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| sammsh |
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Joined: 04th Dec, 2009
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Age: 25
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 3:47pm |
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 Intercourse (Penetration) Problems - Unable To Do Intercourse: Causes And Treatment
meri shadi ko 3 mahene hu gaye hain or abhe tak mere husband or main intercourse nahe kar paye hain mere husband healthy hain but mujhe lagta hai k un ko erection problem hai thora or mujhe kabhe aisa bhe lagta hai k meri vagina ziyda tight hai main pareshan hun bht plz meri help karen |
| Hasnat ali |
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Age: 24
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| Posted on:26th Jan 2010, 11:19pm |
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 So Sad.
Salam! Mujay to ya lagta ha k ap dono he boht bawkof hain,khuda k bando ap na 3 months say intercouse nai kia,ap ko pata ha k ap ki life per kitna asar par sakta ha,ap apnay husband ko samjanay ki koshah karen,aur ap un k har tara say sath dain chay un ko erection k problem ho,ap log life partner hain,aur maray khayal say ap dono ko aik dosary ka sath apnay masyal kol kar bean karnay cheian bashak wo sex say realated hoan,aur agar pa dono he sharmaty rahen gain to per agay zingai kasay guzary ge,aur agar khuda n khawsat ap k husband ki death ho gate ha,aur ap dono na intercouse be nai kia hota to per kis umeed per ulad ki tamna kar sakti hain,mare in baton per ghor kegeay ga,thank u. |
| Hawk66 |
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Joined: 07th Jan, 2010
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Age: 41
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 3:12am |
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Re:sammsh Dear sister!
Aap Canada me rehti hain. agar aap ke husband ko real me eraction problem hae to kisi doctor ya psychologist se consult karin. App es site per mojod book for married women aur book for married men khud bhi parhe aur aapne husban se kahain ko woh bhi parhain.
Ecectionm kam hona aur ye feel karna ke vagina bohat tight hae aisa hosakta aur shadi ke sharo mea kuch cpls ko aisa mehsos hota hae, agar waqie aisa hae to doctor se zaror rabta karlain.
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| sammsh |
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Joined: 04th Dec, 2009
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Age: 25
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 11:47pm |
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re:
thank u HAWK66 ... actually masla yeh hai k mere husband intercouse try karte hain but un se ho nahe pata or har bar mujhe usi takleek se guzarna parta hai main har tarha se un ka sath dete hu or buhat ajeeb bhe lagta hai k mere sath aisa q hu raha hai ....bat sharam ki nahe hai main bht dafa apne husband se khul k baat kar chuki hun but wo fazool qism k bahane banate hain mujh se time mangte hain aise main ma kiya karun or HANSAT ALI SAHAB ap ki post se mujhe bht takleef hue hai ap admi hu ap k leye bolna bht asan hai liken jo larki is se guzar rahe hu us ka hal ap nahe jante any ways thank u for ur reply
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| Hawk66 |
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Age: 41
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 1:05pm |
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Re:sammsh Dear Sister!
According to your profile your age is about mid 20es, but you have not mentioned your husband's age?
your profile says you are a student Ok what does your husband do there? kia woh job karte hain? ya woh bhi study kar rahe hain?
aap ne likha hae ke who try karte hain per kar nahi pate aur yeh ke aap ne un se khul ke baat ki hae aur woh bahane banate hain right aur time mangte hain . OK is he taking any medicines agr woh time mangte hain kis leye?
Kia aap ki arranged marriage thi ya pasand ki shadi thi?
Kia aap ke parents aur un ke parents bhi Canada me rehte hain? Kia aap ne kabhi apni Ammi ye sister ko ishartan es bare me kuch bataya hae? kunke kabhi na kabhi to batana pad jaye ga...
I'm not a doctor/psychologist or expert but 3 month kafi time hae shadi ke sharoo mae to kuch roz shaid intercourse me nakami ho sakti hae due to some reasons but ab nahi.
