Divorce In Islam - I Want To Give Divorce To My Wife

Mein apni bivi ko talak (divorce dena chata hoon.

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ab masla aur ziada kharab hota jar aha hai. Meri wife pregnant ho gai thi aur uski delivery date hai 9 june. Masla yeh hoa hai keh pichlai 1 month sai meri saas nai itni ziada zid ki keh hum apni baiti ko lai jain gai etc etc. laikin case hum idher hi aker karein gai. Hum nai kaha hum nahi jane dain gai kyonkeh log/relatives kia kahen gai keh susral walon nai pichli dafa pata nahi kitna kaharab salook kia keh is dafa larki kai parents ko usko laijana para, laikin who apni zid per ari rahi to phir mein nai kaha keh meri sister a rahi hai dubai sai to kuch din uskai saath reh lai kyon keh meri sister kai haan olaad nahi hai to who bachai kai saath khail lai gi. Last wednaesday meri sister a gai aur phir unhoon nai zor dalna shuru ker dia aur kal yesterday phone a gia keh hum log lainai a rahai hain. Meri wife khud unko kehti hai keh phone kerain merai husband ko aur mujhe lai jaein. Kal mujhe bohut ghusa aya. Jab who log aye to mein nai salam bhi nahi kia aur uth ker bahir a gia phir meri sister nai samjhaya keh ander jao phir tumhari wife bhi aisai hi kia kare gi. Mujhe bohut ziada ghusa a raha hai. Mein is lye pareshaan hoon keh unkai ghar ka mahoul bohut hi kharab hai. Bilkul ujaad ganwar log hain. Sirf 1 room hai, kitchen aur bathroom. Mein nai kaha hamarai bachai per us mahol ka bura asar parai ga who kahan khailai ga. Boltai bhi bohut cheekh cheek ker hain. Mein nai kaha 1 saal ka bacha hai tai tum kis mahol mein lai ker ja rahi ho. Laikin koi jawab nahi. 2 main cheezain aur bhi keh merai 2 brotherinlaw thanai (police station) mein reh ker ayen hain un per mobile phone chori ka ilzam tha. Yeh bhi negative asar parai ga merai bachai per. Meri sisterinlaw ka affair chal raha hai aur who unkai ghar bhi ata hai. Yeh saari batain main nai apni wife sai kin laikin us per bas maan baap kai ghar jane ka janoon sawar tha. Shaadi sai pehlai meri bivi ka bhi kisi sai affir tha.

Ab mein bohut ziada pareshaan hunk eh kia karoon. Mein mera khial hai ab in logon kai saath nahi rishta rakh sakta. Mein apni bivi ko talak dena chata hun. Phir mujhe apnai baitai aur honai walai bachai ka khial ata hai.

Mujhe batain keh mein kesai usko talak doon. Pehlai aik baar phir theek na ho to phir doosri baar kahooon phir agar theek nahi to phir teesri baar. plz complete procedure batain.

bachon ki custody kia mujhe mil sakti hai. i am financialy solid. aur oper diye gai points kaafi hain custody kai lye keh mera bacha kharab ho jai ga jistarhan ka mahol hai wahan

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 Ap kha mukaha sosral walo ko b zima dar thehraa ry hen or rahi ka phahaar bna ry hen. Apko apni beti ka zura khiyal ni hy k divorce k bhd eska keya buny gah or etni bäat py divorce, mujy apki batin pur k bot afsos o raha hy keya sosral waly apky ma bap ki tura ni?Khyr ap ko apni bati ka bot khiyal hy ..Zura b ni 

ako sosral k mahool ka khiyaal hy bati py usur pury gah lakin apko es bat ka khiyal ni k apki bati py divorce k bhd ketna bora assar pury gah, 

insan apni anaaa or apni bat munwaany meah bot khoch kho deta hy ap sy request hy wife ko paon ki jooti ni sumjayin so khuch apni munwaayin khuch onki sonyin,

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jab apne shadi ki thi to apko mahaul nazar nahi aya tha?? isn´t it unfair ke apni wife ko uske parents ke ghar jane se rok rahe hain? jabke har ladki ki khwaish hoti hai apne maike jane ki.

