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| falaknaaz |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 11:54pm |
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 Nikkah In Islam: Should I Marry With Out Parents Consent?
SALAM ALAIKUM TO DR SAHAB AND ALL MY FRNDS, MUJHE AAP LOGON SE OPINION CHAHIYE BCOZ MEIN UDGE NAHI KAR PAA RAHI HU KI MUJHE KYA KARNA CHAHIYE I LOVE A GUY AND HE TOO LOVES ME AND THE PROBLEM IS THAT MY PARENTS AND WHOLE FAMILY ARE NOT AGREES TO THIS RELATIONSHIP AND HIS PARENTS ARE AGREES TO MAKE ME HIS BRIDE now he wants me to get married with him without the consent of my parents i dont know what to do i too love him i want to get marry with him but mujhe acha nahi lag rahan ki mummy ko bina bataye Nikah kar lo usse dil nahi maan rahan hai and i m the alone working person dont know what to do plz help me and give me the correct guidance would a girl get marry with out parents consent in Islam?
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| Maryam |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 12:30pm |
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 falaknaaz
as a woman & as a mother too i wont recommed u that make your life decision by own . no one can loves u more than your parents . if u want to marry him you should talk to your mother . try to convince her ,tell her about your will . if she agrees than best of luck if she doesnt, you shouldnt go against your parents decision . if u,ll get marry without your parents u,ll not be able to make your good position in your susraal (husband,s home) marriage is a single door way once you get in, u cant get out or back (its not so easy ) so try to convince your mother . its about your life |
| H/dr_Qasim |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 1:03pm |
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 falaknaaz
very good suggestions by maryam please fallow. |
| falaknaaz |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 3:35pm |
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reply Asslam Alaikum,
thnx maryam for replying me but my mother is not like him my mom will never marry me with him so should i marry where my parents and my family are getting me to get married.
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| M.RIZ |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 5:23pm |
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 To Falak Naz
ASLAM ALIKUM
SISTER falak
baat to such yeh hy k true love aaj kal hota nahi theek hy ap larky ko like karti ho or larka aapko
but shadi bohat Critical and different cheez ka name hy only shadi sirf love ki waja sy nahi karni chahiye
yeh love to shadi k baad aksar males ka khatum ho jata hy or yeh aik reality hy life ko bohat Practical or perception sy dekho or socho aap k parents apni jaga per bilkul theek hain
aap bohat soch samaj ker faisala karain kio k yeh baat such hy k 99 % males shadi k baad change ho jaty hain bohat change aata hy
kio TIME bohat powerful cheez hy bohat soch samaj ker faisala karain kio k jis larky aap shadi karo gi us main change aaya ga or wo change aap ko shadi k baad hurt kary ga |
| M.RIZ |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 5:30pm |
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 To Falak Naz
ager aap ny shadi karni bhi hy to jub tak aap k parents aap k sath nahi
ya aap ko yeh yakeen na ho jay k aap ka future us larky k elawa bhi safe rahy ga shadi k baad to tub shadi karain
mean Complete analysis karain first khud ko secure karain just love ka chakar main na rahin yeh na ho ALLAH na karay k aap koi galti kar lain or phir mushkil time ?
kio k kisi bhi male ki reality ka aap ko tub pata chaly ga jub aap us ki wife bun jao gi then |
| M.RIZ |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 5:31pm |
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To Falak Naz ager aap ny shadi karni bhi hy to jub tak aap k parents aap k sath nahi
ya aap ko yeh yakeen na ho jay k aap ka future us larky k elawa bhi safe rahy ga shadi k baad to tub shadi karain
mean Complete analysis karain first khud ko secure karain just love ka chakar main na rahin yeh na ho ALLAH na karay k aap koi galti kar lain or phir mushkil time ?
kio k kisi bhi male ki reality ka aap ko tub pata chaly ga jub aap us ki wife bun jao gi then |
| Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2009, 5:35pm |
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Love and family agar aap ke parents agree nahi hai tu aap ko mashwarah hai keh aap apne rishtadaro se mashwara kare keh kia kerna chahiye. woh log koi achchi solution nikal le ge |
| paroot |
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| Posted on:16th Dec 2009, 9:51pm |
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Falaak naz sister Sab se phele galat kaam aur jurm tu yehe hai k kese geer mehram mard sa talluqat joorna pyaar karna jo k haram aur karnee wala Azaab-e-Naar ka haqdaar hai...
ess k baad ess haad taak love karna k maa baap jenhoone paala baraa kya jen ke wajah se app ajj ho unn se baghawaat kar k shadi karna bilkul theek nahi hai.
1 bhai hone ke naate apne behen ko yehe sugesstion dee sakte hai k jo past mein hua unn tamam gunaaho se tooba kar ke ALLAH se mafee talab karee.
aur parents raaze ho ya na hoo yeh baad ke baat hai phele najaiz talluqat 112% khatam kardee.
ess k baad parents ko ahsaan andaaz mein manai agar wo maan jai tu theek nahi tu jedher parents shadi karne ka kahee agar wo family sahi hai koi burai khamee nahi hai tu karlee. parents ke kheelaf warzee na karee warna may be esse rishte mein Allah ke rehmat naa rahe...
Rishta ho ya na ho Haram aur Najaiz Talluqat har soorat khatam karnee hongee.
Haar soorat !!! |
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