Question: 

My husband's age is 27 years whereas my age is 22. My husband is Carnalist and he possesses much more sexual desire. Except the days of my menses, he demands for intercourse almost every night. I don't have enough desire for sex as compared to him. 

We have a house having three rooms, and we have two children and therefore, I have to keep clean the rooms. My children make me tired a lot and I have been remaining frightened in order to fulfill my responsibilities. I think that excessive and frequent intercourse would be harmful to my health. I am scared that if I wouldn't fulfill my husband's sexual desire according to his will. He could be misdirected sexually and would maintain extra-marital relations. 

Answer: 

According to the famous researcher Kinsey, the average frequency of intercourse is 3-35 per week, however; there is a major number of individuals who use to perform the intercourse for more than this figure even a lot of people are there who use to perform intercourse on daily basis. Therefore; you should take out this thought from your mind that your husband is Carnalist. 

The purpose of intercourse is not to have unilateral activity and getting one sided pleasure. By virtue of which both of partners should get pleasure. According to the theoretical point of view, any sexual activity or intercourse with out the willing full participation of wife comes under Rape or Zina-bil-Jabr. However; practically your fear about possible extra marital relations of husband that he could develop due to not fulfilling his sexual desire possesses equivalent impotence. You are required to talk with him openly. The open talks about the sexual activities between husband and wife would be good for pleasurable marriage and by virtue of which, both of the husband and wife would get increased and stonking pleasure and happiness. 

Naturally, sexual copulation is not a unilateral matter. In any intercourse in that wife doesn't participate fully is no more than masturbation for husband. Whenever you are forced for excessive intercourse without your will, then definitely your health and physical condition would be disturbed as a result of it. You would be tired, get tetchiness, and bit by bit its harmful effects would appear on your health. This thing would cerate a lot of harm over all the home members and your children and husband as well. Therefore; put in forth all of your issues in front of your husband and try to resolve the problems mutually.