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qasimch86 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Nov, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Nov 2009, 8:13pm |
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 Love Relationship: I Cant Leave That Girl- What Should I Do?
I am a young guy of 22. I love a girl since 3 years and before that v were friends. The total time i have passed with her is 4 years. We met by internet. She is one year elder to me. Is there any trouble after marriage with an elder girl? I love that girl so much. Even I met her three times and I never ever touched her to fulfill my sexual desires. I don't know why she wants to do phone sex with me. Even whenever I came to meet her, she tried to take my hands in her hands and tried to get kiss on her face. I really left that girl three to four times in which the main reason was that she do phone sex with me. A lover can understand how difficult is to left the one you love. 4 to 5 month back, she again started the same thing. She was also enforcing me since 2 years to marry with me as early but I was not in a position. I talked to my parents but they were not agreed with me. I said to her i will marry you but please wait until i get stability at some place. Also please don't do phone sex with me other wise I can't afford that I did phone sex with a girl and then marry the same girl. Even in very harsh language, many times, but in vain. After that I finished the talk with her again. I got very relax. But after a month she again came online and talked to me and as i was her lover, I again started talking and she said, as usuall, I will not do phone sex with you. Also I will not enforce you to marry me but please talk to me. I can't live without you. Now I am going to her city to attend a ceremony. She wants me again to meet her. Her attitude is going to be similar again. She is saying I want to touch your face. If I got frustrated please don't mind. You should control yourself as well as me. My mind is really trapped. It is not telling me any answer. She loves me so much. She went to umra every year perform very well. Also, in shoping, she buy gifts for me as well. Even she has bought some gifts to my mother and my nephew and neice. But my mother has rejected to accept any gift. My family is not agreeing in any case, not even a single person of my 8 persons family. She loves me alot, i know. She daily wait for me on net for hours. She donot talk with any other boy as i endup her other relations. Please help me out. I am stucked badly. I am not getting the way to come to any edge. I can't left her in this position as i am not getting a big reason for my own satisfaction to leave her. Also my parents are not agreeing for her.
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H/dr_Qasim |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Sep, 2010 Topic: 186 Post: 6479 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Nov 2009, 10:39pm |
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qasimch86 about phone sex you can read posts on forum there are so many posts which are about phone sex and you read comments of the ppl about phone sex its a sin, zuna of ears and mind,
As you shared you whole story about your sex relations, my dear brother it’s a Great sin, its zunaa, and Islam do not support such type of illegal sex relation with non mehrum or with any body. You try to control on your self and tell her it’s a sin and bad way and if you get merry its very good but you both try to convince your parents.
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imperial |
Group: Members Joined: 26th May, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 62 Age:
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| Posted on:10th Nov 2009, 2:42pm |
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qasim pehle to ye faisla karain k zindagi us k sath guzarni ha ya nahi?
agar us k sath guzarni ha phr apnay parents ko bhejain us k ghar aur abhi nikah kar lain...aur rukhsati settle honay k baad karlain....
agar us k sath zindagi nahi guzarni phr uska aur apna waqt zaya na karain...aur us k sath saray contacts khatam kardain...
app ki post se ye laaga k app k andar faisla karny ki kami ha.. |
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madman |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Oct, 2009 Topic: 9 Post: 137 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2009, 7:46am |
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Allah per yaqeen rakho Allah ko kafi samjho. Ager tumhary naseeb main milna hoa to tumharay ghar walay maan jain gey. Apney rishtay ko kuch waqt aur do aur koi sexual relation kaim mat ker lena warna problem aur bhi barh jaye gi...
