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chulbhul
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Nov, 2010 Topic: 15 Post: 203 Age:
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 need advises!!!
hey guys!!! i need your advises. my family is pressuring me for get married again. but i really don't want to be in hell again!!! what to do now? any advise.. i'm waiting for your replies.. |
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hasna
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1864 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Jun 2011, 9:06am |
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chubul ap shadi krlay...........:D
shadi se pehlay bivi ki raza mandi jaan lijiyega aur khas k ye b wo kisi dbao me shadi nhi krhi hai.........aur apki pehli PATNI ko jana hi tha kio k apki life me kisi aur wife ne ana...........waisay b ap abhi tk kunware he 100%vargin he......heheheheh
ap shadi k liye hmm krdo aur apna ghur bsao aur hush rho abaad rho Allah apko hushiya dy.humne to pehlay b apko yehi mushwra dia tha k khi aur shadi krlijiyega mgr apne humari mani hi nhi abhi ghur walo ne b kha to abhi to manni hi pregi na...............best of luck
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chulbhul
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Nov, 2010 Topic: 15 Post: 203 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Jun 2011, 11:46pm |
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reply to alirajput and hasna dear everyone have their own views, as do i! according to me hell is better then marriage because1. i hate that someone who-so-ever interfere in my life, ask me where i am going, what i am doing? when i will come back? all that 2. i am so much moody, i love to travel. even i don't know where would be my next morning........like when i upload this topic i was in Karachi but right now i am in Dubai..and i don't know where i will tomorrow. 3. family meeting and parties...i hate to attend them. i never go in such parties. but after marriage if i won't go me and my have (may have) TU TU MAIN MAIN. so on..............there are so much problems........how much i tell u.
dear hasna, we live in such culture where decision are take by our parents. as before, i didn't want to get marriage, but i have had to.. and so i will have to.. my parents know that i don't want to get marriage but they are forcing me........ well in such culture where i even don't know anything about her, except her name, qualification etc how could i know what she want?? and how could i ask her or call her for a date?? i'm not such a intelligent, that i will know about her at a first sight... ans secondly i'm not a virgin!!
please give some powerful advises, how can i stop my parents to forcing me? |
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chulbhul
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Nov, 2010 Topic: 15 Post: 203 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Jun 2011, 3:00pm |
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reply alirajput thanks janab for the advise...........well here is still someone who advise....thanks anyway..........Is there is someone who tell me how i stop my parents for forcing me to get marry???? |
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WEHSHI
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2452 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2011, 4:29am |
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chulbul KUCH CONFUSINGHAI SA KUCH
ap k profile se pata chalta hai k ap bank officer ho
kya ap ban k president ho?
kiun k bank main ais akoi rule nhn k un k employs itnay azad hon k unain yehi pata na ho k woh kahan hon gay ya hain
baqol ap k ap ne jb post likhi to p karachi main thay aur is waqt dubai main hain
is k sath ap kehtayho k ap us mausheray main rehtay ho k jahan ap sirif naam aur education jantay ho aur milnay ka koi chahnce nhn
bhai saheb is waqt to pakistan k gaon main bhilog sm pe rabtay mai rehay ahin aur ap karachi aur dubai main reh ker aisi batain kr rahay ho
asal bat jo ander ki hai woh btaain to hi ap ko sahi aur mukhlisana advise mi sakty hi werna to mushkil hai
aur aisa to ab lerkiyo k sath nhn k un per zaberdasty ki jasakay
Mohaterma Asima Jehangir sahiba ne sab ko jaga diay hai
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6589 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Jun 2011, 6:05am |
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jazak Allah ali masha Allah apnay bahoot khoob reply ki hai...lekin chulbul bhai nay ghaleban isay sanjeedgi say nahi lia... |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6589 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 12:03am |
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urdu english masla nahi baat communication ki hai...agar ap tak baat communicate hogayee dat's enuf... baat dil main otar jaa.ay to bandah maan leta hai..nah ortray to aap urdu english arabic farsi kuch bhi use karain bay.kaar hai |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6589 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 12:20am |
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ok sir as u wish |
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6589 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 2:30am |
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its my pleasure sir
Allah apko khush rakhay aur issi tarah sab k kaam aanay ki taufeeq day. aameen (shadiyaaN karnaa bhi to "kissi" k kaam aanaa hi hai lol)
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Diplomate
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 4:17am |
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 lo g kar lo gall
re " (shadiyaaN karnaa bhi to "kissi" k kaam aanaa hi hai lol) "
hahhaa barri khidmatain ho rahi yahan ....:)) lolzzz |
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glamour
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Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 14 Post: 1080 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 5:06am |
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 rizvi bhai
(shadiyaaN karnaa bhi to "kissi" k kaam aanaa hi hai lol)
main nay note kia hai jab se aap ko ye equation pata chali hai {2-2-1-7(7+7)}tab se aap koi moqa hath se janay nahi daitay ...............magar itni masomiat se kay ..................aap kisi ko pata b nahi chalta aap ki kar guzari ka .......(phir b sari sharartain hamaray khatay main darj hain hamaray bhai ki taraf se) lolz :)
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6589 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 5:15am |
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hmmm u may rite ... u may rong ... by day way 13th may 2011 ko apka NCF kaun saa waaN janam howaa thaa... aisa lagta to nahi k apkaa yeh pahla janaam ho... aap ka aur NCF ka to janam janam ka saath lagta hai ... samajh samajh k jo nah samjhay, meri samajh maiN woh naa.samajh hai lol |
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Diplomate
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 5:31am |
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ha ha ha wadda praa g you are very right ...aap ka kehna aik dam theek hay
aur raaz ki baat yeh k main inn sahiba k pichly janam tak b puhanch chuka hon laiken ...........khamoosh hon ...wadda praa aap ki waja sy .....:)))hhahahah abb waja mat poochiye ga |
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glamour
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Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 14 Post: 1080 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 6:05am |
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re hmmmmmm
u may rite ... u may rong ... by day way 13th may 2011 ko apka NCF kaun
saa waaN janam howaa thaa... aisa lagta to nahi k apkaa yeh pahla janaam
ho... aap ka aur NCF ka to janam janam ka saath lagta ha
kitnay janam hotay hain aap kay yahan hum to 1 hi janam p yakeen rakhnay walay hai (n.c.f) ????????????????
