hmmm 1. aam taur say mard maiN zeyadah shahwat k jazbaat pa.ay jatay haiN... bah nisbat khawateen k... mard jinsi taur par jald bhaRak oTh.taa hai aur aurtaiN dair say... mard to aaNkhouN dekhi female-beauty dekh kar bhi mush.tail hojata hai... jabkay female amooman dekh kar mushtail nahi hoti. balkay woh kanouN k zariyeh (mohabbat bharay diologue sun kar) aur jismani lams say mush.tail hoti haiN... yehi wajah hai k mard ishqia geet sunaa kar aur aurat aazaa ki shairy (dance) k zariyeh sinfay mokhalif ko mushtail kartay haiN.
2. lekin exceptional cases maiN aisaa bhi hota hai k female zeyadah HOT houN aur mard nisbatan COLD... aisee soorat amooman tab hota hai jab female nay zeyadah ishqia novels /stories paRhay houN, zeyadah romantic movies dekhi houN, yaa aisay mahaul maiN rahi ho jahaaN aisay nazaaray common houN...iskay bar.aks husband in sab say 'mahroom' raha ho.... aisa (by default) kabhi kabhar/rare hi hota hai k biwi k sex harmones zeyadah active houN bah nisbat husband k.
3. iss exceptional case maiN biwi ko har woh 'harbay' aazmanah hongya jo amooman movies maiN heroin, hero ko rajhanay k liyeh karti hai yaa koi sex-worker apnay 'business' ko farogh denay k liyeh karti hai. har aurat yeh baat bah khoobi jaanti hai (by default) k oski kaun kaun see adaa, mard ko 'attract' karti hai.
4. lekin insaani society ka almia yeh hai k aurtouN ki kaseer tadaad apnay husnay kalaam, husnay soorat, husnay seerat, husnay naaz o adaa, husnay salook say (ba wajooh) jetna zeyadah ghair.shawher ko nawaazti haiN, oskaa ashray asheer bhi apnay husband ko ataa nahi karteeN.... yehi wajah hai k mard ghar maiN apni biwi say zeyadah "bahar ki aurtouN" say 'motaasir' nazar aataa hai (illah masha Allah) |