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Javed Imad |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2009 Topic: 14 Post: 367 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2009, 10:23am |
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 Allah Py Baroosa Rakho
AOA to all users, I agreed with Madman, Qasim and imperial. Bhai bat asy hy abi ap ki age bahut kam hy , ,, agar shadi kurni hy tu parents ko convince karo.. agar nai karni tu es game sy side py ho jao , just waisting of time and nothing.. one thing should kept in ur mind with out parents we r nothing, so pay respect to ur parents decision.. becoz parents life mein aik hi dafa aatay hein ... larkian hazaron mil jati hein,,, allah py baroosa rakho ,, aur aik baat hamesha apny mind mein rakho, jab kisi baat py faisla na kur sako tu allah py choor do , Allah ki karim zaat hy wo zaat behtr karti hy... so don't worried... agar qismat hoi tu mil jaye gi...apnay aap ko relax karo aur kam jo bi hy karo ... yeh jazbat time ky saath khtam ho jayn gy.. life enjoy karo....avain kis chakar mein par gy ho .. apni age dekho....
Regards
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Diplomate |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Oct, 2009 Topic: 50 Post: 3240 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2009, 11:11pm |
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 agreed
to javed imad....well said
laiken javed sahib...app ny keha k 1 baat zhn main rkhoo....jub k batain app ny 2 adad zhn main rkhny ko kehi hain...am i right..?
kiya ye khula tzad nhi...?........:-) |
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Javed Imad |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2009 Topic: 14 Post: 367 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Nov 2009, 12:58pm |
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Parents Ka Khial Rakhna AOA, Diplomat bhai kaisy ho and thanx 4 reply...yar tazad ki baat nahi.. actually qasim is not mature...abi es ko samaj nai rahi.. time ky sath samaj jaye ga... kion ky yeh waqti jazbat hotay hein... es ky liaye qasim ko thora strong hona paray ga..yar aap ko tu pata aaj kal sub jaga drama chal raha hy... parents ky haqooq buhat zada hotay hein,,, aur wo apanay bachon ky liaye sahi faisla kurty hein ,, kion ky hum jo bi hein wo parents ki waja sy hein,,, yeh banday ko ehsas us waqat hota jab wo apni family sy doore hota hy, phir apny parents ka ehsas hota hy....very important ... male hazrat yeh baat yad rakhein, wo samajty hein yeh larki meray sath hi baat kurti hy tu yeh males ki bhool hy... agar aap ky saath kur sakti hy tu wo kisi aur sy bi relation bana sakti... yeh human nature hy , jab aik response nahi kurta tu wo doosry ki talash mein niql jata hy.. aur yeh male ki bhool hy ky larki trap ho gai hy bulky larka khud trap hota hy.. kion masti larkay ky mind mein hoti hy.....aur qasim jo larki shadi sy pehly apny jazbat py qabo nai rakh sakti wo shad ky baad kia rakhy gi .... koi gaurantee nai dy sakta... anyhow yeh batein qasim ky liaye kafi.. qasim yeh sb batein es liaye kahi mein ny bahut rang brangi log dekhy hein.. "Doore ky dhol suhany" qasim relax ho jao.. larkion ky chakar ko light lia karo aur life enjoy kurny ki koshish karo... avain tension na lo,,, sachay dil sy dua karo ,, phir result khud dekh lo... laikin parents pehly... unki badua na lena,, warna naqsan mein rahy gy....
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 2:24am |
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Javed Bhai very well said, bauhat achi advice di hai app ne, lagta hai iss mamle mein app ko kafi tajarba hasil hai. |
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madman |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Oct, 2009 Topic: 9 Post: 137 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 2:48am |
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Re: Javaid Imad "Doore ky dhol suhany"
You are right bro.
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Javed Imad |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2009 Topic: 14 Post: 367 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 5:03am |
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Sahil and Madman Bros AOA, Thanx Sahil and Madman 4 ur reply.
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 5:09am |
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javed bhai ur most welcome, magar app ne abhi tak apni story nahi sunaye brother. |
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madman |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Oct, 2009 Topic: 9 Post: 137 Age:
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| Posted on:21st Nov 2009, 1:32am |
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Re: Javaid Imad Anytime...
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