reply..! Can Anyone Advice Me? (Saas Bacha Na Honay Pay Tang Krti Hai)
Ghar main issterha ki baat hona aam hay you dont wory about any this type of ...MOD EDIT: Removed slang english word sometimes also used as swear word..., b relax its your life bacha ho na ho its up to both of you wife n husband agr saas ko baby chahiye then tell her that she should born a baby if she hungry about it b relax n get chillll, aik kaan se suno doosre se nikaal do but bigz ki izzat karo unka ghar k kamo main hath batao kabi kabi acha kuch paka k unko do she wil normal and will accept you in every situation don wory...!
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Hope u fine sis:)mene apki prof dhiki.U r Unmarried But Masha Allah ap itna acha guide karti ho.aur bhi mem bht ache hain but u r the one jisne mujhy itna briefly and eazy words ma smjhya:)mujhy apke posts se kafi help mli hay.jisdin mai apna pob likh rahi thi us din aur aaj bht farq mehsus kar rahi hun apne aap ma:)bas ma bari bahu hun mai tou mujhy hi sab smjhna parega sab dhekna aur brdasht karna parega par meri dua aur kwahish hy k dusra bhi smjha kare ehsas kia kare bas aur kuch nahi.meri adat hay ye k mujhy jab bhi kisi ki koi cheez ya adaat achi lagti hy tou ma uski tareef zarur krti hun simple wordz mai taky dusre ko ye na lagay k nazr laga rhi hy ya lalch hay ya kushamad kari hy.bas dusra bhi kush hujata hay aur insan ko khud bhi sukoon mil jata hay dusre ki kushi dhek ke ..kia jata hay agar do lafz insan mu se bol de koi tareef ka mohtaj tou nahi huta Allah pak k hath ma hoti hy izzat zillat par ye hy k insaan ka dil barh jata hay.pata nahi meri dusron ki feelings ki care krna unhe kush rkhna achi adaat hay ya buri mai nahi janti..Well M thnkful to u bushra and jab meri gud newz hugi tou mai apko zarur bataungi:) till then tc sis
Kia koi ye bata sakta hay k ovulation ya eggs produce hone k leay heavy mensis ka hona zaruri hay??kiunke mujhy sirf ek se 2 din tak zada ata hay phr halka halka ata hay buhat.mujhy doc ne fertility k leay clomid suggest ki hay tou plzz mujhy bataen.i will be thnkful to u
3 din se km ya 7 din se zayad timing mai menses koi na koi problem hoti hn..try to regulate ur periods phr sb thk hojaye ga..
Observation yh ha k jin grlz ko menses bot km ya ruk ruk kr ya bilkul nhe ho re hoty unko harmone imbalance ka masla hota ha jo ovulution aur pregnancy mai msla bnata ha ..esi grls ka mostly figure phool sa jata ha or bp low rehta ha..lakin agr period thk se hojain toh phr tamam in se juray masail thk hojaty hn..yh koi bara msla nhe ha irregular period ka ..har 6th woman ka yh msla ha jo complete remedy se thk hojata ha dont worry..
Mujhy doctor ne kaha hay ultrasound ke baad k aapke eggs nahi ban rahe isi wajah se clomid di..ab mensis mujhy sirf 2 ya 3 din tak atay hayn do din tak tou theek atay hayn par 3 day se halka huna shuru hujate hain.mujhy plzzz bataen ka kia koi home treatment hai jis se mai inko normal aur healthy kar sakun??ma dubai ma rehti hun doc k pas ana jana treatment krwana easy nahi:(
Ovolution process kay mutasir honay mai sometimes fallopina tubes ki swelling ka b asar hota ha tb pregnancy occur honay mai prob hoti ha
Ovolution process might get affected by swelling in fallopian tubes jski wajah se woman ko prgegnant honay mai problem hoti hn qk overies thk se kam nhe kr re hoty iski treatment k liy thora wakt darkar hota ha ap allopathic remedy lain is se instant fark paray ga coz ghar k jo cure hn aik toh tim cunsumption bot hoti ha doosra itna reliabe ne han aur yh koi bari bemari ya msla ne ha bot khawateen ko ha ap gynaecolgist jo kh re hn ose follow karo..in sha Allah thk kr dy ga..
