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sobiaa |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Oct, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2009, 2:36pm |
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 Childhood Rape and Feelings
AA DR sahib ma kafi time se preshan thi k jo mere sath ho raha ha wo kia ha.
lekin app ki site se mujhe pata chala n sir mere sath rape hua jab 4th ma thi and bleeding ka mujhe nai pata tab ma bohat choti thi bas mujhe thora yad ha n uss k bad ma pani k tap k pressure k samne rahti jis se muujhe ajeeb se feeling ati.
lekin sirf 7th tak and uss k bad ma 100% sure hoon k ma ne kukh aisa waisa nai kia lekin ab mere sath ajeeb problem ho gia hai k jab koi movie ya romantic sceen even k iss site k kuch topic bhi pero tomeri condition ajeeb ho jati hai
mujhe scretion feel hoti hai n kabhi kabhi nnend ma bhi yehi condition hoti hai and ab meri shadi hone wali hai and mujhe pata nahi kyon dar lagta hai k mujhe sex k bare ma soch k hi kuch hone lagta hai to bad ma kia ho ga
hahake ma ab namaz b perti hn aur aur me ne apne hosh ma kuch galat nai kia hai even ma co edu ma hn but kis boy se dosti bhi nai ke ha sach ma me ne jan bojh k kuch b nai kia sab kuch bohat pehle hua jab aqal nai thi ab ma kia kero kia ma shadi k qabil hon mere husband ko pata to nai chale ga jo ma ne bachpan ma kia
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2263 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Feb 2009, 3:45pm |
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 sobia
you are ok
no problems for you insallah... Dont be afraid. is waqt jo app ki feelings hain woh sab kanwari larkyian bhi feel karti hain.. aur mostly sab larkian shadi se pehle sex ka nam se darti hain... you are not different... app ke husband ko nahe pata chale ga...
I am very sorry and shocked to hear about the rape... Bhut Ghaleez log hain jo bachon ko buri nazar se dekhte hain... ya aisa fail karte hain... App shadi ke bilkul qabil ho belke 100% ho.. kyonke jo kuch app ke sath bachpan main howa hai uska effect ab khatam hogia hai.. Ager aik mudat tak sex na kia jai to vagina dobara se tight ho jati hai... Dont worry about bleeding.. Kuch knwari larkion ko bleeding hoti hi nahee.. allah ki marzi... Be happy jo baten app ne apni feelings ke bare main likhi hain sab normal hain... |
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abkalyar |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Feb, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Feb 2009, 4:02am |
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you are ok A.A
you are ok aap ko kuch bhi nahi hai or sobia ne theek kaha hai k kuch larkion ko bleeding nahi hoti hai aap preshan na hoon aisa koi masla nahi hai.apni sehat ka khiyal rakhein. |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Feb 2009, 4:35am |
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sonia yes
us waqt ap bht choti thin...Ap ko to thik se pta bhi nahi tha...Allah ap k stah insaf kerye ga
and dont worry ....system ne bilkul shai reply kiya hai ap ko |
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Rehan420 |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Feb, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 26 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Feb 2009, 12:54am |
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 REPLAY
Miss SOBIAA
ap ko Pareshan Honay ki Koi Zarorat nhai jo kuch ap k sath howa hay who 1 HADSA samjh ka bhool jaein or 1 New ZINDGI ki SHAROAT ki tarf gamzan kadam brhaty chaly jaein
inshallaha ALLAHA AP PAR KARAM KARY GA.
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Feb 2009, 1:01am |
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agreed to all Sister app ki baat sun k bauhat afsoos hua Allah app ko himmat aur Sabar ata kare Aameen,
waise app pareshan mat hoon aiise feelings har larki ko shadi se pehle hoti hain, and dont worry app k husband ko bhi pata nahi chalega, aur iss mein app ki koi galti nahi thi app ne jaan bojh kar to nahi kia tha so dont worry Allah Sab behtar karega. |
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sobiaa |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Oct, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2009, 1:59pm |
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helppp
thank you all thank you so much but plz mujhe ye batae k mere itni burefeelings kyon ho jati hain jab ma koi romantic scene ya koi movie dekhti hoon even iss website ko b study kerne se mari feeling ajeeb ho jati hn kabhi kabhi to secrition feel hoti ha mere sath aisa kyon hota hai plz help ma ne to kabhi koi galat kam b nai kia mujhe bohat der lagta hai plz help meeeee
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Rehan420 |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Feb, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 26 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Mar 2009, 10:36pm |
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REPLY miss mein nay ap ko pahlly bhi kaha tha k ap ko fikar karany ki koi zarorat nahi aj k dor mein taqreman har jawan (young)girl ko is trhan ki filing aati hein ap ko fikar karany ki zarorat nahi bass apna dahyan NAMAZ ki taraf ley jaien or har waqat
(YA REHMAN-O)
ka wird keya karin ALLHA AP PAR KARAM KARY GA ( INSHALLAHA)
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Dr R |
Group: Experts Joined: 01st Apr, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 128 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Apr 2009, 12:47pm |
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Rape and Arousal Dear patient
What happened was not your fault and what you did after it when you were very young isnt your fault either.
