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Group: Members Joined: 21st Jul, 2010 Topic: 10 Post: 63 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jul 2010, 5:38am |
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 Foreplay Before Marriage In Islam
Me and my Husband before marriage had some foreplay like kissing, touching the upper body We both lie on each other with clothes. But from a long time i feel really guilty not after marrige balke shadi ke pehle bhi is ka bht afsos tha aur mene allah se bht mafi bhi mangi thi ro ro ke gidgida ke. Lekin ab bhi mujhe bht afsos hota hai ki mene aisa kyun ki thi Kya Allah mujhe maaf kardega aur kya ye zina kehlata hai. Mujhe bht darr lagta hai me apne app me bht guilty feel karti hun, mujhe aisa lag ta hai mjse bht bada gunah ho gaya mujhe pata hai ki ye wakia bht bda guna hai. Me kis tarha allah se mafi mangu kya allah mujhse hamesha naraz rahega.
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6476 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jul 2010, 9:48am |
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 Allah say mafi
apny Keeyeh pay nadam hona he es baat ka iqraar hota hay kay ap shurminda hen or aynda esaa ap ni kurin gahi so ap Allah say es bat pay mafi mangyin wo zaat buri Rahoof or Raheem hay,
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apka onsy nikhah ho choka hay tu apko Rokhsuti meah
dayr nahi kurni chayeh, agur ap onsay milna chahati hen tu ap parants ki
murzi say milayin, lakin Tunahi meah nahi, apka nikah ho choka hy ap
husband wife hen lakin rokhsati nahi hoi es leyeh humara culture esaa
hay kay nikhaa some time ho kay bhe rokhsati say phelly divorce ho jany
kay case bot sary mojood hen es leyeh rokhsati say phelly ap es turaa
kay relation say avoid kurin es meah apki behturi hay, husband nay jo
koch keya os pay ap dono pay koi gonah nahi hay lakin apko gonah chori
chopy milnay ka ho sukta hy, Allah nay es turaa khofiyaa aashnaai say
muna keya hay, jub apka nikah ho choka hay or apka khandaan muzhabi hay
tu ap sub ko ek dosry kay sub kay samny milny pay ehtraz ni hona cha yeh
ap husband wife hen lakin ap ki jub tuk rokhsati ni ho jati ap sexual
relations say ijtanaab kurin ye ap kay leyeh achaa hay- bay shuk ap
husband wife hen lakin sexual relations rukhna ap kay leyeh acha nahi
hay, humara culture bhe eski ejazat nai data, ap
say serf etna Gonah sur zud howa hy jo ap parants say chop kay husband
say milny ghi ho ,
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jazzii
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Nov, 2009 Topic: 7 Post: 62 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jul 2010, 10:25am |
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 qasim gud reply
qasim sahib ne avha reply kia hai ,,,,,,
ak ar bat ap ALLAH likhty wakt kaz kam "A" capt. likha karein ,,,
mere khyal mein ye bohat zrori hai ,,,,jahan tak main smjti hoob,,, |
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Bewaqoof
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Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 253 Post: 4304 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Jul 2010, 1:17pm |
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rukhsati se qabal foreplay gunah nahi hai; lekin culturally ise pasand nahi kia jaata. lehaza
rukhsati se qabal tanhayee mai na milai tu achcha hai lekin tanhayee mai
milnay aur foreplay kerne mai gunah bhi nahi hai.
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umais
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2008 Topic: 20 Post: 218 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Jul 2010, 8:39am |
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bewaqoof bhai bewaqoof sahab gunah nahi hai ...
ye ap kese keh sakte hain k gunah nahi hai shame yar |
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elizbeth
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Aug 2010, 1:57pm |
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agreed with umais o mere bhai ye islam hai koi yahodiat ya eisayet nai jo koi gunah nai ho ga . wo bat karo jo such hai agr nai pta to chup raho |
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nomiengr1
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Nov, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Aug 2010, 4:38pm |
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Foreplay before marriage or before rukhsti??
asslam o alaikum!!
jitny b ap logon ny reply kiye hain lakin ye clear nai k (reply) ny kia likha before marriage or before rukhsti?? agr before marriage yani nikah sy b phly to is case mai gunnah hai, and after nikkah before rukhsti ye thora comlicated hai is mai kisi mufti waghra sy pochain,
baqi ALLAH muaf farmany wala hai Ghaforurahaim hai.
jb 1 insan apny gunah pr nadim ho k ALLAH sy girgra k muafi talab kry to ALLAH muaf krny wala hai. aur ainda k liye toba kry!!
aur ALLAH ki rehmat sy mayoos nai hoty!!
ye foreplay "zina" nai kahlata!!
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s4u
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| Posted on:3rd Aug 2010, 8:23pm |
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rE:nomiengr1 ''after nikkah before rukhsti ye thora comlicated hai is mai kisi mufti waghra sy pochain,"
agar after Nikah kissing ya kuch bhi kia hai to phir inhe kisi mufti ke pas jane ki ya pochne ki zarorat n.kiu k Nikkah hi sab kuch h,baqi donyawi rasoomat hain.Nikkah k bad donu husband & wife kehlatey hain to agar kuch kar bhi lia h to ye koi gunnah n.shariyat/islam k nazdeek.
magar kiu k hmare culture me munasib nahi samjhte Rukhsati se qabl kahein akele jane ko,tanhai me bethne ko,kissing wagherah ko.
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myrizvi
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Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 112 Post: 6610 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Aug 2010, 6:24am |
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reply nay yeh kab kahaa hai k oss nay yeh sab kuch "nikaah" k baad aur "rukhsati' say qabal kia hai???
woh to kahti hai k oss nay "marriage" (i.e. nikaah) say qabl yeh sab kia hai jo motlaq gonaah hai, zinaa hai...
chouNkay reply apnay iss iqdaam par naadim hai, lehaza osay Allah say taubah karni chaahiyeh. bay shak woh ghafoorur raheem hai |
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umais
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2008 Topic: 20 Post: 218 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Aug 2010, 10:55am |
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my rizvi us ne marriage se pehle kia hai ye sub.. ye intihai bara gunah hai mere bhai or bewaqooof ne ye kese kaha k gunah nahi hai reply bewaqoof sahab ap ne kis waja se kaha hai ye... aik tareeqe ka zina hi hai ye bhiiiii.... |
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