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mezaraji. |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Mar, 2008 Topic: 12 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2008, 5:14pm |
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 Sexual Desire: How Can I Fulfill My Sexual Desire?
Hi Every body i wanna discuss somthing that i am married my husband live abroad he went abroad after three months of our marriage now he's there for 1 year and i miss him and i feel too much that i want sex but then to relax my self i mustarbate but i can't survive like this. Pls sugesst me some ways of masturbation through which i can satisfy myself. PLS PLS Help me PLS. Thanx
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Sooth |
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| Posted on:28th Apr 2008, 5:34pm |
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 well everyone will have his/her own opinion in this regard
but i'll say that its bad habbit so its better u leave it.thnx |
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Aag |
Group: Moderators Joined: 21st Nov, 2007 Topic: 22 Post: 1130 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 12:19am |
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mezaraji Masturbation is not good, its a bad habbit. But i understand your feelings. ITs very hard to stay alone just after 3rd month of marriage. Well i advice u to pray ALLAH and ask ALLAH to give saber to you. May ALLAH bless you and give u a right way and give ur husband right way.
I think its better to move further u can do masturbation. Please dont do illegal sex cause its haram. It better to do masturbation. |
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nadeem AOL |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 265 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 2:06am |
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 Zara !
Its difficult to survive without masturbation being a single and we can justify it atleast. But you are married and even after being married you have to masturbate then its totally bad and does not make sense to do this act after marriage. If people have to masturbate after marriage then why should i get married, for example.
You must discuss this very important issue with your husband in strong words, whatever pretext or geniun reason he has to tell you even then your masturbation or (May ALLAH protect you) leading toward adultry are the most serious issues to resolve. You can ask him to call you over there where he lives or whatever but please don't let yourself be induldged in masturbation which atleast doesn't suit married people. InshAllah you will come across a better solution after discussion with your husband.
Cheers.
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 2:30am |
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Nadeem Bhai... Zara Nadeem bhai, aap kaisi baat kar rahay hien. Aap abhi unmarried hien, is waja se aap yeh sab itnay araam se keh rahay hien. Abhi tak Hamari society mein aik larki ke liye itna asaan nahin hai k woh apnay husband ko is tarah sex k baray mein bol sakay. Hamari societyk larkay kitnay bhi advace ho jaayein, but biwi k moun se sex ka word sun kar us per shak karna shoroo kar detay hien. or agar saad nandoon ko is baat ka kisi tarah pata chal jaye tu larki ka jeena azaab ho jata hai...
Zara! I understand your feelings. Aap atleast apnay husband ko yeh kaho k aap un ko bohat miss karti ho, woh aap ko apnay pass bula lein. After marriage, without sex rehna kaafi mushkil hai. Jab larkay apni biwi k periods k 4 ya 5 din tak bhi wait nahin kar atay tu aap tu aik saal se wait kar rahi ho. Mein sirf yehi kahoongi k illegal sex ka kabhi mat sochna.. Aap koshish kar k apnay opper control karo, rozay rakho or phir bhi agar control na ho paye tu masturbation is much better than illegal sex... |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3599 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 7:36am |
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 Dear Sister Me-ZARA-Jee
Buhat hi complicated situation hai app ki k Shadi k sirf 3 months baad
hi app k husband app ko chordh kar aborad chaley gaey hain... I can
understand your intensity of Sexual Desires... Aaisey surat ma buhat hi
mushkil hai apne app ko control karna... Islamic Point of view se 4
months ma eak bar husband aur wife ko zaroor milna chahiyah.. Unless k
wife uss ko maaf kardey.. Otherwise yah Husband & Wife ka eak dosre
per haq hai.
Aaisey surat ma app ne apne app ko 1 saal tak Illegal-Acitivities se
bachaey rakha yahi buhat bardey baat hai... ALLAH bhi gafoor-ur-raheem
hai.. app ko woh Masturbation k sin se maaf kardey ga (Ameen).
