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airpak |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Oct, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2012, 3:37am |
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 yashfeen
who said it is compulsary to take first wive permission... no its not... you go ahead dude... these girls and women will say unislamic views just to prove themselves correct... girls dont have enough islamic knowledge than boys
Don't provoke fighting Moderator
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adqamar |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Jan, 2011 Topic: 5 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 3:28am |
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why change my topic.? A-o-A..thnx to all replier... lakin meri prblm ka topic name kyo change kya gya...? may shadi shuda ho kr doosri shaadi k haq may hoo... jab kay aisa bilkul bhi nahi ha.. may ne sirf apni aik prblm ka hal poocha tha... kay kya mujhe waqai us larki se shadi krni chaye ya nahi,,,,,,,, ya phir us larki ko kese bhooloo?
to mayhooraaj. bhai ap ne theek kaha k mujhe waqi us larki se dil ki mohabat se zyada sexual attraction ha... lakin may is attraction kese khatam karoo,....?
to nehla... thnx...may apni aulad ka sochta hoo..to doosri shadi ,ya pehli biwi ko chorne ka qadam nahi utha paa raha...
to jamil shah. may ne khud hi apni zindagi jahanum banai hui ha... janta hoo us se shadi kr k bhi bht bari tension hogi...uski wafa pr bhi shak hoga...ya shayad wo mujh say be-wafai bhi kr le...
meri wife aik aam shakl-o-soorat ki achey ikhlaq ki naik aurat ha. aur mujh se healty honey ki waja se bari lagti ha... shayad ye bhi aik waja ha k mera dil us se bhar gya ha...
plz,mujh batain k may kya karoo.......? |
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Jamil Shah |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Feb, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 23 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 5:40am |
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Airpak Dear if you don,t like a topic you can ignore that. i mean do not look it just go forward with out touching that. |
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 452 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 7:54am |
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Adqamar.. Main ne aap ki problem ko read kiya .....Jo aap ne first post main likhi hai....Bhai aap hum se sugg lena chahte hu ki aus aap ko aus girl jis se aap love karte hu maaf karna chaiye ya nai bcoz aus ki galti ye hai ki aus ne kisi aur k sath ku6 talooqat rakhe the apni past life main...But Mr. Aap ka kiya aap bhi tu aaise hi logo main shumar kiye jaskte hu bcoz aap ki shadi hu chuki hai aur Allah k karam se aulaad bhi hai but aap islam o sharyat k khilaaf jate huie kisi gaier aurat se na jaaiez talooqat rakhte hu..Maana k aap aus girl se bahut love karte hu aur koi bhi sexual connection nai huga but islam main kisi gaier ko deakhna bhi galat hai tu foreplay wagera tu door ki baat.....So, meri vision main tu aap bhi maafi k talabgar hai and shyd ye aap aachi se jaante bhi huge ......So, kiya aap aus girl ko maaf karne ki taqat rakhte hu......Aur aap ne khud kaha ki main apni wife ko dhooka de raha hu.......!!! Bhai , aap ki yahi thing jaan kar main aap ko ek bhai k naate se kaheta hu ki pahele aap khud apni wife se maafi maange bcoz aap ne aus k haq main haqtalfi ki hai ....Phr aap allah se tauba kare ki aage se aise gunah nai huge aur aus girl ko bhi allah se tauba karne ka khaiye phr aap ko agr lage ki aus se shadi ki jaskti hai tu phr aap kar skte hu ais ki ijazzt aap ko islam deta hai .......Par meri advice hai k aap shadi ye deakh kar karna ki ais se kisi ko hurtness na hu...
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H.A.S |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 452 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 7:58am |
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One thing more... Adqamar....
Kisi se pyaar karne ka ye hargiz matlab nai k aus se ku6 physical connection bhi rakhna chahe wo sexual hu, touching hu ya phr aus se baat hi q na karna hu ....Aap ye chize tab tak nai kar skte jab tak aap aisa ku6 na kar le jis ki waja se islam aap ko ain chizo ki permition de de.....
Ab wo shadi hu ya phr ku6 aur...
Kahier aap mere kahene ka matlab samjh hugaye huge....
Umeed hai aap right decision le ge..
.......Allah hum sab k gunha maaf farmaye....!Ameen
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 31 Post: 2607 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 10:25pm |
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Ali Nahla, yashfeen and wehshi sab theek keh rahe hai. ye sab dhoka de raha hai. Kiya ye dhoka nahe hai ke wo apne wife ko chor kar kisssi na mahram larki ke saath foreplay kare????
Yes Islam to doosri teesri shadi ka haq deta hai lekin ye nahe ke app shadi shuda ho kar kissi na mahram ke sath illegal relation rakhlo.
ye baat bi sahi hai ke aaj ye kissi ke bethi ke sath ye sab kar raha hai to kal agar isski bethi se koi kuch kare to kiya hoga??
