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| sadia khan |
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 5:21pm |
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 Loss Of Virginity - What Are Impacts On Marriage?
maine ek saal pehlay b yahan ek topic post kiya tha...aaj b wohi kehna chati hun i m a student..jab main inter karahi thi tou mere sath ksi ne zabardasti ki thi..mujhay sex k baray mai itna kuch nai pata tha qk maine kabhi interest hi nai liya..main hamesha affairs se dur rahi aur boys se b dur bhagti thi...pata nai mere sath aisa q hua?:( main apne coaching centre se waapis arahi thi tab hi yeh bura hadsa mere sath hua...mujhay nai pata wo log kon thay...maine yeh baat ksi ko nai batayi...sirf apni childhood friend ko batayi jo mujhse 2 sal badi hai..wo mujhay doctor k pas legayi..doctor ne bataya k meri verginity khatam hochuki hai..main bohat pareshan hui...meri study chut gayi maine ghar se nikalna band kardya...maine net use karna shuro kiya wahan orkut ki site per meri ek larkey se dosti hui wo mujhse age mai 9 years baday thay..highly qualified thay..unhone mujhay propose kiya mane ghar walon ko bataya..lekin meri childhood friend ney kaha k tum virgin nai ho..aur tumhare husbandko pata lag jayega...but usnay kaha choro mat batao usey..lekin mera zameer malamat karta raha..aur maine unhain sab bata dya...unhoney mujhay accept nai kiya..aur chor dya.. main ek dam sad hogayi k sach bolnay ki b saza mili..lekin main khush thi qk maine sach boldya tha..ab is baat ko 3 saal hochuke hain...mera ek jagah se rishta aya aur meri baat pakki kardi gai..maine apne bohat rishte mana kiye isi wajah se lekin ab ghar walon ne zabardasti mera rishta kardya...jis se meri mangni hui hai wo mujhay bepanah love karta hai..aur wo bohat achay hain.mera dil karta hai main unhian sab bata dun.pata nai mere sath aisa q hua..khud khusi haram hai werna wo b krleti... is saal december mai meri shadi hai...main kiya karun samjh nai arhaa...
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| sadia khan |
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Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 5:30pm |
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:( agar ab apnay fiance ko bataongi tou shayad wo b mujhay accept na karien..aur q karengay wo mjhay accept?akhir kiya milega ksi ko mujhse shadi karke?
har larke ko bohat larkiyan available hai..koi mujhse kiyon karega shadi jabke mujh main boht bara aib lag gaya hai jo koi accept nai karsakta
mujhay yakeen hai main agar shadi kar b lungi tab b meri zindagi barbaad hi hogi..main ek zinda laash bachuki hun...mere andar saray jazbaat mar chuke hain
mere andar koi feelings nai...main namaz ki pabandi b karti hun dua b karti hun ke meri zindagi mai se wo aib mit jaye..lekin pata nai kismat mai kiya likha hai..
mujhay koi solution bata dain
main ksi ko dhoka nai dey sakti
pehlay b sach bataya tha maine...ab b batana chati hunn.
