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| dom_man |
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Topic: 67
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 7:51am |
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 looks like a fake post to me
well islamically there is simple and straight forward solution to this problem.U shouldn't think about any namehram man but if u really cant stay with ur hubby u should go for the divorce and marry the guy of ur choice.but remeber if u keep thinking abt any other while staying with ur hubby...believe me u would be doing at a very high price.that is ur family and promised hell in the hereafter which no amount of self deception and khud faraaibee can save u from.
choice is urs.U dont have to be rocket scientist to understand this simple point.
And i think everybody has given u a good advice,so dont waist time here.very soon this article will be closed.
Be well. |
| maahhii |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 8:11am |
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i think well her kisi ne apna apna point share kia h main ne sub to nai prha
but i think k us larkay ki mojudgi ki waja se ap ne apne husband ko parakhna or compare krna shuru kr diya h.....................shayad wo na hota to ap ye wkt jo us larkay k baray m sochnay m guzarti h apne husband k baray m sochnay m guzarti or apki feeling or relation ziada acha hota..............
usko is picture se nikal bahir krain or aisa frame banayain jis m ap or ap k husband k ilava kisi or ki jaga na ho chahay koi kitna he acha kyun na ho.........
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| goodman |
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 8:19am |
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ok pagli jee pagle jee ap kay sath problem yeah ha kay ap apnay husband kay close hona chati ha per woo ap koo close nahi hona chatay ha............
aur ap us larkay kee pic apnay mind may batha chuki ha kyoo kay app koo us say sakoon milta ha............. |
| sunehri76 |
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Topic: 94
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Age: 35
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 8:32am |
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Pagli maine apke kuch replays parhe hain...
jahan Aurat ye kadam uthati hai uske meri nazar me hamesha two reasons hote hain..
1 ya to wo fitrati ghalat track pe chal rahi hai
2 ya is me uske husband ka kasoor hota hai piche.
jab maine apki post parhi thi to yehi socha tha,aur ab apne khud hi bata diya...
look,ap ke husband jaisa kar rahe hain,us ka ek hi soloution hai,ke ap unhe ek bar apne samne bitha kar sari batain karain.unhe bataen ke apko sirf unse sex relation nahi chahye,balke unke sath ek friendship ka rishta paida karna chahti hain.aur is ke lye ye bohat zaroori hai ke jis time wo ghar pe hon,apna time apke sath guzarain,ap ki batain sunain apni sunaen...etc aur ap unhe saf saf keh dain ke agar aise hi chalta rahega to ap khush nahi hain.kyoonke apne apni marriedlife & partner aise tasawar nahi kiya tha.
dusri side pe ap sath unko bhi samajhne ki koshish karain,apke husband jaise bhi hain,par apne unki khubiyan nahi batain,lekin mujhe lagta hai wo yaqeenan apke sath fair hain,apse pyar bhi karte honge.aur shareef bhi honge.ap ko in khubiyon pe Allah ka shukar ada karna chahye.kyoonke jin ladkiyon ko shadi ke bad pata chalta hai ke unke husband flirt hain.idhar udhar ladkiyon ke sath bhi affair hain to wo ladkiyan pall pall marti hain. ap unki khubiyon ko dekhain,aur har surat me behtari nikalain
apne kaha u hate him...itne thode arse me itni nafrat kyoon?? mujhe lagta hai ye nafrat paida karne wala wo ladka hai ,jiski ap itni tareef kar rahi hain.
apko wo ab acha islye lag raha hai ke wo apko time de raha hai ,apki batain sunta hai,...but mai apko apne tujarbe se keh rahi hun wo bhi apka shohar hota to shahid aj apko itni tawaja na de raha hota.aur Mard jab tak ek cheez hasil nahi kar leta tab tak wo uske lye sab kuch karne ko tayar hota hai.!!!
jis din wo apna har maksad apse hasil karlega,wo apko chod dega.apko shahid ab yaqeen na aye, lekin ek din ap meri bat yad karengi.
