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seth ali |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 9:00pm |
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 Anal Sex: Does It Affect The Nikah?
Salamm... Suna hai k biwi k saath anal sex karney se nikkah toot jata hai.?? kya yeh sach hai.?? plxx replyy i want to knww...
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Ugly-Sana |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 539 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 9:04pm |
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 To Seth Ali
Anal Sex is strictly forbidden by Islam. It's completely a dirty act to perform. Nikkah tutney wali baat ke barey mein shaid aur members behtar bata saktey hein. |
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4325 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 9:15pm |
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log batai banate hai kali zuban aik married khatoon hai. is ke bawajood forum ke members ne os ke beshtar post ko relevant kahne ke bawajood na pasand kia. lehaza ugly_sana ko bhi kisi post ka jawab dete waqt khial rakhna chahia keh woh aik unmariied larki hai. os ke jawab par bhi logo ko objection ho sakta hai. chahe woh ketna hi relevant kio na ho.
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Ugly-Sana |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 539 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 9:28pm |
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Bewaqoof: I don't think there was any irrelevancy in my post. I just replied to Seth Ali according to what i have pretty much learned from this forum. Aur nikkah tutney wali baat, i wasn't even sure, that is why i didn't reply to that part. What part of my posting was irrelevant can you explain. Having basic information about Sex and Islam, is necessary for everyone, what is so irrelevant about me me being unmarried and knowing that fact. |
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Ugly-Sana |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 539 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 9:40pm |
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Bewaqoof Agar itnee islamic information kissi unmarried insaan ke liey irrelevant hai, phir app ke NAZRIYE se to Seth ALi ko bhi un ke question ka reply nahi mila chahiye, because he is 18 years old and he is unmarried. I think this much information is necessary to know even before you get married, that way people won't do it first and tehn ask on this forum that oh, i've done thsi, what can i do now. |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 11:06pm |
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Re: anal sex Anal sex is completely forbidden and this is one of the two sexual acts that are clearly forbidden and written in Quran. So there is not any confusion about it as we debate on masturbation. Yeh Allah talah ka direct order hai kai na karo, tu koi is sai inhiraf kar sakta hai. nahin. aur agar nahin, tu nikah tootnay wali baat ka sawal tu baad main aye ga. waisay yeh tu koi mufti hi bata saktay hain, aap apnay maslak kai kisi mufti sai contact karain.
sana: your reply was relevant and completely true in spirit. there is nothing wrong in telling right things as we all know from Quran too. actully Bewaqoof was saying a different thing, which I understood, and I think sach baat kehnay sai agar kisi ko aiteraz bhi ho tu rukna nahin chahiye.
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4325 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 5:09pm |
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Anal sex: Islam mai allow nahi hai anjani_222: agar ap Quran Hadeth aur Islam ka ilm nahi rakhti hai tu barai meharbani Islamic topic par jawab na de. ap ne aik intehai ghalat bat ki hai. Anal sex na tu medically allowed hai aur na hi Islam mai.
mai moderator se request karta hoon keh anjani_222 ke post ko edit/delete kar dia jai. kio keh woh aise batai kar rahi hai jis ke bare mai Islam aur medical science ne wazeh tor se mana farmaya hai. |
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josh |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jul, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 2296 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 5:35pm |
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Log Pagal Ullu Or Jahil Nahi hain! mai samajhta hon k sab logo k pas dimagh naam ki koi cheez hai..or wo decide/samajh saktay hain k kia sahi hai or kia galat... or uper bohat say senior members bata chukay hain k Anal sex is not allowed in Islam, it is a dirty act that can be performed by only dirty people (the people who are very much inspired by PoRn Movies).
anjani_222 waisey plz dont mind , are you in favour of anal sex? |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 8:34pm |
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RE:anjani All Muslim jurists agree that anal sex is haram (prohibited), based on the hadith of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "Do not have anal sex with women." (Reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa'i, and Ibn Majah.)
Khuzaymah Ibn Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) also reported
that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah is not too shy to tell you the truth: Do not have sex with your wives in the anus." (Reported by Ahmad, 5/213.)
Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has anal sex with his wife." (Reported by Ibn Abi Shaybah, 3/529, and At-Tirmidhi classified it as an authentic hadith, 1165)
Further, it is reported that the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) referred to such an act as "minor sodomy". (Reported by Ahmad and An-Nasa'i)
However, it is allowed to caress the wife and stimulate her around
the anus, without having sex in this area. It is reported that `Umar
Ibn Al-Khattab (ay Allah be pleased with him) came one day to the
Prophet and said, "O Messenger of Allah, I am ruined!" "What has ruined
you?" asked the Prophet. He replied, "Last night I turned my wife
over," meaning that he had had vaginal intercourse with her from the
back. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not say
anything to him until the verse cited above was revealed. Then he told
him, "[Make love with your wife] from the front or the back, but avoid the anus and intercourse during menstruation." (Reported by Ahmad and At-Tirmidhi)
Nullification of Marriage:
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But, the wife is not considered divorced as many
people think, because there is no evidence to support this view.
However, scholars maintain that if a man habitually does this or
insists on having anal sex with his wife, she has the right to ask for
a divorce, because he is considered an evildoer who is causing harm by
his action, and also because the purpose of marriage cannot be achieved
through this action.
Referrence:www.islamonline.net
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 8:39pm |
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Re: continue Allah talah Quran shareef main irshad farmatay hain:
"Your women are a tilth for you (to cultivate) so go to your tilth as ye will." (Al-Baqarah: 223)
urdu mafhoom: tumhari biwian tumhari khaitee hain, so un main jis tarah chaho aoo.
sab sai pehlay tu khaitee woh jagah hotee hai jahan sai production miltee hai, jab male apna sperm vagina main dalta hai tu baby produce hota hai, anus sai nahin. so anus kisi bhi tarah khaitee main nahin ata. secondly apni khaitee main kisi bhi taraf sai a saktay hain, from front or back. but only in vagina, not anus.
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anjani_222 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 10:54pm |
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faisee reply maine yeh nahi kaha kay allowed ha maine sirf apni suggestion dee ha !!! or mujhe iskay baray mai koi hadees or ayat nahi dekhi ha as i mentioned above !! or faisee main yahan apna concept share ker rahi thi or agar appko moderator se post delete kerwani ha toh kerwado ok !!! aisi ek 10 sites ha jaha discussion hoti ha lekin members ka mazak nahi uratay !!! ok main nahi aungi appki is site per
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anjani_222 |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 10:55pm |
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sorry... maine ghalti se faisee ka naam likh diya main bewaqof ki post kay baray mai bol rahee thi..... ok jo kay first page per ha...
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 11:02pm |
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Re: anjani sister, I know aap nai nahin dekhi ho gi isi liye main nai yeh reference ahadees and ayat post ki yahan per aap sab ki knowledge kai liye. and I agree hamari sisters ko in baton kai baray main exact knowledge nahin hotee, because aisay problems hamari society main openly discuss nahin hotay. aap mind mat karain aur yeh sirf sab ki knowledge kai liye main nai likha, aap per criticize karnay kai liye nahin. I hope yeh parh kar aap ki knowledge main izafa hua ho ga.
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Bewaqoof |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4325 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Aug 2007, 11:47pm |
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mai sorry karta hoo anjani_222: mujhe intehai afsos hai keh ap ko mere reply se dukh pohcha. mujhe bhi ihsas ho raha hai keh mujhe is tarah reply nahi dene chahia tha balke faisee ki tarah example de kar ap ko samjhana chahia tha. dar asal mai logo ko pahle isi tarah reply karta tha kio keh mujhe irrelevant reply par ghussa ajata tha.
lekin main ne aik member Kim84 se sabaq seekha hai keh logo se piar muhabbat se bat karni chahia. aur larai nahi karni chahia. lehaza agar ap ko meri bat buri lagi hai tu mai sorry karta hoo. ap ko is website se jane ki zaroorat nahi. mai ainda reply karte huye khial rakhoo ga. |
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