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sharmily |
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2008, 5:45pm |
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 thnx
thnx for apriciateing my post |
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sharmily |
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2008, 5:46pm |
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thnx thnx for apriciateing my post |
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azzi |
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| Posted on:22nd Nov 2008, 10:08am |
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 Fiance is not virgin
good reply from Sharmily. it is very simple my brother.......... agar aap uski is khata ko bhula sakte ho to shadi karna warna hargiz nahin.......
rahi baat uski shadi ho gi keh nahin, uski shadi to zaroor hogi......... simply agar woh kisi ko yeh haqeeqat nahin bataye gi to koee prove nahin kar sakta keh us ne illegal sex kia hai. aap ko 100% sure ho kar shadi karni chahiye keh aap ne usko moaf kar dia aor phir dobara kabhi yeh baat aap ke dil mein nahin aaye gi. agar ab aap ne jazbati ho kar faisla kia aor kal ko yeh baat dil mein aati hai to yeh aap dono ko khush nahin rehne de gi. |
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zeb |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2008, 2:52am |
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very nice bht acha jawab hai azzi bhai ka |
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Zahra_ |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Jan, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Jan 2009, 7:30pm |
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U should Marry her Salaam... apne bataya nahi k apne kia decide kia hai agher abhi kuch decide nahi kia to mera mashwara b deikh lein
Meri Advice apko yehi hai k sharmily ki advice pe khule damagh se gor karo...
apki fiancee se ghalti ho gayee aur woh uss ghalti pe sharminda hai to usko mauf kar deina chahye...ghalti to apne b ki uss se pyar karne ki..jub usne apko sari asleeyat bata di thi faisla usi waqat karna chahye tha k nahi muje aisi larki qabool nahi..sab jante huwe b apne uss ko pyar kia phir ghar walon ko b involve kia aur ab sab kuch set ho gaya to apke damagh mei yeh baat agayee k mera haq virginity hai us se kion mehroom rahoon? apne uske emotions k saath khaila usko iss mor pe laa kar chorne ka soch rahe ho aur uss larki ko jis se pyar ka dawa karte ho?? pyar mei to insaan kuch b kar janey ka hosla rakhta hai aur ap uski ek ghalti ko mauf nahi kar sakte??? khud se poocho k yeh waqei pyar hai na??
woh usa mei hai uski shadi to ho jaye gi..wahan k kisi larke se b kar sakti hai kisi b broad-minded person se jo virginity aur past se ziada present ko deikhta ho aur woh larki apni ghalti se seekh chuki ho lesson aur uski soch bohat achi ho gayee ho. apko koi virgin larki mill jaye lakin uske saath apki understanding na ho pyar na ho feelings na houn uske liye to kia faida virgin se shadi ka? kionke shadi sirf virginity k liye nahi hoti shadi mei ek doosre k liye pyar ehsaas hona bohat zaroori hai.
mera mashwara apko yehi hai k ap usko dil se mauf kar dein aur kabhi yeh baat dobara usko jatlayein b na...usko pata hoga k apne yeh bohat bara kaam kia hai aur woh hamehsa apko iss amal k badley mei khush rakhey gi. Agher abhi ap usko mauf nahi kar paa rahe to phir kal ko kuch bura ho uss se behtar hai aj ho jaye...ap usko bata do k apka itna bara zarf nahi hai k ap usko mauf kar sako aur apna rasta alag kar lo. main agher apki jagha hoti aur muje pata hota k jis larke se main pyar karti hu woh virgin nahi hai lakin woh aik achi family se hai muj se pyar karta haia ur mere dil mei uske liye sachey jazbat hain to main usko accept kar loon gi...baqi Allah apki rehnamayee kare aur apko seedha rasta dikhaye :) |
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Andleeb |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jan, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Jan 2009, 1:03pm |
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U should never marry her.... Salam to all...
main aapko yehi aik wahid advice dungee k aap us say hargiz shadi naa keren... plz yeh mat samjhen k main us lerki k haq main nahi hun ..no doubt wo lerki bohat sari larkio say achi hogi or bohat bohat achi hogi lakin aapkey dil main jo baten hain un say hargizn ahi lagta k aap bhula sakogay
apni zindagee isi waswaso main guzardo gay or us bechari ko b sukh nahi depougay. ja kaam kero khushi say kero warna to naa kero.
jab dil nahi maan raha chor do... mere bhai yeh best hai aap bhula saktey ho to thek hai nahi to do zindageeeyan barbaad na kero.usko larko ki kami nahi hogi agar wo achi hai or agar aap achay ho to aapko b lerkio ki kami nahi hogi
thnk u
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Smartmate |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2009, 10:12am |
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i married her i rea all of your messaged Nice replies.
i did ONLY Nikah with her. Before Nikkkah i talk to her on this topic and yell with her alot. Beacuse families were involve so i could leave her. because there was not reason to tell mine her family. she begged me not to tell her familiy. Girls are bull shits they are fucked by others and marry with someone else. such girls shold be killed. y they dont think some one who is breaking their seal he is not their husband he is a bull shit BF only. Girls should save their virginity for their Husband not for Bf.
after all discussion she beged me not to divorce her. then we came on this conclussion.
