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noor123 |
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| Posted on:27th Dec 2007, 1:42am |
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 How Much Amount Required For Girl Marriage?
pk mai middle class kaye larki kaye shadi kerne ho toa parents ka pass kitni paisie honi cahye joshy tum kahte ho na ka mere baba ka pass paisie nahi hai toa mai na soucha mai dekh lo ka baba ka pass jo paisie hai anhai mai hum 5 kaye shadi ho gaye ya nahi
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goodman |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2007, 9:42am |
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 3-5 lac expenditures of a marriage
In our society marriage is very difficut due to dowry.I have written one article in this forum on dowry.You must study on this article about dowry.
Because in the marriage main problem is dowry and to find a good nice person.As you know in Pakistan goods prices are out of control and prices are increasing day by day of goods.Then normally 3-5 lac ruppees expenditure of a normal marriage of girl.If demand of dowry will remove from boy side then there is no cost to do marriage.And then a poor person also can do marriage her daughter very easily.This is reality of society.No you can add further your comments for further proceed.
Best Regards.
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nikama |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2007, 10:18am |
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50,000 Rs 50,000 rupees are enough...dont do fazzoliyaat..Sif Nikah keroooo & enjoy.. |
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nikama |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2007, 10:18am |
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50,000 Rs 50,000 rupees are enough...dont do fazzoliyaat..Sif Nikah keroooo & enjoy.. |
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josh |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2007, 11:21pm |
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 Approximate wedding expenses!
bunty ap sab ki shadi hogi inshaAllah zaroor ho gi Lekin darna nahi, mai apko approx. wedding expenses batata hon.
gold rate almost 16000 PaK Rupees hai or normal shadi mai 8-10 tolay sona to lag hi jata hai, ap ye hi samajh lo k round about 125,000 say lay kar 180,000 ka khali gold hi lena par jata hai... normal wedding suit 10-15 hazaar ka hota hai jo dulhan nay sirf aik bar pehan-na hota hai..or baki pata nai kitnay suit denay hotay hain unpar bi koi 25-30000 to lag jata hai, baki behan bhaion k naey kapray jootay makeup waghaira is par 15 say 20,000 laga lo. shadi ka khana mehmaandari waghaira is par koi 60-70,000 laga lo. buss waghaira kay karaey or dosray kharchay 15-20000 is par bi. larki ka zaroori jahez razaiyan blanket bed dressing table bartan or idhar udhar ki cheezain is par bi koi 1 say 150,000 lag hi jata hoga....
ye to ziada kharcha ho gaya mai dubara estimate karta hon...
approximate amounts:
gold jewlery: 6 tolay: 6x16000 = 96,000
furniture & other things: 80,000
wedding suit & other dresses: 40,000
khana peena 50,000
saray ghar walon k naey kapray: 10,000
bartan blanket razaiyan etc 10,000
buss waghaira bi karani parti hai: 10,000
tv fridge (optional) 30,000
ab ismai say kuch kam kar lo jidhar jidhar say kam ho sakta hai. ye aik larki ka shadi ka kharcha hai to khud hi hisab laga lo k 5 girls ki shadi karna koi asan kaam nai hai ajkal k daur mai.. isi liye kuch girls k parents aksar gussay mai dikhaee detay hain is liye bachon ko apnay maa baap ko ziada tang nai karna chahiye.. or yehi samajhna chahiye k abi shadi ka time nahi aya ;)
koi bohat shareef larka or bohat shareef family mil jaey to shaed mutual understanding kar k artificial jewlery par kaam chal jaey or degar expenses bi kuch kam ho jain.. warna to...... |
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Bili_miau |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2007, 11:40pm |
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i think if the guys family is corporating..the wedding can be done for less money...i f they r typical ppl of our society..nt even 10lks r enough...so it depends from one person to another...however i belive that..if the girls parents r nt very wealthy and they have a tight budget...then only simple nikkah should be done with just basic stuff....this can save money...and simplicity can be the theme...