The strange (ajeeb) feelings that you have are basically of two types:
One is the rejection by your mind because of what happened years ago, the other is arousal.
Both are very normal feelings and you must learn to control or to exhibit these problems for your benefit.
Dont be afraid of marriage, it is normal that females do not have a hymen at marriage, this is because of many reasons and i hope it will not be a problem for you, however if you wouldlike then discuss it with a Psychiatrist in person so that they may help you for Child Abuse Counselling.
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samiiira |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 4:21pm |
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sad salam mara sawal ya hy k mera 3 sal pahly rape hoa tha pragnant b hogai phir wash kerwaya mother ny many sab kuch apny mangaiter ko btadia us ny sunty hi muj c nikah kerlia sab kuch thik hogia per mari feeling bohot ziada hogai hen rokna mushkil hy husband pakistan hoty hen sal bad shadi hy per ya sal kasy guzarun plz help kren
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:7th May 2009, 3:49am |
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samiira ap apne husband k pas chali jayen
ya phr khud ko control keryen
yahi 2 options hain bussssss |
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imaan alia |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Jan, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 13 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Jan 2012, 3:17am |
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kisss krana ya bobies ko touch krna assalamo alaikum ..mery aik teacher ny mery lips ,neck aur eyes py kiss ki hy...aur bobies ko b touch kia hy...main un k teacher hony ki wajah sy mana na kr saki...main class first year main parhti hun ...plzzz mujy bataen k ia sy kuch hota to nae?i mean menses problm ya kuch aur?plzzz meri help karen
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 15 Post: 1352 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Jan 2012, 11:46pm |
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well
Sobiaa my best wishes for your married life.God bless you. I love to see and hear good things happening to people who are or have been in my situation but who are on their way to a good life.It makes me feel i am going to get somewhere too.
Samiira try masterbating nd always keep in touch with your hubby.its 21st centuary there are so many ways to keep in touch.Dont spoil yourself in any way.instead plan ahead for your first year of marriage.
No discussion of any illegal activity. Pre-marital sexual behavior should not be encouraged Moderator
Imaan
Us Gaashtii k bachay nay jo kiya hai wo apni maa baap ko btao aur college change karo aaj boobies pa hai kal panchod kahin aur jayega tou tum tab bhi chhup bethi rahogi. Aik simple kam karo tell your mother father brother or sister koi essa jo tmara yakeen karey aur apna college foran change kerwa lo.
Tell about your collge like private or govt. co ed or not etc so tht apko alternative ways btaye jaa sakain deal kernay k liye. Periods problem hogiu tmy kiunkay tum tense hou iss liye wessay boobs touch kerna se kuch ni hota but tmaree situation me rukk saktay hain due to tension ya delay b ho saktay hain.
Moderator Note: Don't use vulgar language here.
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 15 Post: 1352 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Jan 2012, 11:47pm |
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Imman ---irrelevant post edited---
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 15 Post: 1352 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 1:33am |
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To Moderator No discussion of any illegal activity. Pre-marital sexual behavior should not be encouraged Moderator Wo uss banday k nikah me ha. uska nikah hua wa hai iss liye me nay kaha k keep in touch. masterbation is not an illegal sexual activity.
Dusra
Moderator Note: Don't use vulgar language here.
You are right i got emotional aur abusive words use kiye i apologise . but wo vulger words nahi hain abusive words hain.I did not say anmything vulger..
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mairak |
Group: Members Joined: 05th Dec, 2011 Topic: 15 Post: 1352 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Jan 2012, 1:48am |
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to goodman aap se essa ghalat sawal ki tawaqou nahee thee.
qatal ka tareeqa tou wessy hee ghalat he in k case me kiunkey larik ya larka donou married nahi thay..so sangsar wala option nahee ho sakta applicabke
dusra qasam k jhut .... uss ka sirf kaffara karega wo jis nay jhti qasam khayee.
aur blame bhee 2 gawah hou jinhoun na aoni aankh se dekha hou ye amal ketay huay .ewain hee nahee k koi b uth ker blame ker day.
qasam jo hai wo is halat me ye hotee hai k blame kernay wala kahy k agar me jhuta tou mujh per khuda ki laanat
aur wo aurat kahay k agar me jhuti tou mujh per khud ki laana\t.
there is no other way
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zarzar |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Dec, 2010 Topic: 1 Post: 22 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2012, 10:42am |
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Childhood Rape and Feelings sobiaa
You are very small child when the raped happend in the past, how did you remmber that rape happend small age....... |
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