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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 64 Post: 7660 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 1:09pm |
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 kiran
Kiraan I also smile.situation he assi ha kay smile kay beghar raha nahi ja sakta ha.my experience tell female directly ask I do not like this thing.if she like something new male is always ready to do something new |
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 1:19pm |
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goodman your profile says 'unmarried' and you say 'my experiecne'. how will you backup your statement? |
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Smarty9
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Group: Members Joined: 23rd Aug, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 69 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 1:30pm |
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haha
aeshakiran Thanks everyone for taking interest in my problem and helping me out....(apne zakham kisi ko na dikhao log muthi bhar namak liye phirte hain) :-) .Hawk66 Dear mere paas apku dene ka ans hai buhat long jispe ap ne ek Dr.Heba (A egyptian muslim scholar) right ? Ki exmp di hai mei aesi kayei exm aap ko don ? Phir baat wohi behas dar behas ki hogi, mann'ni tu ksi ne kisi ki nahi..phir bhi ap kahenge tu post kardonga..
textilion ko dekh ke lagta hai ke bachpan se expertise li hein isi kaam mei..
fozia hassan bibi ko apne ghar m apne room me sahe se sekc nai kar pati aur yaa dosro ko mashware de rahi hein wah g wah..
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 64 Post: 7660 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 3:35pm |
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kiran kiraan good question I appreciate u.I can backup this statement now because I m married male noe.I hope now u understand .thanks and wait ur next question |
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fozia hassan
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 59 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 4:23pm |
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aesha kiran aap meri suggestion py koi comment nae kr rhi...cmnt kren
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fozia hassan
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 59 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 4:25pm |
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aur smarty aap har kisi py tnz krty hn jo k achi baat nae ha..meri sex life bht achi ha..mei bht achi trha apny husband k sex sy satisfy hooti hoon..
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fozia hassan
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2014 Topic: 1 Post: 59 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 4:27pm |
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aur jo baaten mei ny aysha kiran ko btai hn wo mera apna persnl experience ha..aap b apni wife ko kahen try kry..thanks
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 5:11pm |
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reply goodman : just wondering do you give oral pleasure to your wife?
fozia hassan : no comments. |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 68 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 5:12pm |
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 aeshakiran
Trying to post comments but can not. Again some problem. |
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 5:26pm |
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gemini6566 usi tarha parts ma try karain |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 68 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 5:50pm |
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aeshakiran
I observed that you say you are a shy person and specially in bed room. But some of your comments differ it. In your answers you commented that "direct communication about sex is out of question" at the other hand you said you whispered in you husband's ear to kiss you on those parts where he did not in past (Direct Communication) When you go for shopping you select the dress or other things but you buy them after husband's approval (Very obedient) You have been married for the last one year and you are still shy. (Unbelievable) see more comments regarding your shyness as under In bed you take part in forplay and touch your husband's body and his love rod, this is what you said in your comments. when your hubby went down and kissed you around "THERE" you opend your legs to invite him "THERE" (You were not shy to open your legs) When he was kissing around your love sopt you signaled him which he did not understand and you wriggled on his each kiss. Right? (Again shows you are not shy) Now after all this why you husband did not fulfill your wish? I already commented on it and again coping it here. Did he ignore it? Did not he understand? (again unbelieveable) Did no he want to kiss you there? (There could be reasons) Did he hesitate? |
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aeshakiran
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 6:02pm |
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gemini6566 I was hoping to get some advice from you rather than this negative criticism. |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 68 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 6:21pm |
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aeshakiran
2nd comment.after one year of your married life you better understands you hubby and his behavior specially in bed. You must be knowing about his choices, his moods, his worries and his wishes etc etc. I personally never met you or your husband and I commented according to the answers you gave above. But what I observed is. Your hubby might be wishing to kiss you there but this is your behavior which did not allow him. You say he always takes innitial steps (He is waiting for you to take innitial steps some time) (again I could be wrong) but some time husbands expects from wife to take 1st step. I'm sure in that session when you whispered in his ear he must be surprised but he did not show, he must be happy. Now how can make your husband to go THERE and kiss you. This is you who can do this but how? By changing your behavior. By changing your dressing. By changing your hair style. By changing your bed room settings. ( Ido not know how big your bed room is?) By changing positions in forplay and intercourse. By changing place during forplay. I hope you undersatnd what I mean. Please do not hesitate comment on it (I could be wrong in many ways) Please accept my apology for any inconvenience. Kind regards. |
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Gemini6566
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Aug, 2014 Topic: 0 Post: 68 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 6:25pm |
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aeshakiran
I was trying to post comments but did not work and you commented before reading 2nd part. It is ok you have right to say any thing. But think over it. |
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Hawk66
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 103 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 6:32pm |
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 aeshakiran
I Have read your comments and others comments carefully and some of your statements are not matching with eachother. Anybody who reads all posts can feel it.
