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amigo1stus |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Mar, 2007 Topic: 11 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 7:40am |
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 Mis Understandings Between Spouse - Solution Needed ?
Meri shadi ko 3 months huay hain. Meri biwi nehayat badtameez hai aur mere saath bohat gandi zabaan bolti hai jab usko ghussa aaya hota hai. Ghussai ki haalat mai ooncha shout kerti hai. Meri koi izzat nahi hai uski nazar mai. Mai musalsal mental stress ki wajha se bamar ho gaya hoon, Meri Bhook khattam ho gayi hai aur mujhe bukhaar bhi ho jata hai. Mujhe ye poochna hai ke islam ke mutaabik aisi aurat ka kia anjaam hoga jiske saath uska shoher khush na ho. Maine apni biwi ki tamaam jayaz aur najayz farmaishain poori ki hain hamesha. Mai ameer nahi hoon lekin apni hasti se barh ker usko gaari khareed ker di. Usko honey moon per bahar ke mulkon ki sair karayi lekin mujhe uska pyar haasil hoane ke bajaye sirf aziat hi mili. Choate se jhagre ke nateejai mai wo mujhse talaak maangti hai ya kehti hai ke wo hamesha ke liye ghar chor ke ja rahi hai? Mujhe batayen ke islam ke mutaabik meri biwi ka kia anjaam hoga kionkai mai uss se bohat naraaz hoon aur usko kehdia hai maine ke mai usko kabhi bhi maaf nahi kerunga?
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 1:06pm |
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 Love Affair
Yaar, I know exactly such a case, keh wife apnay husband ko lift nahi karwati thi. aur har wakt larti jagharti rehti thi....
Kuch arsay baad pata chala keh woh shadi uss ki marzi say nahi hui thi, aur uss say uss kay ghar waloon nay rishtay kay baray main nahi pocha tha. Aur woh kisi aur kay sath love affair main thi.
This might not be always the case, but main iss per strong belief karta hoon keh biwi kay rude rahnay ki wajah yeh bhi ho sakti hai. At least shadi kay first 3 months main hi yeh ho raha hai tou its a problem. Aur uss say pochnay ka koi faida nahi.... woh hameesha yahi kahay ghi keh mairi marzi say shadi ho rahi hai aur main khush hoon... jaisa keh uss case main hua aur phir akhir main pata chala keh ji woh tou zabardasti ki shadi ki wajah say yeh kar rahi hai........ Pata nahi humari yeh older Generation kub iss chez ko samjhay ghi keh Girls bhi insan hoti hain aur unn ki bhi marzi hoti hai.....
Allah karay keh jo kuch main nay kaha aap kay case main aisa na hoo............ |
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 1:16pm |
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 Solution
Aisi larki, apnay saath honay wali na-insafi (yani rishta marzi say na hona) ka zimadar apnay ird gird majud sub ko samajhti hai...like her parents, husband , saas, susar... all .
Aur yeh life day by day bitter hoti jati hai.............. I have no perfect solution to this issue...... but if this is the case, ussay paas bithao aur ussay kaho keh aisi koi baat hai tou main tumhari help karoon gha aur ussay khub yakeen dilao.... At least in this way, agar aisi koi baat hui tou woh bata day ghi...foran na sahi, but soon. |
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pinky7861 |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Oct, 2007 Topic: 44 Post: 1348 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 4:00pm |
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 amigo
Aik baat ka sab say pahlay hayal kerain kay iss baat ka filhaal intizaam ker lain kay aap ka koi bachha na ho yani jaisay bhi mumkin hay aap apnay toar per family planning ka intizaam ker lain, kayounkay asi soort-e-haal main koi nahi janta kay anjaam kia ho ga aur bachay baycharay ko sari saza mil jati hay. Iss liay seriously pahlay tu yah samaj lain.