ab chahe ghar chota ho ya bada..mujhe nahi pata apki batain kis had tak darust hain apne brother in law aur sis in law ke mutalik..par ye bhi aksar dekhne me aya hai ke kuch ladkon ko apni behan aur bhai ki khamiya nazar nahi atin lekin apne sis& brother in law ki ek ek kahmi nazar ati hai.

akhir apki wife us mahol me badi hui hai kya wo apko kharab lagti hain?? brother in law pe mobile chori karne ka ilzam hai to is se apke ek sala bete pe kya bura asar padega agar apki wife 2-3 din wahan reh ayegi???

ap biwi ko talaq dene ka soch rahe hain ,is me apko bache ka khayal nahi a raha ?? ke wo kaise apne parents se juda ho jayega???agar apko uska khayal hota to ap kabhi itni si bat pe talaq ka na sochte..but ap ko shahid lagta hai ke ap apni biwi se uska bacha bhi cheen lenge ..kya aisi surat me wo bacha ehsas-e-kamtari ka shikar nahi hoga jab uski mother uske pas nahi hogi?

kam se kam apne bache ka soch kar hi ap koi darmiyani rasta nikalain jis se apki wife aur bhi moetmin ho jayen

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yaar app to sab log meray hi peechay per gai. uski wajha yeh hai keh mein nai sab sach sach likha hai, agar mein apna kia hoa chuppata to app log kehtai tumharai saath bara bura ho raha hai, hamein bohut afssos hai etc etc.

susral walon ko islye mein zumedar thehra raha hun keh meray mana kernai kai bawajood woh meri wife ko zabardasti lai ker gai. halankeh abhi delivery mein takreeban 2.5 months parai hein.

mujhe bachon ka aur apni wife ka hi to khial hai jo mein nai abhi tak faisala nahi kia. ghusa to mujhe bohut tha. ghusa mujhe ziada pnai susral walon per hai.

jahatak app ki baat hai keh jab baat paki hoi thi to mahoul nazar nahi aya tha. nahi aya tha kyon keh merai susral nai her cheez ko cover kia hoa tha. aik beta doctor ban raha tha  jo bahd mein pata chala kuch nahi kerta, doosra electrical engineesring baad mein pata chala sirf metric kia hai. is tarhan to hoa hai. hum nai to socha tha educated family hai samajhdar hain laikin kooi bhi nahi hai samajhdar hata kai merai sasur bhi nahi.

meri sirf 2 sisters hein aur aik uae mein hai aur doosri kai husband major in army so hamari family kuch different type ki hai aur na koi chori chakari na koi aur fraud. so app yeh nahi keh saktai keh mujhe sirf susral mein burai nazar aati hai aur mujhe apni family mein koi burai nazar nahi aati. chotti motto ho gi laikin overall suljhi hoi family hai.

2-3 din rehnai ki baat nahi hai 2.5 months ki baat hai aur phir delivery kai baad 1 month. to ghar kai mahol ka asar to perta hai bachai per, uski growth ka time hai learning ka time hai islye mein pareshaan hun.

han to mahol kai barai mein apni wife ko bataya hai laikin woh manti nahi thi.

mein us sai pyar to kerta hun laikin galat baat mujhe bohut buri lagti hai.

relatives sai milnai sai mein nahi rokta kyon keh unki kisi sai bani hi nahi hoi hai. shaadi per bhi koi relative nahi tha unka. aur rahi meri family ki baat to porai khandaan mein her aik sai bani hoi hai aur log hamari misaal detai hein keh inki sab sai bani hai.

last yeh keh kal meri ammie merai  susral gain aur dopehr ko merai betai ko lai aya aur raat ko mein chornai chala gya.  aur merai mana kernai kai bawajood keh meri sisterinlaw ka lover na aye waha laikin raat ko woh wahin tha. aur meri wife nai bhi kaha tha keh jab mein 2-3 month rehnai jaoon gi to mein nai keh dia hai keh woh wahan na aya karai so meri wife nai bhi jhoot bola kyonkeh woh wahan tha. laikin mein nai ignor kia aur wife nai kaha keh ab mein 1 week idher rahon gi aur one week app kai saath. abb isi tarhan chalai ga.

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