maine koi gunnah nai kiya..mere sath na insafi hui hai
main kahan jaon kiya karun ssamjh na ata |
| H/dr_Qasim |
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Joined: 29th Nov, 2008
Topic: 187
Post: 4970
Age: 32
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 5:35pm |
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My suggestion for you
Aap nay ek dufa such boll Deiyaa abi aap nay Essaa nahi kurna hay , abi ap nay koi baat Past ki apny hony waly Husband say nahi kurni hay, or Past ko bhool jayin, or ye baat mind say nikaal dayin kay ap kay sath esaa wesaa howa , ap kay sath jo howa wo ek Haadsaa taah os meah apki murzi or apka eradaa shamil nahi taa es leyeh ap fikur nahi kurin or abi ap nay dobara yeh ghulti hurghez nahi kurni hay abi ap apni os doost ki bato meah Hurgeezz nahi anaa phely bhe ap apna kafi Noksaan kur choki hen, ap yeh sumaj kay apny past ko Bhool jayin kay Allah pak apko ek or chance ataa kur ray hen or yeh chance yee ataaa Allah ki turaaf say hay aap kay leeyeh so dont worry, Allah Behtureeen purdaa dalny waly hen, apko virganity ka dur hay kay hymen nahi rahaa or ap virgin nahi hen , bot see female hoti hen jinka hymen by birth nahi hota, yaa khayl kood meah damange ho jataa hay, or some time ek dufa intercourse kurnay say bhe pora hymen damage nahi hota, abi ap Allah ka shokur adaa kurin apko ek dufa pher say Jewan sathi mil rhaa hay or apny jeewan sathi say fair rahin lakin apni koi baat jo apki past ki hay jo apki future life ko tubaah o burbaad kur sukti hay nahi butaayin or bilkol bhool jayin,. Abi jub shadi ho jay or wedding night pur ap during first intercourse ap essy Expression dee jiy-Ghaa kay apko Bhot pain ho raha hay, hymen damage hony ki wajahaa ssay, bleeding ni bhee ho tu koi baat nahi , or ho sukta hay apko again bleeding ho jay hymen kaa baki part hisaa tootnay say, so ap nay Hurgezz nahi butaanaa or apny past ko Bilkol bhool janaa hay, or kubi hymen ki baat aaa bhe jay tu yeh keh dana kay school life meah running skipping or long jump etc meah ek dufa bleeding hoi thi tu teacher nay btaa deya taa ky ho sukta hy hymen damage howa hay ku kay uksur games meah hymen damage ho jataaa hay, yeh baat tub jub kubi life meah pochaa jay wesy hurgezz es topic pay baat ni kurni , Allah diloo kay bhyaat khoob jantaa hay or ap nadum hen Shurmindaa hen or ye baat yaad Rukhin Allah he purdaa dalny wala hay or wo apky es Hadsy pay Khod he purdaa daal dayn gay or khod koch nai bolnaa abi ap ko ye chance Allah pak again ataaa kur ray hen so Allah ka shokriyaa adaa kurin or apny past ko bhool jayin jis meah apka koi kusoor nahi , Allah apki es zindgi meah khoshiyaa e khoshiyaan ataa kury or muzeed imthaan or azmaaysh say mehfooz rukhy, wish you good luck, Numaz puraa kurin or Allah say dohaa kurin apni new life kay bary meah ,
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| sadia khan |
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Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 10:39pm |
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hmm main yeh manti hun k Allah ne ek kunwari aur shadi shuda larki mai fark rakha hai
agar yeh fark na rakhta tou aaj har larki apni virginity kho chuki hoti
science kuch b kahay lekin khuda nay jo fark rakha hai wo hamesha rahega chahay kuch b hojaye
aaj kitni hi researches yeh prove karen k virginity ka talluk bleeding se nai...but koi boy nai manta hai...larki kitni hi paak saaf aur naik ho..agar usko bleeding na ho tou usko loose character ki kaha jayega...yeh sach hai aaj kal bas...
aur main apne fiance se koi bahana nai bana paongi:( mujh mai himmat nai hogi...
day by day main mar rahi hun is pareshani mai...dil karta hai sabko bata dun k mere sath kiya hua hai...lekin nai bata paati |
| sadia khan |
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Joined: 23rd Sep, 2008
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 10:50pm |
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:( aur zindagi mai mujhay sirf ek baar love hua hai wo sirf merey fiance se..unhone mujhay bohat kuch sikhaya hai...ksi b keemat per kho nai sakti hun..pata nai mere sath aisa q hoa?maine hamesha se yehi socha tha k apne husband k liye sara pyaar sari feelings rakhungi...ab wo shaks mil gaya hai tou kismat sath nai degi mera...mujhay pata hai main akaili reh jaongi is duniya mai..agar shadi nai bhi karti tou apnay parents per bojh ban jaongi...mera ek bhai hai jo abhi bhi bolta hai k job karlo..kuch paise hi ajayegay ghar mai..jabke mujhay professional life pasand nai aur na merey andar itna confidence hai jo bahir ki dunya ko face kar paon..bhai ko abhi se aisa lagta hai k wo akailey hai kamane wale..tou sister b job karien..agar meri shadi nai hii tou phir b main un per bojh hi banongi na..ek larki ka koi sahara nai hota hai...sirf husband hota hai..akhir kab tak apne bhai aur parents per bojh bani rahungi..dil karta hai kahin dur chali jaon:(
mout se buri zindagi hogayi hai meri..