Doosri baat hay aap ki bivi ka gussa!!
tu iss ka haal hay kay jab wo gussa main na ho tu piyaar say bitha ker uss say reason poochain, aur uss kay gher waloun say yaa aas paas kay logoun say jo bhi munasib tareeqa ho yah patta kerwaain kay kia wo hamisha say aisi hi zubaan istimaal kernay ki adi rahi hay ya aab shadi kay baad sirf aap kay sath hi ker rahi hay. iss say aap ko asal baat patta chal jay gi kay uss kay gussay ki reason kia hay. Yani kay yah uss ki addat hay ya phir shaadi kay baad ager wo aap per hi gussa nikalti hay tu iss ki reason kuch aur bhi ho sakti hay.
Iss kay baad ager aap ko patta chalay kay yah uss ki haimisha ki addat hay tu phir uss ko samjanay kay liay sakhti kerni peray gi, lakin ager yah kaam wo sirf aap ko tang kernay kay liay hi ker rahi hay tu phir aap ko uss kay dil ki asal baat ka patta chalana ho ga.
Baherhaal, plz plz aap say mairi request hay kay jo bhi kerain, filhaal bachay paida na kerain jab tak kay maamla hal na ho jay werna phir wo saari umer rotay rahain gay.
allah aap ko asaani atta keray. ameen |
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~~HITMAN~~ |
Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2011 Topic: 122 Post: 4287 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 5:59pm |
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 astarpk
App Ki baat Kuch Had Tak Theek Hai ....................
App Ki Profile Samajh Nahi Aye Mujhe ........... Plz Explain It
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 7:48pm |
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Damn it Damn it... What is this website... Who the hell hacked my Profile...
By God, main aisi batain soch bhi nahi sakta tha apni profile kay intro. main.... I don't know kis tarah aa ghaeen............. and HITMAN believe me, koi apni profile main iss tarah kyun likhay gha... i have this account since long and i rarely come to this site (once or twice) a month. aur kabhi apni profile khud daikhnay ka baray arsay say itefaq nahi hua. Main nay tou socha bhi nahi tha keh iss tarah bhi ho sakta hai....................................
Moderators I am myself expert at computer and I believe keh aap logon ki direct/indirect madad ya phir kisi ghalti kay baghair iss tarah kabhi nahi ho sakta.... Agar aap log apni site ko hacking say nahi bacha saktay tou plz yeh kaam phir chor dain...... Yahan per mostly Shareef gharanoo kay loog atay hain, as u ppl try to pretend on ur main page...tou phir aisay logon ko iss tarah ki chezon say bachana bhi aap logon ka farz hai......
I personally request Dr. Rizwan and all other moderators keh woh iss chez ka action lain..... Agar aap nahi kar saktay tou bhi bata zaroor dain.... Kisi ko mairi profile edit karnay ki ijazat kaisay mili.
Damn it.... what a disgrace was that... |
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 7:50pm |
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Thanks Hitman Thanks Hitman, agar aap na batate tou pata nahi aur kitnay loog mairi profile ko daikhtay rehtay aur mairay baray main galat ideas banatay.......
Believe me mujhay iss tarah ki chez ka idea bhi nahi tha |
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 7:53pm |
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Thanks Hitman Thanks Hitman, agar aap na batate tou pata nahi aur kitnay loog mairi profile ko daikhtay rehtay aur mairay baray main galat ideas banatay.......
Believe me mujhay iss tarah ki chez ka idea bhi nahi tha |
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Rizwan++ |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Nov, 2007 Topic: 12 Post: 243 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 9:38pm |
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hamain bhi batain astar bhai aap ki profile main kia tha? |
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 10:18pm |
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Galiyan theen Buri buri galiyan likhi hui theen... Main nay tou aisi gali life main bhi shayed hi kabhi istimal ki ho.......aur pata nahi kis ganday insan nay yeh sub mairi profile main likh diya.....
Agar main Admin ki jagha hota aur mujhay Admin kay rights hotay tou araam say uss ka pata nikal laita.....
