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Zara Ali
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2010, 10:00am |
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 Erection Problem And Difficulties In Sex
Dear All, My name is zara and i am silent member of this forum from last 2 years, I had never thought about posting anything on this forum as everything was ok with me. But now i am facing some problems due to which i need Dr.'s advise or even the senior members and sisters. I got married just four months back and it was a love plus arrange marriage. My husband is an engineer and we have very good understanding with each other as we know eachother from last one and half year (Our engagement period). After our marriage, during sex i have observed that my hubby is not getting proper errection initially i was thinking it ia because we both are inexperience but its 4 months now. He gets some errection that is sufficient for insertion but after that suddenly he looses errection. It is very frustating for me but up till now i have not expressed my feelings to my hubby so that he should not feel ashamed. it seems he is also suffering through premature ejaculation as it takes him around one minute to ejeculate and some time he looses errection before ejaculation where as i need more time that varies between 15 to 20 min is it normal. I tried to enquire different things based on info available on this site and i have observed that he was involved in masturabation since his childhood. I'd like to request all of you especially doctor or married members to please help me i really love my hubby but this thing is distubing me mentaly as well as physically. Is there any way he can improve his performance or can i do anything to get rid of this situation. Please Please Please help me if any sister has gone through this condition please guide me. Regards,
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2010, 10:44am |
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Errection Problem & difficulties in Sex Aslamoalikom Dont wory, i suggest you to advise to your husband to visit Noorclinic and just try to read available books and articles.First off all i will suggest you always do intercourse whenever you both are free and relax, and increase your time of foreplay.
plz tell us your husband age and more about his medical history . i give you some links related to food for sex power & erection. if you are both friendly with each other so must discuss every thing with each other even sex or sex related all issues,
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Zara Ali
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2010, 10:57am |
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Errection Problem & difficulties in Sex His age is 30 years, this is the only problem which i have observed otherwise he is perfectly fine. The problem is how i can ask him to go for some treatment? i hve read all the books and threads but i did not get anything related to looseness of errection and how this condition can be improved. |
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Mar 2010, 11:11pm |
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difficulties in sex
- first of all if he is doing smoking just give up smoking
- must take proper sleep
- avoid intercourse and sleep and remain close nacked for some days
- give sexual responce to your husband during foreplay and intercourse
- nuts, milk, fish, egg, ,wheat duliyaa best for men,
- for proper errection just massage husband penis by hands try to play with penis when penis get proper erection start intercourse
- a normal minimum intercourse time is 3 min atleast,
- discuss with doctor
- love your husband
- PC Muscles exercises are also helfull to overcome on erection problem,
- during foreplay and intercourse give impresson to your husband that you are enjoying sex and stroks and foreplay
- love your husband, kiss and hug him with love and try to be romantic
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AppkaDost
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2009 Topic: 24 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Mar 2010, 7:20am |
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Zara Ali" Apnay Rab say mayoos mat hoon inshaullah yea problem kuch waqat ka baad hal hojai gi.App Dr.Qasim kay dihay hohay links ko study karain oar oan ki above sugesstions per amal karain.Achi khorak oar app ka dhair sara peyyar oar aitmad hee iss ka elajj hai.
Daikhain aik cheez achi tarah say note ker lain app kay App kay hubby ki yea halat mausterbating say naheen hai oar na hee oan ki age 30 iss ki wajah hosakti hai.
Basically sex aik game ki tarah hota hai oar iss game mein expert honay kay lihai kuch waqat darkar hota....app ki khoushnaseebi hai keh app kay mian aik sharif aadmi hain issi wajah say woo iss game kay expert shadi say pehlay naheen thay.....
Zehn per dabahoo ya tension iss game kay lihai zehre qatil hai..jab kohee batsman nervis hota hai tou oas kay 0 per out honay ka chance 90-100% hojata hai ....So app ka Peyyar oan kay andar aitmaad bhar day ga....App onhain kahain keh mujjay app ki problem ki kohee tension naheen.....Waqat ka sath theek hojai gi...app oan kay sath halka polka sex karain...woo bhee relax hoon gay...jazbati bilkul na banain....app daikhain gi keh jabb woo bohat relax hongay tou erriction problem naheen hogi oar jaisa keh Dr.Qasim nay likha hai for proper errection just "massage husband penis by hands try to play with penis when penis get proper erection start intercourse"
Yea kertay rahain app khoud apnay hathoon ki taseer kuch dinoo mein daikhain gi keh problem hal hochukka hai. |
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AppkaDost
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2009 Topic: 24 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Mar 2010, 4:09am |
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One More Tip !!! Experts kehtay hain keh Sex game with hard erriction k lihai early morning ka waqat best hota hai oas ki wajah hoti keh sonay kay baad aahsab porsakoon hotay hain oar,zehn fresh hota hai.
