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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 777 Age:
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| Posted on:11th May 2007, 6:02pm |
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 Hymen: Why Hymen Is So Important?
We have seen so much discussion on hymen rupture on this forum and 80% of discussion was started by boys. So my question is why hymen is so much important in boys thinking. Pehlay zamanon main bhi tu shadian hotee theen. kia woh bhi isi tarah hymen kai baray main fikar mand rehtay thay? aaj kal kai larkon ko hymen ki shape aur us kai rupture ki itnee fikar kion hai? |
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:12th May 2007, 3:15am |
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re: hymen hymen purane zamane mai ziadah aham tha. waqt aur medical ki taraqqi ke sath sath intact hymen ki ahmiat khatam ho gai hai.
pahle jab kisi larki ko dekhne bari boorhi aurtai larki ke ghar jati thi tu woh larki ko baqaida aik seedhi line par chala kar dekhti thi. jise am lafzon mai kaha jata tha keh larki ki chal dekhi jarahi hai. lekin dar haqeeqat larki ka hymen check horaha hota tha.
intact hymen wali larki ke chal mai aur ruptured hymen wali women ke chal mai wazeh farq hota hai jo keh aik tajarbakar aurat larki ko seedhi line par chala kar dekh sakti hai.
ap khood bhi ghor kare tu ap ko school college ki larkio ki aksariat ki chal taqreeban aik jaisi lage gi jo ke wazh tor par married women ki chal se mukhtalif hota hai.
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 777 Age:
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| Posted on:12th May 2007, 3:22am |
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RE:kali zuban you have told a strange thing which I didnt know. laikin yeh baat samajh nahin aye kai hymen kai honay ya na honay sai chaal main kion faraq paray ga. because aik tu yeh vulva kai andar hota hai jis sai legs ki movement main faraq parna shayed mushkil hai. But agar aap nai yeh kaha hai tu is baat main sadaqat zaroor ho gi.
secondly i asked kai aaj kal larkon ko hymen ki itnee fikar kion hai, agar unhain sex ka shoq hai tu woh tu poora ho hi jaye ga, woh hymen kai baray main itnay conscious kion hain. aur phir yeh bhi baar baar kaha ja chuka hai kai zaroori nahin hymen nai poora vagina opening close kia ho, woh kisi bhi shape main ho sakta hai. anyways thanks for reply. |
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:12th May 2007, 6:27am |
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re: hymen ap ki jetni maloomat hai etni maloomat general logon ki nahi hai. ap noorclinic visit karte hai jab keh 99% logo ki maloomat jali hakeemo ke deewari ishtehar tak mahdood hai. is lia general logo ko nahi maloom keh hymen sex ke beghair bhi rupture hote hai. jo log ziadah tar illegal sex mai hissa lete hai onhai larkio par shak ziadah hota hai. warna jo log sari zindagi saf suthri guzardi hai wo doosro ko bhi sharif samajhte hai.
ajkal ziadah tar hymen ko ahmiat is lia barh gai hai keh fahashi aur oryani aur illegal sex barh gia hai. warna jis boy ne khood kisi larki se sex na kia ho wo larkio ke lia achchi rai rakhte hai. agar ap onhai kahe bhi keh larkia kharab hoti hai to wo yaqeen nahi karte aur kahte hai sirf aik do larkia hi kharab hogi baqi sab sahi hai. aur jin logo ne larkio se sex kia hai on ka sentence hota hai: ab sharif larkia bilkul khatam ho gai hai. mai janta hoon ke larkia ketni kharab hai
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 777 Age:
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| Posted on:12th May 2007, 3:50pm |
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Re. Kali zuban Thanks for a nice reply again. You have summarized everything. I will say just one thing that as per our islamic belief and mentioned in quran: mafhoom " buray mardon kai liye buri aurtain hain". So if someone keep himself abstained from illegal sex , he will be rewarded for sure, in this world or world hereafter. thanks again. |
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farhanshah |
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| Posted on:16th Aug 2007, 3:16pm |
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 Re why hymen so important
is post main Kali zuban ne jo bataya hay SEEDHI LINE per chala kay dekhne wali baat kia kisi aur ko bhi ye baat maloom hay
is this correct? !!!
main ne kabhi nahi suni ye baat old posts check kerne per ye post nazar aai tu herat hoi |
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Ugly-Sana |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 539 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Aug 2007, 3:32pm |
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 To Farhanshah
That is strange to know, I never knew this before. And i still can't understand that how Ruptured hymen can change the way girls walk. It's amazing. |
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Ugly-Sana |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 9:15am |
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Faisee Hymen is so important to boys these days, because, i think, around more than 80% boys are not virgin anymore. It is becoming a culture to loose virginity before marriage for boys. Therefore, since they have done all the dirty things already, they are suspecting their partners in that sense too.
But the sad part of our society is that, even though the boy already have sex with 5 different partners, he still wants to make sure that his wife is virgin, and no one has touched her.
Overall, (80%) of the boys that are consious about girls' virginity are not virgin by themselves. And other, (20%) of the boys who want to know about girls' virginity are decent, that is why they want to be informed about all these facts and, they don't want to get deceived.
And that is fair enough.
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khan_80 |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 10:12am |
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ruptured hymen Yes, this is correct that there is difference between the walking style of virgin and non-virgin woman. There are some minor signs also (apart from hymen) which tells the truth about girl's virginity but they are so minute that they can only be checked by a doctor or very very experienced woman. but, ofcourse they have not much importance. |
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faisee |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 11:55pm |
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Re: Sana I 100% agree with you. problem is , as you are in a western county, you know that if in that culture they do these things, they accept it and its always in their mind that their spouse may not be virgin. but in our society we are "adha teetar, adha batair" Allah ham sab ko buraion sai mehfooz rakhay.
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Ugly-Sana |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Aug, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 539 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 12:03pm |
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To Faisee Beshak mein western country mein hoon, but we cannot compare ourselves to these no muslim people here. We are from pakistan and that is where we think from. We still consider virginity very important when getting married. Since, we are from pakistan, that idea does not apply to me that im US everybody expects to have non virgin spouse. Because we still get married to a person who is from pakistan and muslim.
But of course, you never know, people can be bad anywhere, and in US everbidy have more chances to commit sins liek illegal sex even the people who are pakistanis. Hum sirf yahee umeed kar saktey hein ke humien humarey jais ahi insaan miley zindagi guzarney ke liye. Ameen. |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 777 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 12:18pm |
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Re: Sana you are right, but I think you din't get my point in previous reply. I was not talking about those who live outside, but I was talking about the cultural difference that western people accept all what do they do. but here in pakistan some people do same things but dont accept and make double standards or being "munafiq".
and if you are good, believe on God, then Allah will make everything good in your favor. I wish you get an excellent life partner , you have ever dreamt of, with all good qualities personally, religiously and socially.
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Ugly-Sana |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 12:51pm |
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To Faisee: I Understod your point. THat is exactly right that people do have double standards in Paksitan. Thanks for your wishes for me to have nice life partner. Actually i've found one, He is the kind of person i have always imagined Mashallah. I'm engaged already, and will get married in December this year Inshallah. I'm coming to Pakistan in November. |
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faisee |
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| Posted on:17th Aug 2007, 5:18pm |
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Re: Sana Really. I am glad to know that. Congratulations in anticipation.
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Ugly-Sana |
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| Posted on:20th Aug 2007, 10:05am |
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Faisee Thank you so much. |
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