How I Took Decison?

Asalamu Alikum kia hal hai sb friends ka,,,,,umeed hain k sub teek hon gay

May nay ap sb say aik mushwara karna tha,,,,

Baat yeh hai k mjy shadi karnay ka boht dil karta hai,,,,,may chata hon meri jald say jald shadi ho jahay........

But now i am student of MBA,,,not doing job.....but meri ammi chati hain k meri engagement ho jahay

Alhumdulilah mera colour white hai....but meri ammi nay jo mairy lihay larki pasand ki hai uska colour black hai,,,but meri ammi ko achi lagi hai.....

Mjy apnay say zaida khobsoorut larki say shadi karna chahehy ya apny say kum???

All friends reply me ......thanks

ibrar

thanks for Unleased and Ali bai

Kehty hain na MAA KI DUA ,,,JANNAT KI HAWAA.....

Bs may chata hon first meri ammi khush rahain.....kia pata mjy uon ki jo pasand ki larki boht piyar dy,,,jo may tasawar b nai kar sakta.....may yeh chata hon k meri honay wali wife mjy sapnooo ka raja samjhay aur may usay sapnaa ki rani.....

White colour ho ya black.....may nay logo k agay koi hisab yah numahish nai karni....mjy apna naseeb samjna chahey...q dosto may sai k raha hoon na???

Raja ibraar.

Dear aap apni waldaa ki pasand ki shadi karlo, phir apni pasand ki bhi kar lena uss k baat bhi do options rahaingay :)

Sapno ka raja, sapno ki rani hehehe.......phir aap suhaag raat ko mil kar Raja-hindustani dekhna or so jana.........Anyways lagta hay aap filmain bohat xiada dekhtay hain.

Coming back to serious note :

Dear, you have right to make choice, yakeenan milegi wohi jo tumharay naseeb main hogi. Lakin aap ko apni choice say compromise karnay ki zaroorat nahi hay, naa aap baara sal k bachay ho naa hi shadi koi cigerette ka packet hay k chalo aaj yeh khareed kar dekhtay hain, pasand nahi i tu kal doosra brand try karain gay.

Aap yeh socho, k agar aap jobless ho jao tu koi aap ko apni beti dega, ya woh sanwli larki bhi aap ko kabool karegi ???? Any Answer ??? Agar aap ugly hotay tu koi khoobrusrat larki aap ko accept karti by heart ????? Any Answer ???? kafi larko ko reject hotay dekha hay shadi k rishto main, kisi k sir per baal nahi iss liay, tu kisi ki naak moti hay iss liay, koi poora hi mota hay iss liay, koi bechara battis-tettis salo ka hogya hay lakin achi job na honay ki waja say koi rishta nahi karta and so on.............This is Dunyaa dear, hakeekat hay sapna nahi.

Tu phir aap ki iss zaroorat say xiada insaniat ko dekh kar thori hassi arahi hay. Agar mind kia tu sorry yaar.Dil main khalish hay tu rehnay do, shadi udhar hi karo jahan dil ko itminan ho takay future main regret na ho.

Thanks And Congrats for marriage.

husn o jamaal

achi soorta bhi kia bori shaii hai + jis nay Dali, bori nazar Dali :)

khair yeh to aik shairanah khayaal hai, jo etna ghalat bhi nahi. ap soorat par nah jayaiN. seerat dekhaiN...agar seerat k etbaar say woh "khoob.seerat" hai to phir soorat ko nah dekhaiN....kia ap kissi aisee haseen o jameel khoob.soorat say shadi karna pasand karengay jo seerat k etbaar say gayee guzri ho?

:)

rizvi bhai n yasir bhai nd ibrar bhai

Dear aap apni waldaa ki pasand ki shadi karlo, phir apni pasand ki bhi kar lena uss k baat bhi do options rahaingay :)

Sapno ka raja, sapno ki rani hehehe.......phir aap suhaag raat ko mil kar Raja-hindustani dekhna or so jana.........Anyways lagta hay aap filmain bohat xiada dekhtay hain.