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| sharmily |
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Age: 23
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 2:29pm |
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Grow up girl :-( Hi
I read ur post and all i want to tell u is to grow up.
ek admi agar app ki respect karta hai aur app ke sath free horaha hai to it doesn,t mean ko woh app ki taraf as a girlfriend or wife nazar kara raha hai,
mujhi os larki mien koi kharabi nazar nahin ate, sare problem to app mein hai app ki thoughts mein hai...
i am also free with my hubby's nepews, and niece, but it doesn,t mean ki apni hubby ko jis ki sath meine nikah kiya hai, Sare sindagi ek sath guzarne ka wada kiya hai, jisne mujhi par diya mujh pe etna trust kiya mujhi ba izzat apni bewi bana kar ghar liya mujhi etni izzat de os ki etni disrespect karo by falling in love with his niece or nephew that would be the cheapest thing for me to do in my life...... i can,t even imagine it. omg this is horrible.
agar app ka husband app ko piyar nhain deta to app osi blame kiyon karahe ho app ne osi konsa piyar diya oski maujodgi mein on ki bhanje se piyar karne lagi... kiyon, kia esi din ki liye onhone app se shadi ke thi,,
Agar shadi ki pehly dino mein woh app ko buhut piyar deti rahe aur baad mein rutine ki kamo ki waja se nahin de saki to app ne kiya kia, kabhi app ne try ki.
khabi app ne khod on se hambestar honi ki try ki, agar app ne kiya hota to woh kabhi mana bhi nahin karta,,,,
Ab shauhar to 24 hrs bewi ko serf aur serf love to nahin de sakta bewi ko bhi tori se understanding dekani chahye.......
jo hua osi bhool jao abhi bhi deer nahin hoi Allah se tauba karo aur apni husband ki khush raho.
I am sure os larke ki samne ab app ki 0 respect hai, woh kiya sochege app ki baree mien jise ahr waqt onhone mami kehkar respect diya wohi mami ki dil mein onki liye sexsual feelings thi..
for get him and be with ur husband...
Jo cheez app ko hala mein milajti hai to per Haram ki kiya zarorat.
God Bless U
i hope i am not hurting u
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| qassimf |
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Age: 29
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 1:08am |
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PAGLI Pagli sister sab members ne aap ko bohat hi acha mashwra diya hai aur
mein sab se agree karta hon. jab majority ek hi bat kehti hai tu woh
galat nahi hoti. aap sirf picture ke ek taraf hi dekh rahi hain. q keh
aap sirf wohi dekhna chahti hain jo ap ko acha lag raha hai.
jo kam aap kar rahi hai is ki na tu hamare mazhab mein, na moashry mein
aur na akhlaki toor par kisi b soorat mein theek nahi hai. try to see
the other side of the picture. jo feeling aap us larky ke liye rakhti
hain woh aap apne husband ke liye paida karein. sonehri, sharmily
maahhii aur dom-man ki baton ko zara thandy dimagh se soochein aur amal
karne ki koshish karein. Allah aap ki is mushkal ko door kare.
mere khayal mein aap jis rasty par ja rahi hai us par sirf tabahi hai.
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| pagli |
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Age: 29
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 11:10pm |
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sharmili, qasim, sunehri mujhe kuch samajh nai ata k main kya karoun.
jub sochti houn k kya sehi hai aur kya ghalat to dimag kehta hai k jo min soch rahi houn woh ghalat hai.
lekin dil hai k usi larke ki taraf kicha ja raha hai.