Salam sister how are you ???aap ka post parh ki buht dukh howa ,,,, sis ye har saas ka yahi hal hota hy chahy kisi ky ha aulad bi ho tab bi yahi kehti hy ,,,, buht kam saasy achi hoti hy jo apni bhaithyon ka khayal karky Buho ko kuch achy nazar sy dhaikhti hy ,,, maire 1 Daughter hy 4 years ki ab phr sy pregnant nai horahi to yahi masly masayel hy ke q nai horahy ,,,, pala ky to 2 ,3 bachy hogayai hy apky ha q nai ,,, my hud Din Raat sochon my parhi hoti ho k ya Allah kesi ko bi aisi Aazmaish my mat daly Q ki paraye maa parayi hi hoti hy wo apni maa khabi nai ban sakti... hamesha yahi kehti hy hy mera bhaitha shadi ky baad buht Kamzoor hogya hum pehly to aisy nai ty ,,,, bhaitha buht acha ta pehly ,paisa bi dya karta ta hy hy pata ny tum Jadogar ny aaky kia kardia hahahahaha ,,,,, so Dil py patar rakh ky guzara kar rahy hy ,,,,, Allah pak sub ko Aulad ata farmaye Aameeen
bushra thnk you for long explanation.mere hubby ek company mai kaam karte hai aur wahan se unhen insurance ki koi bhi facility abhi tak tou nhi mli hy.phele kabhi inlogo ko zaruart nahi pari insurance ki ab jabke shadi hugai hy phir achanak ye infertility ka pob hugya hay tou medical wagera ma thora prob ata hay.kuke yahan k doctrs zada haat nahi lagate bas dawaiyan likh k pakra dete hain.aur phir is treatment k baad u knw gyna har month bulati hay checkup,test.etc...to isi leay ma chah rahi thi ke clomid ki dose se hi thora farq pare.baki jahan tak meri driving ya lisence ka sawal hay tou mere susral wale ahbi is cheez ko accpt karne k mood mai nahi hain.aur mere hubby ahbi newly married hy tou isi wajah se apne parents se koi zid wagera ya unke against nahi ja sakte.hope u got it .... just need ur prayrz
waslam m fine sis.aap sunao?ji aap ne theek kaha asa hi hota hay aur tab asa zada hota hay jab baat bare bete ki aulaad ki ho.filhal koi baby nai hy.m on primary stage.chahe kuch bhi karlo magar aurat ki hesiat susral mai aulaad se hi bharti hy warna kuch bhi karlo kisi ko koi farq nahi parta.aur shohar k rawaion ka zimadar bhi bwi ko hi therya jata hay agay se jab batao k asa nahi hy ya hum ne shohar ko nahi kabu kia tou saasen khti hyn k haan nahi bhi kia ho tou zamana yehi kahega.......!yani kabhi koi achi baat ya taslai bkhsh baat tou keh hi nahi aktin bahu ko.kher kia karennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!upar se maa baap se bhi door.need pryrz tc sis.May Allah also bless on u ameen
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JI mai pak jane ka prog kar rahi hun kuke le de k ek yehi option nazar arha haiand jabtak mia insuranc ka bhi dhek len..and yess ap sahi keh rai ho maa ko ye tou nazar nahi ata k bete ki live ma kia chng hui ha jiski wjah se kamzor hurha hya bas ye dhikta hy k shyd bwi ne tang kr rahka hay mana k kuch biwiyan bhi huti hyn jo ulti seedhi harkaten karti hyn hakikat ma par har koi asi nahi huti
Yes sis bilkul sahi kaha Aap ny ,,, hum chahy mar bi jae kisi ko nazar nae aata or bhaithy pe hamesha nazar hoti hy ..... mery our husband ky Age Difference bi kafi ziyada hy mery khyal sy ,,,, me 20 and 36 ka hy ab looking my agar my thori young lag rahi ho to saas khti hy hud to bhains bn gai hy bhaitha mera kamzor hota chala jaraha hy ,,,,, my buht Tension laite ho buht ziyada khafa hoti ho inki batain sun kar ,,,,,, na to kapry banany daiti hy na shoes jb banao to Rola dalti hy ,,,, Ammi bhaijti hy to phr khti hy mairy bhaithy ky paisy waha bhaijti hy apny baap ko wo per suits laiky humy dikhata hy ki kapry laya ho ,,,,,, kaise guzry gi ye life buht mushkil hy Allah pak humy Aisy logo ki shar sy Nijat ata farmaye Aameeen
Salam to everyone mai apni kushi ap sabse share karna chahungi Allah ke karam se and ap sabki duaaon aur support ki wahjh se mujhy ye kushi Mili hay.Allhamdullilah m pregnent :)
Jo koi taqwa ikhtayar kry ga, Allah os k liay har mesabat sy nikalny k zria bna ly ga. aor os ko, aisy zriay sy risk dy ga jahan sy osy guman b na hoga.(quran, 65,2-3).
Hadees ha, "Jo koi Allah sy mafi mangy ka, (istaghfarallah), Allah os k liay, har mesabat sy, har perashani sy, har dukh sy nikalny ka zira bna dy ga, aor os ko, wahan sy rizk dy ga jahan sy osy guman b nhn hoga).