Coming back to serious note :

aap to agar starting main koi blast na karo na to mujhay shak ho jahay ga kay ye koi choor uchaka yasir bhai ki id chori kar kay baith gaya hai net p ans dainay hahahaha ,waisay b aap ka style hai ye main janti hoon kuch log dis like b kartay hain isay magar main is ko aachi tarha samajh chiki hoon kay aap her baat ki starting main halka phulka sa mazaq zaror kartay hain magar phir aakhir main solution b daitay hain

ibrar bhai

aap ne sab ka reply parha ho ga yakeen sab ne hi apnay tor p bht aachi aachi advice di hai mukhlisana mashwaroon se nawaza hai .............or aachi baat hai kay banda seerat p mutawaja ho na kay soorat p .perrrrrrrrrrrr

meray andazay kay mutabiq mangni jo hoti hai ya jo rishta tay hota hai usay kach dhaga kaha jata hai or nikah pakka (mazboot bandhan ) hota hai agar aap kay dil main aaisi koi baat hai ya koi ikhtilaf hai to aap usay kachay dhagay main hi khatam kar do ku kay aaisa case meri nazroon se guzar chuka hai kay 1 shaks nay kids honay kay bad b apni b.v ko dil se kabool nahi kia .daikho bhai shadi ka rishta bht khobsorat or anmol hai ye khushi ka bandhan hai na kay gham ka .........agar aap aaisa samajhtay ho kay aap us arki ko khushian nahi day sako gay usay dil se kabool nahi kar sako gay to aap apmi mama se baat karain aaisa na ho kay shadi kay bad zindagi azab ban jahay us ki b aap ki b or shadi (allah na karay barbadi ban jahay).ku kay ye jazbat main a kar to aap abhi han kar do gay mummy kay lihay per bad main jab aap ka dil machalnay lagay ga to kia karo gay .or agar aap abhi faisla laitay ho to wo larki abhi apnay maa baap kay ghar hai kawari hai usay b koi behtr rishta mil jahay ga magar shadi kay bad koi faisla lia to us p to daag lag jaay ja to aap plz soch samajh kay faisla karo na kay kisi majbori ka tahat thank u

glamour

go k ... mostanad hai hamara farmaya howaa :) ... taaham yeh hamara zaati shair nahi hai :) ham to yahaaN bus "haqaaiq" pesh kiye detay hain ... agay parhnay walay ki marzi, jiss angle say dekhay... jaisay

buzrug-1: pahli nazar to waisay bhi maaf hai... lehaza jab kabhi meri kissi mojassam husm pay nazar paRti hai to Allah ki shaan hi bayaan karta houN ... masha Allah ... masha Allah ...kah kar

buzrug-2: "aisay mawaqay" par maiN bhi Allah hi ko yaad karta houN... insha Allah ... insha Allah ... kah kar :):):)

kaaly hain to kia howa ....dil waaly hain ...hum tery tery tery chahny waly hain ...:)

g haaN

gori kaali

hahahahaha

Re

Thanks glamor mujhay samajhnay k liay :) bohat kam log itni izzat kartay hain, aap ka bhi pata nahi aap izaat kar rahi hain ya Tanz karti hain :)

Ibrar.

Dear, kali bv ka ek faida aap ko yu bhi ho sakta hay k ziada bacho ki khuahish nahi hogi, hogi bhi tu usay hakeekat tak phonchanay ka dil hi nahi chahay ga. wesay hi bohat mehangai hay.

Chair-Chaar ka khatra bhi nahi hoga, bazaro main doosray mardo ki nazrain aap ki wife per nahi parain gi.

Car-shaar bhi day saktay ho usay, Amooman jin ki larkian kali peeli c hoti hain, un k ghar walay unhain car wagera bhi day detay hain :) dar khof nahi rehta unhain.