Kia aap aur aap ke hubby sex education ke bare me kuch padte hain as I suggested you in 1st reply?
I again suggest you to consult a doctor/psychologist for your husband.
Sister I can imagine ke yeh sorat e hal aap ke leye bohat takleef deh hae, aap allah se umeed rakhain aur dua karian keh allah aap ko es imtihan se nikale.
I pray for your happy life...
best of luck
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| Hawk66 |
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Age: 41
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 1:11pm |
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Addition Dear members word Allah may please be read with capital A (Allah) it was typing mistake, please accept my appology.
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| ALI 09 |
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Joined: 28th Sep, 2009
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Age: 34
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| Posted on:27th Jan 2010, 4:57pm |
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husband need medical advise In this case I am hundred % sure that the husband needs medical help
This can be in the form of PSYCHOLOGICAL/ PHYCIATRIC help and the other
could be medical help in the form of medicine
95% of the men's related problems are psychological and only 5% are medical related, so ask your husband to go to a UROLOGIST and take his opinion and than phycitrist's opinion.
there is a very simple solution as well ask your husband to take a tablet of VIAGRA and than he can try SEX with you, if he has some medical problem regarding erection this will be solved with this tablet.
or you can also take supposrt from some XX kind of movie for motivation and increasing sexual desire in your husband.As you said you co operate with your husband, you can use some sexy lingerries, panties and nighty to attract and arouse your husband as well.
but its better if you completely explain the age of your husband and his medical condition, if he has some medical problem , his personality type etc.
What are the sequence during the sexual act, does he ejaculate pre mature or he did not have any erection at all.
And i warn you, dont let your husband go to a HAKEEM, they will spoil health, As the situation in which your husband is , he is frustrated and he is likely to go a hakeem.
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| sammsh |
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Joined: 04th Dec, 2009
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Age: 25
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| Posted on:28th Jan 2010, 11:56pm |
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re to hawk66 @hawk66 : yes im 24 and my husband 34 .. yes i m a student or mere husband job karte hain ... ji maine un se baat ki par wo ajeeb ajeeb excuses dete hain wo koi medicine nahe le rahe hain . humari arrange marriage hai . main apne husband k sath canada ma akele hun mere parents or un k parents pakistan main hain . maine abhe tak kuch nahe batayahai apne ghr walon ko . mere husband bht ache hian har tarha se but is cheez ma he problem hai ...masla yeh hai k mere husband starting ma try he nahe karte the or kuch bolte bhe nahe the itne starting ma mujhe bhe ajeeb lagta tha pochna main bht mushkil se guzari hun .... ji sex education k bare main hum log study karte hain .. thank u for ur reply .. plz mere leye dua karen |
| sammsh |
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| Posted on:28th Jan 2010, 12:08pm |
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re @ ali @ALI: thank u for ur reply and ur suggesions .. i will definatly take him to a doctor this week ..my husband is 34 and i m 24 no beside this he dont hav any health problem .. he is very gud husband he take very gud care of me ...he had erricion but not too much .. yes i will not let him go to a hakeem
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| Hawk66 |
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Age: 41
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| Posted on:28th Jan 2010, 1:15pm |
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Re: sammsh Sister,
thank you for answering my questions, I'm sure by consulting the psychologist your husband will overcome on his problem. And psychologist may ask these type of questions from you both and may be u both will be questioned sepratly.
You said he is a good husband and he takes care of your self, this is good and it means he loves you. and there will be some psychological reasons behind this problem.
According to my knowledge In Canada you have to work hard and I have no idea that, what are your husband's duty hours? and how far he goes to perform his duty? in this extreme weather.
There are some other factors also involve in this type of problem like your residence, colour of room(s), setting of room(s), ecnomic position, official matters, etc. And when you go to Doctor/psychologist, please explian all the situation clearly.
May Allah always help you.
good luck |
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