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Irfa
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 4:38am |
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 Sexy Talks With My Boy Friend: Is It Allowed In Islam?
salam 2 all.me yha par nayi hu or ap sab k swal jwab par k mujhe bohat si bato ka pta chla he. yar bet yeh he k mera boyfriend msg pe mujhse foreplay k bare me bate karte he.wo mujhse bohat pyar karte he or me unhe mna nahin kar pati qk me unka dil nahin torna chahti.hmari agle sal shadi b hone wali he. swal yeh he k kya hume gunah milega aisi bate msg k through karne se?1 or masla yeh he k wesi bate sun kar me ejaculate hoti hu.to kya me napak ho jati hu?or roze pe kuch fark parta he kya?plz mujhe btaiye mujhe kya karna chahiye
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Ejaz_noor
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 37 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 5:06am |
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 Reply 2 irfa
ap nai teen different questions kiya hain tu mai answer bhi alag alag hi deta hun.
1. assi batain ker na bohat buri bat hai aur agar ap assi batain na kerain balkai achi achi batain kerain tu bhi ghuna tu lazmi ho ga kaun kai boy friend koi mehram nahi hota jis sai ap batain kerain.
2. ejaculate honai sai zahir hai ap napak ho ja ti hain aur ghusal ker na farz ho jata hai.
3. han rozay per is sai koi asar nahi hota. |
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zeb
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 5:35am |
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yes im 100% agreed to ejaz |
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Irfa
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 5:52am |
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thanx 4 ur reply apne mujhe ache tarike se jwab diya us k liye shukriya.me bohat koshish karti hu k hum aisi bate na kare.me unko samjati b hu lekin wo phir mujhe mnane me kamyab ho jate he.aap kuch suggest kar sakte ho k me unko kese samjau?wo bohat ache he isliye unka dil dukhe yeh b me nahin chahti.wese hum 2months se sath he par wesi bate 1 week se shuru hui he. |
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 7:54am |
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ok i do not agree with ejaz noor .....
if you ejaculate and you discharge then of course there is effect on ROZAY.
If you erect and you do not dishcarge there is not effect on rozay and do not need to bath also.... |
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Ejaz_noor
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 37 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 10:28am |
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Reply 2 irfa mai kuch suggest ker nai sai pehalay ap sai aik sawal kerta hun ap bar bar kehti hain wo bohat achay hain is liya mai un ka dil nahi dukha sakti magar ap ye nahi soochti kai ap un ko khus ker nai kai liya ALLAH KAI RASOOL ka kitna dil dhuka ti hain kiya woh Allah Kai rasool sai zaida achay hain????
HADITH "TUM MAI SAI KOI SHAKS US WAQT TAK EMAN WALA NAHI HO SAKTA JAB TAK MAI USAY US KAI WALDAIN AUR US KI AULAD AUR DUNIYA KAI HAR INSAN SAI ZAIDA MEHBOOB NA HO JAON"
SECONDLY UN KO SAMJHA NAI SAI KUCH NAHI HO GA AGAR SAMJHA NA HAY TU APNAY AP KO SAMJHA NA HO GA |
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Veer
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 10:32am |
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Irfa gair mehram se baatein karna ghuna hai jab tak aap ka os se nikah nehin ho jata tab tak aap ke liye woh gair aur aap os ke liye gair hain.chahe aap donu ke mangi he kyun na hoi ho.
gair mehram se baatein karne se ghuna to melta hai lekin os mein aur mazeed sexy baatein ki jaye to ghuna zaida ho jaye ga.aak to gair mehram aur dosra gair mehram ke sath gandi baatein bhi.yani ke 2 ghuna.