Anyways Dear, aap jo bhi karo ek baat ki guzarish hay k kisi ki dil azaari nahi karna, agar tumhain pasand nahi tu khamoshi akhtyaar karlo, dil chuspi zahir na karo, tumhari walda khud hi samaj jaingi, lakin personal attacking na karo, k uss ka rung kala hay, ya woh aap say kam khoobsurat hay............tu yaar yeh tareeka aap ka kuch sahi nahi laga maazrat k saath. agar aap ko pasand nahi simply aap khamoshi say ignore kar do. her larki her ek ko pasand nahi hoti, iss main yeh tu fitrati baat hay.

How I Took Decison?

Nabi Pak Sallalah O alehay wasallam ka farmaan hae k jab rishta karnay lago to kuch baatoN ki wajah se karo.(mafhoom)

1- husn o jamaal (beauty)

2- maal o matta (wealth)

3- hasab nasab (family background)

4- shohrat O izzat (fame & respect)

aur behtar hae k deendaar aurat se  seerat O taqwa ki bina par shadi karo naik aurat duniya ki behtareen matta hae.

husn o jamaal insaan ka fitri taqaza hae aur islam is taqazay se rokta nahi hae. aik sahabi RA kisi ansaari aurat se shadi karna chahtay thay to Nabi Pak sallah O alehay wasallam ne farmaya k pehlay ussay dekh lo. kyuN k ansaar ki baaz families meiN eye problem thi. iss liye farmaya k pehlay dekh lo iss se mohabbat zyadah hogi.

issi tarah agar laRki ki surat click karti hae aur bazahir koi aib nahi (ikhlaqi tor par bhi) to husn o jamaal ki bina par shadi karnay meiN koi mazaaiqa nahi. kam az kam bivi to aisi honi chahiye k jis k milnay k baad mazeed kisi ko dekhnay ki talab na rahay. kyuN k yeh baat bhi to munasib nahi k banda apnay liye aisi bivi laye jissay koi na dekhay aur bandah khud bahir dekhta rahay.

lekin agar laRki qabool surat honay k bawajood ikhlaqi tor par bohat achi hae to phir ikhlaq ko standard banaya jaye. kyuN k achi shakal surat to waqt aur jawaani ki mohtaaj hoti hae, maal dolat bhi ani jaani shaii hae jab k acha ikhlaq aur achi seerat waqt k sath mazeed baRhtay haiN.

Black Girl

THANKS FOR ALL

Asalamu-Alikum Friends

Boht Boht Shukaria sb ka k ap sb nay mjy achi achi suggestions deen.....agar girl naik seerat hohe,,,tou may haan kar dooga....mjy sirf sucha piyar chahehy....may nay boht socha hai k colour say koi farq nai perta sb say bari chez Insan ka attitude aur character hai....bs ap sb friends mjy dua may yad rakhna .... jald heee ap sb ko good news sunao ga....

Again Thank you Take Care

Maryam

Raja bhai

yeh tamam baataiN batanay ka maqsad hae k in meiN se kisi aik khoobi ko bhi madday nazar rakh kar shadi kar li jaye. jaise Hazrat Khadeeja RA Nabi Pak sallah O alehay wasallam se 25 saal baRi theeN aur already un k bachay bhi thay lekin woh aik maaldaar khatooN theeN.

issi tarah hasab nasab acha hae to iss bina par shadi ki jaye. shadi kartay huwe sab ki yeh khahish hoti hae k laRka/ laRki ki family achi aur shareef ho . yehi hasab nasab hota hae.

jahaN tak husn O jamaal ki baat hae to khoobsurti ka koi standard nahi hota jis pe kissi ko parkha jaa sakay. kaloN k haaN khoobsurti ka mayaar aur hae aur goroN k haaN aur. wese bhi beauty lies in the eyes . bas jo dekhnay walay (shohar ) ko achi lagay wohi aurat khoobsurat hae :)

maal matta ki wajah se bhi shadi ki jasakti hae lekin yeh to aani jaani shaii hae. isliye issay standard nahi banaya balkay seerat O kirdaar ko shadi k liye standard banaya gaya hae.

baqi har shaii apnay bas meiN bhi nahi lekin ikhlaq O kirdaar ka haamil hona insaan k apnay bas ki baat hae aur yehi qabil e tarjeeh bhi hae.

maryam jee

yasir bhai