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glamour
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Group: Members Joined: 13th May, 2011 Topic: 14 Post: 1080 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 6:09am |
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diplomate aur raaz ki baat yeh k main inn sahiba k pichly janam tak b puhanch
chuka hon laiken ...........khamoosh hon ...wadda praa aap ki waja sy
.....:)))hhahahah abb waja mat poochiye ga
aap to hain hi diplomate janab aap kuch b kaheen b keh dain kia farq parta hai chalain jee aap to meray pichlay kia aglay janam ka dawa b kartay na to na mujhay koi hairat hoti na koi farq parta .or koi baat nahi aap rizvi bhai ko nahi bat rahay to main b aap ko insist nai karti ................ apni baat apnay dil main hi daba kay rakhain
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6589 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 6:18am |
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sorry glamour agar meri kissi baat /mazaaq say ap hurt howi houn to :)
by da way maiN to 4 janaam pay belive karta houN... 1)aalamay arwaah...jahaaN sari insaniyat ko paida karkay rakha gaya hai 2) khaaki jism wala janam ..jo iss dunyaa maiN paida hokar phir yahaaN say inteqaal (muntaqil) kar jata hai next janam ko 3) aalamay barzakh...iss dunyaa sya jaanay wala har fard yahaaN taa qayamat rahta hai 4) jannat yaa dozakh...jo insaan ka 4th n last janam hai |
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Diplomate
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 2:01pm |
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janam myrizvi bro aap insan k 4 janmon par yaqeen rakhty hain jo bila shuba insan k liye hain , waqiya e aik insan alam-e-arwah , duniya , alam-e-barzakh aur phir jannat / dozakh main muntiqal hota rehta hay
laiken islam ki nazar main insan k janam 4 nahi 7 hain jo k darj zail hain - alam-e-arwaah
- 3 mah tak maa k pait main nutfa ki halat main rehna
- 3 mah sy 6 mah tak k arsa main goshat k lothrra ki sorat main rehna
- 6th month sy 7th month tak hath pair naak mu waghaira ka zahir ho kar insani shakal paana
- 7th ya 7th month k baad iss duniya main aana
- alam-e-barzakh main rehna
- jannat / dozakh main jana
yahi wo 7 janam hain jinhain hinduism main kisi aur falsfa k tehat liya jata hay , laiken islam ny iss ka apny andaaz sy wajood paish kiya hay , aik insan k liye above biyaan karda sab haltain insan ka aik new janam hi kehlati hain , aik halat sy dosri halat main muntiqal hona goya insan ka new janam hony k mutraadif hay .... |
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jun 2011, 2:18pm |
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ali bhai mazrat k sath , mujhy pehli baar aap ki aik baat pally nahi parri , halan k main ny aap ki post ko 2 baar barry ghore sy parra hay ...aap zara asan kar k likh dain ..meharbani ho gi ..:)) |
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chulbhul
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Nov, 2010 Topic: 15 Post: 203 Age:
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reply to all
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chulbhul
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Group: Members Joined: 25th Nov, 2010 Topic: 15 Post: 203 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jun 2011, 7:13am |
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reply to all good hy yaar!!! topic maina advise k lia start kiya tha, lakin baat kahan se kahan pouch gai hy...........well wehshi ji mai bank mai kaam karta tha, aisi hi koi zarorat nahi hy is ki bhi, phir bore ho gaye to chor diya, aab bus aapna business karta hoon aur ghomta hon, well the problem is that. i don't want to married!! simple. well maina apna parents ko manna lia hy aab wo meri shadi k lia force nahi kar rahy hain aur na agay karen gy.............thanks GOD!! wehshi ji meri family mai saray fasily parents hi karty hain, becho se poucha nahi jata hy un ko bata diya jata hy k hum na yai fasila kar lia hy tum k is pa amal karna hy....that's all!! to pata bhi nahi hota k shadi kiss se ho rahi hy, bus eik ressimi se mulaqat hoti hy mangni ki jiss mai pata chalta hy k shadi kiss se ho rahi hy, raha mera masla to wo mai bata chuka hoon k mai shadi karna nahi chahta hoo.............khair aab mai free hoon aur khush hoon.. ali raiput ji, aap na jo reply kis tha maina parha tha aur reply bhi diya tha, lakin maina poucha tha how to stop them?? aur aap mjha shaadi karna k tareeky bata rahy thy jo mera kam k nahi thy..........thanks anyway!!
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