Oral sex ke bare mai aksar logo ko confusion hai. is confusion ko door karne ke lia yeh article likhi gai hai
1. kuch log Quran pak ka hawala de kar kahte hai keh tumhari bivi tumhari kheti ka matlab yeh hai keh oral sex bhi allow hai. jab keh haqeeqat mai aisa nahi hai. oral sex asal mai sex hi nahi hai. kio keh allah tala ne har kam ke lia alag alag organ banaya hai. mslan kan hearing ke lia, nose soonghne ke lia, urethra peeshab ke lia, mouth khana khane ke lia, anas stool pass karne ke lia aur vagina sex ke lia.
2. lehaza mouth se sex ka koi sawal hi paida nahi hota. jis tarah kan nak se understood hai keh is se sex nahi kar sakte isi tarah mouth se bhi sab ko samajh lena chahia keh is se sex nahi karna chahia.
3. chukeh vagina aur anus aik doosre ke qareeb hai isi lia anus ke lia wazeh tor par hidayat kar di gai keh vavina aur anus mai farq samjha jai. agar kan nak aur mouth bhi vagina ke qareeb hota tu shaid os ke bare mai bhi wazeh hidayat hoti (allah behtar janta hai)
4.oral sex fahashi phailane aur illegal sex karne walo ki ijad hai. chukeh vaginal sex se pregnancy ke chances bahut ziadah hai is lia illegal sex karne wale pregnancy se bachne ke lia oral sex karte hai.
5. aam shareef logo ko tu oral sex ke bare mai maloom hi nahi tha. aj bhi jo log oral sex ke bare mai jante hai woh bata sakte hai ke is ilm ka source blue film ya friend ke darmian hone wali fahash guftagoo hai.
6. aise hi logo ne na sirf porn movie aur fahash guftagoo se oral sex ka word seekha balkeh is forum par oral sex ke bare mai sawal kar ke shareef member ko bhi yeh lafz sikhaya.
7. warna aj bhi aise shareef log mojood hai jinho ne aj tak lafz oral sex nahi suna hai. yeh aur bat hai ke western culture se mutasir, girl/boys friend ke hami, porn movie ke shaidai, mahfil mai fahash goi karne wale meri bat se ittefaq nahi kare ge. aur kahe ge keh har shakh oral sex ke bare mai janta hai.
8. jabkeh yeh haqeeqat hai keh aise shareef log jo western culture, girl/boy friendship, porn movie aur fahash mahfil se na-ashna hai. woh oral sex ke lafz se bhi na-ashna hai.
9. ham intehai afsos ke sath kahte hai keh is forum par mojood bhi kuch logo ne oral sex ke mozoo ko shuru kar aise shareef member ki maloomat mai oral sex ka izafa kia hai jo keh pahle is lafz se ashna nahi the.
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Posted on:26th Sep 2007, 4:15am
NICE
As'salam - O - Aluikum ,
Excellent post . . . I appreciate your way of speaking truth and
exposing true picture of our society . . . Thank you so much . . !
Waisey Sex wohi enjoy karta hai jo LOVE k saath sex karey bajaey LUST k
saath so app loog LUST aur LOVE maiyn farq karein takah Sex ko
extremely enjoy kar sakhein . . . Oral sex is a part of LUST during sex
so please avaoid it if u have never been tried it . . . agar app ne ajj
tak Oral sex nahi kiyah tou indah bhi na karein aur tamam unmaarried se
bhi yhi kahoon ga kah never try these things after marriage kyun kah agar WIFE k saath eak
dafah bhi apne yah sab kardiyah tou phir uss ko adat se pardh jaey gee
iss liayh Buraey ko surooh maiyn hi khatam kardena chaahiyah
Buhat sarey Islamic Scholars kahtey hain kah Oral sex Haram hai aur
kuch kahtey hain kah makhroon lekin zayadah tar MAKROOH kahtey hain
kyun kah iss ka na koi Qurn maiyn reference hi aur na hi hadees maiyn
lekin medically oral sex may cause various diseases so avoid these
things and enjoy your life in a straight & better way
I DONT KNOW kZ'S QUALIFICATIONS BUT HERE IS A POINT OF VIEW OF AN EXPERT ON ISLAM...I HOPE U GUYS CAN READ AND UNDERSTAND ENGLISH...AND NO, THAT EXPERT IS NOT ME...BUT THIS IS ISLAM'S ACTUAL POSITION ON ORAL SEX....READ AND PONDER:What I actually imply is that Islam does not give any specific directives regarding the allowance or prohibition of "oral sex". Yet, it is not possible that a complete understanding and appreciation of the Islamic value system has no effect on the taste of the individual in this respect. An individual who knows that he is required to use the life of this world to cleanse his mind, body and soul, who knows that true purification of the soul shall be achieved only through continual remembrance of Allah, who knows that his tongue should most often be used for taking Allah's name and for reading His book, such an individual would definitely be influenced away from such menial and physical pleasures that put his tongue and lips to such use which makes him feel that his tongue and lips are soiled and defiled for the exalted task of taking Allah's name or to read His book.