Before I comment I wish to say few words in the relation of husband and wife. At wedding night or after that most of the time husband takes initial steps to make love with his bride. With the passage of time wife becomes bold and her shyness becomes minimized. Than time comes and some time wife takes some initial steps to show her mood and husband understands and takes the charge of the forplay.
You say your are very shy but you are not actually. You said. you touch your husband on his love rod, means you take active part in forplay and enjoy it. (It is good, if husband and wife both take part in forplay) You say direct communication is out of question but there is direct communication, when you whisper in you hubby's ear and say" kiss me there, where you never kissed me before and he goes down and kiss very near to your soft spot. Now there is a question " why has not your husband kissed you there? where you wished to be kissed" 1. Is he teasing you? 2. He does not like the idea? 3 he wishes you to kiss him there 1st? Or any other reason. Now you think over next plan. You have right to disagree with all my feelings and observation. (Because this is a male's observation and comment). Some females already commented it and you have not replied them. Take care.
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Hawk66
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Group: Members Joined: 07th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 103 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 6:37pm |
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aeshakiran
I agree with many comments given by Gemini6566. We always wish to listen good words for us, but sometime criticism can change our attitude and thinking positively. You say it is negetive but I take them positive because what she said it was in the light of your replies. |
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 64 Post: 7660 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 6:57pm |
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kiran No I do not give oral pleasure to my wife .I do not think that anytime I feel that I want oral sex and my wife too |
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 7:04pm |
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@fozia did you read all her posts before commenting...? |
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goodman
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 64 Post: 7660 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 7:43pm |
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kiran Kiraan ap gemini aur hawk koo reply day with positive approach.A gar kooi criticism keray to uskoo positive reply day.Kiraan I feel kay ap oral sex kerna chati ha per ap apnay husband koo ka nahi rahi ha.ap married ha ap apni desire apnay husband koo bata sakti ha |
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imran775
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Dec, 2013 Topic: 0 Post: 43 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Sep 2014, 8:12pm |
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@aeshakiran @aeshakiran Reply to your first post in this thread.
i am regular but ( somewhat) silent member of the forum :)...when i read your first post , i was hesitated to respond{as situation you mention was something different that would better understand and answere by Mature female member] and i was looking forward for some (educated) female to respond you... Thanks to Gimni who break her silence in this forum and step forward to help you...now come to the pint reading your previous comment [msg 5]..i guess you you achieve 90% of what you wants from him... you wont gave him gesture that you want something new...he did so ...[koi mard itna pagel nhe hota k apni biwi ki khwahish ko na smjh sky)but he dont went through there..why? May he was waiting for you whisper to do more..may he was hesitated to do this in a single step..[he jump the first step and jump the next step in a next session]May be he was just teasing you and he had a plan to do so in next time...may be he was observing and enjoying your restless condition...May be was obsrervig your[face] expression on his movement.. what ever the reason is, but it impossible that he dont understand your desire at that time...[ i am 101% sure about this] Dont be worry ...Stay relaxed...He understand what you want and gave you in a next time.. Suggestion.. did you ever encourage him....? praise his performance?...particularly in a last session,when you experience something new....did you? Encourage him. Praise his performance..told him that in a previous session i (you) felt new pleasure ,that you had never received before that... ...Next time when you both are in a bed, ask him to do different that should be different in a previous session... and that would definitely be different.. Enjoy Happy Marriage Life. Stay Blessed...
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