Question: 

I and my wife are in extreme love with each other. She has a lot of qualities in her but I am worried due to a problem. She doesn't get pleasure via sexual intercourse up till when I fondle her body with my hands in order to arouse her; and then she gets pleasure and even attains orgasm. 

Answer: 

The condition you have discussed is not unusual. In a woman, the place for generation of sexual arousal is not only situated at the sexual centre of her brain, but also present in her clitoris as well. I have an experience to see these cases a lot, where the husband has to use his hands to take his wife up to the level of orgasm. In theses conditions, I usually advice to the husbands, where the stage of wife's climax is found nearer, try to arouse more by hands and then after full arousal start intercourse. I also advice the husband that with the help and agreement of his wife, he should acquire such a position with which her clitoris would get continuously stimulation throughout the intercourse. Usually this method would result in satisfaction for both of the husband and wife.