04am |
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janibhutta :-) What does that mean ................. Suno :-( |
| sunehri76 |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 8:26am |
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miss automatic apki ye post maine aj dekhi hai....you have done a good job..i hope ke ladkiyan is se kuch sabak hasil kar lain. |
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