i want to commit sucide. else main g nai sakoun gi. |
| goodman |
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Topic: 57
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 11:19pm |
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ok pagli ap kyoo pagli ban rahi ha..........Islam may khud kashi haram ha..........ap fresh rahay aur khud kashi ka sochay be na........ |
| sharmily |
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Age: 23
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 3:59pm |
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pagli App na yeh pagal pan chorde aur serious hojai, app ki husband hai kal ek do bache bhi hojaingi aur khushi khusshi apni zindagi basar karen,
Aur yeh khudkoshi jaise bozdilana harkat kabhi nahin karna
namaz para karo Quran para karo Aur Allah se dua manga karo ki woh tujhi ek achi aur wafadar bewi bande, Tujhi sidha rasta dikay Beshak jise Allah ne Sahih rasta dikaya osi koi gumrah nahin karsakta... Alazmatulillah..
bhol jao osi bhol jao kia jab appki shadi hoi thi app ke husband se tabe app ko woh pasand tha yeh to bori adat hai kal app ko kisi aur se love hojai ga yar plz apni dil ko dil ki tarah rakna kisi dukan ki tarah nahin har koi aa kar lijai.... |
| Azfar-K |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 4:19pm |
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pagli Mahii and dom_man both r right.
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| sunehri76 |
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Age: 35
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 5:21pm |
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pagli apke pas do ya teeen hi option hain..ap khud soch lain ap kya chun.na pasand karengi
ek option ye hai ke ap apne husband ko sari haqeeqat bata dain.ye option deside karne se pehle soch lain achi tarah se ke uske bad apki ,apne sassural,apke apne ghar,pure khandan aur husband ke samne kya izzat reh jayegi??
agar ap aisa faissla karengi to yaqeenan apke dil me khwaish hogi ke ap ussi se shadi karen ..yani unke bhanje ko...ab ap khud sochain. ..kya uski family apko kabool karegi?? never..never ..never..us ladki ki ami kabhi bhi apko kabool nahi karenge aur na hi apko respect denge..awaal to i am sure ke wo ladka hi nahi manega.
dusri option ye hai ke sab aisa chalta rahe...lekin ye sab se khatarnaaaak option hai...apke lye bhi,us ladke ke lye bhi ...plzzzzz aisa har girz na karnaa
teesri option apke pas ye hai ke ap us shakhs ko bhool jayen,ap khamoshi se apne husband ke sath apni zindagi ki taraf laut ayen,jo ke ek haqeeqat hai..yani ke apka Nikaah ho chuka hai unse.
ab apka massla ye bhi hai ke wo apko tawaja nahi dete..etc--apki koshish ke bawjud unme change nahi aya..to mera apko ek hi mashwara hai.
ap khud ko change karlain...ap apni is khwaish ko daba lain.jo ke shahid bohat mushkil aur taklifdeh bhi hai...
mere aur mere husband ke mizaaj me bhi bohat farak hai...maine bohat saal sarr sarr ke aur lad ke guzare hain..is bat ko samajhne me mujhe bohat time laga ke hi cant change him self...ye unka nature hai...
ap bhi yehi samajh lain ke ye unka nature hai... :( shuru me mushkil hogi but ek waqt ayega ap iski care karna chod dengi.ap apna dil lagayen agar wo apko ijazat dete hain to koi job start kar lain ya phir bachon ko parhana shuru kardain ghar me...ya phir apni friends ke sath millti rahain ,..is se apko apki tention ko bhoolne aur ignore karne me madad milegi.
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| dom_man |
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 6:01pm |
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nice reply sunehri nice post, I am agreed with u. |
| qassimf |
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 12:57am |
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VERY NICE TOTALLY AGREE WITH SONEHRI GE
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| pagli |
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 8:28am |
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Lets involve that guy mera khayal hai k sab se pehle mujhe us larke ko involve karna chaiye is sab main. main us ka email n pass with user name as :sonoo: post karne lagi hoon. woh surely yahan aa k check kare ga. he is co-operative. zaroor samjhe ga mujhe. kabhi mujhe khandaan ya kisi k samne zaleel nai kare ga. saath hi main us ko mail bhi kar deti houn take woh yahan aa k hum sab s discusion kare. say whay? reply fast. |
| maahhii |
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 9:48am |
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come on kya bachon jesi baat h pagli................is ka matlab to ye nikalta h ap already us say apni mohabbat ka izhaar kr chuki h.................yaar us k mamoo ki izzat ka he kuch khyal kro wo un k baray m kya sochay ga...................or khandan m aisi batain kbi na kbi kahin na kahin se samnay a he jati h...................