Ejaculation ka matlab hai ethalam hona..ethalam hona aur vagina se some drops discharge hone mein farak hai...ethalam raat ko sote waqt ata hai jis mein female ko ghusal karna farz ho jata hai.
sexy baatein karne se vagina se ya penis se drops nikalte hain.yeh ese he hain jese khati cheez ko dekh kar mou mein paani ata hai.ager vagina mein es tarha drops discharge hote hain to ghusal farz nehin hota.albata wazo kar lena chahein.aur vagina ko dhoo lena chahein.
kapro ko dhoone ki zaroorat nehin albata paani ke sath cheerak lena chahein.lekin ager khud he masturbation kar ke discharge kiya jaye to ghusal farz ho jata hai. |
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Ejaz_noor
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 37 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 10:50am |
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Reply 2 irfa I AGREED WITH ABOVE POST BUT KAPRON KO HAR HAL MAI DHONA PERAY GA WARNA NAMAZ NAHI HO GI OK |
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s4u
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 4:45pm |
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 Dear Irfa
mojhe bhi btaoo aap k boyfriend kia khate hain main bhi apne faince ko khilon takey wo bhi kuch gherat khaein....(heheheheh)
wese ye aaj k har larka larki ka problem hai.rishta hoa nahi aur sexy batein shoro ho jati hain.......har aik ko khayali polau bana acha lgta hai.phir chahe rishta tot hi kiu na jae.
par aap control krein khod pe bhi onhe bhi kahein........ager wo aap ko mannane me kamyab ho jate hain to aap ko chahiye k aap pehle to manna krein ager phir bhi na hoon to aap onn se kuch din tak sms ya jo bhi aap krti hoon krna chhor dein.......
in sab batoon k liye pori life hai...per abhi saber se kaam lein...
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goldengirl
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Sep 2008, 11:20pm |
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70% people do that same thing aj kal 70% couples ,fiancy and gul frnd +boy frnd is tarhan ka mazak ya guftugu karty hain.yaqenan hr sencible ko pata hai k islam main totly prohibited hai gair mehram sy baat karna + uper sy sexual talking.
mery feancy shuker ab out of country hain is lie reserve hony ka moqa mil gaya hai kyun k ab itne detail baat nahi hoti but when he was in pakistan then un ki bhi demand yehi hoti thi k shadi k topic ko discuss kiya jae,jab jab maine mana kiya tab tab aik zabardast larai hui.kafi din tak contact bhi braek kar k dekha.end of the result comment aya u r so boring so rude etc etc.
sawal ye hai k aj kal ka ye aik common problem hai ya aik fashion ban gaya hai mana karny ki surat main wo banda hi dusri larkiyun ki taraf divert hoga kyun k dor hi aisa chal raha hai.our mana bhi kab tak kiya jae? yahan boy frnd ki baat nahi kar rahi all gulz bataye zara sunnty hain specialy feancy nahi na? tu kiya rishta khatam kar diya jae wo bhi nahi hosakta kyun k jo new milen gain wo us sy bhi mahan hogen.:) |
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s4u
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 12:11am |
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Golden Girl to ise roka kese jae?ye to aap ne btaya hi nahi.
Woh to mere faince ne bhi aik bar mazq me bat ki thi parr mere mana krne k bad onn ka mood kafi kharab ho gaya.phir mojhe hi manana prra.lekin os din k bad phir humare drmyan esi koi guftagu nahi hoi.
Allah ka shuker hai wo inn sab batoon ko ziyada improtant nahi dete.
os k bad maine onhe kai bar azmaya per Allhamdullillah mojhe phir koi shikayat ka moka nahi mila.....
yaar main samjhti hoon k ager insan abb apni bat nahi manwa sakta to shadi k bad kia ho ga?????
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Irfa
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 3:25am |
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goldengirl xxxx ha yar bilkul sach keh rahi ho tum!!!mene jab unhe mna kiya to wo kehte he jao me tumhe kabhi msg nahin karu ga, tum kuch nahin kar sakti........mei italy me or wo pakistan me hote he.par hum 1 dusre se baat kiye bagher nahin reh sakte.mushkil se 2 gante guzre ghe or wo phir mujhe sorry bol ke kehte he k ainda nahin karu ga kabhi.yeh kal ki hi baat he,chalo ab aghe dekhte he k kya hota he.
or phir yar hum b insan he.agar koi bukhe k samne biryani rakhe ga to bukha to kab tak mna kare ga.or phir aise hi 1 din insan ghalti kar bethta he. |
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Irfa
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 3:33am |
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tell me boys agr girl apne boyfriend ko istarha ki bate karne se mna kare to aap us larki ko kya kaho ghe or kya socho ghe us k bare me?