1. She will go to doctor and will have surgery of vagiana.
2.She is agreed on this that she will find a virgin girl for me on the first night. i will spend night with that virgin girl.
3. My brain was not accepting any decison then by hook or crook she was agreed that i can have second wife.
But the point is how can i live with two wives. I am not enough rich to have 2. my life is fucked. i dont want my name after her. what will her Bf thining about me which girl i get marry. a used stuff. He broke her hymen. he will be laughing at me. what shit life. Still not happy with this life. dont know what i will do with her. |
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nikama |
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2009, 5:51pm |
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 smartmate..
pata nahee kia kia likh dia... yaaar u know & do every thing exactly according to ur own way..so wats the confusion though....laughing really.... dont mind..dont plan & play that long ....just marry her , if u havent done still yet, dont recall the past...if u wana live ,then live ...dont just jum & hump.... make life easy ,rather than rest bull shit and dont think to much... u r one off ... and what is the rubbish point of getting a virgin girl for you at ur first night....this is rediculos geezer.....dont do that..enjoy |
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rahil |
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2009, 6:07pm |
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u must forgive her and Allah will forgive u Aswlkm ! as per my opinion u must forgive her b`coz if v have a look on the Fact of ADAM Alaiheewasalaam u can think abt the importancy of forgiveness..Allah is so kind and love those who are kind towards his creations.. May Allah gives u power and strenth to foget what had happend b4 in ur GF`s life.. i wish u all the best and remember compromise her and fill her heart and veins wid ur love as if she just born and broughtup wid u and let her forget abt the previous life....Gudluck....
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4662 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2009, 6:37pm |
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Smart.. mujhe apki samajh nahi a rahi??
ap kyuun khud ko khuda ki jaga samajh rahe hain? ye bhi shirk ki ek kisam hai.aur shirk bohat bada Gunah hai.
agar us ladki se ghalti ho hi gayi hai,to ap kya usse saza doge??apko sab ne yahan yehi mashwara diya hai ke ya to ap us se maf kar dain aur shadi karlain
agar apke andar itna zarf nahi ahi ke use maf kar sakain to shadi na karain us se.
ulta mujhe apke last ,sg parh kar ghussa a raha hai.ap uski majboori ka faida utha rahe hain.ap ki baton se lagta hai ke apko bas is cheez se gharz hai ke ladki virgin ho,is se ziyada ap sochte nahi hain.aapki suiii yahin attak gayi hai...sorry to say...
jab apko ek fact malum hai ke apki mangetar ya wo jo bhi hain,virgin nahi hain aur ap shadi pe bhi razi hain to ye kya fazool tuk hui ke wo dr ke pas ja kar sergury karwaye?? kis ke lye??jiske lye ek ladki ko virgin hona chahye jab use sari surat-ehal malum hai to uneh sergury karwane ki kya zaroorat hai???
your second option??mr ap lagta hai bohat hi ziyada filmain dekhte hain?? apne kya samajh rakah hain aurton ko.ap apni jhuti anna ki khatir. ap first night lazmi ek virgin ladki ke sath guzarna chahte hain?? iske lye ap kiisi bhi virgin ladki ki zindagi kharab karne ko tayar hain???
your third option..saf zahir hai ap us ladki ki majburi ka faida utha rahe hain.yani ke wo virgin nahi rahi to iski saza use is surat me di ja sakti hai ke wo apko dusri shadi ki ijazat de??
apki last words ke bare me mai apko bas ek hi bat kahungi
apko ud ladki ki fikar nahi honi chahye wo kya sochega kya nahi.apko is bat ki fikar honi chahye ke apne Allah ko muh dikhana hai.Agar us ladki se ghalti ho gayi hai aur ap use maf karna chahte hain to apko is kisam ki batain sochne ki zaroorat hi nahi hai
lekin apki baton se saf nazar a raha hai ke ap us ladki se shadi to karne ko tayar hain (sirf islye ke family involve hai) par ap usse dil se maf nahi kar sakte.kya ap aisi surat me use shadi ke bad wo izzat denge?? plzzz khuda ko khauf karain,aur use dil se maf kardain.itna tuqabar na karain.ghalti har ek se ho sakti hai.Khuda na kare,ye massla apki sister ke sath bhi ho sakta tha....ek bar thande dimaagh se sochain.
sorry if i hurt you |
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Andleeb |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jan, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2009, 10:16am |
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Smartmate.... u r totally ridiculous.....
aapka dimaagh kharab hai or kuch nahi...kerli na apni zindagee kharab or uski b ....