Hadees ha, "aik admi Hazrat Ibn Aaabas r.a k pas aya kaha k aap dua kryn Allah mjy olad dy, aap ny kaha k astghafar kro. Dosra aya, kaha k dua kro, Allah mjy Dolat dy, aap ny kaha astaghfar kro. Aik aor aya os ny kse aor chez k liay dua ki darkhwast ki, Ap ny kaha astaghfar parho. Kse ny aap r.a sy pucha jub b koi ata ha, aap osy astaghafr ka ku kahty hain, aap r.a ny furamaya, "kya tm ny nahhn suna k Allah ny kaha, "Allah sy mafi mango, wo bukhsny vala ha, wo tumhary liay Asman sy pani baijhy ga, Aor olad aor maal o dolat sy aor, baagat sy aor, darion sy tumhari madad kry ga", (surah noah).
Shaikh Ibn e tamiyyah kahty hain, "jub mjy koi cheez sumjhany main mushkil hote (yahni, ilm sekhty) to main, 1000 dafa astaghar parhta to, Allah mery liay wo asan kr dyta, mjy sumjah aa jate.
Nabi saww ny furmaya, "main rozana 100 dafa astaghar parta hu", aik aor riwayat main 70 dafa ka kaha ha.
Jo koi, subha astaghfaar kry, Allah osy mutaqeen main shamil kr dyta ha, tobaha krny valo main, (quran ki ayat ki rooh sy), Jasy, 2 rakat tajhaud prany vala zakraeen main shamill kr lia jata ha.
Treqa kaar: 100, dafa, 70 dafa, kahny k matlb yah nhn ha, k aap saw ny,. sirf 100 dafa ,ya 70 dafa kahan. Jasa k ibn e tamiyyah ny, 100 dafa, laga tar parha. Bl k nabi saww ny, Din main, 100, ya 70 dafa, Tobah ki, jasy, subha, shaam, din ko, dophar ko, yah, har, 10,15 mint baad. Yahni k, aap saww ny, tobah ki, 100 dafa, apna mind set bnaya, gunah sy bechny ka, thats what it means.
Ap, subha b astaghar kro, Rat be, din ko be, Ese kalmy ko apne zaban py jare kro. Jo Loag tobah nhn krty, Allah sy mafi nhn manty hain, Allah un sy naraz rahta ha. Uny Allah mutakabir sumjhta ha.
Ap jub astaghafaar kro gy to aap ka dil kahy ga k, q kr raha hu, main ny kya gunah kiah ha. To nabi saww ny q kia ha, un k kya gunah tha? Bl k, hum loag bht gunah krty hain. jasa k main abi internet py betha hu, Mery garh valo ko mere zurorat hoge, har kse ko, Hazaro gunah kr liay hu gy. Gunah bht zaida sar zad hoty hain. Hadees ha k tumhara jism jalta rahta ha, namazo k darmiyani waqfy main, jub tm namaz parhty ho to thanda ho jata ha.
Es k mutaliq main ny tv par suna: Jo , saudia ka mufti, astaghfaar ki fazilat byan kr raha tha, wo qasam kr k kah raha tha k, aisy kae loag hain, jin ko olad nhn the, kuch ko, 18 sal ho gy thay, Jub mery pas ay to, astaghfaar ka kaha, kuch he dino main wapis ay mjy khushkabri dyny.....
Apne wife ko be kaho: Wife ko be kaha kro. wo be astaghafar parhain, matlb k sath. Dil mai, be gunah sy bechny ka khayal ho. Astaghfaar ka matlb hota ha, apny mind set bna lyna k gunah nhn kru ga. Aor zaban sy iqrar krna..
Allah sy dua kia kro: Hadees: "3 logo ki dua kabi rad nhn hote ha, maa baap ki olad k haq main. Musafir ki, aor muzloom ki", aap ko jub b aise situation ho, aap zuror dua krna. Safar main.
Last thing: Allah aap ko olad na dy to, jis dr k pass jao, aap ko kuch hasil na hoga. Ya simple treqa ha, aap azma k daikh lo. Aor kasrat sy dua kia kor. Ku k jub gunaho sy mafi magni jay to dua foran qaboool hote ha. Allah aap ki duao ko qabool kry aor, aap ko olad dy. Naik o furmabardar. Olad na milny main b maslait hote ha. Ho sakta ha, aap es condition main na hu dunu k, olad ko prrwan charay ja sakty. Yah kuch be.
Aaj 30 October hai jabke aapne 1st February ko bataya thaa ke pregnancy thair gai hai.
Pooray 9 maheenay guzar gay hein... Ummeed hai khairyat se guzar gay hongay kyunke miscarriage etc. jesa koi thread aapnay nahen banaya. No news means good news.
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