or agr larki mna na kare to aap us k character ko ghalt nazr se dekho ghe?or kya shadi karo ghe usse?
or mujhe 1 baat ka yeh bi dar he k wo kahi mujhse boar na ho jaye. |
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Irfa
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 3:51am |
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s4u manvane ki bat nahin he!!! yar wo to banda or b 100 chize manve sakta he.lekin yha yeh dekhna he k kya hmara boyfriend hmari soch ko samjta he.or kya wo hmare fesle ki izzat karta he ya nahin. |
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s4u
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 4:07am |
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Dear sweet Irfa esi bat nahi hai k wo aap se bore ho jaein ge.bas yar Islam bhi to koi cheez hai na.
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 4:10am |
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ok larkyoo app assi batay na keroo aur shadi ka intazar keroo..........aur agar kooi ghalti ker bathoo too pher TOOBA keroo aur ussi larkay say shadi keroo........ |
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Irfa
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 4:30am |
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ok goodman chalo hushi hui k koi larka b hame keh rha he k aisi bate na kare.zahir he goodman se ham aisi hi bat sun sakte he
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zeb
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 5:19am |
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irfa ji bilkul goodman wese bhi bohat achey hain
he really deserve this id |
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goldengirl
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 27 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 6:19am |
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@irfa
- sab sy pehly tm ye soch lo k is tarhan ki guftugu karna gunah hai.kyun k jab tak larki nahi chahy gi larka kuch nahi kar sakta.apny nafs par sabit kadam raho k tm ko har hal main usy rokna hai.
- ager wo ye kahy k tm aise baat na karo sirf suno gunah mujhe mily ga tm ko nahi tu +ve way main jab us ka mood acha ho then brain washing karo.social values and islamic values ka lecture dy kar.
- 3rd most important thing is that as soon as possible koshish karo k wo tmhara rishta ly kar aye ta k boy frnd sy feancy ya dunya ki nazar main aik legal relation qayam ho.
- ager rishta na la saky our na lane ka logical reason na dy saky tu bilawaja time waist na karo parents ki marzi sy kisi sincere sy shadi karo.kyun k kitna arsa boy frnd sy baat karti raho gi?
- ager sexual talking k hawaly sy wo tmhari baat na mane tu ahista ahista contact our chatt karna kam karo kyun k jitna zeada baat hogi ise type k topics par discussion zarror nikle gi.mana karny k lie usy emotionaly black mail karo ya us k weak points ko base bana k apni is bat ko manvany ki koshish karo.bar bar rudly mana karo gi tu wo irritate hoga our tapy ga sharpness sy topic ko change kiya karo ta k sanp bhi mar jae our lathi bhi na toty.
- tmhary last 3qn ka anser,1st 1 iz that waqti tor par larky ko gussa aye ga our sochy ga boring hai matlab ki nahi hai but ager sincere hua tu is k dil main izzat bhary gi tmhari k larki shareef hai( time pass karny wala har hal main -ve hi sochy ga k tm us k mayar k mutabiq nahi)
- 2nd anser:yaqenan ager tm us k narazgi ka khyal kar k mana nahi karo gi tu us ko khuli chutt mily gi.may b wo tm ko azma raha ho k larki mujhe sy kis had tak free hoti hai.boy frnds akser ye sochty hain k mujhe sy itna free hoti hai tu ouroon sy kitna hoti hogi ager kal ko tmhari us k sath hi shadi ho tu hosakta hai yehi tanz sunny ko mile.is lie avoid karo ye sab
- 3rd anser:roz itne detail baat karo gi tu zahir hai aik waqt aisa aye ga k boar hojao tm 2no kyun k qadar kho dyta hai roz ka ana jana.weekly kea karo baat ya kuch din k gape sy.
- yahan maine tm ko kisi nasehat k lehaz sy kahani nahi likhi reality type ki hai meri bht si university ki fellows ki kahani bhi same hai amal karna na karna tmhary hath main hai.
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s4u
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Mar, 2011 Topic: 97 Post: 5354 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Sep 2008, 6:31am |
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Golden Girl very nice
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