Aik ghalti agar ussay hogayi to usnay chupaya b to nahi ... uska pyaar dekho pagal jo yeh baat per b raazi hogayi k pehli raat kisi or k sath guzar lena ...or khudko dekho kitni choti soch hai ... main b lerki hun mera shohar agar esa kahey to main laat marun uskay mun per acid phenk dun .....
aapkey uskay bich koi love nahi thaa it was just frendship....uski jaga aaker socho..kitna kuch face ker ri hai wo sirf aik ghalti ki wajasay ..
.HYMEN k itnay bhoooke ho tum .... or maaf kerney waley tum kon ho ...Allah hai in saf faisalo per qaadir..kher main kiya kehsakti hun kero jo kerna hia bhugto ge tum..
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Andleeb |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jan, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2009, 10:24am |
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Smartmate Mujhey aapki post perhker bohat ghussa aya k mujhey alfaaz hi nahi milre but jo main kehna chahri thi wo sunehri nay bohat achey wordsm ain likha hai...
I 100% agree to sunehri76....
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love 4 all |
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2009, 1:09pm |
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my opinion well all ov u getting furious and anxsious with out any reason its just a fake
post or nothing coz none of normal person can do this so be calm n dont apply
the others situations on your own life irrespective ov that its real or imaginary
coz by doing that u will just arise the feeling of hatred or nothing.
hmmmm :) |
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muskil hai |
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2009, 8:18am |
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napak ladkiyan pak ladkiyan hoti hai pak ladkon ke liye
napak ladkiyan hoti hain na pak ladkon ke liye
ab yeh decide karo ke app pak ho ya napak
sure noor ko pado apna jawab miljayga |
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lilly swee |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 179 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2009, 9:12am |
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smartmate
agar ap ki dosri wife b virgin na hoi to phir ap kia karay gain.
dori ko khana k wedding night pr tesri la day phir wo b virgin na hoi to..........
bas ap ki kismat me virgin ha he ni. yehi soch le
And you girls ko bull shut khanay se phelay apnay gaisay zehani mariz larko ko dekho tum jasay larko ki waja se hi larkian apni izat kho deti hain.
Waisay tuhari wife ko chaia k tm se divorse la kr apnay usi boyfriend k pas wapis chali gay tum jaisay husband se behatar to boyfriend ha. |
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love 4 all |
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2009, 2:52pm |
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 again i say that
well all ov u getting furious and anxsious with out any reason its just a fake
post or nothing coz none of normal person can do this so be calm n dont apply
the others situations on your own life irrespective ov that its real or imaginary
coz by doing that u will just arise the feeling of hatred or nothing.
hmmmm :) |
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Smartmate |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Nov, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Feb 2009, 10:21am |
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smart I read all of your comments this time you people seem to be angry/
Sunheri, Sister plz imagine from which phase of life i am going. my life fucked now. muge koi cheez maza nahey de rahi hey. all the time i am in tention. i am alone i have left the job friend and family i have no one to share my porblem if i will share with my friend or family then some day it will hurt. so always i think about this issue. she should not tell me the truth. her truth is pinching me. some times i think these american girls loose thier virginty and then marry form pakistan just to have thier damaged life to be a successfull life. becz no american guy will marry such girls bcz they now their past. so these shit girls marry pak boys un k ooper ehsaan b ho jayta hey aur in larkiyoo ki zindgi b sanwar jayti hey. sooch soooch k mera demagh paghal ho gaya hey. i always think about this. where ever i am this thing is always in my mind.
for the guys if your wife if not virgin what you will do?
i knew every thing and then i decided to marry her and now if i will left her i will ruin her and my life too. i dont understant what is going on
i want to move on.but i cant. i quarrel with my wife alot of time before nikkah and now too but she always says when you will come here in usa you will see this thing doest't matter. means virginity is not a issue here. you will be ok here. i will love you i will take care of you. wives cheat after merrage. they flert bla blaa ..and she says i will not cheat you..........
but now she is also sick of this topic and i am too. i want to finish this either forget it and move on in my life or seprate from her.