Early mornning jaisay kohee sobha 4 bajay ka qareeb app ki aankh khullay tou yoonhee karwat laitay hohay apnay hubby ki aaghoash mein chali jia karain...apna aik bazoo oan ka seenay per rukh dia karain magar kuch aisay keh oan ki ankh nay khullay....behter hai keh apni choarian raat ko ottar ker soea karain...Phir dheray say apna hath oan kay jism per phairain ...(oar sharmahin mat , afterall woo app kay hubby hain oan per app ka right hai jo bhee sharhee had mein rehtay hohay app khawahish hai oas ko pura kerna pp ka haq hai) phir intahee narmi say apnay huby ay penis ko sirf chohain...ussay choaker chor dain phir chohain phir choar dain ..(.kaproon kay oper say) phir penis ki cap ko pakrain .....app note krain gi keh hubby ki sleeping mein hee penis errect hogia hai....kuch dair ap rok jain oar phir yahee amal dohrahain ......
Ager iss doran app kay hubby ki ankh khul jai tou oas kay kaan kay pass apnay hoant la ker khain sobah ki pehli baat"I love you"Haan mujay tum bohat mohabbat hai oar bepanah mohabbat hai"app ki yea baat oan ko aik oar taza hawa ky jhnonkay ki tarah lagay gi...app kahain keh buss app aaram karain.....
Iss baat ka kafi chance hai keh app ka hubby oas waqat zaroor app say kuch mohabbat karain gay tou app ko chaehai keh app inko batahain keh jab mujjay sirf hath hi laqata hain tou mein asman ki bolandihoon ko choy laqti hoon....App ki hosla afzahee say woo agay barhay gay.................................
App iss thread kay sath keep in touch rahain oar update kerti rahain inshaullah problem solve hojai gi
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Zara Ali
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Mar 2010, 5:50pm |
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Thanks Dr Qasim & Appka dost Thanks for your tips is there anyway by which i can enjoy sex with my hubby. Kindly can you please guide me for some position which suits under this condition nad require less errection and by which we can prolong this duration. Please help me as i am really in trouble it is really very difficult to focus myself under this condition.
I'll appreciate if Ms. kali zaban and any other female member can guide me in this condition.
Zara |
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AppkaDost
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2009 Topic: 24 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Mar 2010, 2:12pm |
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Zara Meray khial mein tou errection bohat zaroori hai,position kohee bhee hoo erriction zaroori hai haan kuch position aisi hoti hain keh oan kay lihai extra errection ki zarrorat hoti hai...
App ki post say laqta hai keh app totally mayoos ho chukki hain,erriction ka level high oar low hota rehta hai oar ager iss level ko correct na kia jai tou yea level kum hee rehta hai,oar jab penis non errect ho tou oas ka size bohat kum hojata hai,ya bohat patla say oar kamzooor laqta hai yea aik normal baaat hai,magar erriction say hi iss ki health position ka anadaza hota hai,app oan tips per kam az kum 10 din tou amal karain inshaullah Allah kay haan dair hain andhair naheen....kia app nay mornning ko peyyar kernay ki koshish ki ? !!!!
aik baar phir keh achi khoarak oar app ka peyyar iss problem ko hal ker day ga....jab app kay hubby apnay zehn say sex mein nakami kay khoaf say azad hoker sex karain gay tab hee sirf kamyabi oan ka qadam chomay gi .
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Mar 2010, 4:27pm |
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sex position i suggest you only man on top , missionary position, because with bit loose erection you can enjoy sexual intercoures, just consult with you doctor at clinic regarding this issue so doctor will advise you some more tips and medicine for sex power, erection is most important for sexual intercourse and during intercourse for more pleasure you can massage your clitoris or tell to your husband . |
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TheRock
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Mar 2010, 4:41pm |
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@@@@Zara Ali mujhe laghta hai aaapko proper foreplay ki zarorat hai donoooo ko or zada se zada bold romantic hone kiii jissay aapke husband attract hoon unke desires baraein............like jab aap private room me hoon to nude ya semi-nude rahein unke saamne..... unke saamne change kiya karaein bath lete huee b door lock na kiya karein agr attach bathrom hai too bra ka hook lagwaane mee unse help lain topless rahein or nakes u can sleep naked and take bath with him...zarori nahin hai k foreplay sex k liyee aap donoo naked hoon wse hi hoon aik dsoray ki body se familiase ho jaein aap unke penis ko pakar liya karein massage karein help karein erection mee yaani unke dehaan baaton me lgaein and penis ko massage dain itna sab kch bata diya hai meneeeee ab ahgay se ahgay aap or khod se karein BEST OF LUCK |
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AppkaDost
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2009 Topic: 24 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Mar 2010, 3:58am |
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The Rock.... A very nice reply.
Agree especially
**" zada se zada bold romantic hone kiii jissay aapke husband attract hoon unke desires baraein............
***Zarori nahin hai k foreplay sex k liyee aap donoo naked hoon wse hi hoon aik dsoray ki body se familiase ho jaein aap unke penis ko pakar liya karein massage karein help karein erection mee yaani unke dehaan baaton me lgaein and penis ko massage dai.