Ali kiya app ne nahe suna hai "Jessa karoge, wesa bharoge" |
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 31 Post: 2607 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 10:29pm |
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Aqdamar Pehle toba karlo Allah se pir agar chahte hoo ke oss larki se shadi karne ka or oss pe trust karte ho to apni pehli bivi se ijazat le lo ta ke agar app direct shadi karloge to hoskta hai ke apki pehli wife appse naraz hojaye. Iss liye pehli wife se permit lelo |
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majorAli |
Group: Joined: 31st Dec, 1969 Topic: 0 Post: 1490 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2012, 11:07pm |
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re: "pehli wife se permit lelo" Dear wellKnOwN: ye kahiN nahiN likhaa ke pehli bivi se islam maiN ijazat leni zaroori haiN. unko bataa dena kaafi haiN. Mene uske illegal relation ke khilaaf baat ki haiN, lekin agar wo dusri shadi karna chahtaa haiN toh islami taur pe wo uska haqq rakhtaa haiN as long as wo dono ko equal rights de sake, financially, morally, aur physically usko insaaf karna hoonga.
WEHSHI, Nahla ne uski beti par jho points kahaiN he, wo mere nasdeeq ghalat he, kabhi bhi kisi ki hone wali ya hon chuki beti ke liye istraah nahiN kah na chahye. Ye sab Allah ke haath maiN haiN ke kaun kia kare.
Rahi baat beti ka hawale toh mene uss silsilaye maiN bhi yahi kahaan haiN ke agar beti ka shoher dusri karnaa chahe, toh islami taur par inko ek walid ke taur pe uski dusri shaadi support karni chahye agar wo haqq par haiN, meaning above teeno cheesaye underlined huwi wi meet kartaa haiN. |
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mayhooraaj |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2010 Topic: 11 Post: 150 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Mar 2012, 3:45am |
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 to wellknown.
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mayhooraaj |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Jul, 2010 Topic: 11 Post: 150 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Mar 2012, 3:46am |
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to wellknown.... bhai jaan ye aik kahwat ha k jesa karo ge wesa bharo ge... MajorAli nay theek kaha, kisi ki beti k baarey may aisi exmpl dena bhi theek nahi lgta.jesa k 1st page pr WEHSHI ne bhi aisi exmpl di han...jo la-ilmi ki nishani han. bitian sub ki baraber hoti han..
adqamar kisi larki k saath taluq rkhta ha to wo kisi ki beti samajh kr nahi krta hoga..... aor wo larki bhi to is k saath baraber ki shareek ha....,.ab wo larki kyo aisa kr rahi ha...kya uska baap bhi kisi aor larki k saath aisa krta hoga.? nahi,ye lazmi nahi ha,k us larki ka baap bhi aisa krta hoga,to is lye uski beti bhi kisi aor k saath aisa kr rahi ha... ye bhi ho skta ha k uska baap bht naik aor shareef insaan ho...
jesa karo gey wesa bharo gey....iska matlab ye nahi k ap koi gunah ,galat, ya ziadti karin to uski saza aap k ghar waloo may say kisi ko mile gi...
bul,kay jesa ap is duniya may karo ge.wesa hi aakhirat ya isi duniya may bharo ge... jaza,saza zaroor milti ha..chaye is duniya may ya phir akhirat may..
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 31 Post: 2607 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Mar 2012, 5:14am |
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Mayhooraaj Jab kissi cheez ka ilam nahe hai to kissi or senior par bi ungli na utha lo.
Bacho ki tarah aqal use na karo, Kahawat to apki tarah kissi muuh se nikale howe to nahe hote balke real fact ka result hota hai, isska zikar Islam mai bhi hai "Agar paak rahoge to tumhari bivi bi tumhari tarah paak hogi".
Kiya tum ne shaitaan (iblees) ko dekha hai physically???? agar nahe to yaqeen kiyo rakhte hoo ke wo maujud hai??
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 31 Post: 2607 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Mar 2012, 5:14am |
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Mayhooraaj Jab kissi cheez ka ilam nahe hai to kissi or senior par bi ungli na utha lo.
Bacho ki tarah aqal use na karo, Kahawat to apki tarah kissi muuh se nikale howe to nahe hote balke real fact ka result hota hai, isska zikar Islam mai bhi hai "Agar paak rahoge to tumhari bivi bi tumhari tarah paak hogi".
Kiya tum ne shaitaan (iblees) ko dekha hai physically???? agar nahe to yaqeen kiyo rakhte hoo ke wo maujud hai??
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WellKnOwN |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Sep, 2011 Topic: 31 Post: 2607 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Mar 2012, 5:19am |
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Ali Theek hai ke ye nahe likha hai lekin agar pehli wife ka raza na hoo to pir in dono wives ka rehna mumkin hai??? pir to pehli or 2nd wife mai to farq aa gaya jo ke Islam mai isska bohot barra gunah hai. |
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