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| Seemi |
Posted on : Sunday, 31st May 2009, 12:32pm |
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Although topic is going to be diverted but here a new point must be cleared. I feel I was wrong while describing age of Hazrat Ayesha RA when she got married. Have you any authentic reference which you can prove. Where it is written in Sahih Bukhari?? Because what I researched now, I am believing, Hazrat Ayesha was about 17 years old when she got married.
I will be waiting for your response.
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| BeautyStar |
Posted on : Sunday, 31st May 2009, 2:46pm |
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To Dear Seemi... (Disagreement) Iss ma KHUDA ka khauf kerne wali kya baat hai... aj kal tou 13 saal ki
larki ko sab kuch pata hota.. yah aur baat hai k woh larki nervous
ho... werna Teenage ki joo Sexual Feelings hote hai khuwah woh Male hoo
ya Female woh shayad pori age nahi hoti hai.
Khair app ka apna opinion hai.. mujhey tou iss per koi aaetraaz nahi k
koi shaks apni 14 saala bivi se Romantic Talks ker ley... yahan tou 13
ma Baby ho jata hai janab... baaqi Teenage Pregnancy per tou app ne
khoob Article pardh hi rakhein hongay.
baaqi raha Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.W) aur Hazrat Aaisha (R.A.) ki shadi
ka sawal tou uss ka jawab in ahadees ma mil jaey ga app ko.
Narrated Aisha: "The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six
(years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin
Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew
(again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a
swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her,
not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and
made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when
my breathing became Alright, she took some water and rubbed my face and
head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw
some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a
good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the
marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and
my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine
years of age.
(Sahih Bukhair , Volume 5 , Book 8 , # 234)
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (may
peace be upon him) married her when she was seven years old, and he was
taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were
with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years
old.
(Sahih Muslim , Book 8 , # 3311)
Hazrat Aaisha (R.A) ka Nikkah Na-Balig age ma howa tha jab woh 7 ki
thein... magar Nikkah Effective Balig ho ker hi howa jab woh 9th ki
thein.
and ALLAH knows best!
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| Seemi |
Posted on : Sunday, 31st May 2009, 3:26pm |
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BS Bhai Thanks for quoting this hadidth.. I am also doing research on it. I will share here.
Baqi baat k aaj kal sab kuch sab ko pata hota hai to yeh baat aap ki kisi had tak sahi bhi hai.. Lekin aap yeh baat male point of view se keh rahay hein. Abhi tak is topic mein kisi or female ne reply nahin kiya.. Ma be I will be wrong. Maryam baji, sunehri baji or khas tour per other married female members ziada behtar is topic pe roshni daal sakti hien..
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| BeautyStar |
Posted on : Sunday, 31st May 2009, 6:16pm |
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Re: Seemi Behan mujhey app k research work ka be-sabri se intezaar rahey ga... agar app Pedophilia k topic per discussion kerna chahte hain tou uss k liye mai tayyar hoo janab... :)
Jahan tak Topic ka sawal hai... tou mere khayal ma Larkiyon ko aaisay khuwab zayadah jaldi aate hain banisbat larkoon k... app kya kehti hain iss bare ma?
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| Seemi |
Posted on : Monday, 1st June 2009, 6:28am |
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BS Bhai Yeah offcourse, there must be a healthy discussion on Pedophilia. I will post my detailed reply later.. Also with stuff related to Hazrat Ayesha's age at the time of her rukhsati.
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| saleem. |
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seemi sis.salam and salam mambesr
sis jesay mian ne likha hai ke meri wife ko kuch feel nahi hota unho ne khud se kaha hai es ki kya waja ho sakti hai. jesay mostly log kehre hain honi chiyeh.
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| mna1978 |
Posted on : Monday, 1st June 2009, 8:15am |
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Saleem & Sister Seemi !!! Bhai Main nay aap ko kaha tha na nay perashan hony ki koyee zaroorat nhi...
App Nay pocha
again thanks lekin mna bhai main ne pucha tha to she sad i dont feel.
apni sex ki feeling ko ilfaz main beyan karna koyee assan kaam nhi... ya feeling sirf mesooh ki ja sakty hai aur is ko properly beyan nhi keya jaa sakta...
App ki wife so sakta hai kay sharma rahy hoon... is leya unhoon nay ya kaha hoo ya kaha hoo kay un ko kuch feel nhi hota.... That is all i can say.. aap is bary main pereshan na hoo... OK
And now to Sister Seemi...
Dekhain mery behan.. ghusa hony ki koyee baat nhi... Main aap ka point ko explain karta hoon
Or us waqt ki larki or aaj ki larki mein bohat farq hai.. Food ka, climate ka or environment ka..
Mery behan keya faraq hai... mujy bhi too pata chay... For your kind information
Pakistan bhi aik garam country hai Arab ki tarha aur yaha bhi larkeyoon ko 10-11 saal main periods start ho jaty hain... means woo Islamic Point of view say Baligh ho jaty hain...
Aap kya apni behan k liye pasand karein ge k woh 14 saal ki umer mein aik baby goud mein le ke bethi ho...
Ba-Khuda.... Jee han mujy is main koyee etraaz nhi... ho sakta hai insan ki koyee majbory ho... App sirf apny ird gird na dekhain... sirf apny mahool ko na dekhain... Insaan kay hazaar problems hoty hain... Apni zaat kay koeen(Well) sa bahir aa kar dekhain to aap ko pata chaly... kay logoon kay keya keya masayal hain... main aap say pochta hoon kay loog to pakistan main aj kal bachy bech bhi rahay hain.. to keya sahee hai... aik 14 saal ki larky ko bech dena ya us ke ba-izat kisi kay sath shadi kar dena... (ya aik genral baat hai... aur is baat ka Saleem sab ki zindagy say koyee talaq nhi...)