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| H/dr_Qasim |
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Joined: 29th Nov, 2008
Topic: 187
Post: 4970
Age: 32
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 11:29pm |
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re apko tummaam bato say Aaghaa kur deya hay meah nay , ap Ko Allah nay chance deya hay abi ap past ko duffun kur dayin or ek nai zindgi shoro kurin , Allah ap kay sath hay abi apki shadi jo ho rahi hay ye oski Rehmut or ruzzaa he tu hay, so dont worry Allah apki HIfaazat kury gah, ap apni new life ko accept kurin or past ko bhool jayin jis meah apka koi hath nahi hay or dosri baat apny yeh baat clear nai ki apki phaly shadi hoi yaa engagement toti thi
Ap abi essi koi nadaani na keejiyeh gaah, |
| sadia khan |
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 11:36pm |
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ok pehley meri ek jagah baat pakki honay wali thi but maine us larke ko sach bata dya tha tou unhone mujhay accept nai kiya..
ab meri proper mangni hochuki hai...december mai shadi hai... |
| H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 11:44pm |
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dont worry
dont worry ap purashaan nai hon confident rahyin or brave bunyin es turhaaa ap khod ko kusoorwaar ku sumaaj rahi hen, dosri baat abi ap es baat ko bilkol bolaa dayin kafi time beet chokaa hay abi vagina wall bhe tight hogi dont worry, ap etna puraashaan abi ni hoon, Allah pay choor dayin jis nay apko yeh chance again mohuyaaa kiyaa hay Allah pay Tawakul or Bhuroosaa he eska elaaj hay or apka Haami o Nasir bhe wohe hay,
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| sadia khan |
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| Posted on:24th May 2010, 11:59pm |
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thx mujhay Allah per yakeen hai.
aur meri childhood friend nay bataya tha k ab surgery agayi hai tum wo karwalo
mujhay yeh option thik nai laga
kiya aisa possible hai? |
| H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:25th May 2010, 12:06am |
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welcom on Noorforum ap apni friend ko follow kurin ghi tu again noqsaan othayin ghi jub ap forum pay eyee hen tu humari bat ko fallow kurin , apko bus wehum ho choka hy, dont worry es sary problem ka elaaj apka apna self confidence hay ,or Allah py bhurosa or tawakal hy,
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| sadia khan |
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| Posted on:25th May 2010, 12:14am |
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ok aapka bohat shukrya @ dr qasim
aapne jo mashwara dya usper zaror amal karungi
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| H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:25th May 2010, 12:17am |
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wish You good luck
Pawusta Reh Shujur say Omeed-a-Bhaar Rukh
yeh Sara credit Noor clinic ko jataa hay jis nay pakistan meah ek essi web establish ki jis meah log apny oljunoo apny problmes ka hul ba-fikur ho kay kurty hen or apny ghum khoshi ko share kurty hen or apny problmes ka hul yaa say Hasil kurty hen, especialy sex problems jo log kisi say discuss kurna guwaraa ni kurty yaa share kurty hen or apny problems solve kurty hen
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| a.r |
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2010, 6:44pm |
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 dont say
hazrat umar raziallahuanh k zamanae mein ek ladki ne zina kiya aur woh uski saza pagayi. ab uske chacha ne uska nikah karna chaha tab unhon ne socha k agar na bataya jaye to dokha hoga aur agar bata diya jaye to nikah hona mushkil hoga. isliye unhon ne hazrat umar raziallahuanh k pas ye masla bayan kiya to umar raziallahuanh ne ye faisla diya k mat batao aur nikah kardo. aur aap k saath jo hua hai woh aap ki marzi nahi thi woh zabardasti thi so dont ever say to anyone and get married yahan tak k maa baap bhai behen ya koi heartly frnd ko naa bataye. ye raaz aap apne seene mein dafan karle aur shohar chahe kitni muhabbat dikhaye ya kuch bhi pooche mat bataye. jhoot kah daliye. aap hymenoplasty karalein. allah aap k saath jisne bhi ye harkat ki use akhirat aur duniya mein zaroor saza dega. be cool calm and patient and get married soon. best of luck of ur wedding
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| Logical |
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| Posted on:1st Aug 2010, 7:41pm |
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re: loss of virginity agree with a.r
hymenoplasty ki bhi zaroorat nahi hai. kio keh hymen rupture without sex bhi hota hai. lehaza hymen repairing ki zaroorat nahi.
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