So the bottomline is: If your sensibilities accept it...go for it by all means....if not...dont even go near it...I request all of u folks to look up sharia'h and do yoru own research...I have joined this forum today and its painful to watch such oot patang advice from all these "naam-nehaad" experts. Islam is a perfect religion and soemthging r left to individuals to decide...Ashraf ul makhlooqat aise to nahin bana dia...so soemthings r left muslims that they can decide according to their cultural and societal values...maybe things which r acceptable to lebanese muslims will never be acceptable to US PAKISTANI muslims and vice versa....lekin har cheez ka hall simple 1, 2, 3 nahin hai...kuch apna damagh bhee istamal farmayein...
PLEASE READ THESE LINES AND PONDER.....BEFORE U JUMP THE GUN...AND MAKE SOME ILLITERATE COMMENTS:
in the field of propagation (Da`wah) and education (whether directed toward Muslims or non-Muslims), one can (and should) present a clear 'yes' or a 'no' opinion about a thing or an act only IF the Shari`ah has expressly given a clear 'yes' or a 'no' stipulation about that thing or an act. Giving a clear 'yes' or a 'no' opinion regarding something about which the Shari`ah itself has not given a clear 'yes' or a 'no', in my opinion, is transgressing the limits of Da`wah and education. We must always bear in mind that we, as students of Islam, are responsible of clarifying only the directives of the Shari`ah and the spirit of those directives, according to the best of our abilities and understanding - not of making additions to the Shari`ah.
I HOPE THESE POSTS CLEAR THE MINDS OF SOEM OF YOU...AND IF SOMEONE DISAGREES...U HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE.,...LIKE I SAID...ITS ALL ABOUT SENSE AND SENSIBILITIES...IF U FIND IT DISGUSTING...STAY AWAY...IF U THINK THIS IS YORU WAY OF SHOWING LOVE TO YOUR WIFE OR HUSBAND...ITS YORU SENSIBILITY AND CHOICE BUT DONT LET THESE NAAM NEHAAD MAULANA TO TELL U OTHERWISE...MAKE UP YOUR OWN MIND..EITHER U R FOR IT...OR AGAIST IT...AAP DAERA E ISALAM SE BAAHIR NAHIN HON GE...INSHA ALLAH
I totally agree what u are saying because after my through search on ISLAMIC WEBSITES, I have found the same thing u are talking about. However, with no intention of offense, I want to say something here.
I have read many of ur mails and I understand that u have very good understanding of ACTUAL ISLAM not the #2 one, and I can feel what u feel about our country and the people who live there. U want to see Pakistan and Pakistani people with better knoweldge of Islam, humanity, and so on. I really appriciate what u actually feel for them. However, in the way u are expressing yr feelings is not that appropriate. U can not make someone agree to ur point of view in an insulting and offensive way. What if u and me were still living in Pakistan? Do u think we could have gained this much knoweldge?
I am not saying that people living in Pakistan are not sensible, it is just all about oppertunities and the way of life we have here. I should happily admit that I was ignorant to many of the things and could have been ignorant through all of my life if I was not here today. SO why not use this blessing of God to understand and help those peopel who because of lack of sources are unable to reach this place.
I believe, when Allah gives us oppertunities, he also expect from us to be responsible and make use of them properly. Pls lessen yr anger write in a softer tone. May allah bless u more.
agar oral sex say motalliq NC ki intezamia ka sarkari mauquf yehi hai to woh bila nagha har roz new posts /replies k zariyeh oral sex ko promote karkay fahashi phailanay walouN k liyeh forum intezamia action kiyouN nahi leti???
debate ki had tak to baat Theek hai... aur yeh debate kai repeated posts k zariyeh hochuki hai... aisee posts ko pinned karkay ayandah aisee new post say rok dia jana chaahiyeh... mods ko hedayat honi chhaiyeh k sharaarat /shaitaani ki gharz say aisee tamaam posts /replies ko delete kar dia jaye... thoray hi din maiN aisay log rahay faraar ikhteyaar kar lengay. insha Allah
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Posted on:20th Mar 2009, 1:19pm
pinky7861 & 74maxim
I am fairly glad to read --
The subject matter is very debatable but taking a short cut I think as a nation we have not matured ourselves yet on various aspects and issues. We still have many barriers and taboos around us, socio-religious culture has been influencing us not to think out of the box.
I rarely come on this forum though I wish to come more but sadly speaking when I see people posting nonsensical and ridiculous posts my head wobbles and I decide to vanish from the forum. Trust me some of the posted questions are funny chronicles.
Point is being Muslims we should do the basic things right, be sensible, be open to learning, and try to understand the true spirit of Islam. Because Islam was not only for Arabs or Muslims, it is for the whole of humanity, and whole humanity comprises of different nations, cultures, colors and origins. For understanding the true Islam “I think we got to be neutral in our thinking neutral as a Muslim and as a human”.
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Posted on:1st Jun 2009, 1:44am
To Kali Zuban
Dear Kali Zuban,
Your "articles" are really informative, but I am sure you have not written them yourself. I have seen these articles in Urdu Font on different websites on Sex Education in Urdu (not noorclinic).