dont ask how much money is needed..make ur own budget and work thorugh that budget!! |
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| Posted on:29th Dec 2007, 11:49pm |
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re Sweet Noor,
Jab shadi honi hoti hay tu phir iss say koi ferk nahi perta kay aap kay baba kay paas kitnay paisay hain. Aur jab nahi honi tu itni Ameer lerkian bhi baithi rah jati hain. Aap ko main batoun hamaray gher kay bilkul samnay pak main do families rahti hain. Aik ka apna bussiness hay aur bohat ziada ameer hain, doosray neighbor aik bohat hi choti si dookaan chalatay hain, jis main wo mushkil say itna hi kma patay hain kay gher ka basic herch chal sakay(mujay aisay patta hay kay un say hamaray bohat achay taluqaat hain) ab mazay ki baat yah hay kay inn gareeb bhai ki 3 baitiaan theen aur allah kay fazal say sab ki shadi unhoun nay aaraam say ker di bagair koi qarz mangay aur kuch kiay. Lakin wo jo ameer family hay un ki aik baiti i shadi tu ho gai lakin jo doosri thi uss kay liay un ko itna mushkil houa kay aik manganni kernay kay baad 4 saal baad wo toot gai aur phir say mangani hoi aur roo roo ker 30 saal ki age main beri mushkil say uss ki shadi hoi. Tu aap perashaan na ho, jab aalah ka hukam ho ga tu aap kia aap ki sab bahen bhaioun ki shadi ho jay gi.
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noor123 |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 83 Post: 804 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 8:47am |
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15 lack lagte hon gaye mere baba toa kahte hai ka aik daughter kaye shadi ka laye 14 ya phir 15 lack zaroor hona cahye
pinky mera shadi kerne ko asee laye dil cahta hai kyon ka mai sara din bore hoti ho tv dekh lo ya computer per game khail lo ya phir internet laga lo. joshy 8 10 tolye toa sona nahi hota itna toa girl wedding day pa pehan layite hai mere cousin kaye shadi howi thai pichle saal toa asee na 9 tole ka set pahna tha barat per woai mere jitni ammir hai |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 8:57am |
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ASAL SOOCH HAI...... SALLAM TO ALL FRIENDS
Jitna kai mujai lagta hai yai sab kuch halaat ko daik kar hi andaza lagta hai.Koyee fix baat nahin kar sakta.Q kai agar shadi sehar main hoo to kharcha zyada ata hai.Aur agar gow main hoo to kam.
Aur kuch bhayiyoon aur behnoon nai 15-20 lak ki baat ki hai.To shadi ki misaal aik samandar ki hai jitna daloo yai nahin kehta hai bass.Isi liyai sab ko soochna chahiyai.
Agar ham had sai agai baraingai aur fazoliyaat ko agai laikai jayengai.To shahid sari umar kama kai shadi pai kharch karoo kam hai.Q kai abb shadi main sirf NIKAH ka rule ISLAMIC hota hai.Aur kuch baqi nahin raha.
Wo kehtai hain na kai chadar daik kai pair pehlawoo.Wahi misaal hai yahan.To limit ka maloom karna muskil hai.Aur koshish to yai honi chahiyai kai fazoliyaan kam hooo.AND THATS ALL..........
NOTE:-sorry if my words hurt anyone.
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noor123 |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 9:03am |
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raazdaar raazdaar tum sahi kah rahi ho tumhe pata hai mere aik aunty bahat aamir hai anhyn na apni larka kaye shadi karon mai kaye thai aur larki ko dimond ka necklace pehniya tha jo 10 ya phir 15 lack ka tha sirf necklace |
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noor123 |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 9:04am |
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joshy kia tv fridge optional hota hai mai na toa dekha hai ka subhi dayite hai |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 9:17am |
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my idea agar bohat bohat sadgi k sath b ki jaye or sari rasmain b karen to atleast 5lac for a girl marriage or agar rasmain na karen to 3-4 lac. |
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josh |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 10:39am |
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noor! 14-15 lakh to kafi ziada hai or itna kharcha middle class log nahi kartay, Lekin ziada ameer log to is say bi ziada kar laitay hain, hamaray ghar k kareeb shehar k aik baray industrialist ki kothi hai, wo log shadi karty hain to unka 7-8 lakh khanay par hi lag jata hai phir expensive gifts, gift mai dulhay ko 15-20 lakh ki car... or isi tara furniture bi bohat expensive, jitnay mai normal shadi mai pura furniture aa jata hai utnay mai unka 1 bed hi ata hai...
par shadi par ziada kharcha nai karna chahiye, jo shadi par kam kharcha kartay hain iska matlab ye nai hota k wo ghareeb hain to kam kharcha kar rahay hain... samajhdari yehi hai k ziada kharcha na kia jaey...
as far as i know gold thora dulhay walon ki taraf say hota hai or thora dulhan walon ki taraf say hota hai, is liye ye samjho 3,4,5 ya 6 tolay larki walon ki taraf say or 3,4,5 ya 6 tolay larkay walon ki taraf say to ho gaya na total 6 say 12 tolay sona, waisay ajkal jo halaat hain pak mai usko dekhtay huey ziada sona na hi pehna jaey to acha hai, chor daku har jaga mil jatay hain...