Anyways, I hope admin bhi iss maslay per kuch karain ghay....... Keh mairi Profile ko mairay siwa koi aur edit na kar sakay.... Its my right.
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4656 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Feb 2008, 10:53pm |
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astarpk maby apka id/password jo forum ke lye use karte hain,wo apke kisi jan pehchan wale ne hack kiya ho,aur apke id se enter ho kar profile me aisa kuch likh diya ho.?? |
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Alveena20 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Dec, 2007 Topic: 10 Post: 922 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Feb 2008, 12:39am |
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amigo1stus aap kay nick ka matlab kya hai????....
spainish mein Amigo ka matlab hai ... dost ....friend.... .. hai naaa?????
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Alveena20 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Dec, 2007 Topic: 10 Post: 922 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Feb 2008, 1:55am |
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amigo 1stus aap spanish walay Amigo ho ?
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astarpk |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Feb 2008, 2:02pm |
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its on Server side Sister sunehri76,
Yeh baat nahi hai keh maira ID hack ho gaya ho. Kyun keh yeh maira supplementary ID hai aur iss say mairay baray main koi info nahi milti aur na hi main iss kay baray main kisi say kuch share karta hoon.... I mean yeh main nay banaya hi iss liye tha keh internet per Anonymous rah sakoon.....
So there is no chance of hacking...... Aur hacking honi hoti tou phir bhi mujhay pata zaroor chal jata.... Kisi nay hack karna bhi hai tou kiya sirf Noor Clinic Forums wala ID hi hack karay gha?
I mean its from the server side.. not me.............. and i m sorry to say keh Admin ki taraf say aub taak koi baat nahi ki ghai iss per.............. Humari IDs aur contact details, Admin kay paas humari Amanat hain... He must have to protect it.....
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Kali Zuban |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 29 Post: 1792 Age:
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| Posted on:12th Feb 2008, 7:07pm |
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re: badtameez bivi agar aap ki arrange marraige hai tu aap apne aur wife ke parents se is topic per discuss kare. love marriage ki soorat mai bhi common close friend se discuss kare.
koshish kare ke problem solve ho. aik doosre ke Positive point talash kare, Negative point ko ignore kerne ki koshish kare. Yeh jaanne ki koshish kare keh aap ki wife ka rawayya aap ke saath aisa kio hai?
filhal bivi ki koi najaiz mutalba tasleem na kare. Relax rehne ki koshish kare. agar tension ziadah ho tu kisi psychiatrist ya clinical psychologist se mashwarah kare.
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nelish |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Jan, 2008 Topic: 24 Post: 1151 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Feb 2008, 5:02am |
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 good reply
kali zuban............... |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:14th Feb 2008, 7:55am |
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amigo gud reply by kali and pinky
in dono ki suggestions per amal kareyn aur ye janney ki koshish keryen k asal reason kia hai...
then we will tell u the solution |
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saweet |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Oct, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jul 2010, 5:40am |
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aslam o alikam yar main gis mulak mian hoon wahan par gher muslim b hamare sath kam karte hain or din bar un se koi na koi kam hota hai to hum aik dusre se TEA PEPSI YA SANDWICH YA BISKUT wagera aik dusre se le kar ka lete hain kia hamara mazab islam es ki ejazat deta hai k nahi
EVRY PERSON NOW ABOUT THIS PLEASE SEND ME MAIL(
Mod Note: Sharing E.mail address not allowed |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 113 Post: 6690 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jul 2010, 5:45am |
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saweet g haaN ap non-muslim say halaal paakezah chezaiN lay kar kha saktay hain, blkay onkay saath mil kar bhi khasatkay hain... bah shartekay khanay maiN koi haraam dish shamil nah ho |
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saweet |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Oct, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 3 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Jul 2010, 5:49am |
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MYRIZVI ap ka bohat bohat shukriya k ap ne meri mushkal asan kar di
ap kis mulak main hain |
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