Yahan baat islamic point of view se nahin ho rahi.. Mojooda dour mein aik larki ki feelings ki ho rahi hia...
Islamic point of view main nay start nhi keya... the Rock nay muj say pocha kay Islam main kahan lekha hai kay 14 saal ki lary say shadi kar loo... aur islamic reply main us ko keya... wasy bhi aik musalman ki har baat islamic point of view say hoty hai.... Keya mojooda door main islamic point of view ki koyee haseeyat nhi.... ya phir us door kay islam main larki kee feelings ki koyee haseeyat nhi thee...
Aur sister jahan tak baat hai Muhammad (SAW) aur Hazrat Ayeesha ki shadi ki.. mery nazdeek is baat ki koyee haseeyat nhi kay Shadi kay waqat un ki age keya thee... baat sirf ya hai kay joo Kaam App(SAW) nay keya woo Bilkul Kheek Tha... Aur Mujy 100% Yaqeen hai kay aap aur har musalman ka bhi ya he kheyal hai.. magar baat ya hai kay is ka ya matlab nhi kay har insnan 14 saal ki larky say he shadi kary... Magar aap ki zindigy Ummat kay keya Mishl-e-Rah hai hai... aur aap kay is iqdaam ka maqsadd ya hai kay Ummat ko bataya jayee kay Majboory main ya karana koyee Ghalat kaam nhi...
Mein ne Khuda ka khouf ki baat is sense mein ki k woh aik 14 saal ki larki se kya
Dekhain na behan main ab aap kay dil main to jaank kay nhi dekh sakta na... jo aap nay lekha main nay us ko feel keya.... aur aap ya baat manain kay aap ka reply Rude Tha... isi leya main nay us ka Rude he matlab nekala..
Rest agar mery moyee baat bury lagy hoo to main abhi sorry bolta hoon... meray maqsad apni point of view clear karna tha.. kisi ka dil dukhana nhi tha... By the way aap ki aur rick ki batoon nay saleem bhi ka dil to dhukaya tah na... think about that!!!!
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| Maryam |
Posted on : Monday, 1st June 2009, 9:01am |
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hazrat Ayesha RA ki age while rukhsati biography of Mohammad SAWW main bhi hazrat ayesha ki yehi age quoted hae yani nikkah 6 years main huwa aur rukhsati 9 years main.
jahan tak is baat ka taluk hae k itni age ki larki ko sab pata hota hae ya woh jald aise khuab dekhti hae to main yehi kahongi k feelings main aur unhain show karne main farq hota hae. kanwari larki waise bhi shy hoti hae shadi k baad zahir hae itni shay nahi hogi chahay woh 10 years ki umar main maan banay. lekin abhi un ka shy hona fitri baat hae.
unhain kuch time dena chahiye aur understanding develop ki jaye takay woh miyan bv k relation ko to samajh sakain . aur doosri baat yeh k har class ka pana set up hota hae bohat ziada mode scode families main is baat ko mayoob nahi samjha jata isliye un ki 10 years ki bachi se bhi aap itna open hona expecvt kar saktay hain . lekin jahan normal families ki baat ati hae to un ki tarbiyat aise mahol main nahi hoti k sab kuch bachon k samnay open ho isliye aisi baaton pe ghabrahat feel karna normal hae. jab understanding hojayegi tab itna feel nahi hoga . may be abhi larki ki behan ya mother un se poochti bhi hon k kiya baat hui to woh iswaja se bhi ziada puzzle hon.
khair topic poster pareshan na hon 14 saal ki kanwari bachi se aisa hi expect kiya jasakta hae unhain mohabbat aur tawaja dain aur un k friend ban jaien phir yeh jhijak ahista ahista khatam hojayegi. |
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| TheRock |
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 @@@saleem. my Apology 2u
yaar i apologise us baat k liyeee me bhol gaya thaa k aaj kal ki 14 saal ki girls b kum nahin hai u know pta hai q apology karraha hon mee aapse kal raat me mre mind me apne hi aik friend ki baat aii k usko aik 14 years ki larki bewakoof banaa rahi hai ussay sexual baatein karna chaati hai or shaadi k liyeeee aasra derahi hai yeh baat kal raat me yaad aii pir sochaa k aisa ho sakhta hai aaj kal maahol itna fast hai everything is possiblee
accept my apology plzz or haan aap hadis bata rahe hoo theik hai lkn is hadis se apni situation k kabi compare mat karnaaaaaa ok wo donoo bari hasti thein or aap unke saamne kch b nahin hoooooo islyeeee dont compare |
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| saleem. |
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reply members thanks mna1978 bhai and maryam baji .and member
app logon ne bohut information di . mna1978 ho sakta hai app ki baat sahe ho lekin wo mere se kabhe jhot nahi kehsakten nahi bata sakten ya shy hota ho woh keh dyti hain ke aisa hora hai main nahi bata pari .
maryam baji
hum bohut achy dost hain wo mere se free bhi hai aur mere ko sms bhi karti hai dosti hai jabhe karti hai na aur mera khayal bhi rakhti hai hum baten bhi karte hain lekin lekin mere ko yeh samjh nahi aaya ke aisa kyun nahi hota un ko jo baat hoti hai woh mere ko keh puchne pe kehdyti hain ,
lekin yeh baat pe kasam tak kha li ke aisa kuch nahi hota mere ko jabhe main pareshan hon jabhe main ne pucha ke 14 year ki larki ko aisa kuch hota hai ya nahi i hope app sab samjh saken meri feeling.
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