striker22
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Sep, 2008 Topic: 7 Post: 117 Age:
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Posted on:13th Sep 2008, 9:03am |
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I Feel shyness While Talking Others
Hi...i m very shy person......infact girls b itna nhe sharmati hongi jtna k ma.....lol I feel very shy while talking with any stranger and donot talk at all with girls...this puts a bad image of mine over others and they think i m a rude person........wat shud i do???
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nikama
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 1808 Age:
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Posted on:13th Sep 2008, 10:50am |
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MR STRIKER... ummm , ya just read ur mesasge.. ofcourse u r not a girl.. make it like a good solid boy rytheems, so u dont need to be shy at all. just think broad & make and devlp confdence ..u will be okay...... enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy |
Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4432 Age:
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Posted on:13th Sep 2008, 10:50am |
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striker bhai mera khayal hae k shy hona achi baat hae but u should be practilce. aap ne masters kiya huwa hae aur aap ki shyness aap ki job main problem creat kar sakti hae. aap apnay social circle ko thorra barrhaien aur confident raha karain .larrkiyon ko sirf apnay jaisa insaan samajh k baat kiya karain koi super creature samajh k nahi. aap sab se ache akhlaq se bolain koi aap ko rude nahi samjhe ga .insaan ko chatterbox bhi nahi hona chahiye lekin jahan zaroorat ho wahan shy bhi nahi hona chahiye. |
SOFI
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Group: Members Joined: 09th Jun, 2008 Topic: 10 Post: 441 Age:
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Posted on:13th Sep 2008, 3:24pm |
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strik bhai Janab bohat ache baat hai sharam aur haya ka hona Hades ka mafhoom hai ka banda aur Allah ka darmeyan Sharam aur Haya ka parda hota hai jab tak woh hota hai woh logoo sa Sharam aur Haya karta hai jab ya parda khatam hojata hai to woh logoo sa bhe Sharam aur Haya karna chor data hai is cheez ko bakhe rakeya ap zeyada logoo sa baat karta raheya rafta rafta ya khatam jojaega logoo ka keya hai woh har lahaz sa galat he kahta hai sab ko aur mazakh bana na logoo ka kam hai os par tawajho mat daa mai bhe ap ke tarah he hoo mai apne taref na karta howa apne Ami ke aek baat lekh ta hoo Ami kahte hai ka Allah moj ko is ka bajaee agar larke data to woh shaed itna nahe sharmate the. |
ash28
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2008 Topic: 7 Post: 347 Age:
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Posted on:13th Sep 2008, 4:03pm |
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Striker...Sofi Bhai
Apny belkol thek baat ki k ALLAH Bandy k demeyan Perda hota or bysahk Hum mai ye ta kayamt rehna Chahye.... or Striker Bhai Aap sab sy mily or Apni Body Language ko handle kary...yani jab Aap mehsoos kary k Aap sharma rahy hain tu kisi ko mehsos na hony dy bocz akser log is waja sy b mar kha jaty hain...or ager Apki body Language thek hai tu Fiker na kary bas Apni will per ehtamad kary.....INSHALLAH wid time beings Every thing is Ok....
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~~HITMAN~~
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Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age:
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Posted on:13th Sep 2008, 4:22pm |
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rE: I Feel shyness While Talking Others Shyness ka taluk self consciouness say bhi , self consciousness kya hai ye app google pe search karain, apko is kay baray main jannay say buhut fayeda hoga.
Dunya main har insaan barabar hai koi kisi say chota nahi hai aur na bar hai. har kisi ko Allah talah nay mukhtalif silahiyatain ata farmayen hain aur wo uskay mutabik kaam karta hai, apko bhi Allah talah nay talent dya hai usko find karna appka kaam hai. Apmain confidense ki kami ki main wajah yehi hai k app apne app ko dosron say kamtar samajhtay hongay, aur larkiyon ko koi hoorpari samajhtay hongay jabkay wo bhi appki tarha hi insaan hain aur jesay mard hain wesay hi aurtain hain.......bilawajah impress hona bhi thek nahi hai.....
app google pe following words ko search karain, inshallah ap un articles ko read karkay apne apko samajhnay main aur apna confidense develop karnay main madad milay gi .....
1. Overcome Shyness 2. Self Consciousness 3. Self Confidence 4. Self Esteem
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Maryam
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Group: Members Joined: 17th May, 2008 Topic: 26 Post: 4432 Age:
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Posted on:14th Sep 2008, 5:05am |
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Striker bhai aap Hitman se contact rakhain dekhna aap ki shyness kaise door bhagti hae:) |
striker22
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Group: Members Joined: 13th Sep, 2008 Topic: 7 Post: 117 Age:
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Posted on:14th Sep 2008, 5:54am |
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wow i m quiet happy to see all these replies thankful to all of u......well members u r right main problem is self confidence n i lack in it.....u knw i just giv two presentations during my entire MBA degree....givin a persentation like speakin in front of a crowed is one of the scariest things of my life..hartbeat raised...start feelin temprature..and sometimes starts trembling...... |
nikama
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Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2007 Topic: 47 Post: 1808 Age:
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Posted on:14th Sep 2008, 6:48am |
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strker ....... ab main tumhara kiya kuroon yaaar ... lolsss.. u r goood boy.. i tell u whatever u feel is quite natural.. it happens when any body doing some new tasks & things... i know it happens when u deliver speeches on crwd , or any thing like thses.. meri jaaan aisa hota hai, ya sub kuch ahsita say khud hutum hoo ja taaa hai aur insaaan aik buhat confident hota jata hai..dont worry , ya heartbeat, body temp ,little swetting , ghabraat , shyness and all that happens , but with passage if time u will automaticaly get over it ... undersatnd strikerrrr. cheeeeeeeeers now, ya.... happy ask me any thing i will expalin more if u need.. |
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