Welldone The rock |
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Zara Ali
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Mar 2010, 4:09pm |
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The Rock......
we live in a joint family setup so please suggest something which should be practical, i've tried lot of things on the basis of information available on this site but i am not successful uptill now. What can be the possible reasons for not getting the proper errection, if it is not due to masturbation what else reason can be there. Just for my knowledge i'd like to know if there is no harm in masturbation then why it is not allowed according to Islam? Please on this forum i'd like to request all the guys to avoid such kind of bad habits otherwise you can be reponsible for spoiling some one's life. As it was my love marriage but now i m really frustated. Still try to love my hubby but there are few things which you require to fulfill your physical needs and desires.
Once again i'd like to request Miss. Kali Zuban / Dr. Rizwan to please help me and guide me as i have read many knowledgeable posts on this forum. i am looking forward for your valueable suggessions. |
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TheRock
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Mar 2010, 11:33pm |
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 @@@@Zara Ali
aap joint family me rehti hoooo magr aapka room to alg hogaaa naaa raat k time aisa atmospheere bunaane ki try karooooooooooooo..............jaisa mene oper kaha hai.......................rahi baat proper erection ki to erection desires se hota hai sexual activites se hota hai jaisa k mene aapko bataayaaa or sabse zada ERECTION ka taaluq MIND se hota hai mind me sexual thoughts ahne seee sochne see mind me aahne dekhneee seeee ERECTION hota hai jabi mene aapko itni saari romantic sexual activities bataein or SEX TALK me aapko donoo ka frank hona khul kar wish bataanaa kia pasand hai kia nahin bht zarori hota hai mene aapko kahaaa tha k kuch din aap naked sooo raat me unke saath ase hi unka penis rub karoo pakarloo massage karoooo erection laane me help karoo zarori nahin usdin aap intercourse karooo bas ase hi kuch din karoo saath reh kar..........U KNOW WOMEN K PAS WO SAB KUCH HAI JO MARD SE SAB KUCH KAR VAASAKHTI HAI u r A POWERFULL ASSET FOR YOUR HUSBAND...............AAPNE KAALI ZUBAAN DR.RIZWAAN se hlp maangi hai wo itna khul kar wo ideas nahin daein gay jo mene aapko diyeeeeeee okay..................yeh sab understanding boldness romance ka kaam hai yeh koi doctor treat nahin kar sakhtaaa yeh apas mee khod see SOLUTION nikaalna parta hai.....................yeh sab karne k baad me husband interest nahin lete to ksi PHSYCATRIST se consult ki zarorat hoogi unkoo qk unka mind sex me nahin hai he not normal JO K NATURE KA BUNAAYA HUA HAI SEX TO.... BEST OF LUCK |
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TheRock
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Mar 2010, 11:35pm |
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@@@@@@@@@Zara Ali edit
Moderator Note:Remember, using ALL CAPITAL LETTERS in posts is considered yelling and rude, plus it is difficult to read.
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Zara Ali
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2010, 1:01pm |
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The Rock A little bit improvement |
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Apr 2010, 1:30pm |
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very good keep continue and with the passage of time insha Allah every thing will be ok kon c tip ziyada helpfull rahi hy?
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TheRock
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Aug, 2008 Topic: 32 Post: 756 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Apr 2010, 5:58am |
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@@@@@Zara Ali IMPROVMENT hai to acchi baat hai naaaaa good keep continue INSHALLAH sab set ho jaayeeeeee aap lagii rahooo koshish mee BEST OF LUCK |
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AppkaDost
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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2009 Topic: 24 Post: 281 Age:
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| Posted on:17th May 2010, 3:51pm |
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Zara Very Good....I hope that now you have overcome the problem .Good Luck |
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Zara Ali
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Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:25th May 2010, 4:09pm |
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Errection Problem & difficulties in Sex Dear Friends,
I posted my problem few months back and got some useful suggessions from all of you. Initially there was some improvement but with the passage of time things are back at initial stage. We do foreplay without any problem but he cannot get enough errection it is really very frustating as when i reach at my peak cannot get support from my life partner. I've discussed with my hubby in details and i have tried different things as told by Rock but nothing is coming out. My hubby has not done sex with anyone else but he had a bad habit of masturbation since his early age, i am not sure if all these things are because of this bad habit or is there anything else.
Plz plz plz meri madad kerain ma bohat preshan hn is chiz ko le ker ye 2 zindagion ka mamla ha.
Kali Zuban sis, Seemi, ZEB, Dr. Rizwan, Rock special request to all of you to please suggest something which can help me in this situation.
Regards,
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H/dr_Qasim
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6478 Age:
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| Posted on:25th May 2010, 4:26pm |
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Re Ap husband ko kisi achy doctor kay pas jany ka mushwura dayn, ya ap onka confidence increase kurin, confidence play a major roll in sex,urologist say mushwura kurin,or sex power ki medicine doctor say layn or use kurin, Allah apki yeh oljaan solve kur dayin, ameen,
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