So it would be appropriate if you acknowledge the work of others, by saying that this article was written by somebody else and you are just reproducing it. It is ethically incorrect to portray somebody else's work as yours.
Hope you dont mind and next time please mention that it's not your work.
It is permissible for the husband to enjoy/savor/relish his
wife however he wishes, and to come to her in the genital area
from any point he wishes. As Allah (Exalted is He) has said:
“Your wives are a tillage for you
[to cultivate] [nisa’u-kum harthun l-kum]
so go to your tillage as you wish. [fa-’’tu
hartha-kum anna shi’tum] Q 2:223.
It is unlawful for the man to perform two sexual acts on the
wife, namely:
1. Sexual penetration [wat’] during menstruation[haid].
As Allah (Exalted is He) has said:
They question you concerning menstruation.
[wa yas aluna-ka ‘ani ‘l-mahid:]
Say: It is an illness, [qul huwa adhan]
So let women alone at such times [fa-’’tazilu
‘n-nisa’a fi ‘l-mahidi]
and do not approach them until they
are cleansed [wa la tagrubu-hunna hatta yathurn:]
And when they have purified themselves,
[fa-idha tatahharna fa’’tu-hunna]
then go into them as Allah has enjoined
on you. [min haithu amara-kumu ‘llah:]
Truly Allah loves those who repent,
[inna ‘llaha yuhibbu ‘t-tawwabina]
and He loves those who keep themselves
clean. wa yuhibbu ‘l-mutatahhirin.] Q 2:222.
2. Sexual penetration in the anus.
Allah’s messenger (Allah bless him and give him peace)
has said:
"Accursed is he who has sex with
his wife in her anus." (Reported by Abu Dawud and
Imam Ahmad [ibn Hanbal], and established as authentic in Sahih
al-Jami’ 5889.)
These two prohibitions are mentioned together in the saying
[hadith] of the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace):
"Beware of the anus and the menstrual
period." (Reported by Imam Ahmad [ibn Hanbal] and
Abu Dawud; also in Sahih al-Jami’ 1141.)
As for the question of oral titillation of the pudendum, it
all depends on two considerations:
1. It must not be hurtful.
2. It must not result in the introduction of impurity/dirt into
the internal organs
Is is permissible for the husband to do CUNNILINGUS (Licking or sucking vagina & its surroundings) and for the wife to do FELLATIO (Licking or sucking penis & its surroundings) but beaware of edaculation as it is Impure (Najis).
Purpose of oral sex is arouse each other with sexual pleasure and it depends on both partners if they desire to have oral sex, as it is their responsibility to fulfill each other desires.
Your "articles" are really informative, but I am sure you have not written them yourself. I have seen these articles in Urdu Font on different websites on Sex Education in Urdu (not noorclinic).
tamam articles mai ne khood hi likhe hai, aur yeh tamam articles sirf aur sirf noorclinic.com ke liye likhe hai. mere articles ko dunya bhar mai pasand kia gaya, aur beshumar logo ne ise na sirf publish kia balkeh doosri zubano mai tarjama bhi kia. kuch logo ne baqaida ijazat le ker publish kia hai aur baqai noorclinic ka reference bhi dia hai, jabkeh beshtar logo ne beghair ijazat aur noorclinic ka reference diye beghair hi chapa hai.
meri taraf se mere article ko publish kerne aur translate kerne ki ijazat hai, albatta yeh zaroori hai keh jo log bhi iss article ko publish kare woh baraye meharbani source mai noorclinic ka zikir zaroor kare.
Mainnay jo article lika hai yeh aapka article nahi
hai yeh Quran aur Hadees ka reference main sirf aapkay article main
kahi baat
"kuch log Quran pak ka hawala de kar
kahte hai keh tumhari bivi tumhari kheti ka matlab yeh hai keh oral sex
bhi allow hai. jab keh haqeeqat mai aisa nahi hai."
kay jawab main likha hai, mainnay aapkay baki articles bhi parhay hain
no doubt aap logon ko educate kar rehi hain but please article likhtay
waqat thori si research kar liya karein, mera likhnay ka matlab na tou
aapko offend karna tha aur na hi aapkay article kay against article
likhna tha, aap apnay article ko review karein aur logon ko jo reality
hai us say educate karein.
Mainnay jo article lika hai yeh aapka article nahi
hai yeh Quran aur Hadees ka reference main sirf aapkay article main
kahi baat
"kuch log Quran pak ka hawala de kar
kahte hai keh tumhari bivi tumhari kheti ka matlab yeh hai keh oral sex
bhi allow hai. jab keh haqeeqat mai aisa nahi hai."
kay jawab main likha hai, mainnay aapkay baki articles bhi parhay hain
no doubt aap logon ko educate kar rehi hain but please article likhtay
waqat thori si research kar liya karein, mera likhnay ka matlab na tou
aapko offend karna tha aur na hi aapkay article kay against article
likhna tha, aap apnay article ko review karein aur logon ko jo reality
hai us say educate karein.
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