i want to kill myself, her and her x boy friend too. beause my life is hell now.i am sick of every thing. i tried many times to forget it. but cant. in every thing this matter comes. like last night my wife ask me what you will give me on 14 Feb valentine day. ? then in my mind it cames like she will be going with her x boy friend on this day celebraiting it. bla bla....i am mentaly upset. |
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lilly swee |
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| Posted on:4th Feb 2009, 10:40am |
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so leave her Divorced her plz so both of u will live a happy life. warna ............... |
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sunehri76 |
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| Posted on:4th Feb 2009, 11:34pm |
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Smatmate i have read your comments..
pehli bat to ye hai ke agar ap me maf karne ka hossla aur ye sab bhoolne ka hossla nahi tha,to ap un se shadi na karte..ab ap farz karain ap unhe devorce bhi dedenge,to uske mathe pe dusra Dagh lagega..jahan bhi uska rishta hoga,wo log puchenge ke devorce kyun hui?? khair phir bhi us Ladki ki Zindagi sari Umar azaab banane se acha hai ke ap use devorse hi dedain,kyoonke ap use is bat ke lye sari umar maf nahi karenge,maby use zehni tor pe parsakoon bhi na rakh payen,use wo pyar na de jo ek aurat ka haq hai.Allah yaqeenan uske sath bura nahi karega,Allah kare use apse acha shohar mil jaye.
ek bat ap ye zara sochain,thoda sa time le kar,usne apse pyar kiya,islye usne apko dhoka na dene ka socha,aur yehi soch kar usne apko haqeeqat bata di.Agar use ye malum hota ke ap ka rawaya ye hoga to wo bechari kabhi bhi apko na batati..aisi surat me agar apko kuch years bad by chance kissi se y bat malum hoti to apne ye soch soch kar damagh apna kharab karna tha ke meri biwi mujhe itne salon se dhoka de rahi hai,aur pata nahi kitne affair ho..etc...shak to waise bhi mardon ka ek fitrati jazba hai,
agar ye apko na batati to apne uske sath bohat khush rehna tha,apka usse pehle ki tarah Pyar kaem rehta..etc..lekin kya yehi bas sab kuch hota hai life me?? kya apko uski sachayi ka zara bhi khayal nahi ata? apko to fakhar hona chahye ke apki wife apse itna pyar karti hai aur apke sath apni zindagi shuru karne se pehle usne apko aitmad me lekar apni har ghalti tasleem ki aur mafi bhi mangi..
Allah itni badi badi Ghaltiyan maf kar deta hai,kya apka pyar bhi apko majboor nahi kar pa raha ke ap unhe maf kar dain??
agar apka jawab nahi hai to plz ap unki zindagi bhi na kharab na karain na apni..aur hamesha ek bat ye zehan me rakhye ga ke kya garantie jo apki biwi kal bane wo virgin ho na ho?kya ye mehaz ek jhuti zidd nahi??
apne pucha ke agar koi aur mard hota to wo kaise react karta? maine bohat se mature admiyon ko aisi ghaltiyan maf karte dekha hai,balke ek khushgawar Zindagi guzarte hue dekha hai.
ap bhi thode se mature banye.aur soch samajh kar faissla ki jiye,agar ap unhe maf kar sakte hain aur yeh topic kabhi zer-e-behas nahi layenge aur unhe ussi izzat ki nigah se dekhenge jaise pehle to tab hi shadi karain.warna apki zindagi
bhi tabah hogi,unki bhi aur agar bache ho gaye to bachon ki bhi
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Andleeb |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Jan, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 66 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Feb 2009, 3:22pm |
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Smartmate.... Aapki baten sab perhin. kcu h kehna chahti hun apke kliye
1. sab kuch duniya main nahi hai aapko jo mila wo apki kismat hai or usper shukar ada keren..areh aapko to wafadaar wife mili hai khuda ka shukar adaa kero. warna koi bharosa nahi k kon kab chor jaye.
2. aap k uper hai aaj aap apni itni si zid k liye kisi ko itna beizzat or sharminda kerte ho. or aap aik bat yad rakhen k jab kisi ko aik thokar lag jati hai wo dobara same ghalti nahi kerta... agar usko apne xBF k sath hi kahin jana ho to aapsay shadi q kere gee baba. wo usi se kerti naa..
3. aakhri baat kahungee k
"Waqt say pehlay or Muqqadar say ziada kabhee kisi ko nahi milta... jo hai usper shukar kero us ko khush rakho ...sab bhool jao...
or agar aap main darguzar kerne ki salahiyat nahi or aapko lagta hai k aap nahi bhool sakte to aapsay m,eri request hai k aap usko chor den... QK dont mind lekin aap k saath rehne sey behtar hoga k wo akele rehley sari umar...
thnk u ..hope meri koi baat aapko buri nahi lagi hogi agar lagi ho to m sorry
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