main ap ki sirf aik bat se itfaq krti hun k jis husband ki khatir sub kuch chora jata h us ki mohabbat or tawajja na milay to kya mehsus hota h mgr baki ap jo kuch kr rahi h ap kisi mushkil m a skti h............................khandan se bahir ka koi fard ho to or baat h chalo insan bht tang h guzara nahi husband k sath to talaq li or doosray se shadi kr li..........mgr yahan to mamla khandan ka h...............its not good
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| sunehri76 |
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Age: 35
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 9:57am |
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mahii i agree with u..ye wo wajah hain jis ki wajah se log qatal kar dete hain.aur inhe zara bhi kahuf nahi hai..
waise i think ghalti ziyada ladke ki hai..use apne mamu ki izzat ka khayal hota to wo inhe pehle kadam pe hi rok deta. |
| pagli |
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 9:58am |
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woh online hai woh online aa chuka hai is web p. pls aap log us se baat karo. |
| sonoo_b |
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 10:02am |
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Hi friends. Sab se pehle to mere sare doston ko salam. Aur secondly thanks. Aap sab k positive posts parh k bohat khushi hua.
Now s aapi. Main ne aaj tak aap ko just apni mami aur bari sis, bohat had tak apni best friend ka position dia. Kabhi aap ka regarding yeh sab nai socha tha. Aur really. Parh k heart bohat dukha. Hw u can………kya sirf isi liye aap mujhe baar baar call kar k online ane ko bol rai thi? So sad aapi. Mujhe 1 baat to btain. Aaj tak main aap ko aapi k ilawa bulaya? Kabhi aap se kuch ghatiya ya aisa waisa baat bola? Kabhi aap ko shake hand k ilaawa touch bhi kiya? Kabhi aap ko aisa waisa look bhi dia k jis se aap bolo m in love or I want sex with u…. aur raha baat caring ki to who just is liye tha k mamu is so dear to me n aap un ka wife hai. That’s why khayal kia. Matlab yeh nai tha k I love u.
Friends she claims that I spent lot of time with her and also shared her feeling with me. Aap log jaante ho k in ka khud ka bhai same meri age ka hai. So main socha k yeh kahin us ka kaami na feel karien. Dats why in ka close raha.
Mera aap ke liye yehi feel tha k aap apna ghar chor k aayi ho so just to make u comfortable n to adjust n fit u in our home aap ka help kia but regard kya mila?
Aap mujhe sirf eik baat ka jawaab do. Aap mera naam kyun expose kia sab k samne. Aap ko koi haq nai pohanchta tha. Bohat ghalat kia aap.
Aur who jub mujh ko heart pain huwa aur aap mere ko care kia…. Main samjha jaise mera elder sis wid me n bohat comfortable feel kia. Aur aap……. Hw dare u to play with me while m sleeping….. bohat ghalat….bohat bohat bohat ghalat. Agar meri jagah aap ho aur main aisa kia to kaisa lagta aap ko? Kya karti aap….
Abhi bhi main aap ko ksisi k front expose nai karoun ga. But apni tabahi ka responsible mujhe mat bnao. M not. K…… n I just have a feeling of a sis 4 u. nothin else.
4rnds ab aap btao k mera kya mistake hai is sab main? Mere ko kyun responsible bana rai hain yeh?????????? |
| sunehri76 |
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Age: 35
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 10:48am |
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pagli aur hope apko ab samajh a jayegi |
| goodman |
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Age: 30
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 11:52pm |
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ok pagli ab to app soonoo say be gain .................aur ap kay sath acha nahi howa wasay |
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