waisay muje lag raha ha ap bi koi ghareeb nai balkay achi khasi theek thaak family ki larki ho... waisay pabandian thori ziada hain baki aapnay bataya tha k khana peena or ghar mai reh kar jo marzi jitna marzi kharch karnay ki ijazat hai... computer internet or is kisam ki tamam chezain apkay pas hain.. bas fazooliat say to saray maa baap roktay hain...
shadi ka time fix hai or shadi or paiso ka koi connection nahi hai.. jab time aa jaey to paisay ho na ho shadi ho jati hai.
mainay previous post mai ghalti say bunty likh dia tha jabkay likhna noor tha. bunty bi apki tara hi hai achi larki hai wo bi.. |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 10:49am |
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noor! optional hi hai lekin ap bi sahi keh rahi ho fridge dain na dain tv daitay hain ziada tar log.
saadgi walo , ajkal chand log hi hain jo sadgi say kartay hain,, maa baap chahay ghareeb hon par wo khud bi nai chahtay k sadgi say ki jaey or koshish kartay hain k ziada kharcha kia jaey ye aik tara say unki khushi or mohabbat ka izhar hota hai.
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 10:54am |
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Marriage is not Namood o Nomash Dear Members Aslamualikum,
Josh Brother your this post is good.But we must consider that we do not waste so much money without necessasity and we also do not need to do KANJOOSI.
There is better way to do marriage with islamic rules and regulations then rich and poor calture will finish.The main important thing is that NAMOOD O NAMASH and show pieces will also go to end of his logic.As you read noor explained my cousin and aunti married and they give the gift of 10 lac Rs.All members must condomn this Namood o Namash.
Waiting for your comments.
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 11:58pm |
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goodman! walaikumasalam!
goodman i agree with you, hona aisay hi chahiye, par ziada tar aisay hota nahi hai. |
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Waiting for good comments for all honnourable members Mr Josh,Thanks for your comment.
But dear members it is problem of our society.We must consider on this problem of society.How we can create awearness in our society to end for this NAMOOD O NAMASH.
Pls forward suggestions to end this logic.Waiting for your good comments for all members.
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Waiting for good comments for all honnourable members Mr Josh,Thanks for your comment.
But dear members it is problem of our society.We must consider on this problem of society.How we can create awearness in our society to end for this NAMOOD O NAMASH.
Pls forward suggestions to end this logic.Waiting for your good comments for all members.
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Aag |
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| Posted on:30th Dec 2007, 1:54pm |
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Goodman U are tring good work but my friend its true and real that this issue will never and ever solve.
Hawis, paisa, shohrat yah sab jab taq ham logo mai hain yah masla kabhi bhi khatam nahi hoga. Dusri bat yah ka jab larka walai kuch nahi mangtai hain to larki walai bohot kuch daitain hain jiski wajha sai aur aisa logon ko moqa milta hai jo jahaiz mangna walai hotai hain. Jab govt. nai sirf 2 dishes rakhi theen shadi mai to wohi log jo bohot zada paisa walai thai unhona bohot sari dishes rakh ka shadiyan karwain hain. Esmai mera aik dost bhi shamil hai jo bohot hi zada ameer kabeer hain aur unhona uss waqt jab sirf 2 dishes allow theen kamsai kam 10 sirf khana ki dishes, 5 sirf deserts aur pata nahi kitna kisim ka juices waghaira rakhwaitai.
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noor123 |
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| Posted on:31st Dec 2007, 10:07am |
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joshy joshy mere family mai car toa nahi dayite lakin sub taqreeban itni paiswo mai hai shadi kerte hai kitni lack ka toa soyna ayee jata hai mere baba na hum ka layee flats aur shops rakhe howi hai woai kahte hai ka jub shadi ho gaye toa anhai sell ker don ga joshy mai amir nahi hon hai mere baba thore sai amir hai lakin woai mujhe sirf 300 rs dayite hai agar thore aur daye daye toa kitna acha ho mai bai thora sa fashion ker lon gaye kahte hai short shirt pehan lo lakin jeans nahi pahne don ga joshy forum per noor123 ka allawa sub achi hai noor ko log asee laye acha nahi kahte kyon ka asee na aik post mai kaha tha can a father manipulate his penis in front of his daughter aur woai ya bai kahte hai ka woai kabhi kabhi mastrubation kerte hai aur apni moo sai kehte hai ka mai na shadi kerne hai |
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