Abb aaise surat ma app k pass 3 raaste hain:
- Rozana Roza rakhein
- Sexual-Desires peak per hoon tou Masturbation kar lein takh Illegal-Activities ki taraf dheehaan bhi na jaey
- Apne Husband ko yahan bula lein ya phir khudh wahan chaley jaein
App apne Husband ko yah tou nahi kah sakte hain k you need Sex being a
Pakistani Girl.. But app k Husband ko bhi yah baat samajhne chahiyah k
Hunger , Thrist , etc ki tarah Sex bhi basic need of life hai.. App
indirectly iss tarha apni khuwaish zzzahir kar sakte hain:
- Mujhey app ki buhat yaad aate hai
- Mujhey raat bhar neendh nahi aate hai
- Mujhey app k pyar ki zaroorat hai
- Maiyn app k bina abb aur nahi reh sakte hoon
- Maiyn din raat app k pyar k liyah taraste rehte hoon
- etc etc
Shayad un sab batoon ko woh understand kar sakein aur app ki need ko
samajh sakein... ALLAH app donon ko hamesha eak dosre k saath rakhey
(Ameen)
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3599 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 7:49am |
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Re: Nadeem AOL Its difficult to survive without masturbation being a single and we can justify it atleast.
It is much more difficult to survive without masturbation being a Married and to live apart from 3rd months of marriage.
One shoud understand the basic needs of life :
- Oxygen
- Food & Water
- Sex
- Security
- Etc....
It's hardest to live for being a newly married person to live without having sex for a year.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3599 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 7:51am |
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 Re: Seemi
I agree with you... Being a married female.. you can better understand her situation so gives her more suggestions, It would be beneficial & fruitful for Zara-Ji... Thanks!
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z4u |
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 8:09am |
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husband problem shayad aapke hasband ko aisee feelings naa hoti ho...aur woh sex ke mamle main itne strong na hon...jitni aap hain.. |
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pappumelon |
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 9:29am |
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Difficult Situation I agree with seemi bibi that being a female she knows better, we male cant feel what is the situation with me-zarz-ji. lakin aik baat hay allah nay aurat ko saabar himatwala, or sharmo haya ka paekar create kya hay, female can control themselves well than males. tu mezaraji sabar or sabar ka fruit mitha and time will prove it u! GOD BLESS YOU! |
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nadeem AOL |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 265 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 2:47pm |
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Beauty Star ! My point to say that, was just to tell her that
If even being married you have to masturbate then what's the purpose of marriage. I insisted her to talk to her husband regarding this issue because being married it's harder to control herself than an unmarried person, i understand that.
Seemi told that if a woman tells her husband her desire of sex then what happens......its just surprising because if a wife can't talk to her husband regarding her sex desire openly then who else is there to talk about her desire.
There are many cases in our society and even i have seen some that married girls are having boyfriends in the absense of their husbands when they go abroad. Its a must happening because if we can't keep our legal relationship alive then illegal relationship would not take time to get started.
Cheers.
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 3:49pm |
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Nadeem bhai... Zara Nadeem bhai, in some aspects, you are right. Sex desire leads a persons towrds illegal sex. or aap ki yeh baat sahih hai k jab husband abroad chala jaye tu aik married larki k liye akelay rehna mushkil ho jata hai or woh illegal sex ki taraf mayil ho jati hai, boyfriend bana leti hai. Mein kod is baat ki witness hoon k Karachi mein hamaray neighbours mein aik lady rehti thi jin k husband 5 saal se Dubai mein thay or aik dafa bhi wapas nahin aaye thay, jab ke un khatoon ki aik 2 saal kiaiti bhi thi.
Yeh sab baat apni jaga er hai, lekin jaisa k Zara ne bataya k n k husband sirf 3 mahenay baad hi chalay gaye thay, tu mera nahin khayal k in ka relation 3 months mein itna strong develop ho gaya ho ga k yeh apni sex desire k baray mein openly baat kar sakein. Larkay khod jo marzi kartay rahein, lekin biwi un ko farishta chahiye hoti hai. Larki ki yehi tu pareshani hoti hai k aaz dafa woh apni pareshani kisi se discuss bhi nahin kar sakti,na apnay maan baap or behnon se or na hi husband or susraal waloon se.
Lekin hamein Zara k husband ka bhi sochna chhaiye k kis majboori ki waja se woh unhein wahan nain bula pa rahay. Lets assume, woh bhi tu aik saal se without sex reh rahay hoon ge. Agar un ki financial conditions abhi biwi ko wahan bulanay ki ijazat nahin deti tu woh bhi masturbate se hi kaam chalatay hoon ge. Tu yehi baat aik mard k liye tu theek hia lekin aik aurat k liye forbidden, yeh kya baat hoi? Simple baat yehi hai k illegal sex se behtar hai k masturbate pe guzara kiya jaye.
@Zara, beauty Star bhai ne bohat acha reply diya hi, aap us ko follow karnay ki koshish karo. |
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mezaraji. |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Mar, 2008 Topic: 12 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 4:58pm |
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Thanx but i need more help Hi
every body thanx for ur comments.
The thing is that my husband has filed my imigration case but it will take some time out of which 1 year has passes and we r hoping to get imigration soon.INSHALLAH
And ALLAH maaf kare i'm not saying that i wanna do Illegal sex,TAUBA TAUBA.
But i'm saying that to satisfy i mastarbate,so tell me any usefull ways of mastarbation through which i can satisfy myself.
How to mastarbate to enjoy and satisfy fully PLS tell me.
By the way thanx to all of u.
Thanx
zara |
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Seemi |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2007 Topic: 14 Post: 3829 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Apr 2008, 5:29pm |
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Zara Its good to hear, your immigration case has been filed and you would be with your husband soon. At this stage, aap ko yehi mashwaa doon gi k jahan itna sabar kiya hia, wahan thora sabar or sahih. manzil bohat qaeeb hai. :) I can't help you how to masturbate as I have never done it, but books available on Noorclinic website would be helpful to you. Or some expert memebers can suggest you better who are better aware of atonomy of male/female body. Only susggestion from myside would be to rub clotiris and get satisfaction instead of inseting something into vagina. Read availabl books on site. |
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 6920 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 12:29am |
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Tooba tooba keray zara jee app bawazoo raha karay aur TOOBA TOOBA kiya karay Allah say app inshallah theek hoo gain gee. |
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nadeem AOL |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 265 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 2:21am |
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Zara ! Good luck for early immigration to abroad. Regarding masturbation i think you should read books available on this website.
Cheers.
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aamer1978 |
Group: Members Joined: 13th Apr, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 10:59am |
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ye to buhat mushkil kaam hy k shadi k 3 month k baad husband k baghair rehna.masterbetion kooi achi cheez nahi es sy sehat khrab hoti hy.Allah sy dua karain to sabar a jaye ga.agar munasib samjhain to es number par mujh sy baat kar sakti hain. ...edit phone number .... me waiting Moderator Note: Blocked due to posting of phone number
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My Reply |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Sep, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 2015 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 11:13pm |
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re: female masturbation medical point of view se husband ki ghair mojoodgi mai masturbation kerni chahiye. is se na sirf frustration mai kami aaye gi balkeh illegal sex ke bhi chances nahi rahe ge. masturbation se kisi qisim ke jismani aur jinsi nuqsan ka bhi andeesha nahi hai.
lekin afsos keh ham log yaha per masturbation ka koi proper tareeqa nahi bata sakte, hamare forum ke members ose aik bahut bara issu bana de ge.
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imperial |
Group: Members Joined: 26th May, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 62 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 6:59pm |
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Try this Zara go to google.com...
and type how to masterbate as a female ....
and u will get too many links... |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3599 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Apr 2008, 9:03pm |
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Nadeem AOL ok Brother , I got your point... You were saying right that... what's
the purpose of marriage....If you still need to masturbate...!
I strongly agree with you... If both the partner cannot fulfill the
needs of each other.. then there is no purpose of marriage... and I
strongly disrecommned this sort of marriage.... It's better to sit
being un-married... rather than living like a dead body... What do you
say brother...???
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